A contemporary Young Adult novel about a cross-country family road trip that puts one girl and her childhood best friend on an unexpected road to romance!
Norah hasn’t seen her childhood best friend, Skyler, in years. When he first moved away, they'd talk all the time, but lately their relationship has been reduced to liking each other’s Instagram posts. That’s why Norah can’t wait for the joint RV road trip their families have planned for the summer.
But when Skyler finally arrives, he seems...like he’d rather be anywhere else. Hurt and confused, Norah reacts in kind. Suddenly, her oldest friendship is on the rocks.
A summer spent driving across the country leads both Norah and Skyler down new roads and to new discoveries. Before long, they are, once again, seeing each other in a different light. Can their friendship-turned-rivalry turn into something more?
I write YA and adult romance novels. I eat chocolate cinnamon bears. Sometimes I go crazy and do both at the same time. A few of my works are: SUNKISSED, PS I LIKE YOU, MOMENT OF TRUTH, WE MET LIKE THIS, and more. My agent is the talented and funny Michelle Wolfson.
Kasie West knows how to create sweetest stories of lovely characters! She’s feel good YA romance whisperer!
Both Norah and Skyler are so much likable characters that you can easily get attached with. Even though Skyler acts like mean douchebag at the beginning of the book, you get to give him a chance: the boy has his own reasons.
Norah is so excited to family RV trip ( only mothers and children included) because finally she’s going to reunite with her best friend Skyler she hasn’t seen since they were 13! Both mothers are happy. The siblings are excited but once upon a time: Norah’s close friends Skyler acts like he wants to be somewhere else!
Yeap, the book starts with enemies to lovers trope! What happened to Norah’ s bestie! Why he acts like she has contagious disease, staying away from her, giving curt answers to each questions. It’s normal to be get estranged and turn into social media friends in four years but Skyler might keep himself more than she expected! I’m not gonna give much away! There are reasonable explanation, family drama, secrets to come out!
It was easy to read, sweet, soft, a little sad story! I wish it would end a little differently but I still enjoyed it as like the other books the author has written.
I’m rounding up 3.5 stars to 4 enemies to lovers, friends to lovers are best tropes I enjoyed to read stars!
Special thanks to NetGalley and Random House Children’s / Delacorte Press for sharing this digital reviewer copy with me in exchange my honest opinions.
GUYS WE HAVE A COVER, A TITLE, AND A PREMISE!! I DON'T THINK I'VE EVER BEEN MORE EXCITED FOR SOMETHING!!
Review 6/2/22: Well that was pure enjoyment :D
No one does contemporary romances better than Kasie West. It has been decreed!
This was pure joy printed on paper and wrapped in a breathtakingly gorgeous cover.
Norah and Skyler's chemistry was to die for and their relationship was so sweet. Some tough stuff was brought to light in this book and I think it was handled really well.
if you liked the summer i turned pretty, then you’ll definitely like this!! it’s childhood best friends-to strangers-to lovers and it was such a cute and quick to read
I loved pretty much everything about this book. My favourite part was Norah and Skyler's friendship, or rather their second chance at being best friends again and maybe something more. I loved the focus on family and friends, the sibling dynamic and their road trip.
There are a couple things that I guessed very early on. I liked one of them and could have done without the other. I don't think it was really necessary for this story and it reminded me too much of another YA book I've read. I would have been more than happy with just the drama provided by Norah, Skyler and their siblings. 😅 Their mothers could use some lessons on parenting, though.
Overall, it's a very sweet and enjoyable summer read. The book cover is so cute and it represents this story perfectly.
Norah and Skylar's friends to lovers romance was adorable. I loved the road trip aspect and their second chance at being together and falling in love. Although I loved parts of the family aspects, I didn't love the drama of the multiple secrets everyone was keeping. Overall, this was a cute read and I enjoyed it.
Audio book source: Audible Story Rating: 3.5 stars Narrator: Jorjenea Marie Narration Rating: 4 stars Genre: YA contemporary Length: 8 hours
Rating: 3.5 ★ Age rating: 12+ Spice: None Genre: Romance
I wasn't exactly connected to the characters, but the way that the author wrote them made me feel all types of emotion for them. Norah and Skyler are so cute together. I didn't find this cringe-y as most YA romances turn out to be and it was definitely fast-paced so I would recommend this book if you want to get out of a slump, need a cutesy little romance, or just want to pick this book up to enjoy the summer-y vibes.
MUSINGS ON EMOTIONAL NEGLECT, MISOGYNY, & BAD PARENTING
Once again, I find myself writing a review of a perfectly good young adult novel which has been unfortunately tainted by the utter failure of every single adult character to act like a fucking adult. No parent is perfect, nor are they expected to be so in fiction. But when a protagonist’s character arc is resonating with me very specifically due to her unaddressed emotional neglect and the rug-sweeping being committed by her parents/the author…it’s probably a bad sign? I dunno. Just a thought.
As always, I feel the need to disclaim that this is not a “review” of Places We’ve Never Been in its entirety, nor a full encapsulation of my thoughts, feelings, opinions, etc. of the text. (I liked this story.) Rather, the following is a commentary on very specific authorial choices made by Kasie West that I believe have unintended implications.
To provide context: protagonist Norah is gong on an RV trip with her mother, her older brother, and her mother’s best friend + her three kids, one of whom is Skyler, Norah’s former best friend who she’s fallen out of touch with since he moved out of state. (No dads are invited on this vacation). The roadtrip appears to be a long-planned event to bring the two families together at last. However, it’s clear from very early on that there are Other Reasons for the trip, and that it’s actually far more of a last-minute decision than the two moms are willing to say.
Additionally, a highlight of this roadtrip is Norah’s interview with the dean of admissions at her first-choice college, a small yet prestigious video game design program. More on that later.
A SELF-EFFACING MAIN CHARACTER
Norah is a character who many readers will identify with. Ever since she started high school, she has been made to feel that she is “too much”—too weird, too loud, too creative. So in order to maintain social relationships, to fit in, she has made herself small. She presents to the world an acceptable version of Norah and suppresses the bits of herself that trigger feelings of shame and rejection. Norah is a people pleaser, desperate to be accepted but certain that true acceptance is impossible.
I want to be clear that at no point am I criticizing Norah, nor the way Kasie West handles her character. People-pleasing behavior is not a flaw, but rather a survival mechanism that many with neglectful upbringings learn in order to get their basic needs met. Simultaneously, it’s a mindset that many children who identify as (or appear to be) female are taught from a very, very young age.
One of the core themes in Places We’ve Never Been is supposed to be Norah’s journey towards valuing her own uniqueness and asserting herself without fear. On a superficial level, it may appear that this narrative arc is fully developed and realized. However, I suggest that it is not.
LESSONS ON EMOTIONAL NEGLECT
As stated above, there is a Big Secret that is the impetus for the entire RV-roadtrip-with-former-friends. Norah accidentally learns this secret when she overhears her mom and Skyler’s mom talking. The Big Secret is something that does not concern Norah or her family, but which will directly impact Skyler and his future.
The moms command Norah to not tell Skyler (her newly reconciled best friend) so that his mom can reveal the Big Secret when she feels the time is right.
First of all, it is entirely inappropriate to make children your secretkeepers, particularly when it jeopardizes their relationship with their own support system. Norah’s mom and Skyler’s mom emotionally manipulate Norah into keeping life-altering information from her best friend, rather than deal with the emotional discomfort of revealing the secret “too soon.” They readily acknowledge that Skyler will be devastated when he learns Norah knew and didn’t tell him…but they don’t seem to find this to be concerning. This is bullshit. Both of these women are more concerned with their own emotional comfort than the fact that they are forcing actual children into a situation that will almost certainly rupture their newly healed friendship. Selfish, neglectful parenting.
But it gets worse. This is a Kasie West novel, so of course Norah and Skyler do more than reforge their middle school friendship; they initiate a romantic relationship. It’s very cute and sweet and tender. Not knowing this is happening, Norah’s mom corners her and says “hey, I think Skyler has a crush on you, so you need to do the right thing and make sure he isn’t emotionally devasted both by the Big Secret and his confused feelings for you.” Norah subsequently spirals into thinking she’s a “bad person” for having romantic feelings for Skyler and participating in a reciprocal romantic relationship with him.
The entire framing of the situation by Norah’s mom is so damaging. You are not responsible for others’ emotions. It is not Norah’s job to minimize Skyler’s crush so it doesn’t cause him pain. Skyler’s feelings are his own, and he is in charge of them. Teaching your teenage daughter to manage others’ emotions for them is just another way to teach her that she must make herself small for the comfort of other people, that she should feel shame for being her authentic self. Worse still, Norah’s mom doubles down on this horrible advice after she finds out that Norah and Skyler are in a relationship: she tells Norah that she’s disappointed in her choices and that being with Skyler under the circumstances is a “mistake.”
And there’s more. Norah has her interview at her dream school. During the meeting, she’s so busy trying to project what she believes is the dean of admissions’ ideal candidate that their interactions are inauthentic and disastrous. Norah is very reasonably upset afterwards, and she has the right to expect comfort and reassurance from her mother. Instead, her mom dismisses Norah’s distress with toxic positivity and insinuates that Norah shouldn’t “sulk” about her own issues given the Big Secret looming over Skyler’s family.
Yes, indeed. A mother looked at her distraught child and told her to suck it up because other people have it worse. That is emotional neglect. And all it does is push Norah back into the tiny box which delineates appropriate ways to exist in the world. Be smaller, Norah; make other people comfortable, Norah; don’t be selfish and prioritize your own feelings, Norah.
Look, I’m not trying to project all of my own shit onto this book, but…this is really bad. And it is not dealt with by the text at all. Actually, West very carefully manipulates the narrative so that Norah’s mom and her bullshit don’t need to be addressed, and she does so in way that makes the character arc feel ungenuine.
One character tells Norah that her mom “worries too much” and they both accept that’s just who the mother is as a person. “Worrying too much” is not synonymous with “negating your child’s right to take up space,” but okay. Sure. Then Skyler tells Norah that he knows their moms forced her to keep a Big Secret and that he understands, and he’ll be counting on her to emotionally support him whenever his mom actually reveals all.
The End.
Nope, not kidding! Places We’ve Never Been conveniently cuts off right when Norah should be arriving at the culmination of her inner journey. The reader never gets to see her fully comprehend that she shouldn’t have to edit herself to be worthy of love, that she deserves to feel her feelings as deeply as she wishes, and that she is not responsible for “fixing” other poeples’ pain. It’s implied in the one-year-later epilogue that she has done these things, but in no way is it actually demonstrated on the page.
“FEMINISM” MEANS MORE THAN JUST INCREASED REPRESENTATION
A consistent undercurrent in this book is the issue of women in the gaming industry. This is made clear both in Norah’s internal narrative, as well as the actions of other characters, including a potential love interest and the dean of admissions at her dream school. One of the more emotionally satisfying scenes comes when Norah loses her temper over the fact that the female dean of admissions is holding female applicants to a higher standard than male applicants, and she rightfully calls out the dean for that. It was a satisfying, rah-rah, girl power moment.
At the same time, I believe that the brand of feminism espoused by West in Places We’ve Never Been is not particularly nuanced, nor is it capable of identifying misogyny in anything but the most extreme and obvious of cases. Norah’s mom advises her to cut off any potential romantic relationship with Skyler because it might cause damage to him. The underlying message is that his emotional needs are more important than her daughter’s. This installs a 17-year-old girl as Skyler’s emotional caretaker and indicates it is good and correct that Norah suppress all of her own desires, wants, and dreams for the hypothetical benefit of this male character. Teaching girls to emotionally neglect themselves in service of boys is misogyny.
I find the conclusion to this novel troubling in several respects. The very surface level “girls can play video games and shouldn’t be held to impossible standards compared to men” message screams #GirlBoss white feminism, but the actual narrative demonstrates that simply hiring more female video game designers means nothing if they spend all their time filtering their personalities to be palatable to others. And I think that if West had be willing to confront head-on the way that Norah’s mom was contributing to the problem, rather than avoiding it, Places We’ve Never Been would be a much more satisfying story in every respect.
But seriously: how dare you tell your child she’s not allowed to be disappointed over her college interview because other people have real problems? How dare you.
This one was sweet. I like to dream that my childhood friends-that-were-boys will have a glow-up and we'll fall in love (I'm a hopeless romantic okay 🤭).
Also that cover is GORGEOUS. The colors are *chef's kiss* I am so here for Kasie's new cartoon covers instead of the real-people-without-heads-ones 💞
Meh. Maybe I’ve just grown out of my teen romance loving phase, but this cringed me out. So predictable, so unrealistic, so blugh.
It doesn’t help that Katie West, formerly my fav clean romance author went woke. The brother of our main love interest was gay (which of course we mentioned and supported cuz ya know virtue signals anyone?) The MC was a total Brie Larson and a feminist. So stuck up and selfish. She complained about men being the majority of students at a video game school without bothering to consider that maybe, just maybe it’s got something to do with boys liking video game careers more than women, who are more likely to follow a career that helps/deals face to face with people.
I don’t know, man, if this keeps up I may give up West’s books because it’s just not worth my time or my peace. I hate that so many things are changing and I have to give them up, but sometimes it’s just not worth it.
such a fun and cute YA romance. ik those are sometimes hard to find without spice but this one was so cute! i loved the childhood friends to lovers and the traveling aspects!!
Not my usual kind of book at all- but needed a family friendly audiobook for a long roadtrip and this was really cute. My daughter and I had a fun time listening, we would pause to talk about what we thought would happen next. Loved the road trip setting- all the detailed descriptions of the stops they made on their road trip were so nice to listen to while I was staring at a boring road lol. Overall a good fun cute audiobook!
Thank you to Delacorte Press for an e-arc via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
it's been quite a while since i've read a kasie west work, so evidently i was intrigued to see how her new one would go and if things had changed from her stories my younger self consumed. flew through this story within give or take two hours and i can say i was left wishing there was more written to the simons and hutton families' story. norah and skyler were the perfect set up to the childhood friends to lovers along with the plus of their families being close with their mother being best friends since college yet didn't get to live up to their potential. it's definitely a personal preference but i would have preferred things to be more drawn out between those two estranged best friends with a bit more angst, but how things were resolved between them made sense on skyler's side. i do wish the characters weren't so two-dimensional, skyler was the only one not really lacking for me and even so, we didn't really get more information on how he worked past his issues on his dad. the side plot of norah being nosy into what the moms were hiding i feel like was just there to add some intrigue, and again even when that was revealed not more of the story came together with it.
that being said i was honestly let down by the ending, just felt not just abrupt but lacking on that depth was needed with the bonds between the families and seeing how norah and skyler worked through things after that last chapter. like west tried tying it all together too fast for my liking. apart from all this, some aspects i did enjoy was seeing both kids of the families bond, norah and skyler's love for art, and particularly a trope between two side characters that i suspected in the beginning and was pleased to see that my suspicions were correct. so sadly this was not my favorite kasie west, disappointing since i remember enjoying some of her other works just a few years back.
I really liked this sweet story of love and friendship. Two families on the road trip that changed their lives. Very cute romance. I liked the travel aspect of the book, and it was a very easy summer read!
Sweet second chance ya romance. I enjoyed the story.
I loved the relationship between the two main characters. There was a bit of miscommunication, but I honestly didn't mind it in this instance. I feel like that trope does better in ya books. I really liked the reconnecting parts and also the road trip. I'm not usually a fan of road trip stories, but I did enjoy this one.
*Thank you to #netgalley for a copy of this book to read and review, all thoughts are my own.
Places We’ve Never Been by Kasie West is a sweet story revolving around a summer RV trip between two families. Featuring childhood best friends who reconnect, a relatable main character, and family secrets, this book is a recipe for a heartwarming read. Fans of Kasie West will not be disappointed in her latest novel, and for the uninitiated, this is the perfect road trip book for those looking for a cute summer contemporary.
After Norah’s childhood best friend moved away, the connection between the two weakened, so when their moms plan a summer RV trip between both families, she is excited to reunite with him. However, when Skyler finally arrives, Norah is shocked to learn that he is nothing like his old self and goes out of his way to ignore her. Their relationship may be rocky, but as Skyler and Norah are forced to spend time together in an RV, they become more comfortable with each other and realize that there is potential for them to be friends again, and even something more.
❀ LIKEABLE MAIN CHARACTER
Norah is a likeable main character, and I enjoyed accompanying her on this road trip. I really felt for her as she feels the need to be the filtered version of herself around the one person she used to be so open with, and I was glad to see her slowly start to rekindle that friendship. What I especially enjoy about Norah–and all of Kasie West’s characters–is how realistic she is. She’s an artist and a gamer preparing for a university interview, and she has the perfect amount of awkwardness. I always appreciate when YA characters actually act their age and make mistakes, so I was happy to see Norah still learning so much about herself.
❀ FOCUS ON FAMILY AND FRIENDSHIP
One of my favourite aspects of this book is the focus on family and friendship. Beyond Norah rebuilding her relationship with Skyler, the story also emphasizes the friendship between their moms and the closeness between both families. Kasie West has done an excellent job capturing the fun and the teasing energy within this group, especially between siblings. While the family secrets and the real reason behind the trip were a little predictable for me, I also enjoyed this bit of intrigue.
❀ A SWEET CONTEMPORARY
Places We’ve Never Been by Kasie West is a sweet contemporary about a cross-country road trip. I loved the concept of an RV trip between two families, and the main character is realistic. The story’s emphasis on family and friendship is especially touching, making this a great read for those looking for an uplifting summer read.
"There's something about a childhood friend that feels different. Maybe it's because we knew everything about each other. Maybe it's because, when we were together, we didn't worry about image, or acceptance, or saying the perfect thing in the perfect way."
OH THIS BOOK. My heart is melting.
Places We've Never Been is a book I picked up on a whim. It follows Norah as she and her family embark on a whirlwind reunion road trip with her childhood best friend Skyler and his family. The trip isn't going as smoothly as hoped, however. Years of separation has driven a wedge between the two friends, and with each family keeping their own secrets, it seems things can't just return to the way they were.
My favorite part of this book was obviously the relationship between Norah and Skyler. Childhood best friends to lovers is a trope I adore with my whole heart and soul. You can tell they truly love and care for each other and feel completely safe in each other's presence. I also love the bond they share over their love for art. They're just the cutest and I loved getting to know them in this book, even if their misunderstandings were frustrating at times.
The actual road trip wasn't as prevalent in the story, and served as a backdrop for character and relationship development. It was cool to see all the different destinations the families travelled to though.
Norah as a main character was a little frustrating at times, but I also found her very relatable. She feels like she needs to "filter out" certain aspects of herself when talking to certain people, and she designs her personality and what she says based on what she believes people want to hear. Girl, as a people pleaser, I relate!
As with every YA contemporary, secrets are a part of this story. I always enjoy extra things slowly being revealed over time, and this was no exception. The whole time I was just BEGGING for Norah to do a little more eavesdropping to find out what on earth was happening! The reveals were definitely sad but added more depth to the story which was nice.
All in all, if you're looking for a quick and cute YA contemporary with some added depth to it I definitely recommend this one!
I’m convinced Kasie West writes the cutest, most wholesome romances I’ve ever read! I’ve been reading her books for years now, and they’re all so good. I loved this one especially because of the road trip element! It was just so fun to read about all the different activities/ places Norah and Skyler went to together. I also loved the friends to enemies to lovers trope. I think it really worked for the plot of the book. All in all, I definitely recommend this one if you’re looking for a sweet YA romance🥰.
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Thank you Random House Children’s / Delacorte Press, Netgally, and Kasie West for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
the summary my gosh, this book brings so much memories of my own childhood friend, basically, ZH and I were childhood friends and I moved to another district, but we recently got in touch, hence I really could understand Norah's excitement when she saw Skyler. chev's system for reviews plot development ☆☆☆☆☆ character development ☆☆☆☆☆ chev's board Thank you @BookwormVera, @Amanda, @Sophia, @Sonja @Ioana-Alexandra for supporting my reviews!! the rating 5/5!! Like this review for a mention :p Find me on: Instagram: @chevreads - for bookish news Wattpad: @writerthursday Pinterest: @thursdayfrappe Youtube: @chevreads - posting soon!? P.S. Add me as a friend :) I like to read romance novels and mystery stories
This was a fun, cute summer road trip story. Overall, I had a good time with this and enjoyed myself. It just wasn't entirely for me though, mainly because while it tried to be inclusive, I feel like it missed the mark in some ways, and because the main character felt like she came straight out of a 2012 YA, which is not my favourite type of character.
I also, mainly, was just wishing the setting had been fleshed out more. It's hard to dislike a road trip book and the atmosphere was fun, but I just think this could have been a stronger aspect of the story. The book is largely dialogue-driven, and because of that the setting is not always as clear.
„— Nie możesz o tym powiedzieć moim dzieciom”. Norah nie widziała swojego najlepszego przyjaciela z dzieciństwa, Skylera, od lat. Na początku często rozmawiali, ale ostatnio ich relacje ograniczały się tylko do rzadkich rozmów w mediach społecznościowych. Dlatego dziewczyna nie może się doczekać wspólnych wakacji kamperami w to lato. Kiedy Skyler w końcu się pojawia, wydaje się, że nie jest zadowolony. Zraniona i zdezorientowana Dziewczyna zaczyna zachowywać się tak samo. Ich podróż prowadzi ich nowymi drogami i przynosi nowe odkrycia. Wkrótce poznają siebie nawzajem na nowo i poznają nowe miejsca. Czy ich przyjaźń może przerodzić się w coś więcej? Czy na drodze ich uczuciu staną ukrywane od dawna sekrety? „— No i znów to samo.
— Co niby? — spytał.
— Wystraszyłeś się, że powiedziałeś za dużo? Że byłeś zbyt miły? Bałeś się, że coś sobie pomyślę?
— Nie, bałem się, że będziesz mi dawać rady, nie mając o niczym pojęcia.
— Tak, bo właśnie to cała ja. Wtykam nos w nie swoje sprawy. — Włożyłam buty. — Chciałam ci tylko przypomnieć, że ty też nie rozmawiałeś ze mną od dwóch lat.
— Wiem o tym”. Myślę, że to chyba pierwsza młodzieżówka autorstwa Kessie West, która podobała mi się najbardziej. Z tych, które przeczytałam. Norah i Skyler to bohaterowie, których nie mogłam nie polubić. Oboje zdobyli moją sympatię i nadal są w mojej głowie. Myślę, że z każdym z nich zżyłam się tak samo. A jeśli chodzi o tajemnice, które ukrywają ich rodziny, przyznaję, że miałam kilka opcji, ale kiedy w końcu dowiedziałam się, o co chodzi, to nie były to żadne z moich teorii. Szczerze mówiąc, trochę się zaskoczyłam. I to pozytywnie. Co mnie bardzo cieszy, ponieważ lubię, książki z gatunku Young adult, które nie są, aż tak przewidywalne. „Miejsca, których jeszcze nie znamy” oprócz zabawnych i lekkich wątkówporusza temat choroby bliskiej osoby. Autorka nie rozczarowała mnie tą historią, wręcz przeciwnie. To jedna z lepszych letnich młodzieżówek i tej autorki.