Seasons ago, I resonated to the quietest of tribesmates, a male content to love me from afar while I was the center of attention. We could have been happy. Despite our differences, I loved him and he loved me.
But then a terrible thing happened…and my world was never the same again.
Now resonance is giving us a second chance, but…I’m afraid. What if what I have with my mate is too broken to be fixed? What if there’s no hope left for us at all?
Ruby Dixon is an author of Science Fiction Romance. She likes fated mates, baby-filled epilogues, and cinnamon roll heroes. She also likes to write biographies of herself in the third person, because it feels more important that way.
Ruby also loves coffee and dirty books and will probably be a cat lady at some point. :)
A second chance for love for sa-khui couple Asha & Hemalo
Before I started this book, I did not like Asha. She was constantly trying to steal Aehako from Kira. She was a bitch to everyone and never helped in the first books. In the later books, she only likes babysitting. And in this book, we learn why.
So, after I finished this book, I felt sorry for Asha, I understood her behavior, but I still did not like her. Her relationship with Hemalo is just lukewarm and unenthusiastic. Apparently, he is the only one who can tolerate Asha when she throws a fit and that makes him a good mate for her. Yawn…
And some of the things that Asha or Hemalo are thinking sound a bit xenophobic and racist:
“They keep human customs and talk of human things, and sometimes it makes me feel very isolated in my own tribe. I am not the stranger, and yet…I no longer fit in with my own people.”
“Let them be pleased with their pale, strange mates and their flat faces. I have the most beautiful female in the tribe”
“I try not to resent the humans, though sometimes it is hard.”
Anyway, I wish Asha and Hemalo all the best. But I think what I loved from this book was actually the additional story of Claire, Ereven and Bek. I loved …the way Claire tries to make things right without hurting anybody’s feelings, …Ereven’s lack of jealously and suspicions …Bek’s efforts to show what a wonderful sa-khui he is and how much he wants to redeem himself
“I am happy for you and Ereven,” Bek says quietly. “I may not always show it, but all I have ever wanted is your happiness. You are a good person and you deserve happiness.”
Finally, what happened to the good old smut in this book? Where was it?
I'm going to be honest I had no interest in Asha or Hemalo going into this book. Hemalo was always in the background in the other books. Asha acted like a bitch to everyone and tried to cheat on her mate with others. I didn't like her at all going into this book. So I was surprised that I enjoyed it. Don't get me wrong I didn't love it but it was an ok read that let me live in the IPB world a bit more. I liked the Claire, Bek and Ereven parts of the story. I thought Bek did a good job of redeeming himself from the jerk he was to Claire when they were pleasure mates. Their little side plot helped save this book for me.
Hemalo was a bit sad in my opinion. He loved Asha, and she never really noticed him until they resonated and she had too. Then their baby died and she treated him like dvisti dung. Still he loved her and took her abuse. He had the patience of a saint. I will say that I soften a tad bit towards Asha. I still didn't care much for her, but I could understand where she was coming from. I felt bad for her and Hemalo's loss and pain. I just thought she was too disdainful, self-centered, and to Hemalo a down right bitch. However she grew a lot as a person in this book. I liked that she started to open up. That she started treating Hemalo better, but not enough to redeem her completely in my eyes. On to the next book
Okay, I read this early in my recent time of what will forever be known as "Internetpocalypse 2017" at my house. We actually lived like these barbarians by having no internet for over 5 days! I know, I'm somewhat of a brave hero for quietly enduring this disaster of epic proportions. I barely complained at all - less than several times a minute.. hour.. day. And, now it's cold outside. I feel like Not Hoth has been brought to Texas. I'm going to complain even more less about this.
All that to say that I barely remember this book. It was okay, but the female was whiny. Unlike me. She should have taken my example and suffered in silence.
Probably the most heartbreaking story in the series so far. It’s heavy with grief as the couple have lost a baby and it tore them apart.
“Sometimes I worry I do not know how to be happy.”
There was a lot of anger and sadness and hurt woven into this story. I felt so bad for them both. They wanted to be together but just didn’t know how to get things back on track again. Especially for our heroine who really wanted to be a mother.
I mean, there’s a HEA at the end so things work out but the journey was somewhat of a rough one. A realistic one.
Also, this is our first alien couple, no humans involved which I liked.
The following ratings are out of 5: Narration: 🎙🎙🎙 Romance: 💚🖤💙❤️ Heat: 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Story/Plot: 📕📗📙📘 World building: 🌏🌍🌎🌍 Character development: 😤😠😳😚
The heroine:Asha - Asha was one of the few alien female’s on the Ice Planet and had resonated with the quiet and gentle Hemalo. The two were in love and had a daughter. The kit was born small and weak and died. This broke apart Asha and Hemalo and Asha eventually moved in with Farley and her pet Metlak. Asha had to listen to all the other women who recently had babies and that made things even harder for her.
The Hero:Hemalo - one of the most experienced leather workers who was in charge of roofing all the homes in the new village called Roanoke after the volcano and earthquakes destroyed the caves. He is a genuinely good guy though he is a quiet one.
The Story: Asha said that he mate abandoned her after their baby died. Though I found that hard to believe from the start. She said he gave up on her while she was working through her grief. Though we see from Hemalo that he left her to make things easier for her. It must have been hard for her with so many other women that are either pregnant or had little ones, one of which had twins, so Asha ruminated on the why me aspect. Since her arms were empty while others were overflowing.
Like other reviewers, I wasn’t too excited about this book, because losing a baby is so utterly depressing and people don’t ever get over something like that. Also I am not fond of second chance romance. I have trouble believing a couple who couldn’t make it work once can really get over issues they couldn’t get over before. Though also because I like the beginning of a romantic relationship, not after there are already old and boring issues.
Like the other books, this one was told in multiple points of view via dual narration. Which isn’t my favorite since it is the female narrators doing the chapters in Asha’s POV and the male doing Hemalo’s chapters. I like when the female does all the female voices and the male does all the male voices. Though at least there were two narrators and Hollie Jackson and Mason Lloyd always do a great job. This one confused me at times because there were chapters in Claire’s POV as well as Asha’s and since there was only one female narrator, I found it hard to determine who was talking.
I'm used to our beloved blue barbarians to be attached to human girls by thier cooties, but here we have both hero and heroine who are both bkue! WOW!
This is the story of Asha and Hemalo, who've resonated and who lost themselves in tragedy.
I didn't like Asha from the previous books. She was unlikable, surly and generally odious, but here we see why and how she was redeemed and it was heartbreaking!
Hemalo is also an unusual hero, for a blue barbarians standards! He's not a warrior and a hunter, he's sinmply a tanner. Quiet and composed.
They were mated, they had a kit, a small sick girl kit and they lost her hours after birth... It was heartbreaking to see the haughty Asha loosing herself in her grief. Lashing to all, Hemalo most of all, in her sorrow... Her pain was so deep, so very well shown that I couldn't but feel for her!
Hemalo was destroyed too, but when he tried to share his grief he was rebuffed by Asha.
So he went away and Asha saw that as abandonment and she fell in deep depression.
Here we get to see how they got back together! Mostly thanks to Claire, a timid human who reaches to Asha and with her simple friendship helps her emerge like a new person.
This is an unusual book in the series. It doesn't have a strong sexual pull, even if it is there, it is just not a focal point. The focal point was that even after a great tragedy life can be good again and love helps.
I'm not crier myself and I can count on my fingers, how many books made me cry, and they are not that many. But I cried reading this. I can relate to it. Not that I've lost my child or anything but I'm a mother and I guess that is enough explanation.
But it also beautiful in different ways. And I'm also so glad that Ruby fast forwarded the story for couple of years to give us happily ever after - I really didn't care about time leap. As she said, we can fill in the gap later on.
A humble leather tanner and his wife struggle to rebuild their marriage following the death of their infant daughter in the tenth installment of a book series I thought was going to be a lighthearted smutty romp about aliens and ended up being a bunch of unexpected trigger warnings. The new home of the Sa-khui being underground is a great analogy for the hidden goddamn depths of these books.
Soy gran fan de esta serie, y este libro fue diferente a los demas de la serie, la historia de Asha y Hemalo es de segundas opurtinidades cosa que me encanta sin embargo tuve serios problemas con este libro y no porque fuera malo, so no por que el personaje de Asha no me gusto nada, entiendo que estaba pasando por un gran dolor de perder a su hija , pero eso no le da derecho a desquitarse con Hemalo puesto que el también estaba sufriendo mucho, fue una perra con el, y hasta ella misma despues lo reconoce haha, pero en serio deteste su actitud, quiero decir que ella realmente trató de dormir con otros cazadores solteros mientras se separaron, no no y no, y mi pobre Hemalo lo tuvo que aguantar, el fue tan considerado con ella que hasta le dijo que no le importaba que estuviera con otro si eso la hacía feliz y que la entregaria aunque ella fuera su compañera, hayyy enserio cada vez me enamoro mas de estos alienigenas azules super sexys, de todos jeje, creo que mis problemas son siempre con las mujeres, que la encuentro aveces irritantes y lo entiendo claro porque si no ubviera problemas con sus personalidades entre ellos no habria trama en cada una de sus historias. Asha era tan insegura, creo que su falta era de comunicacion vcon su pareja porque si desde un principio uviera aclarado como se sentía y soltar todo lo que se guardaba dentro, no uviera lastimado tanto a Hemalo, aún así creo que no se lo merecía, pero bueno, al final pudieron arreglar sus diferencias y ser feliz.Y en cuanto al punto de vista de Claire que incluyo la autora, pues me parcio inecesario solo es ella organizando las festividades para que la tribu tenga una buena temporada, lo que si me dejo curiosa es ya llegar a leer el libro de Bek y que por fin sea feliz, hay es que todos estos alienigenas se merecen encontrar su pareja de resonacia, tener mucho kits y ser felices.
This was one of my least favorite in the series. I had higher expectations for this one only because I took a break from the series and came back with a fresh mind. I started the book and it was okay and then I soon realized nothing happened and I was already 20% into the book.
I really felt like this book could have been edited down to 50%. This book was 50% inner monologues and descriptive writing. Also, a lot of it was repetitive. I was really surprised how much I couldn’t relate to the main character. I’m a mom, so I know how hard it must be to lose a child. I understood her grieving, come on she has been grieving for several books.
I guess I felt like this book would help everyone move forward, not retell exactly what happened.
We already know Asha is depressed and sad over her baby. We already know Hemalo left her. I didn’t need to read about that over and over. If I read one more time why Asha questioned why Heamlo left her I was going to pull my hair out.
AND there is Claire’s POV in this book? WTF?! WHY? Oh I know why because it’s to fill up the book. Yeah, to make it a full-length novel.
I probably would have enjoyed this book more if it was a novella and I was only reading the parts with dialogue between Asha and Hemalo. I thought I was going to jump right in to the next book, but I think I’m going to take a break.
This might be the final book in the series for me. I don’t know.
PS, what’s with the lack of sex? I just don’t get the series anymore.
It was a beautiful story of grief, hope and love. I knew I was going to like Asha’s story but I wasn’t prepared for how much I loved her.
Asha reminded me of Nesta a lot. Both female characters didn’t deal with grief and trauma the way people around them expected, they were both considered unlikeable for this and were consequently secluded and left alone.
I thought it was interesting how the tribe seemed unable to deal with Asha grieving the loss of her baby. Like they expected her to get over it quickly and go on like nothing life altering had happened. And I found it interesting because that’s pretty much what women go through in our society. I thought Dixon did a very clever parallel here.
In this case, Asha’s journey to overcome her grief, admitting her wrongdoings and accepting life’s second chance was beautifully done. The romance was very soft and tender. Sex scenes were not my favorite, because they are both aliens. But I didn’t even mind. I loved this book for the rest of it.
The whole thing with the metlak couple and their baby was so good. I need to know they are okay! And I’m hoping something happens with the metlaks in general in next books. Dixon keeps hinting at “something more” and I cannot wait!
I still don’t know why we got Claire’s POV, but I’m guessing it was to see Bek getting over their romance and becoming ready for his own book.
Anyway, this book was so precious to me. I’m overwhelmed with emotions right now.
Wow...we finally get Asha's background story. Geez, I finally understand why she's been so depressed in the past few books!
I started to get concerned by the %50 mark because the main couple had only two interactions. Fortunately they got a lot of quality time towards the end of the book. I love it when a couple gets a second chance!
Did I give this book a 1 star because I was petty? Damn right I did.
PLEASE- the face that I made when I found out that Asha was the heroine in this book- nice try.
I truly sat down for 5 mins just contemplating whether or not it was worth reading the book- But I'm dedicated to the cause, so I endured the pain 😶.
Ruby Dixon truly underestimated the amount in which I can hold a grudge.
Ever since Asha's character was introduced in the last books, I literally hated her- the fact that she was continuously unfaithful and even tried to split up some of the other couples-
To be blunt, I just didn't care about her, even after reading her whole story (which physically pained me to do).
Am I overacting? Maybe. But what can I say, I just love to be dramatic.
I truly felt bad for my man Hemalo though, he's stuck with her for the rest of his life, yikes.
But yeah, overall the book was okay I guess. Because I didn't like Asha, I just wasn't that interested in the story. The ending was cute I guess 😐?
I love this series so for that alone I was going to read this book but to be very honest I'm not a big fan of reading books with the heroine being not human. I tend to put my place in the heroines shoes and..... I'm human, I know I should get over this and I do for specific beloved authors. So I read this book. AND I loved it, this book was amazing, has Asha been horrible yes but she completely redeems herself and you understand her and feel her pain. Hemalo was an amazingly patient mate, Asha was it for him and he was great. I love the relationship we see that is built between Claire and Asha also, and I loved the storyline with the Metlaks. This story was really really good, yes I love the romance but Ruby Dixon always gives us more making these books that much better. I can't wait for what happens next, I really hope everyone gets a hea. I figure that way we get more from this series and I feel bad for all the single men. I also think if anyone could do it in an interesting way it's Ruby Dixon because she already has done that.
*and for those who don't like that the heroine "wasn't" celebrate or loyal to the hero
This was both painful and delightful to read. I've been curious about Asha's story since she was introduced. So I'm very glad that we got this story. Besides it was about time to see a pure sa-khui couple. And I always felt sorry for Hemalo. So I wanted a HEA for him and Asha so so much! And I finally got it. The misunderstandings because of their failure to communicate were as hilarious as they were frustrating. And once they started talking with each other as opposite to at each other things got better pretty fast.
I loved how at the end there was a time gap that permitted us to see them finally Without that I would have wondered if things were really okay and it sets things nicely for another fast forward for Farli's book.
2 Sterne für die Metlaks, 1 Stern für Asha und Hemalo. Es gibt nichts Anstrengenderes als einen Konflikt, der einzig und allein deshalb existiert, weil die Charaktere nicht miteinander sprechen. Arghhhh. And again: second chance romance. Einfach gar nicht mein Fall. Bin froh, dass ab jetzt auch mal wieder andere Tropes kommen.🙏🏽
3.25 ☆ This was a sad one to read. The couple were so strong. Asha (fmc) lost her kit (child) with Hamelo (mmc). They parted from one another because of their grief. But they can truly never stay away from each other. Can they learn to communicate? Or will it just lead to more arguing and anger?
The mmc was very patient. Thank goodness because you need to be patient with this fmc. Everyone handles grief differently but damn. She was rude to him before they even lost their kit.
Overall I enjoyed this for what it was. I am just not the biggest fan of the second-chance trope or the miscommunication trope.
Si ha de ser honesta debo admitir que la historia de Asha y Hemalo no era una que estuviera deseando leer, es mas, no la hubiera extrañado demasiado de no existir, por eso estoy sorprendida de reconocer que esta lectura me agrado mucho.
Barbarian' s Hope es una novela tierna, profunda y sentimental que lei casi sin darme cuenta, ademas considero que la autora hizo un trabajo ideal al narrar la perdida que sufre esta pareja y tambien la parte en la que deciden seguir adelante sin que eso signifique que van olvidar lo que no pudieron mantener.
El epilogo fue justo lo que deseaba, no queria tener que esperar a la siguiente parte para descubrir que sucedia con Hemalo y Asha y el pequeño vistazo que vemos de lo que sera la proxima novela me dejo con muchas ganas de leerla.
En resumen, una historia agil de leer con mucho sentimiento, la disfrute mas de lo que esperaba.
Awwee!!! This was so sweet for what? This is the first time i have ever read about an alien pair and it was so hot and i enjoyed it. Asha was so strong, hot and confident. And i related to the way she expresses her sadness and anger, the way she shut people out and Hamelo knowing his way to her heart and comforting her. I need my Hamelo one day! He was so patient and sweet. And the topic of losing a child was told beautifully, as much as it hurts it felt hopeful.
Claire is such a side character. To be honest I didn’t get at first why her pov was included but then it made sense when you think of holidays on the ice planet you think of Claire and she was also such a wonderful best friend i wish i could have that.
A second-chance romance with fated mates!? Unheard of, right? Leave it to Ruby Dixon to try to pull it off.
Asha has been a bit of a wet towel the entire series. She went from the tribe floozy to the tribe recluse. Granted, I know that she has skeletons in her closet - but so does Hemlo. And honestly, my heart still breaks for Hemlo and how he has been treated for YEARS by Asha. A part of me wishes that would have went their separate ways; however, fated mates can't really do that, can they?
The best part of this entire book was the friendship that blossomed between Asha and Claire while planning the holidays. ♥
I liked it better than expected, but Asha was just so prickly. It was harder for me to get behind these two, as a couple. This book is also a heavier book than most, and content warnings for pain and loss of a child are necessary. Proceed with caution.
Note: Some of my goodreads shelves can be spoilers
Overall: 3.5 rounded to ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Readability: 📖📖📖 Feels: 🦋🦋🦋 Emotional Depth: 💔💔💔💔 Sexual Tension: ⚡⚡⚡ Romance: 💞💞💞💞 Sensuality: 💋💋💋💋 Sex Scene Length: 🍑🍑🍑🍑 Steam Scale (Number of Sex Scenes): 🔥🔥🔥(this might be a 5? I found some additional sex scene notes on my phone I think were for this book) Humor: A bit Perspective: First person from both the hero and heroine (Asha and Hemalo) but also from Claire Cliffhanger: No Epilogue: Yes, 3 years later Format: audiobook checked out on Hoopla
“You are lucky you did not resonate to one of the puny humans,” I tell his unconscious body, as I put our packs back together and bundle them into one large burden that I sling over my shoulder.
Should I read in order? Yes! You might feel a bit thrown in/confused if you start here.
Basic plot: Asha and Hemalo resonated in seasons past, but after the loss of their kit, they have drifted apart. The movement of the tribe has been bringing them back together.
Give this a try if you want: - science fiction romance - alien setting – this takes place on Not-Hoth - both alien mains - second chance - touch of put a baby in me - fated mates - never been kissed - heroine nurses hero back to health - touch of heroine pursues hero - mid to high steam - it's at least a 3 steam but might be a 5? (I found notes on my phone I think were from this book...)
My thoughts: Honestly, I didn’t think I was going to like this one at all. I’m not a big second chance fan and Asha wasn’t the most likable in some of the prior books. But I ended up really enjoying so much about this one.
I really felt for Asha. Her depression after the loss of her child, and then the earthlings coming and taking all the males and changing so much of their lifestyle. I loved, LOVED seeing her open up to Claire and watching a friendship between them grow. My heart was melting when she was able to find purpose in her clan again and feel needed. I loved the recovery themes in this novel.
I enjoyed Hemalo and their relationship sparking again. I did want more from his perspective. Asha is really strong in this book. I love how she takes care of Hemalo and I really loved how perfect they were for each other. I was smiling when she states that it’s a good thing he didn’t resonate to a puny human haha.
I wasn’t a big fan of Claire having perspective in this book. I’m super grouchy about anyone else getting page time/head time. And I think these books are a bit on the shorter side (at least to the 300-400 page historical romances I read) and I want each couple to have all their time for their character development and relationship. It felt like ¼ of this was Claire’s story being established too.
So overall not a favorite of the series for me but it was very enjoyable!
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Extra stuff like breakdown of my review meanings, where to find me, and book clubs. Full break down on what my ratings above mean here: Overall: How I felt about it everything considered! Readability: How ‘readable’ was the book? Did I fly through it? Did I have to tell myself to pick it back up repeatedly? Were any passages confusing? Feels: Totally subjective to each person but did the book give me any tingles? Any butterflies? Did it rip my heart out (in a good way?) Emotional depth: How well do I feel I know the characters at the end? How much did I feel their emotions throughout the story? Sexual tension: Again, subjective, but how strong was the wanting and longing to me between the characters? A book might have strong sexual tension without a single touch. Romance: Was there romance? Did romantic things happen? This can be actions/words/thoughts of the characters and again is subjective. Sensuality: This is how the intimate scenes are written. Kisses and sexual scenes – how sensual were they? Were they on the mechanical side? Was there emotional pull tied in? Were the details explicit or flowery? These are subjective but generally (1) too short to get a good judgement (2) not all what I'm looking for - very vague or flowery prose (3) either not explicit enough or not enough emotional pull (too mechanical/physically descriptive without the emotions) (4) what I love in a scene (5) absolute perfection - perfect balance of emotional longing and explicit descriptions Sex Scene Length: How long the bedroom scenes are (generally (1) is 1-3 sentences (2) is a few paragraphs to a page-ish (3) is about average, a few pages (4) more well developed scenes, quite a few pages with descriptions (4) the majority of the book takes place in the bedroom. This is always hard to tell for me on audio! Steam Scale: Generally, each flame is a scene. If scenes are super close together I sometimes combine them. If a scene is super short or so vague I don’t know what’s happening, I don’t count it. There’s some levels of grey but generally the number of flames is how many sex scenes there are (I max out at 5 so I’ll put a + after if there’s more than that)
I knew a lot of the readers who loved this series had made a lot of judgement against the heroine Asha regarding her past behavior. I totally get how it looked. I needed this book so badly because I am so emotional when it comes to the loss of a child. If you are a mother and I've been one for more than half of my life..my oldest is 27. and my baby is 11 and was a preemie . Well kids are everything to me. The fact is when fear is present regarding your kids or grief .. it will change you, damage you..make you lash out and do things you wouldn't normally do. Asha was so far into her grief that it poisoned her relationship with Hemalo. But this guy never gave up. Even when he left..it was to give her space because he didn't want to cause her pain. As for safety.. they met as babies. No facts as to his sexual past but she did sleep around. This didn't bother me all that much because once they resonated she admitted that he was everything she needed and wanted. Only their loss of their baby tore her world apart. She flirted with a couple hunters but even told Hemalo that she didn't take it further. Was she right ? No but like I said grief changes everything and sometimes you react in a way that tries to erase everything that reminds you of your loss. What I loved about this story was that I saw true changes, healing and love between these two. Hemalo was pure acceptance and pure unconditional love. Their time together went through all the stages of grief and came out more solid than ever before.
I believe in redemption and I found it. Being in Ashas head changed everything I thought before. I simply loved this story so much.
Note : If actual cheating had occured I would have felt probably less forgiving but as we've seen with Claire.. these people just wanted love and sometimes didn't wait for resonance.. and wow Bek and her are now friends. And also it's even mentioned that nobody there would actually take another's mate to their furs. So it wouldn't have happened for Asha anyway.
OK I have to admit that I never really liked Asha...she seemed like a cold distant bitch.
Here we finally get her story and why she's been acting like this. Her mate Hemalo is clueless about how to appease her and whatever he tries seems to backfire.
I’m on book 10 of this series and it’s still going strong, I look forward to every release as I know Ruby Dixon is going to give me a tale of romance with a sexy blue alien to fall in love with. In the case of Barbarian’s Hope I get a sexy blue alien woman as well as this focuses on Asha and Hemalo, whose relationship fell apart after the devastating loss of their baby.
I really liked Asha even before this book, at first she was a bit of a bitch but as the series continues we get to know more about her adding a depth to her “mean girl” character. Barbarian’s Hope despite being a sci fi romance between two blue aliens is at its base a story of two people who love each other coming back together after a tragic event pushed them apart. You can’t help but emphasis with each character…as well as wanting to shake them as this book relies on communication problems to keep it going. But I didn’t mind it too much as the whole problem with their relationship before is that they never communicated properly due to their very different personalities, so it made sense.
This was another good book in the series, all about a couple finding new hope for the future and coming back together, with Dixon throwing in some hot sexy times as well. Anyone who hasn’t started the Ice Planet Barbarians series really needs to give it a chance.