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House Fires
The New York Times bestselling author of A Work in Progress and Note to Self moves fully into adulthood with his illuminating, soulful, bleeding collection of narrative, poetry, and original film photography.
Humanitarian, entrepreneur, and content creator Connor Franta first captivated readers with A Work In Progress, ruminating on his Midwestern roots to his early start as a visionary and online thought-leader. He continued his soul-searching-through-a-broken-heart with Note to Self, challenging readers—and himself—to ponder the spectrum of humanity and their place within it.
Now as Franta approaches thirty, life is no less confusing, but he finds this journey endlessly fascinating. Writing about confusion and clarity, loneliness and whirlwind romances, despair and elation—and everything in between—Franta invites readers back into the intimacy of his mind.
House Fires magnifies a young man’s emotional warfare with his past, the daze of wandering through modern times in search of purpose, and the electricity flying from tomorrow’s potential.
Humanitarian, entrepreneur, and content creator Connor Franta first captivated readers with A Work In Progress, ruminating on his Midwestern roots to his early start as a visionary and online thought-leader. He continued his soul-searching-through-a-broken-heart with Note to Self, challenging readers—and himself—to ponder the spectrum of humanity and their place within it.
Now as Franta approaches thirty, life is no less confusing, but he finds this journey endlessly fascinating. Writing about confusion and clarity, loneliness and whirlwind romances, despair and elation—and everything in between—Franta invites readers back into the intimacy of his mind.
House Fires magnifies a young man’s emotional warfare with his past, the daze of wandering through modern times in search of purpose, and the electricity flying from tomorrow’s potential.
304 pages, Hardcover
First published September 21, 2021
About the author
Connor Franta
4 books1,838 followersConnor Joel Franta is an Internet sensation and global trendsetter with millions of followers on YouTube and many other social media platforms.
He is the founder of Common Culture Coffee and works closely with The Thirst Project, a charity that provides clean drinking water in Africa, for which he raised more than $230,000 in thirty days.
He also curates music from up-and-coming bands for his Common Culture compilation albums.
He is the founder of Common Culture Coffee and works closely with The Thirst Project, a charity that provides clean drinking water in Africa, for which he raised more than $230,000 in thirty days.
He also curates music from up-and-coming bands for his Common Culture compilation albums.
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November 27, 2021
2.5/5
Let's start with the pros. This is one of the most aesthetically beautiful books I've ever bought. The photos and the layout are my favorite parts of it - just vibrant and pleasing to the eye. I honestly think it's worth having just for its beauty.
I wish I could be as positive about the quality of the writing in the book. To be completely honest, it was like reading the unedited journal of a teenager - what you might expect from a person who doesn't have anyone around him to tell him the truth so he can improve his writing skills. It's almost as if no one else read this and gave input on it before they published it.
Let's start with the pros. This is one of the most aesthetically beautiful books I've ever bought. The photos and the layout are my favorite parts of it - just vibrant and pleasing to the eye. I honestly think it's worth having just for its beauty.
I wish I could be as positive about the quality of the writing in the book. To be completely honest, it was like reading the unedited journal of a teenager - what you might expect from a person who doesn't have anyone around him to tell him the truth so he can improve his writing skills. It's almost as if no one else read this and gave input on it before they published it.
October 24, 2021
True story, I picked up Connor’s first book “A Work in Progress,” having no idea who he was, because my exe was a fan and I wanted a way to connect with him. Connor was my way.
From there, I became a fan all my own, and have followed his journey since. From coming out publicly, to his shifting style in content, to his now third memoir/poetry collection/self help….etc etc. it has been a pleasure to watch Franta’s growth and I find his writing both entertaining and inspiring.
House Fires reminded me much of his last work, “Note to Self” and I was happy the format stayed similar. Wonderful musings on life and all that entails, punctuated with beautiful imagery taken from his own camera, and some amazing poetry, some of which I often go back to time again.
There is a vulnerability in Franta’s work both on his media platforms and his writing that allows his fans to feel connected in ways I think other people with similar roles struggle to replicate. He never feels anything but authentic.
I was looking forward to the release of House Fires since he announced it and I was not disappointed in the least!
From there, I became a fan all my own, and have followed his journey since. From coming out publicly, to his shifting style in content, to his now third memoir/poetry collection/self help….etc etc. it has been a pleasure to watch Franta’s growth and I find his writing both entertaining and inspiring.
House Fires reminded me much of his last work, “Note to Self” and I was happy the format stayed similar. Wonderful musings on life and all that entails, punctuated with beautiful imagery taken from his own camera, and some amazing poetry, some of which I often go back to time again.
There is a vulnerability in Franta’s work both on his media platforms and his writing that allows his fans to feel connected in ways I think other people with similar roles struggle to replicate. He never feels anything but authentic.
I was looking forward to the release of House Fires since he announced it and I was not disappointed in the least!
October 23, 2021
i love u connor, i too feel my anxiety is a “sour bitch and i’d love to push her in front of a school bus.” this was so good, just a manifestation of my own brain quite honestly and i needed it.
“I often wonder if i’ve overcomplicated something that could be made much easier.”
“Do they too get caught in these identity crisis daydreams while out for a walk at sunset? Is it normal to question literally everything all of the time?”
and i too am “-exhausted and unhinged! how dare you ask me to be otherwise!” and a “f*cking emotional mess of a human being.” and this representation was refreshing.
“You are more than the body you inhabit.”
bodies poem hit too.
“I often wonder if i’ve overcomplicated something that could be made much easier.”
“Do they too get caught in these identity crisis daydreams while out for a walk at sunset? Is it normal to question literally everything all of the time?”
and i too am “-exhausted and unhinged! how dare you ask me to be otherwise!” and a “f*cking emotional mess of a human being.” and this representation was refreshing.
“You are more than the body you inhabit.”
bodies poem hit too.
October 21, 2021
I’m crying, screaming, throwing up but yet happy and introspective and grateful. Idk, lots of emotions. Loved it
May 23, 2022
I wanted to like this book so badly, I really did. :(
I hate giving books a low review because I can only imagine how heartbroken I would be if I wrote my own book, went on Goodreads, and saw that someone didn't like it... alas, I must be true to my heart. Connor, I love you and I am sorry.
I have followed Connor Franta for as long as I can remember and loved his first two books. His second, Note to Self, was an impactful book to me in my sophomore year of high school, and I actually adapted several chapters from it and performed them at Speech and Debate competitions. They spoke to me deeply and I carried the book around with me for weeks after finishing it, returning to my tabbed pages at random times and recommending it to anyone who would listen.
When House Fires was released in October of 2021, I bought it immediately but told myself I would wait to read it until I was at a critical juncture in my life. It sat on my shelf until last week, my final week of high school. I finally picked it up, ready for my world to be rocked as it was with Note to Self... but I was so very disappointed.
To be fair, this book is physically one of the most beautiful books I own. The photographs taken by Connor sprinkled throughout the book are breathtaking, but the writing is really lacking. It feels like a very angsty diary, with SO many similes and metaphors per page I genuinely became annoyed. He addresses deep topics, but in a way that was not profound or mature. Sometimes it's nice to look at such complicated issues in a simple way, but this just didn't do it for me.
If Connor releases more books, I'll still certainly read them. I also plan on rereading Note to Self to see how my perception of it has changed over the years. But I was sad that this book wasn't enjoyable to me. :(
I hate giving books a low review because I can only imagine how heartbroken I would be if I wrote my own book, went on Goodreads, and saw that someone didn't like it... alas, I must be true to my heart. Connor, I love you and I am sorry.
I have followed Connor Franta for as long as I can remember and loved his first two books. His second, Note to Self, was an impactful book to me in my sophomore year of high school, and I actually adapted several chapters from it and performed them at Speech and Debate competitions. They spoke to me deeply and I carried the book around with me for weeks after finishing it, returning to my tabbed pages at random times and recommending it to anyone who would listen.
When House Fires was released in October of 2021, I bought it immediately but told myself I would wait to read it until I was at a critical juncture in my life. It sat on my shelf until last week, my final week of high school. I finally picked it up, ready for my world to be rocked as it was with Note to Self... but I was so very disappointed.
To be fair, this book is physically one of the most beautiful books I own. The photographs taken by Connor sprinkled throughout the book are breathtaking, but the writing is really lacking. It feels like a very angsty diary, with SO many similes and metaphors per page I genuinely became annoyed. He addresses deep topics, but in a way that was not profound or mature. Sometimes it's nice to look at such complicated issues in a simple way, but this just didn't do it for me.
If Connor releases more books, I'll still certainly read them. I also plan on rereading Note to Self to see how my perception of it has changed over the years. But I was sad that this book wasn't enjoyable to me. :(
December 5, 2021
My fangirl heart couldn't handle reading Connor talk about his relationship with Troye. It's weird, brings me back to my 15 year old self.
The book is very relatable and I really enjoyed it, but I have watched Connor for almost half of my life so I probably am not a reliable person to review this.
The book is very relatable and I really enjoyed it, but I have watched Connor for almost half of my life so I probably am not a reliable person to review this.
November 23, 2021
connor touches on some really interesting and introspective topics but it was just tad over written with too many big words and weird metaphors that felt out of place. but I don’t think it’s that serious and I love connor so I still throughly enjoyed.
January 3, 2022
House Fires, like Franta's previous works, is breathtaking in its imagery as Connor remains a benevolent, albeit slightly more mature, twenty-something running on good vibes and good intentions. The writing, unfortunately, suffers from a series of tropes that, once recognized, make it particularly hard to continue the book without eye rolls. The most offending is Franta's over-usage of heavy-handed metaphors that, I assume, are supposed to read as either insightful or relatable when in reality I found them merely superfluous to whatever he was articulating. Another is Connor's reliance on statistics in an almost formulaic fashion. Starting with his own personal insight, relating that to a universal problem, and then a foray of Google statistics to back it up (rinse repeat).
I've been fortunate enough to follow Connor's work throughout the years and he remains a pure-spirited personality who clearly has an eye for finding the beauty in small, intimate spaces. Scattered throughout House Fires are several essays and poems that certainly embody the perfect mixture of Franta's signature aesthetic and personal revelations. The rest, aside from his spot-on visuals, are unfortunately too inoffensive to hold attention.
I've been fortunate enough to follow Connor's work throughout the years and he remains a pure-spirited personality who clearly has an eye for finding the beauty in small, intimate spaces. Scattered throughout House Fires are several essays and poems that certainly embody the perfect mixture of Franta's signature aesthetic and personal revelations. The rest, aside from his spot-on visuals, are unfortunately too inoffensive to hold attention.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
June 18, 2022
3.5 stars
the most decent one out of the three books he’s written so far.
the most decent one out of the three books he’s written so far.
October 21, 2021
UGH YESS! This book was so relatable and raw, highlighting the ups and downs of life in such a beautiful package of photography, passages, and poetry.
October 21, 2021
Just because we are close in age doesn’t mean we are going through the same things and motions in life. Yet, here I am, a 31 year old gay French boy sharing many doubts and thoughts as the ones related in this book. After, I guess we all share the same fears and ask ourselves the same questions as to why life brought us where we are and for what purpose.
Thank you for making me feel less lonely.
Thank you for making me feel less lonely.
November 1, 2021
The first book mail that graced me in my new home is this gem of a book - House Fires was just so wholesome and reading this was such a therapeutic experience. I felt like I was forged anew, with a bit more courage and a fresh set of eyes to view my new phase in life. I took this everywhere with me - as is obvious with the pictures on the metro that Jummi @ludicrous.20 so kindly took for me (I'm also lending this to her the next time I meet her!)
And since this is a non-fiction book, it’s also a recommendation for #NonFictionNovember from me to you!
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Before I talk more about the content of this book, I just have to dedicate some time to the aesthetics of it - because it was so soothing and calming and at the same time, reflected back to me the things I would be missing if I kept cooped up inside my room! The photographs and the places they were positioned - before or after a particular chapter or poem, really emphasized the experience and conveyed the emotion well. Between the written content and these clicks, I cannot choose which was the better!
I loved how approachable Franta was while writing this book - it was like talking to a friend, and I suppose that made the reading of it a very intimate experience. Since it is sort of an autobiography, I have to admit that I did not always relate to what the author was saying (even though I could empathize), however, there were also many parts of it - growing up, friendships, dating, love life, and just making your way in the world - that I could verily relate to. Franta’s immersive writing was made all the more personal because of the very discussion of these topics - my own thoughts and feelings and fears and hopes were being relayed out - it was also liberating, knowing that someone else too was feeling the same way I was!
I hope you do pick up this book because it is one of those books that will live with you always!
And since this is a non-fiction book, it’s also a recommendation for #NonFictionNovember from me to you!
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Before I talk more about the content of this book, I just have to dedicate some time to the aesthetics of it - because it was so soothing and calming and at the same time, reflected back to me the things I would be missing if I kept cooped up inside my room! The photographs and the places they were positioned - before or after a particular chapter or poem, really emphasized the experience and conveyed the emotion well. Between the written content and these clicks, I cannot choose which was the better!
I loved how approachable Franta was while writing this book - it was like talking to a friend, and I suppose that made the reading of it a very intimate experience. Since it is sort of an autobiography, I have to admit that I did not always relate to what the author was saying (even though I could empathize), however, there were also many parts of it - growing up, friendships, dating, love life, and just making your way in the world - that I could verily relate to. Franta’s immersive writing was made all the more personal because of the very discussion of these topics - my own thoughts and feelings and fears and hopes were being relayed out - it was also liberating, knowing that someone else too was feeling the same way I was!
I hope you do pick up this book because it is one of those books that will live with you always!
December 30, 2021
Connor Franta’s books have followed me and accompanied me through three now different life stages. From middle school to high school and New York trips at seventeen to now early twenties, scary adulthood and first relationship. This is the fastest book of his I’ve read (partially because now I actually read like a maniac). Back to the book, house fires is as all of connor’s books a pleasure to read and a plethora of truly emotional, deep, and creative journal entries. I’ve always loved the pictures that accompany these books since they make them more personal. The writing feels as if Connor is right beside me, with his parenthesis and all caps and jokes in between, it’s s like talking with a friend.
This book made me feel understood but it also helped me get a different perspective on human experience, on the importance of the people around me and the potential of my human experience. I love the warmth this book gives me and the deeply personal messages laid out.
It might seem greedy but I just can’t wait until the next one comes out. I wish Connor made books more frequently, I swear I would read anything of his. I’ve been following him since O2L and just being able to read the complexity of his life throughout the years and the lessons of a human experience at this time will always be an honor to both read and empathize with.
This book made me feel understood but it also helped me get a different perspective on human experience, on the importance of the people around me and the potential of my human experience. I love the warmth this book gives me and the deeply personal messages laid out.
It might seem greedy but I just can’t wait until the next one comes out. I wish Connor made books more frequently, I swear I would read anything of his. I’ve been following him since O2L and just being able to read the complexity of his life throughout the years and the lessons of a human experience at this time will always be an honor to both read and empathize with.
April 1, 2022
Review:
Rating: 7/10 ✨
“I miss that sweet, sadistic feeling, psychopathic cycle. The floating, the feeling, the fading, the falling. Every inch of it. It’s all worth it even if it ends.”
Try this if you’re interested in:
- poetry and photography
- a journey through “confusion and clarity, loneliness and whirlwind romances, despair and elation”
Thoughts:
House Fires is probably the first autobiography I’ve read. I can’t say that I relate to Franta’s experiences, but the essence is the same. We all go through a journey of struggle, searching for our own purpose and making it to the next day. There is significance in starting with small steps, and in taking a moment to breathe every now and then. There were moments and poems I resonated with, and others I didn’t. This may not be a book for everyone, but you may be able to find yourself somewhere there and take something out of it.
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Thank you to the publisher for my review copy ❤️
Rating: 7/10 ✨
“I miss that sweet, sadistic feeling, psychopathic cycle. The floating, the feeling, the fading, the falling. Every inch of it. It’s all worth it even if it ends.”
Try this if you’re interested in:
- poetry and photography
- a journey through “confusion and clarity, loneliness and whirlwind romances, despair and elation”
Thoughts:
House Fires is probably the first autobiography I’ve read. I can’t say that I relate to Franta’s experiences, but the essence is the same. We all go through a journey of struggle, searching for our own purpose and making it to the next day. There is significance in starting with small steps, and in taking a moment to breathe every now and then. There were moments and poems I resonated with, and others I didn’t. This may not be a book for everyone, but you may be able to find yourself somewhere there and take something out of it.
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Thank you to the publisher for my review copy ❤️
October 23, 2021
I listened to the audiobook because I haven't been able to get a physical copy yet. The fact that the audio is read by Connor himself makes me automatically like it; his voice is so relaxing, and I could listen to it forever. This is definitely not the only thing making it as amazing as it is though. He talks about such hard topics, like depression and anxiety and heartbreak and being afraid to let people in and loneliness, but he does it in such a way that it makes you feel less alone, and you do end up feeling kind of hopeful through the darkness.
I cannot wait to receive the physical copy of the book, so I'll get to see all his beautiful photography, but at the same time I cannot recommend the audio version enough. There's just something special about hearing Connor read his words out loud.
I cannot wait to receive the physical copy of the book, so I'll get to see all his beautiful photography, but at the same time I cannot recommend the audio version enough. There's just something special about hearing Connor read his words out loud.
January 3, 2022
hey queen (connor) girl you have done it again constantly raising the bar for us all and doing it flawlessly; i'd say im surprised but i know who you are, i've seen it up close and personal; girl you make me so proud and i love you
April 13, 2022
while this wasn't as bad as i thought it would be, it still wasn't that good. some of the annecdotes on religion and mental health were interesting.
August 2, 2024
3.5 ⭐️ aesthetically beautiful book with all the photography and poetry. i love how vulnerable and honest it is. but i wanted more from it. i wanted more personal stories throughout and more reflectiveness (is that a word?). idk i think there could have been more.
also, i appreciate how deep it got at the end with the religion and death and science, but i have to admit it did send me into a sort of spiral. but maybe that’s just true to life and how we approach death.
also, i appreciate how deep it got at the end with the religion and death and science, but i have to admit it did send me into a sort of spiral. but maybe that’s just true to life and how we approach death.
January 6, 2022
I think I just connected more to Note to Self. Some points were quite interesting but could have been written in a clearer and more straightforward manner (sometimes it felt a bit repetitive). The photographs are always lovely though!
August 21, 2022
Un peu déçu, j’ai trouvé que ça tournait en rond et je n’ai pas vraiment aimé son écriture. C’est dommage, c’est quelqu’un que j’aime beaucoup, j’aurais aimé donner plus. D’un autre côté, le livre est splendide, les photos aussi!
Aussi, pas fan de sa poésie ☹️
Aussi, pas fan de sa poésie ☹️
February 26, 2022
The book is a compilation of Connor’s personal stories, poetry, and some breathtakingly beautiful pictures. The book highlights the ups and down of Connor Franta which has been one of the most relatable books I’ve read in recent days. In its most raw form, the book talks about anxiety, emotional turmoils, nothingness, love, breakups, depression, and much more of what makes us human.
Every chapter is short (3-5 pages) which makes the book easy to read. The lyrical, poetic way of his with words makes you want to not stop reading.
How I felt about the book -
Reading every chapter made me feel some kind of solace. I am not sure why. I felt pain when Connor was describing his pain for possibly two reasons - one that it was relatable, and two because no one deserves to live with such baggage.
Before I write any further, I must say that Connor Franta is an excellent writer! He has a way with his words. Most of the chapters here in this book are heartfelt. One needs the courage to write/talk openly about such raw emotions. I say this because I don’t. I’ve never been able to write or talk about how it feels to feel void, or how it feels to feel nothing from the inside. It physically hurts. Moreover, you need some strength to openly talk about severe anxiety and depression.
Anyway, coming back to this book. The love and pain. The vulnerability. The brutal honesty.
Why would I recommend this book?
Well, Connor really shared a few really ugly days (and happy ones too) of his when he felt absolutely nowhere. I was frankly very much able to relate & understand his words, and the emotions they brought with themselves to a certain degree.
He described his happy and sad days with such beauty that for some reason felt fine. It felt bearable. It felt like there is tomorrow and today is not when the world ends.
Am I making sense here? I hope so..
Anyway, when I ponder why would Connor want to share his vulnerable details, the first thing that comes to my head is that because many (read: everyone) today need to know that they are not alone and feeling void or depressed is not the end. Reach out to someone if you need a silent company. If you are doing well, then reach out to someone who can use your help.
If you are a fan of Connor then it obviously is a must read. If you don’t really know much about him just like I didn’t before reading this book), it is a very delightful read about certain chapters about his life which he graciously has shared and invited us to read. Give it a read. You’d enjoy it.
Every chapter is short (3-5 pages) which makes the book easy to read. The lyrical, poetic way of his with words makes you want to not stop reading.
How I felt about the book -
Reading every chapter made me feel some kind of solace. I am not sure why. I felt pain when Connor was describing his pain for possibly two reasons - one that it was relatable, and two because no one deserves to live with such baggage.
Before I write any further, I must say that Connor Franta is an excellent writer! He has a way with his words. Most of the chapters here in this book are heartfelt. One needs the courage to write/talk openly about such raw emotions. I say this because I don’t. I’ve never been able to write or talk about how it feels to feel void, or how it feels to feel nothing from the inside. It physically hurts. Moreover, you need some strength to openly talk about severe anxiety and depression.
Anyway, coming back to this book. The love and pain. The vulnerability. The brutal honesty.
Why would I recommend this book?
Well, Connor really shared a few really ugly days (and happy ones too) of his when he felt absolutely nowhere. I was frankly very much able to relate & understand his words, and the emotions they brought with themselves to a certain degree.
He described his happy and sad days with such beauty that for some reason felt fine. It felt bearable. It felt like there is tomorrow and today is not when the world ends.
Am I making sense here? I hope so..
Anyway, when I ponder why would Connor want to share his vulnerable details, the first thing that comes to my head is that because many (read: everyone) today need to know that they are not alone and feeling void or depressed is not the end. Reach out to someone if you need a silent company. If you are doing well, then reach out to someone who can use your help.
If you are a fan of Connor then it obviously is a must read. If you don’t really know much about him just like I didn’t before reading this book), it is a very delightful read about certain chapters about his life which he graciously has shared and invited us to read. Give it a read. You’d enjoy it.
October 27, 2021
I just finished Connor Franta’s third book House Fires. Since like, 2014, maybe even 2013, Connor has been my favorite person to watch and grow on YouTube. When he published his last two books A Work In Progress and Note To Self, I bought them and ate them up so fast (although sadly I loaned them both out to different friends and never got them back! Maybe because they were that good). House Fires is no different (except I will NOT be giving this one to a friend. Much like Eve, those friends ruined it for everyone). This book felt so personal and beautiful and full of life and lessons on how to love your life. I related to this on a very deep level, with Connor and I both being cisgender, gay, white, men from the Midwest. I might add that we were both comfortably middle class growing up as well. And yet to see that someone else who by all means should have no reason to be sad still has all the same strong feelings and emotions I do is so comforting. It’s nice to know I’m not alone, reading this collection of short stories and poems set alongside some gorgeous photography, felt like chatting with an old friend and catching up and getting deep. We even have similar religious beliefs that the last 40ish pages is dedicated to (not to mention the fact that him and I literally have the same birthday, he’s just a few years older). The dark humor, the self degrading humor from a new found place of love, the deep thoughts, the existential crises, the heartwarming and heartbreaking experiences of Connor’s life the last few years come together to make a tapestry of life’s complexities and unpredictability. Life is crazy and we just have to go with it. A lot of the comedy here is amazing in the way that it is somehow written exactly how I would imagine Connor delivering the joke in one of his videos. I think it’s a book anyone going through life’s ups and downs should read but really anyone trying to navigate the wild ride of their 20s, Taylor Swift lied guys, being 22 is not all it chopped up to be. Connor Franta’s House Fires is a gorgeous book that I will cherish for a long time, 9.5/10 (4.5/5 Stars rounded up, only because I found a few grammar errors that were blaring to me as a writer). -Tyler.
February 14, 2022
I read House Fires because Franta’s previous book, Note To Self, perfectly aligned with the way that I was feeling throughout my teenage years. If Note To Self was a dark and gloomy morning while rain splashed on the windowpane, House Fires is a triumphant return to one’s body in search of hope, love, and purpose. I found it perfectly parallel with my views on life now. I actually got to meet Franta and discuss this project with him. We discussed how your twenties can be a confusing time but to remain hopeful because it will ultimately all fall into place. That being said, I was hoping House Fires would bring about feelings of peace and calmness… and it did just that.
Franta has crafted the perfect collection of prose, poems, and images that pat you on the back and whisper that everything is going to be okay. Make no mistake, these stories are very grounded in reality and discuss hardship, but in House Fires there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. I found myself feeling more confident as I continued reading and I really appreciated Franta’s extreme vulnerability. I enjoyed the concept of the book as a whole: That our moments in life are like house fires. We build up and ultimately we burn down because everything is temporary… but that’s not necessarily a bad thing and it never was.
If you are looking for a read that meets you where you are and takes you on a journey of life and joy then I definitely recommend. Although repetitive at times, everything fits together like a nice puzzle. Plus (and I know we aren’t supposed to judge a book by cover), the cover is really fucking stunning.
“It quickly became the most important part of my
life. To find clarity. To obtain growth. To center
myself in peace. I no longer wanted to live in fear
of existing impartial as I was, so I had no choice
but to change. To die today would be a gift. But in
outright refusal, I began a quiet revolution. And
threw my first punch back at the world.”
Franta has crafted the perfect collection of prose, poems, and images that pat you on the back and whisper that everything is going to be okay. Make no mistake, these stories are very grounded in reality and discuss hardship, but in House Fires there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. I found myself feeling more confident as I continued reading and I really appreciated Franta’s extreme vulnerability. I enjoyed the concept of the book as a whole: That our moments in life are like house fires. We build up and ultimately we burn down because everything is temporary… but that’s not necessarily a bad thing and it never was.
If you are looking for a read that meets you where you are and takes you on a journey of life and joy then I definitely recommend. Although repetitive at times, everything fits together like a nice puzzle. Plus (and I know we aren’t supposed to judge a book by cover), the cover is really fucking stunning.
“It quickly became the most important part of my
life. To find clarity. To obtain growth. To center
myself in peace. I no longer wanted to live in fear
of existing impartial as I was, so I had no choice
but to change. To die today would be a gift. But in
outright refusal, I began a quiet revolution. And
threw my first punch back at the world.”
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
May 25, 2022
i have been a long time fan of connor’s creative mind since years ago and have only recently managed to catch up with his ever so blooming literary works and house fires completely blew me away.
i felt so seen in note to self in a sense that i’m struggling with my deeper emotions and relationships and in this book i felt seen in a sense that we both have the same mentality and struggles with our mental health. he described my anxiety in ways that i never could and i am forever thankful for that and for the existence of this book in general. insightful, relatable, witty—there were simply so many life aspects i find myself relating to as i’m reading through connor’s own personal growth. the discussions on the complicated entanglement of the modern times to our own self and the people around us are definitely one of the most favourite thing i love to read when it comes to connor’s books. he describes social media and the digital era in ways that tops others in my own personal opinion.
perhaps i am biased as i have adored each and every content connor has put out for ages hence the rating and the emotional attachment to this book. but truly, house fires should be read by all AT LEAST ONCE in your whole life. or any connor franta books for that matter. he knows how to play with his words and his writing will forever enamoured me no matter how many times i read his books.
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i felt so seen in note to self in a sense that i’m struggling with my deeper emotions and relationships and in this book i felt seen in a sense that we both have the same mentality and struggles with our mental health. he described my anxiety in ways that i never could and i am forever thankful for that and for the existence of this book in general. insightful, relatable, witty—there were simply so many life aspects i find myself relating to as i’m reading through connor’s own personal growth. the discussions on the complicated entanglement of the modern times to our own self and the people around us are definitely one of the most favourite thing i love to read when it comes to connor’s books. he describes social media and the digital era in ways that tops others in my own personal opinion.
perhaps i am biased as i have adored each and every content connor has put out for ages hence the rating and the emotional attachment to this book. but truly, house fires should be read by all AT LEAST ONCE in your whole life. or any connor franta books for that matter. he knows how to play with his words and his writing will forever enamoured me no matter how many times i read his books.
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February 11, 2022
4.5/5 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️💫
I came across this book at Barnes and Noble when I was casually browsing. I knew who the author was from youtube, so I picked it up and started reading a bit. I really liked the writing style. It was also in the 30% off section, so that was a plus too. I enjoyed the different structure it has of essay chapters, then poetry, then photography. All perfectly balanced. It was refreshing and different. I haven't read the author's 1st two books, but if they are anything like this one, then I'll definitely be picking them up. It was like a self-help help memoir. A lot of it was relatable to me. It was a bit pretentious at times, but other than that, I really enjoyed it.
Some of my favorite quotes:
"I've always felt a level of mental displacement and physical dysphoria in my brief existence in this world."
"There was a certain "black sheep" element to my early years that ensured downward emotional moments, but that's all they were: moments."
"Community within tragedy doesn't provide an antidote, but it does make the sensation of drowning feel a little less lonely."
"The actions of myself are repercussions for all who know me. My risks affect their peace."
"We spend more time building barricades for moments that may never occur."
"The desire to fit in closely with a group of people has been an eternal struggle."
"Once I opened the door of doubt that led toward these epiphanies, I could not go back to close it no matter how hard I try."
I came across this book at Barnes and Noble when I was casually browsing. I knew who the author was from youtube, so I picked it up and started reading a bit. I really liked the writing style. It was also in the 30% off section, so that was a plus too. I enjoyed the different structure it has of essay chapters, then poetry, then photography. All perfectly balanced. It was refreshing and different. I haven't read the author's 1st two books, but if they are anything like this one, then I'll definitely be picking them up. It was like a self-help help memoir. A lot of it was relatable to me. It was a bit pretentious at times, but other than that, I really enjoyed it.
Some of my favorite quotes:
"I've always felt a level of mental displacement and physical dysphoria in my brief existence in this world."
"There was a certain "black sheep" element to my early years that ensured downward emotional moments, but that's all they were: moments."
"Community within tragedy doesn't provide an antidote, but it does make the sensation of drowning feel a little less lonely."
"The actions of myself are repercussions for all who know me. My risks affect their peace."
"We spend more time building barricades for moments that may never occur."
"The desire to fit in closely with a group of people has been an eternal struggle."
"Once I opened the door of doubt that led toward these epiphanies, I could not go back to close it no matter how hard I try."
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January 16, 2022I love Connor Franta as a creator and a writer. So, it was inevitable that I would enjoy House Fires. This nonfiction book is about Connor's adulthood as a gay man and talks about how little representation he had of adult LGBTQIA+ people and that sentiment spoke to me so much. This book felt like it was written for me and I loved the mention of Corey La Barrie, a creator I adored and admired who sadly passed away in May 2020 on his 25th birthday. I was surprised to see that included but it touched my heart nonetheless. Thank you for including that, Connor 💙 The way he talks about grief becoming a more common occurrence in your twenties really hit close to me. Similar to his previous books, House Fires is divided into chapters and balanced out with pictures taken by Franta himself and poems. Overall, I really enjoyed this and will definitely be re-reading it
My favorite poems:
Heartbreaker
quantitative suffering
cycles
perspectives
modern humanity
everything
My favorite poems:
Heartbreaker
quantitative suffering
cycles
perspectives
modern humanity
everything
September 8, 2024
I had some similar thoughts about this work as I did about Franta's other book, Note to Self. I also look back on A Work in Progress with such fondness (though I haven't read it in at least 8 years now). I think House Fires is good, but I like Note to Self more and neither compares to the rose-colored glasses view I have of A Work in Progress. Maybe it's just that I'm in a different place in life than I was when I read either of Franta's other works, but it just didn't fully click with me. I think it's good as a whole and is a lovely flick-through just for the photos if you don't have the time.
December 27, 2021
I love Connor Franta, so I loved this book. This is his third book and my third book from him, and this one follows much in the same vain as his last release, Note to Self, which is one of the most gorgeous books I own. I can't say that his writing is masterful or that is poetry always hits for me, but his conversational essays and beautiful photographs (and yes, occasional strokes of poetic genius) really shine in this book that feels like it captures his current state of mind. If you like Franta already, pick this up, but if you're not familiar or feel neutral, I'm not sure I'd recommend this.
November 17, 2021
connor is literally one of my fav people on this planet, his videos, his words and actions have helped me to get through life literally. especially his first book note to self, it no joke shaped me into the person i am today. so i didn't expect anything less from house fires. its so amazing, he really outdid himself. i just love how he thinks and how he sees the world and it was so nice to get into his brain for a moment but also i realized once again that we are in fact the same person. also omg all of the photos are so beautiful i love them sm. im just so proud of him and i cannot wait to reread this and i feel like it will be really really soon
February 23, 2022
I didn’t feel quite as connected to Connor’s writing as I have in past works of his. There were occasions where I related to what he was getting across (depictions of struggling with anxiety and depression as well as how it feels as you’re in the midst of your twenties) and I really enjoyed those.
I found that with some lingo in this book, it would take me out of the story, and I’d have to give myself a minute to jump back in on what Connor was sharing.
With that said, I had a good time reading this and at times I was taken back to when I read his previous works and how much my past self loved them.
I found that with some lingo in this book, it would take me out of the story, and I’d have to give myself a minute to jump back in on what Connor was sharing.
With that said, I had a good time reading this and at times I was taken back to when I read his previous works and how much my past self loved them.
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