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Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage
In these stories lives come into focus through single events or sudden memories which bring the past bubbling to the surface. The past, as Alice Munro's characters discover, is made up not only of what is remembered, but also what isn't. The past is there, just out of the picture, but if memories haven't been savoured, recalled in the mind and boxed away, it's as if they have never been - until a moment when the pieces of the jigsaw re-form suddenly, sometimes pleasurably but more often painfully. Women look back at their young selves, at first marriages made when they were naive and trusting, at husbands and their difficult, demanding little ways.
There is in this new collection an underlying heartbreak, a sense of regret in her characters for what might have been, for a fork in the road not taken, a memory suppressed in an act of prudent emotional housekeeping. But at the same time there is hope, there are second chances - here are people who reinvent themselves, seize life by the throat, who have moved on and can dare to conjure up the hidden memories, daring to go beyond what is remembered.
There is in this new collection an underlying heartbreak, a sense of regret in her characters for what might have been, for a fork in the road not taken, a memory suppressed in an act of prudent emotional housekeeping. But at the same time there is hope, there are second chances - here are people who reinvent themselves, seize life by the throat, who have moved on and can dare to conjure up the hidden memories, daring to go beyond what is remembered.
336 pages, Paperback
First published September 25, 2001
About the author
Alice Munro
208 books6,412 followersCollections of short stories of noted Canadian writer Alice Munro of life in rural Ontario include
Dance of the Happy Shades
(1968) and
Moons of Jupiter
(1982); for these and vivid novels, she won the Nobel Prize of 2013 for literature.
People widely consider her premier fiction of the world. Munro thrice received governor general's award. She focuses on human relationships through the lens of daily life. People thus refer to this "the Canadian Chekhov."
(Arabic: أليس مونرو)
(Persian: آلیس مانرو)
(Russian Cyrillic: Элис Манро)
(Ukrainian Cyrillic: Еліс Манро)
(Bulgarian Cyrillic: Алис Мънро)
(Slovak: Alice Munroová)
(Serbian: Alis Manro)
People widely consider her premier fiction of the world. Munro thrice received governor general's award. She focuses on human relationships through the lens of daily life. People thus refer to this "the Canadian Chekhov."
(Arabic: أليس مونرو)
(Persian: آلیس مانرو)
(Russian Cyrillic: Элис Манро)
(Ukrainian Cyrillic: Еліс Манро)
(Bulgarian Cyrillic: Алис Мънро)
(Slovak: Alice Munroová)
(Serbian: Alis Manro)
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July 14, 2023
Update 2023: This short story collection which I read in June 2022 proved to be the beginning of a beautiful friendship between myself and short stories. I've read quite a few since then and plan to keep going.
Original thoughts:
It seems I am on a binge with short stories and I am enjoying myself a lot more than I expected. I’ve had Alice Munro on my TBR for a while but since I was not inclined towards reading short stories, I postponed her for years. Now that I had, read her, I can confirm she is a true master of the genre. Why? Each story felt to me as a fully formed world. The characters are well developed, the plot is interesting and immersing even though it shows pieces of normal life. I read novels which made me feel less involved in the tale than any of Munro’s stories. I cared about each story, which is such a hard feat to attain. Those stories are alive, yes, I think this is the right word.
Original thoughts:
It seems I am on a binge with short stories and I am enjoying myself a lot more than I expected. I’ve had Alice Munro on my TBR for a while but since I was not inclined towards reading short stories, I postponed her for years. Now that I had, read her, I can confirm she is a true master of the genre. Why? Each story felt to me as a fully formed world. The characters are well developed, the plot is interesting and immersing even though it shows pieces of normal life. I read novels which made me feel less involved in the tale than any of Munro’s stories. I cared about each story, which is such a hard feat to attain. Those stories are alive, yes, I think this is the right word.
November 15, 2024
A COLLECTION OF PARADIGM SHIFTS INTO OTHER FOLKS’ PRIVATE HEADSPACE!
When this diminutive little lady from small-town Ontario, Canada won the Nobel Prize for Literature she remarked:
"I want my stories to move people.
“I don't care if they're women, men or children...
“I want my stories to be something about life that makes people say - not 'oh, isn't that the truth' - but to feel some kind of reward from the writing.
“And that doesn't mean it has to be a happy ending or anything, but just that everything the story tells moves the reader in such a way that you feel you are a different person when you finish it."
Want to get out of your skin for a few hours?
Alice Munro will take you there! And this year of her passing is the Best time to start.
You’ll find out for yourself how Lucky you Really ARE to be Yourself.
For Alice Munro takes the Fools’ Bells off from other folks heads for us to examine...
You know, the truly Modern Fools’ Bells that folks wear are the heavy Balls and Chains of marital and extramarital mélanges and their resultant Fatal Aporias.
The most ingenious traps we lay in Life are those we, ourselves, fall into!
Too far gone beyond the magical voice of the “Woodthrush calling through the Fog”, which we all-too-knowingly call the worn-out song of “Ole Time Religion”, and the rather faded, trite old Song of Innocence.
So, like that famous fictional character Christian, we are perpetually swamped up to our eyelids in the same old dreary Slough of Despond!
Back in 1984, when I was a recently-promoted management trainee, I had a supervisor (and beloved mentor!) named Jim.
Jim was 6 or 7 years older than I was, but nevertheless retained a preppy-style crewcut and a boyish grin.
He was a gee-whiz, can-do type guy with a boundless enthusiasm for cutting-edge management development techniques. And they worked for me!
10 years later, boyish enthusiasm intact, he gave our officers a crash course on the latest buzz on thinking outside of the box: developing a flexible readiness for Paradigm Shifts.
And that’s exactly what Alice Munro gives us:
Paradigm shifts.
You know, if you’re trapped in the Slough, all the new paradigm shifts in management theory go right over your head as just so much bunk. So you get tired and let the Smart Young Bucks outrun you.
Sound familiar?
But not so the ever-Young Ms Munro!
One moment we’re working through her intricate constructions of another person’s life and character - and by the end of that story, we’re right inside that character’s headspace.
How come we never even KNEW how drastically different we are from each other?
And how come we all STILL make like we’re all playing from the same sheet of dreary music?
Alice Munro shows us how EACH of us is actually trying to keep an unruly symphony orchestra playing together in our heads from a secret centre, performing the music that is US, in our separation from OTHERS.
And WHY are we separate from others? Because we don’t see that our false notes -the orchestra’s blunders - are actually our OWN.
Her eye is so sharp and her hearing is so acute I cannot think of any other way of explaining the essence of the miracle she performs.
You see, we are not now - nor have we ever been - ironclad, bulletproof personalities! When our orchestra goofs, we goof.
And Munro shows us how we all ALWAYS goof. It’s embarrassing. It’s discomfiting.
These are not especially unpleasant stories, nor are all exclusively pleasant. BUT THEY’RE ALL OUTSIDE THE BOX. And they ALL make us feel ILL AT EASE.
They’re US.
They’re meticulously crafted stories about individuals who are SOCIALLY IMPERFECT, in their own little ways, and you’ll have BECOME them for a few moments by the time you finish them.
And wow - they really do expand your mind.
Just read this remarkable collection and you’ll see for yourself!
And you’ll see yourself anew - as a NEW AND FALLIBLE HUMAN BEING.
Finally.
When this diminutive little lady from small-town Ontario, Canada won the Nobel Prize for Literature she remarked:
"I want my stories to move people.
“I don't care if they're women, men or children...
“I want my stories to be something about life that makes people say - not 'oh, isn't that the truth' - but to feel some kind of reward from the writing.
“And that doesn't mean it has to be a happy ending or anything, but just that everything the story tells moves the reader in such a way that you feel you are a different person when you finish it."
Want to get out of your skin for a few hours?
Alice Munro will take you there! And this year of her passing is the Best time to start.
You’ll find out for yourself how Lucky you Really ARE to be Yourself.
For Alice Munro takes the Fools’ Bells off from other folks heads for us to examine...
You know, the truly Modern Fools’ Bells that folks wear are the heavy Balls and Chains of marital and extramarital mélanges and their resultant Fatal Aporias.
The most ingenious traps we lay in Life are those we, ourselves, fall into!
Too far gone beyond the magical voice of the “Woodthrush calling through the Fog”, which we all-too-knowingly call the worn-out song of “Ole Time Religion”, and the rather faded, trite old Song of Innocence.
So, like that famous fictional character Christian, we are perpetually swamped up to our eyelids in the same old dreary Slough of Despond!
Back in 1984, when I was a recently-promoted management trainee, I had a supervisor (and beloved mentor!) named Jim.
Jim was 6 or 7 years older than I was, but nevertheless retained a preppy-style crewcut and a boyish grin.
He was a gee-whiz, can-do type guy with a boundless enthusiasm for cutting-edge management development techniques. And they worked for me!
10 years later, boyish enthusiasm intact, he gave our officers a crash course on the latest buzz on thinking outside of the box: developing a flexible readiness for Paradigm Shifts.
And that’s exactly what Alice Munro gives us:
Paradigm shifts.
You know, if you’re trapped in the Slough, all the new paradigm shifts in management theory go right over your head as just so much bunk. So you get tired and let the Smart Young Bucks outrun you.
Sound familiar?
But not so the ever-Young Ms Munro!
One moment we’re working through her intricate constructions of another person’s life and character - and by the end of that story, we’re right inside that character’s headspace.
How come we never even KNEW how drastically different we are from each other?
And how come we all STILL make like we’re all playing from the same sheet of dreary music?
Alice Munro shows us how EACH of us is actually trying to keep an unruly symphony orchestra playing together in our heads from a secret centre, performing the music that is US, in our separation from OTHERS.
And WHY are we separate from others? Because we don’t see that our false notes -the orchestra’s blunders - are actually our OWN.
Her eye is so sharp and her hearing is so acute I cannot think of any other way of explaining the essence of the miracle she performs.
You see, we are not now - nor have we ever been - ironclad, bulletproof personalities! When our orchestra goofs, we goof.
And Munro shows us how we all ALWAYS goof. It’s embarrassing. It’s discomfiting.
These are not especially unpleasant stories, nor are all exclusively pleasant. BUT THEY’RE ALL OUTSIDE THE BOX. And they ALL make us feel ILL AT EASE.
They’re US.
They’re meticulously crafted stories about individuals who are SOCIALLY IMPERFECT, in their own little ways, and you’ll have BECOME them for a few moments by the time you finish them.
And wow - they really do expand your mind.
Just read this remarkable collection and you’ll see for yourself!
And you’ll see yourself anew - as a NEW AND FALLIBLE HUMAN BEING.
Finally.
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December 10, 2022
LA NORMALITÀ È PIENA DI MISTERO
L’attrice Kristen Wiig protagonista di “Hateship Loveship” film diretto da Liza Johnson, 2013.
L’ordinario è straordinario.
Arrivato alla terza raccolta di Alice Munro, potrei aver già detto tutto.
Ma credo che non sia così, con una scrittrice di questa bravura si trova sempre qualcosa da aggiungere.
"Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage" che la traduzione italiana sintetizza in "Nemico, amico, amante…" (e a me sembra che a entrambe le versioni manchi la parola ‘Betrayal’) contiene i più bei racconti di Munro che ho letto finora.
Piccoli grandi capolavori: Mobili di famiglia, Conforto, Ortiche, Post and Beam, Quello che si ricorda, The Bear Came Over the Mountain, sono tutti bellissimi, ma anche uno più bello dell’altro.
“Hateship Loveship”: la protagonista Kristen Wiig insieme al protagonista maschile, Guy Pearce.
La mia conoscenza della sua opera è ancora molto parziale, e questa riflessione potrebbe presto rivelarsi sbagliata: nei racconti scritti quando era più giovane, mi era sembrata molto attaccata al mondo che è stato, più che a quello che è - Alice Munro pubblicò questi racconti dopo aver da poco superato i 70 anni, e mi colpisce che sia dovuta giungere a questa età per affrontare un’epoca più attuale. Anche se poi, data la sua maestria, ciò che fu ed è stato è anche ciò che è: alla sua altezza, ci si misura con l’eterno.
Per inciso, vorrei rimarcare quanto siano brutte le copertine di questi libri pubblicati dall’Einaudi, in stile non tanto vagamente Harmony: per quanto sono belli i racconti che contengono, tanto le copertine sono sbagliate e brutte.
Al contrario di quella bellissima della raccolta Chi ti credi essere, che però non uscì per Einaudi.
“Hateship Loveship”: la protagonista Kristen Wiig insieme alla regista Liza Johnson.
È facile capire come sia una scrittrice molto amata dai colleghi scrittori (uomini e donne).
Probabilmente più che dal pubblico, mi pare sia tuttora una scrittrice più di nicchia che di massa.
Come si dice che solo Čechov abbia saputo fare, Munro riesce a comprimere intere vite, regalando quella sensazione d’aver letto un romanzo in sole trenta pagine.
”Hateship Loveship” è un classico film Sundance style. L’abilità è aver virato verso una commedia garbata, misurata, non giudicante, tenera. Ottime performance. Su cui, a me pare, troneggi Nick Nolte, sul cui volto si sono incise rughe a raffica, e ciascuna esprime un sentimento, un’emozione.
È una maestra del quotidiano, della vita domestica, dell’ordinario che riesce a mostrare straordinario con una prosa e uno stile scorrevole, senza brividi né impennate linguistiche: con parole che scivolano come un flusso occasionale, cuce insieme flashback e aneddoti e pensieri, mostra particolari densi e improvvisamente profondi, ti conduce in uno spaziotempo che credi sia il cuore del racconto per poi accorgerti che invece ti sta portando più in là, più nel profondo e più in alto.
Nelle sue pagine, la normalità è piena di mistero.
Munro è spesso definita maestra di psicologia e interiorità, ma qui l’ultimo racconto dimostra che è anche grande esperta d’intreccio, con improvvise ma plausibili svolte di trama a ogni pagina, dispiega una dolce perfidia alla quale non ero abituato, e neppure preparato nonostante il film.
Tutto quello che ci circonda e avvolge è misterioso e a portata, Munro ce lo ripete lasciandoci liberi di riflettere e vagare nella sua prosa semplice e sensuale.
Il film ”Away From Her – Lontano da lei” di Sarah Polley, 2006, dal racconto “The Bear Came Over the Mountain”.
Faccio un goffo gioco, uso parole della stessa Munro per provare a esprimere la mia ammirazione per lei, ammirazione che mi esce dopo un silenzio della voce, come se in questo preciso istante, e quasi con mia stessa sorpresa, incontrandola mi fossi imbattuto in una qualità del mondo alla quale non è stato ancora tributato il giusto onore, e che non posso non definire straordinaria.
Non aveva fumato prima d’ora…. Quel gesto sembrava isolarlo, rivelare in lui una certa impazienza, forse la fretta di concludere una cosa e procedere verso la successiva. In quel preciso momento Meriel era indecisa se considerare se stessa come la cosa a venire o quella da concludere.
Il film “Julieta” di Pedro Almodovar, 2016, è tratto da tre racconti di Alice Munro, “Fatalità”, “Fra poco” e “Silenzio”.
L’attrice Kristen Wiig protagonista di “Hateship Loveship” film diretto da Liza Johnson, 2013.
L’ordinario è straordinario.
Arrivato alla terza raccolta di Alice Munro, potrei aver già detto tutto.
Ma credo che non sia così, con una scrittrice di questa bravura si trova sempre qualcosa da aggiungere.
"Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage" che la traduzione italiana sintetizza in "Nemico, amico, amante…" (e a me sembra che a entrambe le versioni manchi la parola ‘Betrayal’) contiene i più bei racconti di Munro che ho letto finora.
Piccoli grandi capolavori: Mobili di famiglia, Conforto, Ortiche, Post and Beam, Quello che si ricorda, The Bear Came Over the Mountain, sono tutti bellissimi, ma anche uno più bello dell’altro.
“Hateship Loveship”: la protagonista Kristen Wiig insieme al protagonista maschile, Guy Pearce.
La mia conoscenza della sua opera è ancora molto parziale, e questa riflessione potrebbe presto rivelarsi sbagliata: nei racconti scritti quando era più giovane, mi era sembrata molto attaccata al mondo che è stato, più che a quello che è - Alice Munro pubblicò questi racconti dopo aver da poco superato i 70 anni, e mi colpisce che sia dovuta giungere a questa età per affrontare un’epoca più attuale. Anche se poi, data la sua maestria, ciò che fu ed è stato è anche ciò che è: alla sua altezza, ci si misura con l’eterno.
Per inciso, vorrei rimarcare quanto siano brutte le copertine di questi libri pubblicati dall’Einaudi, in stile non tanto vagamente Harmony: per quanto sono belli i racconti che contengono, tanto le copertine sono sbagliate e brutte.
Al contrario di quella bellissima della raccolta Chi ti credi essere, che però non uscì per Einaudi.
“Hateship Loveship”: la protagonista Kristen Wiig insieme alla regista Liza Johnson.
È facile capire come sia una scrittrice molto amata dai colleghi scrittori (uomini e donne).
Probabilmente più che dal pubblico, mi pare sia tuttora una scrittrice più di nicchia che di massa.
Come si dice che solo Čechov abbia saputo fare, Munro riesce a comprimere intere vite, regalando quella sensazione d’aver letto un romanzo in sole trenta pagine.
”Hateship Loveship” è un classico film Sundance style. L’abilità è aver virato verso una commedia garbata, misurata, non giudicante, tenera. Ottime performance. Su cui, a me pare, troneggi Nick Nolte, sul cui volto si sono incise rughe a raffica, e ciascuna esprime un sentimento, un’emozione.
È una maestra del quotidiano, della vita domestica, dell’ordinario che riesce a mostrare straordinario con una prosa e uno stile scorrevole, senza brividi né impennate linguistiche: con parole che scivolano come un flusso occasionale, cuce insieme flashback e aneddoti e pensieri, mostra particolari densi e improvvisamente profondi, ti conduce in uno spaziotempo che credi sia il cuore del racconto per poi accorgerti che invece ti sta portando più in là, più nel profondo e più in alto.
Nelle sue pagine, la normalità è piena di mistero.
Munro è spesso definita maestra di psicologia e interiorità, ma qui l’ultimo racconto dimostra che è anche grande esperta d’intreccio, con improvvise ma plausibili svolte di trama a ogni pagina, dispiega una dolce perfidia alla quale non ero abituato, e neppure preparato nonostante il film.
Tutto quello che ci circonda e avvolge è misterioso e a portata, Munro ce lo ripete lasciandoci liberi di riflettere e vagare nella sua prosa semplice e sensuale.
Il film ”Away From Her – Lontano da lei” di Sarah Polley, 2006, dal racconto “The Bear Came Over the Mountain”.
Faccio un goffo gioco, uso parole della stessa Munro per provare a esprimere la mia ammirazione per lei, ammirazione che mi esce dopo un silenzio della voce, come se in questo preciso istante, e quasi con mia stessa sorpresa, incontrandola mi fossi imbattuto in una qualità del mondo alla quale non è stato ancora tributato il giusto onore, e che non posso non definire straordinaria.
Non aveva fumato prima d’ora…. Quel gesto sembrava isolarlo, rivelare in lui una certa impazienza, forse la fretta di concludere una cosa e procedere verso la successiva. In quel preciso momento Meriel era indecisa se considerare se stessa come la cosa a venire o quella da concludere.
Il film “Julieta” di Pedro Almodovar, 2016, è tratto da tre racconti di Alice Munro, “Fatalità”, “Fra poco” e “Silenzio”.
July 9, 2017
My reaction to almost every movie I watch is to announce loudly to the room after finishing it, “WELL, I'LL NEVER GET THOSE TWO HOURS OF MY LIFE BACK.”
I get peevish and resentful after sitting through bad movies, and I usually need to read a new book or watch Colin Firth as Mr. Darcy emerging from the lake in his wet, white shirt before I can shake other bad movie images from my mind.
So, imagine my surprise when I stumbled upon Hateship, Loveship with Kristen Wiig, and I not only liked it, I kinda loved it. Like, I loved it so much, I watched it twice in one week. Wha??
(And, how is this a book review, you might be ready to ask?)
Okay, I'm getting there. So, I loved Hateship, Loveship SO much, I did a little homework and found out that it was based on a short story by Canadian writer, Alice Munro. A short story of only 54 pages was the inspiration for that break-my-heart-I-surprisingly-love-this film.
And, even though I think it's the best story of this collection, the book includes nine.
Nine stories total. . . and what do they have in common? Well, as the doctor in the ninth story declares, “We don't know, do we? Till we see the pattern of the deterioration, we really can't say.”
Yes, patterns of deterioration. . . of marriages, of health, of mental and physical stability, of lives. . . and each of the nine stories features a prominent female protagonist who is typically a part of a childless couple.
Yet, for the men reading this review. . . please don't be hasty in dismissing this as “Feminist Lit.” Women are the featured leads, so to speak, but we come to know their men, too. And unless isolation, loneliness, and fears of death and diminished health have suddenly become exclusive to women, I think the universal quality of these issues would pull in any readers.
But it's not fluff. And it's not entertainment. This is a sturdy collection of serious “thinks” and big “feels.”
Looks like Ms. Munro's been paying some close attention to people.
I get peevish and resentful after sitting through bad movies, and I usually need to read a new book or watch Colin Firth as Mr. Darcy emerging from the lake in his wet, white shirt before I can shake other bad movie images from my mind.
So, imagine my surprise when I stumbled upon Hateship, Loveship with Kristen Wiig, and I not only liked it, I kinda loved it. Like, I loved it so much, I watched it twice in one week. Wha??
(And, how is this a book review, you might be ready to ask?)
Okay, I'm getting there. So, I loved Hateship, Loveship SO much, I did a little homework and found out that it was based on a short story by Canadian writer, Alice Munro. A short story of only 54 pages was the inspiration for that break-my-heart-I-surprisingly-love-this film.
And, even though I think it's the best story of this collection, the book includes nine.
Nine stories total. . . and what do they have in common? Well, as the doctor in the ninth story declares, “We don't know, do we? Till we see the pattern of the deterioration, we really can't say.”
Yes, patterns of deterioration. . . of marriages, of health, of mental and physical stability, of lives. . . and each of the nine stories features a prominent female protagonist who is typically a part of a childless couple.
Yet, for the men reading this review. . . please don't be hasty in dismissing this as “Feminist Lit.” Women are the featured leads, so to speak, but we come to know their men, too. And unless isolation, loneliness, and fears of death and diminished health have suddenly become exclusive to women, I think the universal quality of these issues would pull in any readers.
But it's not fluff. And it's not entertainment. This is a sturdy collection of serious “thinks” and big “feels.”
Looks like Ms. Munro's been paying some close attention to people.
January 18, 2019
A lifetime of reading Alice Munro
I feel like I’ve grown up with Alice Munro. I studied some of her short stories as a student (high school and college); I took a senior seminar in her work at university – long before she won the Nobel Prize for Literature; I’ve seen her read several times (my favourite was when she read the masterpiece “Differently” in its entirety.) And I continue to read and reread her work. Some of her stories are so familiar I can recite whole passages by heart.
(Nerd confession: I once played a game with a friend where he read passages from Munro and I had to identify the story.)
My favourite Munro is mid-period, from Who Do You Think You Are? (called The Beggar Maid in the U.S. and UK), published in 1978, through Friend Of My Youth (1990).
After that, I felt her stories got a little too complex, too compressed. They’re still brilliant, each as full of life and incident as novels, but many of them don’t have the directness and emotional impact of the early-middle work.
This collection is from a decade later, in 2001, and it’s very fine.
If you know Munro’s work, there are echoes from earlier stories. There’s the uncouth, loud country relation visiting the narrator who’s risen in social stature (“Post And Beam”); there’s a childhood prank that ends up affecting people’s destinies (“Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage”); there are young people who have a chaste connection who meet up again in later life (“Nettles”); there’s the memory of a brief sexual liaison that helps sustain a character through the rest of her life (“What Is Remembered”); and there’s the bright young narrator, an aspiring writer, who rejects a substitute maternal figure/working woman in her life (“Family Furnishings”).
What I always love about Munro is just how deep she goes into human interaction.
There’s a passage in “Floating Bridge,” a powerful story about a couple, one of whom has just been to see a physician about how her cancer has progressed. This passage has nothing really to do with the plot, such as it is, but it’s so true to life.
How true to life. Every word is necessary, even that “she used to think,” implying that she’s changed.
The title story, the longest in the collection and one that spans decades, is a marvellous tale that keeps shifting perspectives. Imagine holding up a valuable jewel and seeing how the light catches it from different angles – that's sort of the effect. The first perspective is from a smug, small-town station agent:
The station agent often tried a little teasing with women, especially the plain ones who seemed to appreciate it.
Then later:
She spoke to him in a loud voice as if he was deaf or stupid, and there was something wrong with the way she pronounced her words. An accent. He thought of Dutch – the Dutch were moving in around here – but she didn’t have the heft of the Dutch women or the nice pink skin or the fair hair. She might have been under forty, but what did it matter? No beauty queen, ever.
Oh, my. Munro knows her people so well: their vanities, their prejudices, their secret desires. A few pages later, the same woman described above goes shopping for a dress she hopes will be her wedding outfit, and the shopkeeper (named "Milady") comes alive in a few brief, sharp strokes. If aliens ever wanted to learn about humans, all they’d have to do would be read Munro.
The final story, “The Bear Came Over The Mountain,” was made into an Oscar-nominated film by Sarah Polley called Away From Her. It’s about a philandering husband whose wife, living with Alzheimer’s, can no longer remember him and strikes up a very close friendship with another man in the same facility. The economical way Munro sketches out the couple’s life, especially the husband’s affairs – he was a professor before being forced to retire – makes you understand everyone. (It’s very interesting to read in light of the #MeToo movement.)
Flipping through this story again to write this review made me realize why I love Munro so much. She presents humanity with all its flaws intact. She sees people so clearly but she doesn’t judge them. They’re all just a part of the carnival of life. She forgives them. She forgives us.
I’ve always felt that some of Munro’s book titles could be interchangeable. This book’s title – named after a game that kids, often girls, will play, a variation on the “He loves me/he loves me not” flower game – is expansive. But it could just as easily have been The Progress Of Love or The Love Of A Good Woman.
This is an exquisite collection. Definitely “Loveship.”
I feel like I’ve grown up with Alice Munro. I studied some of her short stories as a student (high school and college); I took a senior seminar in her work at university – long before she won the Nobel Prize for Literature; I’ve seen her read several times (my favourite was when she read the masterpiece “Differently” in its entirety.) And I continue to read and reread her work. Some of her stories are so familiar I can recite whole passages by heart.
(Nerd confession: I once played a game with a friend where he read passages from Munro and I had to identify the story.)
My favourite Munro is mid-period, from Who Do You Think You Are? (called The Beggar Maid in the U.S. and UK), published in 1978, through Friend Of My Youth (1990).
After that, I felt her stories got a little too complex, too compressed. They’re still brilliant, each as full of life and incident as novels, but many of them don’t have the directness and emotional impact of the early-middle work.
This collection is from a decade later, in 2001, and it’s very fine.
If you know Munro’s work, there are echoes from earlier stories. There’s the uncouth, loud country relation visiting the narrator who’s risen in social stature (“Post And Beam”); there’s a childhood prank that ends up affecting people’s destinies (“Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage”); there are young people who have a chaste connection who meet up again in later life (“Nettles”); there’s the memory of a brief sexual liaison that helps sustain a character through the rest of her life (“What Is Remembered”); and there’s the bright young narrator, an aspiring writer, who rejects a substitute maternal figure/working woman in her life (“Family Furnishings”).
What I always love about Munro is just how deep she goes into human interaction.
There’s a passage in “Floating Bridge,” a powerful story about a couple, one of whom has just been to see a physician about how her cancer has progressed. This passage has nothing really to do with the plot, such as it is, but it’s so true to life.
When Neal was around other people, even one person other than Jinny, his behavior changed, becoming more animated, enthusiastic, ingratiating. Jinny was not bothered by that anymore – they had been together for twenty-one years. And she herself changed – as a reaction, she used to think – becoming more reserved and slightly ironic. Some masquerades were necessary, or just too habitual to be dropped.
How true to life. Every word is necessary, even that “she used to think,” implying that she’s changed.
The title story, the longest in the collection and one that spans decades, is a marvellous tale that keeps shifting perspectives. Imagine holding up a valuable jewel and seeing how the light catches it from different angles – that's sort of the effect. The first perspective is from a smug, small-town station agent:
The station agent often tried a little teasing with women, especially the plain ones who seemed to appreciate it.
Then later:
She spoke to him in a loud voice as if he was deaf or stupid, and there was something wrong with the way she pronounced her words. An accent. He thought of Dutch – the Dutch were moving in around here – but she didn’t have the heft of the Dutch women or the nice pink skin or the fair hair. She might have been under forty, but what did it matter? No beauty queen, ever.
Oh, my. Munro knows her people so well: their vanities, their prejudices, their secret desires. A few pages later, the same woman described above goes shopping for a dress she hopes will be her wedding outfit, and the shopkeeper (named "Milady") comes alive in a few brief, sharp strokes. If aliens ever wanted to learn about humans, all they’d have to do would be read Munro.
The final story, “The Bear Came Over The Mountain,” was made into an Oscar-nominated film by Sarah Polley called Away From Her. It’s about a philandering husband whose wife, living with Alzheimer’s, can no longer remember him and strikes up a very close friendship with another man in the same facility. The economical way Munro sketches out the couple’s life, especially the husband’s affairs – he was a professor before being forced to retire – makes you understand everyone. (It’s very interesting to read in light of the #MeToo movement.)
Flipping through this story again to write this review made me realize why I love Munro so much. She presents humanity with all its flaws intact. She sees people so clearly but she doesn’t judge them. They’re all just a part of the carnival of life. She forgives them. She forgives us.
I’ve always felt that some of Munro’s book titles could be interchangeable. This book’s title – named after a game that kids, often girls, will play, a variation on the “He loves me/he loves me not” flower game – is expansive. But it could just as easily have been The Progress Of Love or The Love Of A Good Woman.
This is an exquisite collection. Definitely “Loveship.”
February 25, 2020
“En la vida tienes unos cuantos sitios, o quizá uno solo, donde ocurrió algo; y después están todos los demás sitios.”Caí postrado ante esta señora con el primer libro que cayó en mis manos y mi admiración por ella no ha dejado de crecer con cada uno de sus libros, aunque en este volumen no haya conectado con algunos de sus relatos o me hayan parecido menos sugerentes.
Y aun así, la intensidad de la literatura de Munro, su sencillez y concisión ricamente complicada y completa, su obsesión por los detalles y los gestos, sigue siendo brillante en estos relatos llenos de silencios con los que la autora es capaz de transmitir un sinfín de sensaciones, imágenes e ideas que requerirán del lector un alto grado de complicidad y colaboración. Una colaboración que será necesaria también con todas esas enigmáticas frases, sugerentes de caminos diversos y de giros inesperados, que nos desarman e impelen a reconstrucciones de lo leído.
En cada uno de los relatos somos invitados a subirnos, como en un tren en marcha, a la vida de unas mujeres (solo el último de ellos tiene como personaje central a un hombre) en un momento concreto de su existencia para ir contándonos pasito a pasito, mezclado con detalles cotidianos de su vida actual, todos los porqués que se encuentran dispersos en su pasado y que nos permitirán interpretar su momento actual. Mujeres rodeadas de unos fantásticos personajes secundarios que nos sugieren otras historias posibles que son esbozadas en apenas dos pinceladas y que sirven como contrapunto a la imagen que nos vamos formando de la protagonista. Mujeres valientes, nada acomodaticias, que se pierden entre su deseo de libertad y las ataduras que conlleva la vida familiar y cuyas decisiones, sean estas las que sean, no están nunca exentas de un cierto sentimiento de culpabilidad.
Mi voluntad de leerme todo Alice Munro se mantiene inquebrantable.
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May 12, 2011I sometimes get into conversations with people who have a hard time connecting with the short-story format; they say that they hardly have time to muster an emotional involvement in the characters and events, before the story is over. To those readers I might recommend Alice Munro. True, I have only experienced one of her collections, but the stories in Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage are nothing if not emotionally affecting—or "crushingly tragic," I suppose, if you want to get specific about the thing. Indeed, the understated yet unrelenting tragedy of small unkindnesses built up over decades and lifetimes; of the inevitable disappointments and compromises that result when people do their best and their best is not very good; of the human tendency to feel pride in one's flaws and shame in one's strengths: all this is the lifeblood of Munro's collection, and there's no denying that it's more bitter than sweet. At times, the bitterness becomes overpowering. At other times, Munro strikes a compelling balance between the deep sadness in all her characters (particularly her female characters) and the moments of true connection they manage to glean from the world around them, often at unexpected moments.
Munro, it should be stressed, is a magnificent craftsman. One of the reasons these stories, at 20 or 30 pages, feel like whole super-condensed novels, is their author's extreme economy of language, her ability to establish whole histories with one or two well-chosen words, which often occur in a paragraph seemingly devoted to another task entirely. In the story "Post and Beam," for example, the graduate student Lionel contemplates the married life of his professor and the professor's wife, a couple he has come to socialize with on occasion:
Not only do we get a portrait of a summer evening here, the ambient twilight stimuli as the adults have a drink together, but we also get Lionel's aversion to the everyday accouterments of married life (he comes after the children are in bed, shivers at Lorna and Brendan's everyday interactions). We also get a solid idea of the dynamic between Lorna and Brendan: their marriage follows traditional gender roles in that she is the one expected to take responsibility for cleaning up the children's toys and doing the shopping; if she slips up, Brendan not just allowed but obliged ("had to") to give her a scolding about it. That "had to" might indicate, since we are in his head at the moment, Lionel's point of view, his acceptance of the standard husband/wife hierarchy—although the rest of the story gives the impression that none of these characters would object to the phrase, even as the lack of equality and human understanding in her marriage is making Lorna actively unhappy. Even the addition of "remembered" ("the call from the kitchen asking if she had remembered to buy limes for the gin and tonic") adds to multiple aspects of the marital portrait. On the one hand, it speaks to the familiarity of husband and wife: probably everyone who has shared a household has yelled this type of question at one time or another. On the other hand, combined with Brendan's disconnection from his children and scolding of his wife, his phrasing adds to the picture of his domineering nature. This is not a man who goes to the store to buy limes himself, but tasks his wife with buying them, and then calls from the kitchen to ask if she remembered his request, rather than walking into the other room to ask her or (heaven forbid) looking for the limes himself. One can understand why Lionel might not be jumping on board with the whole marriage proposition, if Lorna and Brendan are his role models.
And in fact, Brendan is largely representative of the male characters in Munro's book. If I have a complaint about the collection, it's this uniformity of male callousness: although we occasionally see a long-married couple who are genuinely caring toward one another (if mutually deeply flawed), or a pair of total strangers who manage to achieve a moment of unfettered connection, for the most part Munro's men are controlling, unfaithful jerks, taking the women around them for granted and generally acting like petulant toddlers. And I don't mean to suggest that Munro does not evoke this character type with great skill and sensitivity, because she absolutely does—and in fact, many of these male characters, in her hands, end up eliciting some degree of sympathy in the reader's mind: quite a feat considering their collective behavior. Munro's analysis of the gender roles in these stories acknowledges that the mainstream culture of the 1950s and 60s set up young men to be the assholes they sometimes turned out, just as those same decades socialized women to be submissive and self-denigrating, simultaneously responsible for raising children and reduced to a child-like state themselves. In the excellent story "What is Remembered," one of the highlights of the collection for me, the narrator writes:
So the men don't have a roadmap for how to live, any more than the women do. They, too, are working to conform to certain societal expectations. Yes.
Even so, I've known a good number of men from this generation (or slightly older: my grandparents' generation), and most of them were not domineering, not unkind to their wives or dismissive of their wives' opinions. True, I didn't know them when they were young men. Munro's older characters are significantly gentler with each other than her younger ones, albeit sometimes oddly so. To some degree even the younger characters are not being unkind given their social context: they assume it's the simple truth that a husband's role is to dictate and a wife's is to obey. This is a systemic problem more than a fault of individuals. Still. Munro's bone of contention got a bit monotonous at times, as much as I agree with her insights. The sameness of male/female relationships in the collection dulled the impact of stories which, individually or in more varied company, would have all packed the same kind of punch as the first few did.
In addition to said bones, though, this collection offers lots of meat. It will be rewarding to return to individual stories in the future, which I think will be a more palatable way of appreciating Munro than reading a collection of hers cover to cover. And there is plenty here to appreciate: the role of memory throughout these stories, for example, and how we mold our recollections to fill the functions we need them to, forgetting or imagining where it is convenient. Or how Munro so cleanly and expertly handles shifts in time, quietly moving the reader forward and backward in a given history with no unnecessary apparatus and hardly a hiccup in the narrative flow. It's not a Woolfian vision of simultaneity; while the characters often recollect their pasts, the past is not present to them as it is to Clarissa Dalloway or Peter Walsh—but the narrative engine is so weightless and nimble that it can position the reader neatly at any desired perspective point vis-à-vis the action, and whisk them to a different one with no fuss at all, with absolute clarity. (The opening paragraphs of "Family Furnishings" are excellent at this, and the titular story shows a similar character-based flexibility in its use of a roving limited third-person narrator.)
Munro is not comfort reading, in other words, but in small doses I will definitely be returning to her hard, occasionally tender, lying world.
Munro, it should be stressed, is a magnificent craftsman. One of the reasons these stories, at 20 or 30 pages, feel like whole super-condensed novels, is their author's extreme economy of language, her ability to establish whole histories with one or two well-chosen words, which often occur in a paragraph seemingly devoted to another task entirely. In the story "Post and Beam," for example, the graduate student Lionel contemplates the married life of his professor and the professor's wife, a couple he has come to socialize with on occasion:
He came to see them in the evenings, when the children were in bed. The slight intrusions of domestic life—the cry of the baby reaching them through an open window, the scolding Brendan sometimes had to give Lorna about toys left lying on the grass, instead of being put back in the sandbox, the call from the kitchen asking if she had remembered to buy limes for the gin and tonic—all seemed to cause a shiver, a tightening of Lionel's tall, narrow body and intent, distrustful face.
Not only do we get a portrait of a summer evening here, the ambient twilight stimuli as the adults have a drink together, but we also get Lionel's aversion to the everyday accouterments of married life (he comes after the children are in bed, shivers at Lorna and Brendan's everyday interactions). We also get a solid idea of the dynamic between Lorna and Brendan: their marriage follows traditional gender roles in that she is the one expected to take responsibility for cleaning up the children's toys and doing the shopping; if she slips up, Brendan not just allowed but obliged ("had to") to give her a scolding about it. That "had to" might indicate, since we are in his head at the moment, Lionel's point of view, his acceptance of the standard husband/wife hierarchy—although the rest of the story gives the impression that none of these characters would object to the phrase, even as the lack of equality and human understanding in her marriage is making Lorna actively unhappy. Even the addition of "remembered" ("the call from the kitchen asking if she had remembered to buy limes for the gin and tonic") adds to multiple aspects of the marital portrait. On the one hand, it speaks to the familiarity of husband and wife: probably everyone who has shared a household has yelled this type of question at one time or another. On the other hand, combined with Brendan's disconnection from his children and scolding of his wife, his phrasing adds to the picture of his domineering nature. This is not a man who goes to the store to buy limes himself, but tasks his wife with buying them, and then calls from the kitchen to ask if she remembered his request, rather than walking into the other room to ask her or (heaven forbid) looking for the limes himself. One can understand why Lionel might not be jumping on board with the whole marriage proposition, if Lorna and Brendan are his role models.
And in fact, Brendan is largely representative of the male characters in Munro's book. If I have a complaint about the collection, it's this uniformity of male callousness: although we occasionally see a long-married couple who are genuinely caring toward one another (if mutually deeply flawed), or a pair of total strangers who manage to achieve a moment of unfettered connection, for the most part Munro's men are controlling, unfaithful jerks, taking the women around them for granted and generally acting like petulant toddlers. And I don't mean to suggest that Munro does not evoke this character type with great skill and sensitivity, because she absolutely does—and in fact, many of these male characters, in her hands, end up eliciting some degree of sympathy in the reader's mind: quite a feat considering their collective behavior. Munro's analysis of the gender roles in these stories acknowledges that the mainstream culture of the 1950s and 60s set up young men to be the assholes they sometimes turned out, just as those same decades socialized women to be submissive and self-denigrating, simultaneously responsible for raising children and reduced to a child-like state themselves. In the excellent story "What is Remembered," one of the highlights of the collection for me, the narrator writes:
Young husbands were stern, in those days. Just a short time before, they had been suitors, almost figures of fun, knock-kneed and desperate in their sexual agonies. Now, bedded down, they turned resolute and disapproving. Off to work every morning, clean-shaven, youthful necks in knotted ties, days spent in unknown labors, home again at suppertime to take a critical glance at the evening meal and to shake out the newspaper, hold it up between themselves and the muddle of the kitchen, the ailments and emotions, the babies. What a lot they had to learn. How to kowtow to bosses and how to manage wives.
So the men don't have a roadmap for how to live, any more than the women do. They, too, are working to conform to certain societal expectations. Yes.
Even so, I've known a good number of men from this generation (or slightly older: my grandparents' generation), and most of them were not domineering, not unkind to their wives or dismissive of their wives' opinions. True, I didn't know them when they were young men. Munro's older characters are significantly gentler with each other than her younger ones, albeit sometimes oddly so. To some degree even the younger characters are not being unkind given their social context: they assume it's the simple truth that a husband's role is to dictate and a wife's is to obey. This is a systemic problem more than a fault of individuals. Still. Munro's bone of contention got a bit monotonous at times, as much as I agree with her insights. The sameness of male/female relationships in the collection dulled the impact of stories which, individually or in more varied company, would have all packed the same kind of punch as the first few did.
In addition to said bones, though, this collection offers lots of meat. It will be rewarding to return to individual stories in the future, which I think will be a more palatable way of appreciating Munro than reading a collection of hers cover to cover. And there is plenty here to appreciate: the role of memory throughout these stories, for example, and how we mold our recollections to fill the functions we need them to, forgetting or imagining where it is convenient. Or how Munro so cleanly and expertly handles shifts in time, quietly moving the reader forward and backward in a given history with no unnecessary apparatus and hardly a hiccup in the narrative flow. It's not a Woolfian vision of simultaneity; while the characters often recollect their pasts, the past is not present to them as it is to Clarissa Dalloway or Peter Walsh—but the narrative engine is so weightless and nimble that it can position the reader neatly at any desired perspective point vis-à-vis the action, and whisk them to a different one with no fuss at all, with absolute clarity. (The opening paragraphs of "Family Furnishings" are excellent at this, and the titular story shows a similar character-based flexibility in its use of a roving limited third-person narrator.)
Munro is not comfort reading, in other words, but in small doses I will definitely be returning to her hard, occasionally tender, lying world.
November 16, 2019
I find myself shamefully admitting that I have made a huge effort to finish this book, it is not the first time I read Alice Munro, but in this work I found myself in serious difficulty to appreciate anything....
I have no idea if this was due to the Italian translation, in my opinion not perfect, but the writing seemed to me tedious and syntactically too pompous and unnecessarily complex.
There was not even one of the characters that somehow captured my soul, it’s a bit like I read a warranty manual of some appliance.
Love, marriage friendship...... I can compare them like this: I found fluffy words in a windy day. I also asked to a dear friend of mine who teaches Literature at the University how it is possible to have had such an indifferent reaction to this great writer, And I heard the answer that so many people find themselves full in love with one of her opera, and then remain unscathed after the reading of a second book of her. I feel like I betrayed someone or something.
Mi ritrovo vergognosamente ad ammettere di aver fatto una fatica enorme a terminare questo libro, non è la prima volta che leggo Alice Munro, ma in questa opera mi sono trovata in seria difficoltà ad apprezzare qualche cosa.....
Non ho idea se ciò sia dipeso dalla traduzione italiana, a mio parere non perfetta, purtroppo la scrittura mi è sembrata tediosa e sintatticamente troppo pomposa e inutilmente complessa.
Non vi è stato neanche uno dei personaggi che abbia in qualche modo catturato il mio animo, è un pò come se avessi letto un manuale di garanzia di qualche elettrodomestico.
Amore, matrimonio amicizia...... posso paragonarle così:le ho trovate parole vaporose in una giornata di vento. Ho chiesto anche ad una amica docente di Letteratura all' Università, come sia possibile aver avuto una reazione così indifferente a questa grande scritttrice, e mi sono sentita rispondere che in tantissimi si ritrovano ad amarla alla follia per un opera, e poi rimanere imperterriti finita la lettura di un suo secondo libro. Mi sento come se avessi tradito qualcuno o qualcosa.....
I have no idea if this was due to the Italian translation, in my opinion not perfect, but the writing seemed to me tedious and syntactically too pompous and unnecessarily complex.
There was not even one of the characters that somehow captured my soul, it’s a bit like I read a warranty manual of some appliance.
Love, marriage friendship...... I can compare them like this: I found fluffy words in a windy day. I also asked to a dear friend of mine who teaches Literature at the University how it is possible to have had such an indifferent reaction to this great writer, And I heard the answer that so many people find themselves full in love with one of her opera, and then remain unscathed after the reading of a second book of her. I feel like I betrayed someone or something.
Mi ritrovo vergognosamente ad ammettere di aver fatto una fatica enorme a terminare questo libro, non è la prima volta che leggo Alice Munro, ma in questa opera mi sono trovata in seria difficoltà ad apprezzare qualche cosa.....
Non ho idea se ciò sia dipeso dalla traduzione italiana, a mio parere non perfetta, purtroppo la scrittura mi è sembrata tediosa e sintatticamente troppo pomposa e inutilmente complessa.
Non vi è stato neanche uno dei personaggi che abbia in qualche modo catturato il mio animo, è un pò come se avessi letto un manuale di garanzia di qualche elettrodomestico.
Amore, matrimonio amicizia...... posso paragonarle così:le ho trovate parole vaporose in una giornata di vento. Ho chiesto anche ad una amica docente di Letteratura all' Università, come sia possibile aver avuto una reazione così indifferente a questa grande scritttrice, e mi sono sentita rispondere che in tantissimi si ritrovano ad amarla alla follia per un opera, e poi rimanere imperterriti finita la lettura di un suo secondo libro. Mi sento come se avessi tradito qualcuno o qualcosa.....
March 7, 2020
Every time I read Munro, I wonder what took me so long to get back to her. But it’s good to have space with her. Her stories are overwhelming, leaving you thinking long past you’ve read their last pages. A story I thought would be my least favorite (“What Is Remembered”), I read a second time because my mind was completely changed by its end.
Her characters linger in the mind and the themes—family furniture; suicide; marriages of the 1950s and 60s, and their expectations; ‘extraneous’ people as comfort, or bridges—need to percolate. Nothing is clear-cut in any of these finely crafted stories, or in the lovely prose of her endings in particular, though I love the way she words everything, her articulation of feelings and of moments that mean more than something momentary. Her handling of time is masterful. Each story is as rich as a novel.
One story in particular (“Floating Bridge”) reminded me that life is not one big epiphany (like some short stories make it seem), but a series of mini-epiphanies, not all of which will stick, most having only that momentary effect, but even that helps with life’s rough spots.
Her characters linger in the mind and the themes—family furniture; suicide; marriages of the 1950s and 60s, and their expectations; ‘extraneous’ people as comfort, or bridges—need to percolate. Nothing is clear-cut in any of these finely crafted stories, or in the lovely prose of her endings in particular, though I love the way she words everything, her articulation of feelings and of moments that mean more than something momentary. Her handling of time is masterful. Each story is as rich as a novel.
One story in particular (“Floating Bridge”) reminded me that life is not one big epiphany (like some short stories make it seem), but a series of mini-epiphanies, not all of which will stick, most having only that momentary effect, but even that helps with life’s rough spots.
July 1, 2024
بعد قراءة كل أعمال الكاتبة الكندية أليس مونرو تقريبا على مدى أربع سنوات (الحاصلة على نوبل لعام ٢٠١٣( كانت لي تلك الأفكار
أولاً: تغيرت تماما بالنسبة لي الصورة البديعة المشرقة لكندا. أرض اللبن والعسل وحلم كل من يريد الهجرة. كندا المثالية التي عرفتها منذ زمن في رواية الأطفال الشهيرة "آن في المرتفعات الخضراء".
عرفت من أليس مونرو أنه حتى الخمسينات، كانت البراري والقرى الكندية في حال أكثر بؤساً من قرى الصعيد عندنا في مصر. فهذا الشعب "شرب المر" حتى وصل لما وصل إليه.
ثانياً: ستكره أليس مونرو، ثم ستحبها، ثم تنفر منها، ثم تسأل نفسك لماذا انت ماضٍ في قراءة الكتاب السادس أو السابع لها مادامت تثير داخلك كل تلك المشاعر المختلطة من الدهشة والنفور والسعادة والشفقة والألم والملل. ثم تجد نفسك تقوم-بلهفة-بتحميل المجموعات القصصية الأخرى التي لم تقرأها لها. ثم تحبها ثم تكرهها، وهكذا.
ثالثا: لن تلقى في عالم مونرو وجودا للمشاعر والأحاسيس البشرية بشكلها الواضح والمعروف والمألوف لنا. لا يوجد إحساس صاف بداخل أي شخصية. سواء حب أو كراهية أو صداقة أو أمومة. مش عارفة اشرحها أزاي والله. الشعور لدى الشخصية عندها موظف لخدمة الموقف وحسب. او هى تصف المشاعر بشكل مادي بحت، او ربما هى لا تؤمن بالمشاعر. لا أعرف.
رابعا: هما كل الستات في كندا بيخونوا اجوازهم؟؟؟؟معقولة دي يعني؟
خامسا: لو كتبت أليس كونرو أدبا بوليسيا لتفوقت على أجاثا كريستي.
سادسا: أريد معروفا ممن قرأ لها وقرأ لتشيكوف، ما هو سر إصرار النقاد الكبير على تشبيهها به؟ صحيح لم أقرأ لتشيكوف منذ عشر سنوات، ولكني قرأت معظم ما كتبه. ولا أجد أي وجه للتشابه بين أسلوبه واسلوبها. فتشيكوف اسلوبه أكثر عاطفية وحرارة من أسلوب مونرو التقريري الصارم. تشيكوف لديه حب وتعاطف مع شخصياته لم أجده في شخصيات مونرو.
أخيرا: أليس مونرو كاتبة خلاقة وصادقة وصادمة بمنتهى الهدوء. أقرأوا لها، ستحبوها وتكرهوها ثم تملوها ثم تحبوها ثم تكرهوها وهكذا.
أولاً: تغيرت تماما بالنسبة لي الصورة البديعة المشرقة لكندا. أرض اللبن والعسل وحلم كل من يريد الهجرة. كندا المثالية التي عرفتها منذ زمن في رواية الأطفال الشهيرة "آن في المرتفعات الخضراء".
عرفت من أليس مونرو أنه حتى الخمسينات، كانت البراري والقرى الكندية في حال أكثر بؤساً من قرى الصعيد عندنا في مصر. فهذا الشعب "شرب المر" حتى وصل لما وصل إليه.
ثانياً: ستكره أليس مونرو، ثم ستحبها، ثم تنفر منها، ثم تسأل نفسك لماذا انت ماضٍ في قراءة الكتاب السادس أو السابع لها مادامت تثير داخلك كل تلك المشاعر المختلطة من الدهشة والنفور والسعادة والشفقة والألم والملل. ثم تجد نفسك تقوم-بلهفة-بتحميل المجموعات القصصية الأخرى التي لم تقرأها لها. ثم تحبها ثم تكرهها، وهكذا.
ثالثا: لن تلقى في عالم مونرو وجودا للمشاعر والأحاسيس البشرية بشكلها الواضح والمعروف والمألوف لنا. لا يوجد إحساس صاف بداخل أي شخصية. سواء حب أو كراهية أو صداقة أو أمومة. مش عارفة اشرحها أزاي والله. الشعور لدى الشخصية عندها موظف لخدمة الموقف وحسب. او هى تصف المشاعر بشكل مادي بحت، او ربما هى لا تؤمن بالمشاعر. لا أعرف.
رابعا: هما كل الستات في كندا بيخونوا اجوازهم؟؟؟؟معقولة دي يعني؟
خامسا: لو كتبت أليس كونرو أدبا بوليسيا لتفوقت على أجاثا كريستي.
سادسا: أريد معروفا ممن قرأ لها وقرأ لتشيكوف، ما هو سر إصرار النقاد الكبير على تشبيهها به؟ صحيح لم أقرأ لتشيكوف منذ عشر سنوات، ولكني قرأت معظم ما كتبه. ولا أجد أي وجه للتشابه بين أسلوبه واسلوبها. فتشيكوف اسلوبه أكثر عاطفية وحرارة من أسلوب مونرو التقريري الصارم. تشيكوف لديه حب وتعاطف مع شخصياته لم أجده في شخصيات مونرو.
أخيرا: أليس مونرو كاتبة خلاقة وصادقة وصادمة بمنتهى الهدوء. أقرأوا لها، ستحبوها وتكرهوها ثم تملوها ثم تحبوها ثم تكرهوها وهكذا.
July 4, 2022
It's the last story that is uppermost in your mind when you come to write a review of a book of short stories and the last story in this collection was the most contrived and least successful and sucked away some of my immense enthusiasm for the book. It's about a man who puts his wife in a nursing home (not a very credible nursing home) where she forgets him and falls in love with another of the residents. Probably seemed like a great idea to Munro but it's laboured and never quite adds up. Shame because many of the earlier stories were brilliant. Munro's stories are like mini novels in which, rather than depicting a moment in a life, she depicts an entire life.
July 24, 2011
If this book had been a novel, I would have put it down after the first 50 pages. However, because it is a collection of short stories, I convinced myself that maybe the next story would be more interesting; if I didn't keep reading, I might not be giving Munro a fair chance.
Alas, I reached the end of the book and felt nothing but relief--relief that it was over. Munro is a lovely writer, with a good command of language, but her choice of subject matter, story development, and characters was uninspiring. With a title like "Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage," I expected at least a little bit of drama or intrigue. Or, if Munro left out suspense, then I expected at least a few stories to make me feel something: anger or sadness or indignation. Instead, what I felt--if anything--was melancholy. But really, I mostly felt bored and restless to "get on with it."
This summary by one Amazon reviewer gives my impression of the book to a T: "To be fair, I admit [Munro] is a good writer, technically speaking. It's just that she doesn't write about anything interesting. . . . Quick story rundown: a married lady has cancer, urinates in someone's driveway, then kisses their son. The end. Yay, that was neat."
January 7, 2016
Reading Munro is daunting at first: you can't read her stories like other people's. I thought I could get through at my usual 75%- concentration, skimming past the details of the cousin's wedding and blah blah other accessory nonsense. But with Munro, nothing can be taken as accessory! You'll read for three pages, realise you haven't been paying attention and that Munro won't throw you a pronoun other than "she", and you're like, 'Who is she? Ahhh, I'll keep reading for a few more pages and pick it up', and then "she" kisses "him" and five years later "he" dies and the story ends.
So I got to page 60, realised I wasn't picking up what was going on, and started again. And suddenly I was trained to read Munro, and in so trained, I realised I could probably read just about any of her books, since all the stories are written in the same clear, conversational tone, dipping off the narrative for nanoseconds to add beautiful psychological insights about the characters and most of the time, by extension, about people you know.
Sure, these stories are very Chekhovian, but never quite as tragic. There is much more life affirmation, slowing down to appreciate little moments in people's lives that at the time didn't seem so important but get them thinking hard decades later when they see a particular flower or fabric pattern that throws them back to their uncle's farm as kids. Wonder for other lives unlived is never delivered without love of the path chosen, and this balance permeates the stories in many other aspects.
Munro is a beautiful writer, and I can't wait to read all her books, and here's a tangible reason why you should too!
http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/10...
(well done, literature! I knew it!)
So I got to page 60, realised I wasn't picking up what was going on, and started again. And suddenly I was trained to read Munro, and in so trained, I realised I could probably read just about any of her books, since all the stories are written in the same clear, conversational tone, dipping off the narrative for nanoseconds to add beautiful psychological insights about the characters and most of the time, by extension, about people you know.
Sure, these stories are very Chekhovian, but never quite as tragic. There is much more life affirmation, slowing down to appreciate little moments in people's lives that at the time didn't seem so important but get them thinking hard decades later when they see a particular flower or fabric pattern that throws them back to their uncle's farm as kids. Wonder for other lives unlived is never delivered without love of the path chosen, and this balance permeates the stories in many other aspects.
Munro is a beautiful writer, and I can't wait to read all her books, and here's a tangible reason why you should too!
http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/10...
(well done, literature! I knew it!)
March 31, 2018
Contingenze.
Qualche giorno fa un amico aNobiiano mi ha detto che non vedeva l'ora di leggere il mio commento a questi racconti di Alice Munro. Gli ho risposto: Spero di riuscire a scriverne qualcosa, sono talmente belli che sono senza parole, come di fronte a un quadro. Ecco, magari parto proprio da qui.
Ecco, magari parto proprio da qui, da quel cono di luce che all'improvviso illumina esistenze normali, che ravviva quotidianità che camminano nella penombra su binari che corrono paralleli all'infinito, che devia anche solo per un momento il corso della vita, che modifica la rotta. E pensando a quel cono di luce, a quel quadro in cui le ombre hanno la stessa importanza di quei particolari che vengono illuminati, esaltati, posti in evidenza, non posso fare a meno di pensare a Caravaggio, che con un particolare è capace di illuminare una scena intera, anche se la maggior parte del quadro è immerso nell'ombra.
Alice Munro ha il dono della chiarezza, della luminosità, la capacità di portare in superficie tutti quei pensieri e quelle incertezze che si agitano nell'animo femminile, di raccontare tutto quello che le donne non dicono, di accendere una luce nell'ombra e di guardarle dall'interno.
Le sue sono donne imperfette, ma belle proprio per questo, donne che in questi nove racconti si confrontano, ciascuna con una sua propria grazia e inadeguatezza, con l'universo maschile, un universo fatto di nemici amici mariti spasimanti amanti, di vite che si sfiorano, si intrecciano, si separano. Le donne della Munro hanno ciascuna dentro di sé una parte del proprio essere sconosciuta a tutti, forse persino a se stesse, che amano contro tutti, che tradiscono contro tutti, che fuggono da tutti, che combattono contro tutti, che combattono contro se stesse, e lei, Alice Munro, le osserva senza indulgenza, mostrandole così come sono, nude davanti ai propri sentimenti, ma forti come querce, perché disposte a seguirli.
C'è qualcosa in questi racconti, e forse non dipende solo dal fatto che l'autrice sia canadese e quindi le atmosfere si assomiglino, che mi ha fatto pensare a Elizabeth Strout e alle sue protagoniste, da Olive Kitteridge e Amy e Isabelle, ma anche all'Annie Proulx di Avviso ai naviganti: c'è qualcosa di apparentemente gelido nel loro modo di scrivere, una sistematicità che fa sentire indifesi, ma che all'improvviso irradia calore e diventa avvolgente, una capacità unica che permette a ciascuno di noi di ritrovare un particolare di se stesso in ogni racconto.
Forse è proprio quello stesso insistere, quello stesso modo di scavare dentro a storie di quotidiana ordinarietà che invece celano tumulti difficili da contenere, quella particolarità, che mi era piaciuta molto anche in Amy e Isabelle, di raccontare il contrasto tra paesaggi tranquillizzanti ma stranianti, in cui tutti i sussulti difficilmente si condividono e ciascuno preferisce continuare a portarlo dentro di sé, la descrizione di terremoti interiori e disagi, ma anche passioni travolgenti, in cui ci si sente soli contro il mondo; forse è tutto questo che me la sta facendo tanto amare e sentire vicina, che l'ha fatta divenire una scoperta preziosa.
Forse.
Oppure no, ma non importa, davanti ai capolavori generalmente si tace ed ognuno pensa quello che vuole.
«Nemico, amico, amante…»
«Il ponte galleggiante»
«Mobili di famiglia»
«Conforto»
«Ortiche»
«Post and Beam»
«Quello che si ricorda»
«Queenie»
«The Bear Came Over the Mountain»
Come fare a dire qual è il più bello o quali sono i più belli? Sarebbe come scegliere una perla della stessa collana, una pennellata dello stesso quadro, una stella dello stesso cielo; posso solo dire che Il ponte galleggiante - Ortiche avendoli riletti (sono stati pubblicati nella collana Racconti d'Autore de Il Sole 24 ore) li ho assimilati e respirati con un'intensità ancora maggiore, ma che anche gli altri, su tutti l'ultimo «The Bear Came Over the Mountain» che affronta con una tenerezza impossibile da raccontare un tema a me molto caro, quello della vecchiaia, della malattia e del distacco, hanno ciascuno una propria unicità, un riflesso impossibile da cogliere negli altri. Tutti insieme lasciano senza fiato, come il cielo stellato di una notte d'Agosto.
Qualche giorno fa un amico aNobiiano mi ha detto che non vedeva l'ora di leggere il mio commento a questi racconti di Alice Munro. Gli ho risposto: Spero di riuscire a scriverne qualcosa, sono talmente belli che sono senza parole, come di fronte a un quadro. Ecco, magari parto proprio da qui.
Ecco, magari parto proprio da qui, da quel cono di luce che all'improvviso illumina esistenze normali, che ravviva quotidianità che camminano nella penombra su binari che corrono paralleli all'infinito, che devia anche solo per un momento il corso della vita, che modifica la rotta. E pensando a quel cono di luce, a quel quadro in cui le ombre hanno la stessa importanza di quei particolari che vengono illuminati, esaltati, posti in evidenza, non posso fare a meno di pensare a Caravaggio, che con un particolare è capace di illuminare una scena intera, anche se la maggior parte del quadro è immerso nell'ombra.
Alice Munro ha il dono della chiarezza, della luminosità, la capacità di portare in superficie tutti quei pensieri e quelle incertezze che si agitano nell'animo femminile, di raccontare tutto quello che le donne non dicono, di accendere una luce nell'ombra e di guardarle dall'interno.
Le sue sono donne imperfette, ma belle proprio per questo, donne che in questi nove racconti si confrontano, ciascuna con una sua propria grazia e inadeguatezza, con l'universo maschile, un universo fatto di nemici amici mariti spasimanti amanti, di vite che si sfiorano, si intrecciano, si separano. Le donne della Munro hanno ciascuna dentro di sé una parte del proprio essere sconosciuta a tutti, forse persino a se stesse, che amano contro tutti, che tradiscono contro tutti, che fuggono da tutti, che combattono contro tutti, che combattono contro se stesse, e lei, Alice Munro, le osserva senza indulgenza, mostrandole così come sono, nude davanti ai propri sentimenti, ma forti come querce, perché disposte a seguirli.
C'è qualcosa in questi racconti, e forse non dipende solo dal fatto che l'autrice sia canadese e quindi le atmosfere si assomiglino, che mi ha fatto pensare a Elizabeth Strout e alle sue protagoniste, da Olive Kitteridge e Amy e Isabelle, ma anche all'Annie Proulx di Avviso ai naviganti: c'è qualcosa di apparentemente gelido nel loro modo di scrivere, una sistematicità che fa sentire indifesi, ma che all'improvviso irradia calore e diventa avvolgente, una capacità unica che permette a ciascuno di noi di ritrovare un particolare di se stesso in ogni racconto.
Forse è proprio quello stesso insistere, quello stesso modo di scavare dentro a storie di quotidiana ordinarietà che invece celano tumulti difficili da contenere, quella particolarità, che mi era piaciuta molto anche in Amy e Isabelle, di raccontare il contrasto tra paesaggi tranquillizzanti ma stranianti, in cui tutti i sussulti difficilmente si condividono e ciascuno preferisce continuare a portarlo dentro di sé, la descrizione di terremoti interiori e disagi, ma anche passioni travolgenti, in cui ci si sente soli contro il mondo; forse è tutto questo che me la sta facendo tanto amare e sentire vicina, che l'ha fatta divenire una scoperta preziosa.
Forse.
Oppure no, ma non importa, davanti ai capolavori generalmente si tace ed ognuno pensa quello che vuole.
«Nemico, amico, amante…»
«Il ponte galleggiante»
«Mobili di famiglia»
«Conforto»
«Ortiche»
«Post and Beam»
«Quello che si ricorda»
«Queenie»
«The Bear Came Over the Mountain»
Come fare a dire qual è il più bello o quali sono i più belli? Sarebbe come scegliere una perla della stessa collana, una pennellata dello stesso quadro, una stella dello stesso cielo; posso solo dire che Il ponte galleggiante - Ortiche avendoli riletti (sono stati pubblicati nella collana Racconti d'Autore de Il Sole 24 ore) li ho assimilati e respirati con un'intensità ancora maggiore, ma che anche gli altri, su tutti l'ultimo «The Bear Came Over the Mountain» che affronta con una tenerezza impossibile da raccontare un tema a me molto caro, quello della vecchiaia, della malattia e del distacco, hanno ciascuno una propria unicità, un riflesso impossibile da cogliere negli altri. Tutti insieme lasciano senza fiato, come il cielo stellato di una notte d'Agosto.
October 28, 2019
Alice Munro, where have you been all my life?! The level of observation and psychological insight on show in this collection, the ability to explore and portray complex human emotions in just a few sentences - these are the reasons I read fiction. I feel giddy about the many Munro books I have yet to read.
There are nine stories in this one, set mostly in western Canada. The protagonists are mainly women and over the course of only a few pages, we learn so much about their lives. The love and loss that has shaped them, the missed opportunities they still think about, the brief encounters that made an enormous impact on them. In Nettles, the narrator is reunited many years later with her teenage crush, and her emotions run from exhilaration to disappointment. Floating Bridge tells of a cancer patient who is reliant on her flaky husband, and an unexpected respite from her predicament. In The Bear Came Over The Mountain, an unfaithful husband has to manage his wife's dementia and adapt to her contentment without him.
But my absolute favourite was the title story. It's about a plain country girl named Johanna, without family or friends, working as a housekeeper for an old man: "Her teeth were crowded to the front of her mouth as if they were ready for an argument." Up to now she has accepted her life of little prospect, but hope suddenly springs in the form of correspondence with a man on the other side of the country, who has been hinting at his own loneliness and how much he thinks of Johanna. She decides to risk it all on this one shot at happiness, buying a one-way ticket to the distant town where her penpal resides and spending a large sum on a fancy dress in which she might be married: "Even when she was younger she could never have contemplated such extravagance, not just in the matter of money but in expectations, in the preposterous hope of transformation, and bliss." What she doesn't know is that the man's estranged daughter has been cruelly fabricating her father's replies, and he has no idea that Johanna is on her way to spend the rest of her life with him. It's an utterly compelling read and has one of the most satisfying endings I have ever encountered.
All I can say is that I'm amazed I didn't get to Alice Munro sooner. The depth of these meticulously crafted tales, her precise examination of everyday life, her sharp observation of human behaviour - all of these things are right up my street. Maybe a couple of the stories didn't speak to me as much as others, but the ones I loved, I really loved. I can't wait to read more of her work.
There are nine stories in this one, set mostly in western Canada. The protagonists are mainly women and over the course of only a few pages, we learn so much about their lives. The love and loss that has shaped them, the missed opportunities they still think about, the brief encounters that made an enormous impact on them. In Nettles, the narrator is reunited many years later with her teenage crush, and her emotions run from exhilaration to disappointment. Floating Bridge tells of a cancer patient who is reliant on her flaky husband, and an unexpected respite from her predicament. In The Bear Came Over The Mountain, an unfaithful husband has to manage his wife's dementia and adapt to her contentment without him.
But my absolute favourite was the title story. It's about a plain country girl named Johanna, without family or friends, working as a housekeeper for an old man: "Her teeth were crowded to the front of her mouth as if they were ready for an argument." Up to now she has accepted her life of little prospect, but hope suddenly springs in the form of correspondence with a man on the other side of the country, who has been hinting at his own loneliness and how much he thinks of Johanna. She decides to risk it all on this one shot at happiness, buying a one-way ticket to the distant town where her penpal resides and spending a large sum on a fancy dress in which she might be married: "Even when she was younger she could never have contemplated such extravagance, not just in the matter of money but in expectations, in the preposterous hope of transformation, and bliss." What she doesn't know is that the man's estranged daughter has been cruelly fabricating her father's replies, and he has no idea that Johanna is on her way to spend the rest of her life with him. It's an utterly compelling read and has one of the most satisfying endings I have ever encountered.
All I can say is that I'm amazed I didn't get to Alice Munro sooner. The depth of these meticulously crafted tales, her precise examination of everyday life, her sharp observation of human behaviour - all of these things are right up my street. Maybe a couple of the stories didn't speak to me as much as others, but the ones I loved, I really loved. I can't wait to read more of her work.
June 14, 2019
Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage is my fifth book by Alice Munro and also the least pleasing. Munro writes exceptionally fine prose and if I were to rate this collection of short stories on prose alone, I would give this five stars. I continue to marvel at Munro’s facility to express the intractable, the sublimal, and the unutterable with startling clarity.
The nine stories depict a host of flawed individuals who make no apology for their flawed lives. They are difficult to read because the patterns of failed relationships and ailing marriages repeat themselves to a nauseating degree.
There are stories about individuals who are disgruntled with their lot in life and who go all out to do what they can to escape the confines of their circumstances. This is evident in the titular story of a poor and needy housekeeper using her wits to raise her social status via marriage (assisted fortuitously by two wicked teenagers who wrote love letters on her behalf as a prank). It is also revealed in ‘Home Furnishings’, a coming-of-age story of a rural Ontario girl, whose relationship with an aunt she used to adore for leading a glamorous city life, turns sour. A university education and social opportunities shape her identity in ways that make her appraise her family relationships with new eyes. Scorn and resentment replace admiration and respect. Of a lie that her father felt obliged to tell this aunt, she said, “That was the kind of lie that I hoped never to have to tell again, the contempt I hoped never to have to show, about the things that really mattered to me. And in order not to have to do that, I would pretty well have to stay clear of the people I used to know.” However, the narrator herself is not all that different from her aunt. Both are writers of sorts; both have had failed relationships. ‘Family furnishings’ has taken on new poignancy. Whether we like it or not, our families are inextricably a part of our identity and destiny. In ‘Floating Bridge’, a terminally ill woman has an unexpected reaction to news that chemotherapy has shrunk her cancer cells. She is upset because she realizes that it has removed a certain low-grade freedom.
Almost all the stories cast marriage in a horribly negative light. Infidelity and adultery are dominant themes. In ‘Comfort’ and ‘Nettles,’ infidelity is subtle and lurks in the shadows. While ‘Comfort’ captures Nina’s grief of losing her husband to suicide, it is strangely out of place to read about her entertaining a fleeting attraction to Ed, the embalmer. The potential for dalliance hangs in the air and strikes me as distasteful. In ‘Nettles,’ two childhood friends, both married and having weathered disappointments, are reunited in adulthood. The tension for physical intimacy is rendered palpable and one hears the echo of a ‘love that was not usable, that knew its place.’
The stories about adultery are gravely unsettling. In ‘What Is Remembered,’ Meriel, a married woman is introduced to a doctor when she and her husband are attending a funeral in a different city. The doctor offers her a ride for a social visit she needs to make. Within the space of an afternoon, a mutual attraction morphs into lust and the inevitable. Meriel is to remember every detail of that afternoon of betrayal for the rest of her life. I am repulsed at how Munro cast adultery as a sweet offering to be savored over and over. To continually revisit aspects of an illicit intimacy that were missed at earlier recollections is the ultimate betrayal. In ‘The Bear Came Over the Mountain,’ Grant, a philanderer, finds himself in an odd situation when his 70-year-old wife (Fiona) who has dementia developed a romance with Aubrey, another dementia patient in a nursing home. It is also oddly touching to learn the extent to which Grant goes to bring Aubrey who has been discharged back to visit Fiona when she misses Aubrey. Grant loves his wife but prides himself as being a better man than others who cheat on their wives because unlike them, he does not leave her. He makes the philandering life seem like a cross to bear: “Nowhere was there any acknowledgement that the life of a philanderer... involved acts of kindness and generosity and even sacrifice... Many times he had catered to a woman’s pride, to her fragility, by offering more affection - or a rougher passion - than anything he really felt.” I wish I could punch him!
Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage grapples with the ugly side of human relationships in a non-judgmental and matter-of-fact manner. It is as though Alice Munro is saying, “This is life. Take it or leave it.” I am leaving it.
The nine stories depict a host of flawed individuals who make no apology for their flawed lives. They are difficult to read because the patterns of failed relationships and ailing marriages repeat themselves to a nauseating degree.
There are stories about individuals who are disgruntled with their lot in life and who go all out to do what they can to escape the confines of their circumstances. This is evident in the titular story of a poor and needy housekeeper using her wits to raise her social status via marriage (assisted fortuitously by two wicked teenagers who wrote love letters on her behalf as a prank). It is also revealed in ‘Home Furnishings’, a coming-of-age story of a rural Ontario girl, whose relationship with an aunt she used to adore for leading a glamorous city life, turns sour. A university education and social opportunities shape her identity in ways that make her appraise her family relationships with new eyes. Scorn and resentment replace admiration and respect. Of a lie that her father felt obliged to tell this aunt, she said, “That was the kind of lie that I hoped never to have to tell again, the contempt I hoped never to have to show, about the things that really mattered to me. And in order not to have to do that, I would pretty well have to stay clear of the people I used to know.” However, the narrator herself is not all that different from her aunt. Both are writers of sorts; both have had failed relationships. ‘Family furnishings’ has taken on new poignancy. Whether we like it or not, our families are inextricably a part of our identity and destiny. In ‘Floating Bridge’, a terminally ill woman has an unexpected reaction to news that chemotherapy has shrunk her cancer cells. She is upset because she realizes that it has removed a certain low-grade freedom.
Almost all the stories cast marriage in a horribly negative light. Infidelity and adultery are dominant themes. In ‘Comfort’ and ‘Nettles,’ infidelity is subtle and lurks in the shadows. While ‘Comfort’ captures Nina’s grief of losing her husband to suicide, it is strangely out of place to read about her entertaining a fleeting attraction to Ed, the embalmer. The potential for dalliance hangs in the air and strikes me as distasteful. In ‘Nettles,’ two childhood friends, both married and having weathered disappointments, are reunited in adulthood. The tension for physical intimacy is rendered palpable and one hears the echo of a ‘love that was not usable, that knew its place.’
The stories about adultery are gravely unsettling. In ‘What Is Remembered,’ Meriel, a married woman is introduced to a doctor when she and her husband are attending a funeral in a different city. The doctor offers her a ride for a social visit she needs to make. Within the space of an afternoon, a mutual attraction morphs into lust and the inevitable. Meriel is to remember every detail of that afternoon of betrayal for the rest of her life. I am repulsed at how Munro cast adultery as a sweet offering to be savored over and over. To continually revisit aspects of an illicit intimacy that were missed at earlier recollections is the ultimate betrayal. In ‘The Bear Came Over the Mountain,’ Grant, a philanderer, finds himself in an odd situation when his 70-year-old wife (Fiona) who has dementia developed a romance with Aubrey, another dementia patient in a nursing home. It is also oddly touching to learn the extent to which Grant goes to bring Aubrey who has been discharged back to visit Fiona when she misses Aubrey. Grant loves his wife but prides himself as being a better man than others who cheat on their wives because unlike them, he does not leave her. He makes the philandering life seem like a cross to bear: “Nowhere was there any acknowledgement that the life of a philanderer... involved acts of kindness and generosity and even sacrifice... Many times he had catered to a woman’s pride, to her fragility, by offering more affection - or a rougher passion - than anything he really felt.” I wish I could punch him!
Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage grapples with the ugly side of human relationships in a non-judgmental and matter-of-fact manner. It is as though Alice Munro is saying, “This is life. Take it or leave it.” I am leaving it.
April 10, 2019
Blowing in the wind
Questi racconti di Alice Munro li ho trovati uno più bello dell’altro.
Scritti con uno stile piano e diretto che trascina senza difficoltà lungo il racconto, sono tuttavia ricchissimi. L’autrice ha una capacità straordinaria di catturare le sfumature più sottili e ineffabili di certe situazioni, di certe emozioni, di certi tratti psicologici, di certi dolori e inquietudini, di certe piccole grandi gioie. Li cattura e li traspone nel racconto in modo così naturale che quello che ci scorre davanti agli occhi è la pura e semplice realtà, la realtà del quotidiano, anche quando le situazioni narrate non sono esattamente eventi quotidiani, ma strane deviazioni, percorsi secondari possibili. Ma tutto accade nel modo più naturale. Le sue donne, protagoniste prevalenti dei racconti, sono le donne più “tridimensionali” che mai abbia incontrato in un libro.
La Munro riesce esattamente ad “afferrare qualcosa nell’aria”, come fa dire a uno dei suoi personaggi, una scrittrice. Credo che questo sia il motivo per cui questi racconti mi sono piaciuti così tanto, non so se sono riuscita a esprimerlo compiutamente, è un motivo da afferrare nell’aria, e di questo è capace solo lei.
Questi racconti di Alice Munro li ho trovati uno più bello dell’altro.
Scritti con uno stile piano e diretto che trascina senza difficoltà lungo il racconto, sono tuttavia ricchissimi. L’autrice ha una capacità straordinaria di catturare le sfumature più sottili e ineffabili di certe situazioni, di certe emozioni, di certi tratti psicologici, di certi dolori e inquietudini, di certe piccole grandi gioie. Li cattura e li traspone nel racconto in modo così naturale che quello che ci scorre davanti agli occhi è la pura e semplice realtà, la realtà del quotidiano, anche quando le situazioni narrate non sono esattamente eventi quotidiani, ma strane deviazioni, percorsi secondari possibili. Ma tutto accade nel modo più naturale. Le sue donne, protagoniste prevalenti dei racconti, sono le donne più “tridimensionali” che mai abbia incontrato in un libro.
La Munro riesce esattamente ad “afferrare qualcosa nell’aria”, come fa dire a uno dei suoi personaggi, una scrittrice. Credo che questo sia il motivo per cui questi racconti mi sono piaciuti così tanto, non so se sono riuscita a esprimerlo compiutamente, è un motivo da afferrare nell’aria, e di questo è capace solo lei.
June 7, 2018
The first Munro that doesn't have a melancholic atmosphere but rather a humorous touch that seems to say "hey, just flow with it, you never know where the tide will take you, so follow your impulses and it might be alright".
Johanna is a maid who incidentlly crosses paths with Ken, the son in law, now recently widowed, of Johanna's employer. She is plain, uninteresting and rather timid, so she is taken by surprise when a heated letter declaring passionate love from Ken reaches her. What she can't know is that Ken's teenage daughter and her friend are playing a bad taste joke on her and writing letters in the widower's name.
Munro builds a highly believable scenario where all characters have understandable motivations to act the way they do. And it's uncommon that uncoordinated actions might turn into something pleasing. A fair, entertaining short story that returns my old believe in good luck!
Johanna is a maid who incidentlly crosses paths with Ken, the son in law, now recently widowed, of Johanna's employer. She is plain, uninteresting and rather timid, so she is taken by surprise when a heated letter declaring passionate love from Ken reaches her. What she can't know is that Ken's teenage daughter and her friend are playing a bad taste joke on her and writing letters in the widower's name.
Munro builds a highly believable scenario where all characters have understandable motivations to act the way they do. And it's uncommon that uncoordinated actions might turn into something pleasing. A fair, entertaining short story that returns my old believe in good luck!
June 16, 2018
Nove ritratti femminili, nove eroine del quotidiano che affrontano la vita senza riserve né vittimismi. Sono esistenze normali di mogli, madri, ma soprattutto di donne. Non sono felici, sembrano vivere affidandosi a una precisa routine che non conosce abbandoni, o quasi. Perché nella vita di ognuna di loro è nascosto un momento segreto in cui rifugiarsi quando si sentono schiacciate dal disincanto, dal disamore o dalla noia. Sono piccole scintille, brevi parentesi, che custodiscono con cura, perché da lì proviene la loro forza e lì si nasconde la loro essenza. Può trattarsi di un amore infantile,
“Nel sentimento per Mike il demone localizzato si trasformava in un'eccitazione diffusa e in una tenerezza sotto pelle, un piacere degli occhi e delle orecchie e una gioia cristallina in presenza dell'altro”.
apparentemente dimenticato, che torna all’improvviso, mai prepotente, piuttosto come
“Un amore non utilizzabile, che sapeva stare al suo posto (qualcuno lo definirebbe non vero, perché non rischierebbe mai di farsi tirare il collo, né di trasformarsi in una battuta volgare, né di consumarsi penosamente). Un amore che non rischia niente, ma che si mantiene vivo come una goccia di miele, una risorsa sotterranea”.
Può essere l’avventura di una notte, in cui l’amore divampa e si consuma, senza strascichi, perché
“Il lavoro che doveva fare, secondo lei, consisteva nel ricordare tutto, e per «ricordare» intendeva rivivere un'altra volta nella mente e immagazzinare ogni cosa per sempre. L'esperienza di questa giornata messa in ordine, senza confusioni né menzogne, tutta radunata in un tesoro, e infine compiuta, conclusa. Si aggrappava a due previsioni, la prima confortante e la seconda relativamente facile da accettare al momento, anche se destinata senz'altro a farsi più scomoda in futuro. Il suo matrimonio con Pierre avrebbe retto, sarebbe durato. Non avrebbe più rivisto Asher. Entrambe le previsioni risultarono corrette”.
Ricordare, modificare dettagli del ricordo, scoprirne alcuni dimenticati, un’ancora a cui aggrapparsi continuando la vita di ogni giorno, mentre la memoria torna a ondate:
“Avrebbe continuato a ripescare dettagli che le erano sfuggiti e che non cessavano di farla trasalire”.
Il matrimonio va avanti, con l’amore trasformato da una lunga convivenza, dal ruolo di madri che a volte prevale sul resto, dal desiderio di momenti di solitudine in cui ritrovare lo spirito di un tempo.
Sono nove donne che affrontano i cambiamenti che la vita impone. I capelli si ingrigiscono, il passo diventa faticoso, ma nemmeno la malattia e la morte le spaventano. Fanno parte di loro come tutto il resto, e come tutto il resto le affrontano con lo spirito pratico di sempre.
“Aprì la cassetta e infilò la mano nelle ceneri fresche prima di rovesciarle a terra -insieme a brandelli minuscoli e resistenti di materia -tra le piante cresciute lungo la strada. Compiere quel gesto era come mettere le gambe in acqua e infine tuffarsi nel lago per la prima gelida nuotata di giugno. Da principio, un brivido nauseante, poi lo stupore di riuscire comunque a muoversi, sollevata da una corrente di ferrea devozione, calma sullo specchio d'acqua della vita, sebbene il dolore del freddo continuasse a entrarle a ondate nel corpo”.
Devono far fronte all’assenza, anche a quella, terribile, della malattia che divora la memoria spazzando via volti, affetti, identità, lasciando solo gusci vuoti:
“rimaneva la sensazione di una fissità, di un rigore spettrale, come se quegli individui si accontentassero di trasformarsi nel proprio ricordo, in estreme fotografie”.
Ho letto con crescente coinvolgimento, senza tener conto del tempo e delle cose. Mi sono immersa nella narrazione scorrevole, asciutta ma tenera e commovente, consapevole di leggere della vita, di vite in cui potrei identificarmi, sapendo che
“nella vita viene il momento in cui brutto e bello svolgono più o meno la stessa funzione, quando tutto ciò che guardi altro non è che un gancio a cui appendere le sensazioni scomposte del corpo, e i brandelli della mente”.
“Nel sentimento per Mike il demone localizzato si trasformava in un'eccitazione diffusa e in una tenerezza sotto pelle, un piacere degli occhi e delle orecchie e una gioia cristallina in presenza dell'altro”.
apparentemente dimenticato, che torna all’improvviso, mai prepotente, piuttosto come
“Un amore non utilizzabile, che sapeva stare al suo posto (qualcuno lo definirebbe non vero, perché non rischierebbe mai di farsi tirare il collo, né di trasformarsi in una battuta volgare, né di consumarsi penosamente). Un amore che non rischia niente, ma che si mantiene vivo come una goccia di miele, una risorsa sotterranea”.
Può essere l’avventura di una notte, in cui l’amore divampa e si consuma, senza strascichi, perché
“Il lavoro che doveva fare, secondo lei, consisteva nel ricordare tutto, e per «ricordare» intendeva rivivere un'altra volta nella mente e immagazzinare ogni cosa per sempre. L'esperienza di questa giornata messa in ordine, senza confusioni né menzogne, tutta radunata in un tesoro, e infine compiuta, conclusa. Si aggrappava a due previsioni, la prima confortante e la seconda relativamente facile da accettare al momento, anche se destinata senz'altro a farsi più scomoda in futuro. Il suo matrimonio con Pierre avrebbe retto, sarebbe durato. Non avrebbe più rivisto Asher. Entrambe le previsioni risultarono corrette”.
Ricordare, modificare dettagli del ricordo, scoprirne alcuni dimenticati, un’ancora a cui aggrapparsi continuando la vita di ogni giorno, mentre la memoria torna a ondate:
“Avrebbe continuato a ripescare dettagli che le erano sfuggiti e che non cessavano di farla trasalire”.
Il matrimonio va avanti, con l’amore trasformato da una lunga convivenza, dal ruolo di madri che a volte prevale sul resto, dal desiderio di momenti di solitudine in cui ritrovare lo spirito di un tempo.
Sono nove donne che affrontano i cambiamenti che la vita impone. I capelli si ingrigiscono, il passo diventa faticoso, ma nemmeno la malattia e la morte le spaventano. Fanno parte di loro come tutto il resto, e come tutto il resto le affrontano con lo spirito pratico di sempre.
“Aprì la cassetta e infilò la mano nelle ceneri fresche prima di rovesciarle a terra -insieme a brandelli minuscoli e resistenti di materia -tra le piante cresciute lungo la strada. Compiere quel gesto era come mettere le gambe in acqua e infine tuffarsi nel lago per la prima gelida nuotata di giugno. Da principio, un brivido nauseante, poi lo stupore di riuscire comunque a muoversi, sollevata da una corrente di ferrea devozione, calma sullo specchio d'acqua della vita, sebbene il dolore del freddo continuasse a entrarle a ondate nel corpo”.
Devono far fronte all’assenza, anche a quella, terribile, della malattia che divora la memoria spazzando via volti, affetti, identità, lasciando solo gusci vuoti:
“rimaneva la sensazione di una fissità, di un rigore spettrale, come se quegli individui si accontentassero di trasformarsi nel proprio ricordo, in estreme fotografie”.
Ho letto con crescente coinvolgimento, senza tener conto del tempo e delle cose. Mi sono immersa nella narrazione scorrevole, asciutta ma tenera e commovente, consapevole di leggere della vita, di vite in cui potrei identificarmi, sapendo che
“nella vita viene il momento in cui brutto e bello svolgono più o meno la stessa funzione, quando tutto ciò che guardi altro non è che un gancio a cui appendere le sensazioni scomposte del corpo, e i brandelli della mente”.
February 1, 2017
This collection of stories by Alice Munro is typical of much of her work. The stories are populated by people leading what looks on the surface like humdrum lives. But just underneath the surface, strange feelings boil, ready to erupt when events occur which make this possible. Munro has a lot of knowledge about the various types of relationships between men and women, how they can be built, twisted, broken and remade. These are not happy stories--in fact, some of them are disturbing. But the narration is powerful, and the author seems always to know exactly what effect she will produce.
July 13, 2017
Kelime tasarrufuna dayanan kısa öyküye alışmış biri olarak her biri bir novella ya da bir kısa roman boyutundaki bu upuzun öyküleri biraz yadırgadım doğrusu, ama yine de keyif aldım. Bu derece sıkı örülmüş öyķülerde, kısa öyküde içini büyük bir keyifle doldurduğum oyuklar, gedikler yoktu. Bunun yanında hakkını vermek lazım, karakter ve durum analizleri oldukça başarılı.
January 2, 2018
“Ciò che le toccò attraversare fu un susseguirsi di ondate di intensa memoria…”
Nove racconti con nove voci di donne così diverse per età, ceto, carattere….
Eppure sembra di respirare la stessa aria come di chi tiene in mano una piccola fotografia che non ha cornice ma è libera di trascinare nei ricordi del passato.
C’è, difatti, un continuo movimento di tempi e spazi, tra queste pagine.
Tornare indietro con la memoria significa rintracciare un momento in cui si sono prese decisioni o gli eventi hanno deciso per noi.
Quale sarà il mio destino?
Così si chiedono le due ragazze che giocano ad immaginarsi un futuro amore:
” L'unica idea proposta da Sabitha fu quella di scrivere il loro nome accanto a quello di un ragazzo, poi di eliminare tutte le lettere comuni e di contare le restanti. Dopodiché si faceva la conta sulle dita con le lettere avanzate, dicendo, Nemico, amico, spasimante, amante, sposo, finché non si arrivava al verdetto riguardo alla possibile relazione fra loro e il ragazzo in questione.”
Nove storie che raccontano di assenze e relazioni che cercano soddisfazione nell’adulterio salvo poi ritornare al proprio status:
"Accettare l'accaduto ed essere onesta rispetto a ciò che poteva capitare".
E gli uomini?
In queste storie ci sono uomini differenti per passionalità e carattere ma che spesso si adagiano con il matrimonio ad un gioco dei ruoli così meravigliosamente descritto:
” I giovani mariti erano severi, in quei giorni. Pochissimo tempo prima, erano stati corteggiatori, personaggi quasi comici, titubanti e devastati dalla smania di sesso. Ora però, a letto caldo, si erano fatti risoluti e critici. Uscivano di casa ogni mattina, ben rasati, il giovane collo strizzato dal nodo della cravatta, e ricomparivano la sera, pronti a dispensare occhiate di sufficienza alla cena e a spalancare il giornale, facendone una barriera contro il caos della cucina, i piccoli malesseri, le emozioni, i neonati. Quante cose avevano dovuto imparare, in poco tempo. Come lavorarsi il capo, e come dominare la moglie. Come mostrarsi autorevoli in materia di ipoteche, beni immobili, cura del prato, impianto fognario, politica, come pure riguardo al lavoro destinato a mantenere la famiglia per il successivo quarto di secolo. Solo alle donne dunque era concesso scivolare - durante le ore del giorno e sempre tenendo conto delle strepitose responsabilità scaricate sulle loro spalle dalla presenza dei bambini - in una sorta di seconda adolescenza. Una leggerezza dell'anima quando i mariti se ne andavano. Sognanti ribellioni, raduni sovversivi, accessi di ilarità che riportavano ai tempi del liceo, muffe che fiorivano sui muri a spese dei mariti, nelle ore in cui loro erano fuori. “
Nove racconti con nove voci di donne così diverse per età, ceto, carattere….
Eppure sembra di respirare la stessa aria come di chi tiene in mano una piccola fotografia che non ha cornice ma è libera di trascinare nei ricordi del passato.
C’è, difatti, un continuo movimento di tempi e spazi, tra queste pagine.
Tornare indietro con la memoria significa rintracciare un momento in cui si sono prese decisioni o gli eventi hanno deciso per noi.
Quale sarà il mio destino?
Così si chiedono le due ragazze che giocano ad immaginarsi un futuro amore:
” L'unica idea proposta da Sabitha fu quella di scrivere il loro nome accanto a quello di un ragazzo, poi di eliminare tutte le lettere comuni e di contare le restanti. Dopodiché si faceva la conta sulle dita con le lettere avanzate, dicendo, Nemico, amico, spasimante, amante, sposo, finché non si arrivava al verdetto riguardo alla possibile relazione fra loro e il ragazzo in questione.”
Nove storie che raccontano di assenze e relazioni che cercano soddisfazione nell’adulterio salvo poi ritornare al proprio status:
"Accettare l'accaduto ed essere onesta rispetto a ciò che poteva capitare".
E gli uomini?
In queste storie ci sono uomini differenti per passionalità e carattere ma che spesso si adagiano con il matrimonio ad un gioco dei ruoli così meravigliosamente descritto:
” I giovani mariti erano severi, in quei giorni. Pochissimo tempo prima, erano stati corteggiatori, personaggi quasi comici, titubanti e devastati dalla smania di sesso. Ora però, a letto caldo, si erano fatti risoluti e critici. Uscivano di casa ogni mattina, ben rasati, il giovane collo strizzato dal nodo della cravatta, e ricomparivano la sera, pronti a dispensare occhiate di sufficienza alla cena e a spalancare il giornale, facendone una barriera contro il caos della cucina, i piccoli malesseri, le emozioni, i neonati. Quante cose avevano dovuto imparare, in poco tempo. Come lavorarsi il capo, e come dominare la moglie. Come mostrarsi autorevoli in materia di ipoteche, beni immobili, cura del prato, impianto fognario, politica, come pure riguardo al lavoro destinato a mantenere la famiglia per il successivo quarto di secolo. Solo alle donne dunque era concesso scivolare - durante le ore del giorno e sempre tenendo conto delle strepitose responsabilità scaricate sulle loro spalle dalla presenza dei bambini - in una sorta di seconda adolescenza. Una leggerezza dell'anima quando i mariti se ne andavano. Sognanti ribellioni, raduni sovversivi, accessi di ilarità che riportavano ai tempi del liceo, muffe che fiorivano sui muri a spese dei mariti, nelle ore in cui loro erano fuori. “
September 25, 2019
Dok sam čitao ove pripovetke samo sam mislio koliko su junaci priča Alis Manro veoma neprijatne osobe. Kada kažem neprijatne, mislim neprijatne na kanadski način – nalikuju na sve ostale ljude ovog sveta ali će, recimo, najdrskiju uvredu da upakuju sa rečima „molim te”, „izvini” i „hvala”.
Manro zna da piše, pripovetke su joj vešte na starinski način. Poseduje čehovljevsko oko za detalj i džejmsovski hladan stil. Iznenadilo me je da je knjiga prvi put objavljena 2001, jer priče izgledaju kao da se odigravaju pedesetih i šezdesetih (Možda se i odigravaju, ali u neistorijskim zemljama kakva je Kanada, promene u vremenu su mnogo manje uočljive).
Navikao sam da priče moraju da imaju neki problemski čvor koji se razmota do kraja. Međutim u pričama Alis Manro to ne postoji, već imamo rasplinuti odlomak iz života koji uglavnom nikuda ne vodi. Razgovor o problemima podrazumevao bi potragu ili nadu da će se rešenje pronaći, a kako kaže jedan sporedni junak u pripoveci, to ne bi ukazivalo na interesantan stav prema životu. Umesto problema imamo sirov život u kuhinjama, spavaćim sobama, dnevnim sobama (gde se kapci na prozorima zatvaraju ako izbije svađa) kanadskim ušuškanim domovima i među pokućnim nameštajem. I zaista u pričama postoji uvek neki nameštaj koji se nasleđuje, šporeti oribani špak papirom, tanjiri koji se pakuju u kredenac što donosi privremeno primirje između zaraćenih strana, šerpe sa reklamnim sloganom „Bog je srce naše kuće”, a kada neko umre telo se poput komada nameštaja iznosi zamotano u čaršav ne bi li se balzamovalo, našminkalo i prikazalo kao lep predmet u otvorenom kovčegu na komemoracijama. Dom kao vlastiti kutak sveta gde životi običnih ljudi jedino imaju istinsku težinu. Izvan zidova je vakum.
Manro zna da piše, pripovetke su joj vešte na starinski način. Poseduje čehovljevsko oko za detalj i džejmsovski hladan stil. Iznenadilo me je da je knjiga prvi put objavljena 2001, jer priče izgledaju kao da se odigravaju pedesetih i šezdesetih (Možda se i odigravaju, ali u neistorijskim zemljama kakva je Kanada, promene u vremenu su mnogo manje uočljive).
Navikao sam da priče moraju da imaju neki problemski čvor koji se razmota do kraja. Međutim u pričama Alis Manro to ne postoji, već imamo rasplinuti odlomak iz života koji uglavnom nikuda ne vodi. Razgovor o problemima podrazumevao bi potragu ili nadu da će se rešenje pronaći, a kako kaže jedan sporedni junak u pripoveci, to ne bi ukazivalo na interesantan stav prema životu. Umesto problema imamo sirov život u kuhinjama, spavaćim sobama, dnevnim sobama (gde se kapci na prozorima zatvaraju ako izbije svađa) kanadskim ušuškanim domovima i među pokućnim nameštajem. I zaista u pričama postoji uvek neki nameštaj koji se nasleđuje, šporeti oribani špak papirom, tanjiri koji se pakuju u kredenac što donosi privremeno primirje između zaraćenih strana, šerpe sa reklamnim sloganom „Bog je srce naše kuće”, a kada neko umre telo se poput komada nameštaja iznosi zamotano u čaršav ne bi li se balzamovalo, našminkalo i prikazalo kao lep predmet u otvorenom kovčegu na komemoracijama. Dom kao vlastiti kutak sveta gde životi običnih ljudi jedino imaju istinsku težinu. Izvan zidova je vakum.
October 10, 2013
Una caleidoscopia dell'intimo, principalmente femminile. Nove racconti soffusi; splendidi. Eccellente tratto d'autore; tanto garbato e naturale da risultare perentorio. Più che su un banale risentimento di "ruolo", qui tutto ruota intorno al mistero della "percezione del sé", centrale al punto da togliere importanza, con progressione inavvertibile, alle vicende, volutamente ordinarie, di cui si narra con ariosa tranquillità descrittiva. Ciò che all'inizio della lettura appare come una sorta di minimalismo estetico, si rivela essere la misura esatta dell'Arte di questa grande scrittrice. Non è l'avvenimento eclatante a modificare la nostra esistenza, quanto piuttosto la determinazione che abbiamo a essere noi stessi. Non il paragone frustrato con gli altri, ma l'improvvisa complicità con lo specchio; la franchezza del dialogo interiore; fino alla determinazione, spesso taciuta, che prelude i fatti. La magia ineffabile della consapevolezza è quindi cardine narrativo; sospensione; attesa e, infine, meraviglia lasciata al lettore, in quel vuoto che segue il punto finale. Ogni volta. Il tutto in un tessuto di tagli sapienti; andate e ritorni tra realtà, ricordo, e aspettative che costruiscono il dramma. Per lasciare spazio al lettore, ma non lasciargli scampo. Nessun elogio è sprecato.
POSTILLA.(Dedicata agli amici e a chiunque, oltre il commento, desideri riflettere su qualcosa in più. Avendo il tempo per farlo).
Μίμησις βίου (Imitazione della vita).
Leggendo altri commenti a questo capolavoro, mi hanno colpito due aspetti: il paragone con alcuni maestri della letteratura di ogni tempo (Checov e James, per dirne due) e la diversità, in qualche caso manichea, di reazioni e di gradimento alla lettura.
Una delle idee che ha sempre guidato la poetica greca, da Omero ai tragici, è che la parola possa suscitare piacevolezza, diletto (hedonè), sull'uditorio. Seppure parlando di poesia, ma riferendosi più in generale all'Arte, il filosofo Gorgia, già nel V sec. a.C., diceva: «Tutta la poesia io considero e definisco discorso in forma metrica. In chi l'ascolta s'insinua un brivido di paura e una compassione che induce al pianto; e un desiderio intenso che tende al dolore, dinanzi alla sorte felice o avversa di persone estranee. A opera della parola, l'anima prova come proprie le altrui emozioni... L'incanto divino della parola desta il piacere e allontana il dolore: immedesimandosi con l'opinione dell'anima, il potere di incantamento la ammalia, la persuade e la trasforma con la sua magia». Circa un secolo dopo, Aristotele avrebbe scritto: «Il poeta (tragico) deve procurare per mezzo della mimesi il piacere che destano la pietà e il timore...», ove per Mimesi s'intenda l'imitazione della forma ideale della realtà, da parte dell'arte.
Nella poetica della Mimesi, vera e propria estetica dell'esecuzione, l'orizzonte di attesa dell'uditorio è quindi una componente primaria. Oggi, trascorso qualche anno da queste formulazioni, l'orizzonte di attesa dell'uditorio è un po' cambiato. Le forme della rappresentazione sono infinitamente più complesse e incisive, così come l'abitudine dell'uditorio stesso a una meraviglia sempre nuova. E sempre più distratta. Nel tempo, l'evasione dalla realtà si è sostituita all'ancestrale necessità di comprensione. Le componenti oniriche e fantastiche, che un tempo risolvevano questioni imperscrutabili, oggi sono richieste come additivo; indispensabili alla percezione di svago.
Comprensibile quindi, seppure insolita da osservare, la diversità di reazioni nei commenti, riguardo a questo libro. Chi cerchi nella lettura una distrazione, un trasporto di fantasia, per legittimamente evadere dal proprio intimo intrico quotidiano, qui non trova sollievo, bensì reiterazione di peso. Chi invece senta ancora l'urgenza di intellegere la realtà che sta vivendo; di confrontare la propria percezione con l'altrui, e da ciò tragga sollievo, piacevolezza, diletto e ispirazione, qui trova uno specchio accuratissimo delle dinamiche interiori. Nessuna meraviglia che molte donne, riconoscendosi nude tra queste righe, non amino proseguire la lettura.
Ritengo che la formazione classica della Munro, evidente da alcuni riferimenti in questi stessi racconti, abbia avuto un peso preponderante nella sua scelta artistica. Il suo garbo, tutto anglosassone, ricorda sì, lontanamente, l'allusiva impudicizia di H.James, condita da un'altissima sensibilità sociale; ed è vero che si fa un uso quasi estremo del reale, proprio della lezione di Checov. Tuttavia mi sento di dire che la misura dell'Arte (perché - finalmente un contemporaneo - di Arte qui si tratta) della signora Munro vada piuttosto ascritta a un geniale, perché semplice, recupero di un canone classico, seppure trasposto su un piano intellettivo di maggiore attualità. Quale terreno migliore, a questo scopo, del piccolo quotidiano esistere?
Una noticina sulla traduzione.
Si tratta di una buona traduzione, rispettosa e lucida. E' un vero peccato, tuttavia, percepire qua e là tra le righe una "fretta" commerciale, propria solo della nostra editoria, cui anche il traduttore più bravo, suo malgrado, è obbligato a soggiacere. Il mercato, ahimè, governa solo la fretta, e in questo travolge quel poco di arte che andrebbe trattato con maggiore rispetto, per seminare un futuro diverso dal vuoto.
Ma, come sempre, è un'opinione personale.
POST SCRIPTUM: 4 anni dopo questo commento, aggiungo con soddisfazione la notizia che oggi, 10 ott 2013, alla signora Munro è stato conferito il premio Nobel per la letteratura.
POSTILLA.(Dedicata agli amici e a chiunque, oltre il commento, desideri riflettere su qualcosa in più. Avendo il tempo per farlo).
Μίμησις βίου (Imitazione della vita).
Leggendo altri commenti a questo capolavoro, mi hanno colpito due aspetti: il paragone con alcuni maestri della letteratura di ogni tempo (Checov e James, per dirne due) e la diversità, in qualche caso manichea, di reazioni e di gradimento alla lettura.
Una delle idee che ha sempre guidato la poetica greca, da Omero ai tragici, è che la parola possa suscitare piacevolezza, diletto (hedonè), sull'uditorio. Seppure parlando di poesia, ma riferendosi più in generale all'Arte, il filosofo Gorgia, già nel V sec. a.C., diceva: «Tutta la poesia io considero e definisco discorso in forma metrica. In chi l'ascolta s'insinua un brivido di paura e una compassione che induce al pianto; e un desiderio intenso che tende al dolore, dinanzi alla sorte felice o avversa di persone estranee. A opera della parola, l'anima prova come proprie le altrui emozioni... L'incanto divino della parola desta il piacere e allontana il dolore: immedesimandosi con l'opinione dell'anima, il potere di incantamento la ammalia, la persuade e la trasforma con la sua magia». Circa un secolo dopo, Aristotele avrebbe scritto: «Il poeta (tragico) deve procurare per mezzo della mimesi il piacere che destano la pietà e il timore...», ove per Mimesi s'intenda l'imitazione della forma ideale della realtà, da parte dell'arte.
Nella poetica della Mimesi, vera e propria estetica dell'esecuzione, l'orizzonte di attesa dell'uditorio è quindi una componente primaria. Oggi, trascorso qualche anno da queste formulazioni, l'orizzonte di attesa dell'uditorio è un po' cambiato. Le forme della rappresentazione sono infinitamente più complesse e incisive, così come l'abitudine dell'uditorio stesso a una meraviglia sempre nuova. E sempre più distratta. Nel tempo, l'evasione dalla realtà si è sostituita all'ancestrale necessità di comprensione. Le componenti oniriche e fantastiche, che un tempo risolvevano questioni imperscrutabili, oggi sono richieste come additivo; indispensabili alla percezione di svago.
Comprensibile quindi, seppure insolita da osservare, la diversità di reazioni nei commenti, riguardo a questo libro. Chi cerchi nella lettura una distrazione, un trasporto di fantasia, per legittimamente evadere dal proprio intimo intrico quotidiano, qui non trova sollievo, bensì reiterazione di peso. Chi invece senta ancora l'urgenza di intellegere la realtà che sta vivendo; di confrontare la propria percezione con l'altrui, e da ciò tragga sollievo, piacevolezza, diletto e ispirazione, qui trova uno specchio accuratissimo delle dinamiche interiori. Nessuna meraviglia che molte donne, riconoscendosi nude tra queste righe, non amino proseguire la lettura.
Ritengo che la formazione classica della Munro, evidente da alcuni riferimenti in questi stessi racconti, abbia avuto un peso preponderante nella sua scelta artistica. Il suo garbo, tutto anglosassone, ricorda sì, lontanamente, l'allusiva impudicizia di H.James, condita da un'altissima sensibilità sociale; ed è vero che si fa un uso quasi estremo del reale, proprio della lezione di Checov. Tuttavia mi sento di dire che la misura dell'Arte (perché - finalmente un contemporaneo - di Arte qui si tratta) della signora Munro vada piuttosto ascritta a un geniale, perché semplice, recupero di un canone classico, seppure trasposto su un piano intellettivo di maggiore attualità. Quale terreno migliore, a questo scopo, del piccolo quotidiano esistere?
Una noticina sulla traduzione.
Si tratta di una buona traduzione, rispettosa e lucida. E' un vero peccato, tuttavia, percepire qua e là tra le righe una "fretta" commerciale, propria solo della nostra editoria, cui anche il traduttore più bravo, suo malgrado, è obbligato a soggiacere. Il mercato, ahimè, governa solo la fretta, e in questo travolge quel poco di arte che andrebbe trattato con maggiore rispetto, per seminare un futuro diverso dal vuoto.
Ma, come sempre, è un'opinione personale.
POST SCRIPTUM: 4 anni dopo questo commento, aggiungo con soddisfazione la notizia che oggi, 10 ott 2013, alla signora Munro è stato conferito il premio Nobel per la letteratura.
February 27, 2018
Four- or five-stars for the skill and power of the writing, three-stars for my overall enjoyment of the collection. Alice packs plots other authors would spend novels unraveling in short stories built with astonishing linguistic economy. I've seen it noted elsewhere, but Munro demands her readers' attention and you can easily become lost in her time-hopping, name-dropping narratives if you aren't keeping up with her. Some of these stories span whole lives, others whole relationships. Her stories feel like well-trained athletes able to go above and beyond the call of duty. Of the nine stories in this 2001 collection, my favourites were Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage, Post and Beam, and The Bear Came Over the Mountain.
All the same, most of these stories aren't my thing. There's a lot of men and women in unhappy marriages and relationships in multiple permutations of division from their partner. I came across a CanLit Generator a few years back, and a few spins of that wheel should bring up something Munro seems in the business of telling. There's a plethora of men and women in tough circumstances bearing their lot with stoicism. At times these stories seem so dreary and depressing that I had to take a day or two between stories. It's not that I'm averse to sad stories, just that these ones seemed to drain me more than usual. Though I rarely think this while reading, most of Munro's stories seem so out of touch with my current life that I had difficulty relating to them even if I could appreciate the craft. Maybe this is something to return to with a few more years under my belt?
Had I not recently read two collections that I recently loved, I may have appreciated Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage a lot more. I'm glad to have read my first of Munro and hope to return to her work sometime in the future. Recommendations are welcome!
All the same, most of these stories aren't my thing. There's a lot of men and women in unhappy marriages and relationships in multiple permutations of division from their partner. I came across a CanLit Generator a few years back, and a few spins of that wheel should bring up something Munro seems in the business of telling. There's a plethora of men and women in tough circumstances bearing their lot with stoicism. At times these stories seem so dreary and depressing that I had to take a day or two between stories. It's not that I'm averse to sad stories, just that these ones seemed to drain me more than usual. Though I rarely think this while reading, most of Munro's stories seem so out of touch with my current life that I had difficulty relating to them even if I could appreciate the craft. Maybe this is something to return to with a few more years under my belt?
Had I not recently read two collections that I recently loved, I may have appreciated Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage a lot more. I'm glad to have read my first of Munro and hope to return to her work sometime in the future. Recommendations are welcome!
October 6, 2018
Non pensai alla storia che avrei scritto su Alfrida - non a quella in particolare - ma al lavoro a cui volevo dedicarmii, più simile a una mano che acciuffi qualcosa nell'aria che alla costruzione di storie
In questa frase è racchiusa tutta l'essenza del lavoro della Munro: cogliere scene dalla vita quotidiana, quella in cui la maggior parte dei lettori può riconoscersi, mettendone a fuoco le emozioni e i pensieri più intimi. Nella maggior parte dei casi non si tratta di rivelazioni eccezionali ma di pensieri, magari semplici, che coincidono con una nuova consapevolezza di sé e degli altri.
Le protagoniste dei nove racconti sono tutte donne anziane che si trovano ad affrontare momenti critici della loro vita, senza mai ridursi a stereotipi o cedere all'indulgenza che, secondo la maggioranza delle persone, bisogna riservare a chi ha superato i sessanta/settanta anni.
December 24, 2016
Với 9 truyện ngắn, Munro vẫn làm tôi sững sờ và kinh ngạc trước khả năng gọi tên những cảm xúc mà con người khó thể nào nói ra bằng lời. Một thành tựu.
Đây sẽ là cuốn sách đầu tiên tôi đang đọc dở dang mà phải cho 5 sao liền ngay lập tức, không chần chừ do dự. Càng đọc những truyện ngắn của Munro, tôi lại càng tin chắc rằng bà không chỉ sống với tư cách là một nhà văn. Bà sống như một người mang gương, trưng ra trước bất kì ai thành tâm muốn đến với bà và ngắm bản thân mình trong đó, để rồi run rẩy tan chảy trước không gian vô tận của tâm hồn họ.
Đây sẽ là cuốn sách đầu tiên tôi đang đọc dở dang mà phải cho 5 sao liền ngay lập tức, không chần chừ do dự. Càng đọc những truyện ngắn của Munro, tôi lại càng tin chắc rằng bà không chỉ sống với tư cách là một nhà văn. Bà sống như một người mang gương, trưng ra trước bất kì ai thành tâm muốn đến với bà và ngắm bản thân mình trong đó, để rồi run rẩy tan chảy trước không gian vô tận của tâm hồn họ.
July 22, 2024
I usually don't go for short stories, but I got this collection as a gift from a good friend on mine.
Like it is usually the case when it comes to collections, most of the stories I found mediocre but some of them I really liked. My favorites were called Queenie and Nettle (keep in mind I read the book in Croatian so maybe the titles are different).
The last one, called Winter's Garden I recognized, as I watched a movie based on it way back when.
The movie is called Away from Her.
Like it is usually the case when it comes to collections, most of the stories I found mediocre but some of them I really liked. My favorites were called Queenie and Nettle (keep in mind I read the book in Croatian so maybe the titles are different).
The last one, called Winter's Garden I recognized, as I watched a movie based on it way back when.
The movie is called Away from Her.
September 16, 2024
Hateship, etc. . .
And yet—an excitement. The unspeakable excitement you feel when a galloping disaster promises to release you from all responsibility for your own life. Then for shame you must compose yourself and stay very quiet.
Alice Munro, then.
it seems to me that I come closest to becoming myself as I would rather be when I read her stories. I don't wish to be one of her men, or women. I don't wish to know them. There wouldn't be much to it, really. Literary characters of the highest order are rather absurd, in real life. In the actual life. They're rather common, rather like all other people, to be much. It's not that, that I'm talking about. It's the beautiful unfurling of character, character in the personal sense, you know, character as in personality. It is as when you meet a person. First a stranger, and after many a day dies the strangeness. A familiarity is born, dislike, love, friendship, love.
but you can say as much about, say, Faulkner's people. Or Shakespeare's, for good measure. It's not that, really. When I read Shakespeare, I don't wish to write like him. That would be rather silly, really. Only Shakespeare could write so, in my opinion. The facts support me. I only wish to remember the words, to utter them to myself, utilise them in the culture of my soul, but not, ever, to write like him, or even think like him, at all. And Faulkner too. These are all very good gentlemen, cerebral and jovial, superfluous in a way, in their casual genius. You read Faulkner too much and you start to feel that he's not so great, really. But so we feel about the world. It isn't such a great thing, nothing much. But pause a moment, and everything, the cricket's song, the buzz of that car out there in the night, the colour of my tea that's just how tea ought to look—everything becomes a miracle.
you become too used to it to see that it's really unlike anything you could have guessed, before you saw it. But how strong is the usurping power of the view! You see the world and it's stamped forever in your memory, it will always be, once you've beheld it. It's a strange affair, and profound, beholding is.
yet there isn't much in Munro's stories to behold. Only yesterday I wrestled with rather than read the last story in this the strangest named book of hers. “The Bear Came Over the Mountain.” There isn't the spectacle of prose and poetry coming together here as one witnesses in the amazing writers of past and present. Not like D. H. Lawrence, whose stories are always comic, or O'Connor, whose stories are always somewhat absurd, somewhat weird. In Munro, things happen much as they do or would in real life. Perhaps this is what is meant by naturalism, I wouldn't really know. Maybe this is realism. I hate to define that which I greatly love. Definitions greatly reduce, condensing everything into a bottle. Even Shakespeare to me is not an Elizabethan playwright. He is just Shakespeare. You don't want to tell me that Munro is anything but just that, Alice Munro, born 1932. There is no reducing her to schools and modes. For when you have read one of her stories, and they're all pretty much readable, you feel at the end a strangeness that is ineffable and profound. Like coming to the end of a novel, but without the exhaustion of having toiled too long at it. It is perhaps why I have never read more than just a story in a day, with Munro. It's mostly out of laziness, of course, but there's also the subtle difficulty of getting into the story, and the lingering strangeness of the previously read one. Munro's stories aren't easy, at all. They're not convoluted, really, they're just vast, like life. They're generous and steady, neither hurrying to the end nor dwelling reluctantly on descriptions. So very few things to underline, so little worth remembering, for quotation. For Munro is all about the life itself, not the other stuff. There's almost an incredible pragmatism to her, as if she can't stand adornments. Like one of her characters who insists on being practical, yet she isn't so rigid, as all that. The triumph of Alice Munro is that she appears to have no style, and the stories appear to tell themselves, as if she never was. That is what gives her so much style, for she appears to have no time for it. She isn't showing off, she appears not to be showing off, yet she's so good, and that's why she's better than most who do this kind of thing. In the end each story in itself is to be reread, for there's always something to be missed in them, something first overlooked, and worth returning to.
August 15, 2017
Alice Munro (n. 1931)
Adoro contos...
“Ódio, Amizade, Namoro, Amor, Casamento” (2001) é um livro com nove contos escritos pela canadiana Alice Munro (n. 1931), Prémio Nobel da Literatura em 2013, uma “especialista” na narrativa curta, apenas com um único romance publicado em 1971 “Vidas de Raparigas e Mulheres”.
Os nove contos que compõem “Ódio, Amizade, Namoro, Amor, Casamento” são narrados na primeira e na terceira pessoa, todos protagonizados por mulheres; relatam histórias do quotidiano, do tédio e das rotinas diárias, dos infortúnios da vida, da doença, da velhice e da morte, das imperfeições e das contradições que dominam as relações e os relacionamentos entre homens, mulheres e crianças, das mágoas e dos ressentimentos que se perpetuam, das desilusões e das angústias, das esperanças falsas ou das falsas esperanças, dos prazeres inesperados e das recordações…
A escrita de Alice Munro é, simultaneamente, intensa e singela, revelando uma enorme profundidade nos detalhes e nas descrições, surpreendendo o leitor pelo drama e pela ironia, com múltiplas interpretações, numa engenhosa manipulação da narrativa e do tempo, introduzindo uma multiplicidade de actos que se vão repetindo, com um humor elegíaco inesquecível.
Os quatro melhores contos:
1 - “Ódio, Amizade, Namoro, Amor, Casamento” – Johanna é uma empregada doméstica, uma mulher determinada a encontrar o amor, uma farsa e vários equívocos, acabam numa confusão com um final feliz - ”Esta é a mudança que me faz falta.” (Pág. 56)
a) Adaptação cinematográfica - Realização de Liza Johnson
https://youtu.be/6cyHTzkxCpk
2 - Ponte Flutuante - Jinny tem cerca de quarenta anos, está doente, tem um cancro, submetida a sessões de quimioterapia, viaja com o marido Neal, insensível ao seu sofrimento, um segredo que não revela, um encontro inesperado acontece com o jovem Ricky “Ele abraçou-a como se esse gesto fosse absolutamente inquestionável e pudesse levar todo o tempo do mundo. Beijou-a na boca. Jinny sentiu que era a primeira vez que participava num beijo que era um acontecimento em si próprio. A história completa. Um prólogo terno…” (Pág. 85)
”O que ela sentia era uma espécie de compaixão descontraída, quase como uma gargalhada. Um silvo de hilaridade terna que levava a melhor sobre todas as suas mágoas e vazios, pelo tempo que durasse.” (Pág. 86) Só no final entendemos o título do conto.
3 - ”Urtigas” - Uma história de reencontro, uma paixão da infância, “O mundo é mesmo pequeno.” (Pág. 168), recordações diferentes, um campo de golfe, uma chuva torrencial, uma morte, uma tragédia inexplicável, o remorso e a culpa eterna.
4 - ”O Outro Lado da Montanha” -
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