In this book, poet David Whyte turns his attention to the deepest longing of human beings - the desire to belong to people and places and the many ways of experiencing a sense of home.
The House of Belonging has sold over 50,000 copies and contains some of his most beloved poems, such as The Truelove, The Journey, and Sweet Darkness. The deeply moving title poem reads as balm and benediction to wherever one finds one's home in the world, and taken together, the collection illuminates the myriad ways we belong - to others, to ourselves, and to the world.
Poet David Whyte grew up with a strong, imaginative influence from his Irish mother among the hills and valleys of his father’s Yorkshire. He now makes his home in the Pacific Northwest of the United States.
The author of seven books of poetry and three books of prose, David Whyte holds a degree in Marine Zoology and has traveled extensively, including living and working as a naturalist guide in the Galapagos Islands and leading anthropological and natural history expeditions in the Andes, Amazon and Himalaya. He brings this wealth of experience to his poetry, lectures and workshops.
His life as a poet has created a readership and listenership in three normally mutually exclusive areas: the literate world of readings that most poets inhabit, the psychological and theological worlds of philosophical enquiry and the world of vocation, work and organizational leadership.
An Associate Fellow at Said Business School at the University of Oxford, he is one of the few poets to take his perspectives on creativity into the field of organizational development, where he works with many European, American and international companies. In spring of 2008 he was awarded an honorary doctorate from Neumann College, Pennsylvania.
In organizational settings, using poetry and thoughtful commentary, he illustrates how we can foster qualities of courage and engagement; qualities needed if we are to respond to today’s call for increased creativity and adaptability in the workplace. He brings a unique and important contribution to our understanding of the nature of individual and organizational change, particularly through his unique perspectives on Conversational Leadership.
There is a faith in loving fiercely the one who is rightfully yours, especially if you have waited years and especially if part of you never believed you could deserve this loved and beckoning hand held out to you this way.
I am thinking of faith now and the testaments of loneliness and what we feel we are worthy of in this world.
Years ago in the Hebrides I remember an old man who walked every morning on the grey stones to the shore of baying seals,
who would press his hat to his chest in the blustering salt wind and say his prayer to the turbulent Jesus hidden in the water,
and I think of the story of the storm and everyone waking and seeing the distant yet familiar figure far across the water calling to them,
and how we are all preparing for that abrupt waking, and that calling, and that moment we have to say yes, except it will not come so grandly, so Biblically, but more subtly and intimately in the face of the one you know you have to love,
so that when we finally step out of the boat toward them, we find everything holds us, and everything confirms our courage, and if you wanted to drown you could, but you don't
because finally after all this struggle and all these years, you don't want to any more, you've simply had enough of drowning, and you want to live and you want to love and you will walk across any territory and any darkness, however fluid and however dangerous, to take the one hand you know belongs in yours.
My husband and I are engineers who pretty much never read poetry so I feel pretty unqualified to write this review. I'm also not "done" with it, but I don't really know when/if I will be. Anyways, we have been reading these poems out loud to each other with some regularity and discussing them, which from what I understand is how poetry is supposed to go. Anyways. I LOVE THESE POEMS. I just feel like Whyte gets the human experience. The themes of home and belonging and aloneness resonate with me so much, and the process of reading them out loud has been really enlightening and fun and good for my mental health I think. The book was given to me by my roommate, and it's convincing me that poetry is worth my time :)
"I awoke this morning in the gold light turning this way and that
thinking for a moment it was one day like any other.
But the veil had gone from my darkened heart and I thought
it must have been the quiet candlelight that filled my room,
it must have been the first easy rhythm with which I breathed myself to sleep,
it must have been the prayer I said speaking to the otherness of the night.
And I thought this is the good day you could meet your love,
this is the black day someone close to you could die.
This is the day you realize how easily the thread is broken between this world and the next
and I found myself sitting up in the quiet pathway of light,
the tawny close grained cedar burning round me like fire and all the angels of this housely heaven ascending through the first roof of light the sun has made.
This is the bright home in which I live, this is where I ask my friends to come, this is where I want to love all the things it has taken me so long to learn to love.
This is the temple of my adult aloneness and I belong to that aloneness as I belong to my life.
There is no house like the house of belonging."
The Winter of Listening by David Whyte
"No one but me by the fire, my hands burning red in the palms while the night wind carries everything away outside.
All this petty worry while the great cloak of the sky grows dark and intense round every living thing.
What is precious inside us does not care to be known by the mind in ways that diminish its presence.
What we strive for in perfection is not what turns us into the lit angel we desire,
what disturbs and then nourishes has everything we need.
What we hate in ourselves is what we cannot know in ourselves but what is true to the pattern does not need to be explained.
Inside everyone is a great shout of joy waiting to be born.
Even with the summer so far off I feel it grown in me now and ready to arrive in the world.
All those years listening to those who had nothing to say.
All those years forgetting how everything has its own voice to make itself heard.
All those years forgetting how easily you can belong to everything simply by listening.
And the slow difficulty of remembering how everything is born from an opposite and miraculous otherness.
Silence and winter has led me to that otherness.
So let this winter of listening be enough for the new life I must call my own."
I felt a connection with this book of poetry from the opening poem - which wasn't even by David Whyte but a poet named David Wagoner. Wagoner's poem is called "Lost," and it sets the tone for a very introspective collection of poems that read like a meditation.
The House of Belonging is set up in four parts: Belonging to the House, the Night, Places and Those I know. Throughout the collection, Whyte expresses the importance of finding and knowing one's true self and living the true expression of self, which is for him as a poet.
In the poem of the same title, Whyte says: (excerpt)
This is the temple of my adult aloneness and I belong to that aloneness as I belong to my life.
There is no house like the house of belonging.
He continues to extol solitude solitude in "It Happens to Those Who Live Alone": (excerpt)
It happens to those who live alone that they feel sure of visitors when no one else is there,
until the one day and one particular hour working in the quiet garden . . .
. . . they realize at once, that all along they have been an invitation to everything and every kind of trouble
and that life happens by to those who inhabit silence . . .
I love the line in Section II, Belonging to the Night, in a poem called "Sweet Darkness":
anything or anyone that does not bring you alive
is too small for you
This is a must-read collection for anyone experiencing mid-life and - especially - a desire to change careers or vocations and live from their passion. I enjoyed every poem and found new insights upon a second reading. This is a very inspirational work that I will add to my permanent collection.
Underwhelmed with a majority of this collection (but I'll my acknowledge daunting expectations). Whyte seemed hyperfocused on themes, imageries, and metaphors that failed to be of emotional sustenance to me. That said, wonderous poems like "Truelove" and "The Sun", intermixed with bits and pieces of poetic light, salvaged my experience with the work.
No one but me by the fire, my hands burning red in the palms while the night wind carries everything away outside ....
Even with summer so far off I feel it grown in me now and ready to arrive in the world
All those years listening to those who had nothing to say
All those years forgetting how everything has its own voice to make itself heard ...... So let this winter of listening be enough for the new life I must call my own.
So may we, in this life trust to those elements we have yet to see or imagine, and look for the true shape of our own self, by forming it well to the great intangibles about us. ---- What I am Is what I have been grown by, The sun, That great love, All the many small loves, And you that one love too Who waited so long To find me and Who has always Walked by my side Folding my remembering Hand in hers. ---- One small thing I've learned these years, How to be alone, And at the edge of aloneness How to be found by the world.
A beautiful meditative little book of poems that felt very much like wandering through the emotional landscape of a newborn species. It didn't reach me. The poems are beautiful, but crafted from all the reliable ingredients of white privilege: easy access to nature, languid states of reverie, the assumption of safety, an unassailable individualism, quiet night skies without bombs, an absence of snipers and mutilation and starvation and 1.3 million people herded in a place the size of Heathrow airport. All I could think about was the video I saw this morning of five young athletes in Gaza catapulting through the air like gravity wasn't a thing. Like occupation and genocide wasn't a thing. They somersaulted and backflipped over each other, laughed and then ran away to practice elsewhere as Israel blew up another building nearby. I watched that video a hundred times and it was all the poetry I needed today.
Hot diggety damn, I found another kindred spirit wandering this world.
Here are some excerpts from “The Truelove” for you (because, of course):
“I am thinking of faith now and the testaments of loneliness and what we feel we are worthy of in this world.
…so that when we finally step out of the boat toward them, we find everything holds us, and everything confirms our courage, and if you wanted to drown you could, but you don’t
because finally after all this struggle and all these years, you don’t want to any more, you’ve simply had enough of drowning, and you want to live and you want to love and you will walk across any territory and any darkness, however fluid and however dangerous, to take the one hand you know belongs in yours.”
It has been awhile since my heart has been open to poetry. I read some reviewers found these poems to be underwhelming, and I’m certain I would have felt that way too at other times in my life. For me, right now, I suppose, that was part of the draw. They didn’t over-promise or overwhelm. I felt a space for holding melancholy, angst, hope, and wonder, without any urgency. Really enjoyed reading this collection.
I can't say enough about this precious book of poems and David Whyte's incredible depth of vision. This book is at my bedside and I review one or two poems for meditation often. I've also recommended this book to those who attend my local poetry group, as well as friends, especially those who are passing through the inevitable dark shadows we find on our life's path...
I highly recommend this book for anyone who appreciates the wonder and mystery of nature, life... and even death. Whyte's words will touch your heart!
But I found I had somewhat different things to say about it so rather than commenting on her review, I decided to write my own in full.
David Whyte actually made/makes money taking poetry (Dante particularly) into corporations to help move leadership teams out of ruts. Crazy huh? Yes. But he did it and did it successfully. His focus was on the ability of some poetry to move people spiritually. I found this bit on youtube that gives you a taste of what he was doing.
He has a peculiar, though effective, repetitive way of reading poetry that you get a taste of at 2:25 and 5:35 of that video.
Ok, so he found a way to make money reading the poetry of others and applying it to crises/needs in organizations. My impression is that he did these presentations and then made a recording of them and then wrote a book based on them but I could have the sequence wrong. The book "The Heart Aroused" is on amazon but I don't see that the tapes/cds are. I have no idea when he started writing poetry. Again from the bio on his website it appears that he started writing/publishing poetry first and then did the corporate bit if one goes by the publication of books about the corporate approach. But the publisher of all of his poetry is essentially his own promotional company, Many Rivers Press, which also handles his speaking engagements. The House of Belonging doesn't have a list of prior publication credits because it hasn't been through the usual editorial process of submission/acceptance in poetry journals. He self-publishes. Perhaps someone else revies/comments on his poetry, but I would say the poems in this book suffer from the lack of running through the literary guantlet to be honed/rejected. The result is a very uneven collection.
The beginning of the book strikes me as being written by someone who wants to be a guru more than a poet. The poems do more telling than showing and are painfully enjambed. From "At Home":
the sky a broad roof for the house of contentment where I wish to live forever in the eternity of my own fleeting and momentary happiness.
It may be I've been too indoctrinated by current literary convention but I wanted to yell "concrete!" and in many cases "cut this!" Especially that last in the poem "The Winter of Listening," which has three pages of this:
Even with summer so far off I feel it grown in me now and ready to arrive in the world.
All those years listening to those who had nothing to say.
And in my opinion could all be scrapped but the last page:
And here in the tumult of the night I hear the walnut above the child's swing swaying its dark limbs in the wind and the rain now come to beat against my window and somewhere in this cold night of wind and stars the first whispered opening of those hidden and invisible springs that uncoil in the still summer air each yet to be imagined rose.
Yes, a rather cliched batch of imagery (and still that crazy enjambment) but still lovely and at least imagery.
To be honest, I was tempted to stop reading, but I didn't and I'm glad I didn't because things got better (except for the enjambment, which I got used to). I have to say his poem "Four Horses" now resides with other favorite horse poems ("The Names of Horses," "She Had Some Horses" and "The Blessing"). Here are a couple of stanzas:
I find myself wanting to run down First Street like an eight year old saying, "Hey! Come and look at the new horses in Fossek's field!"
And I find myself wanting to ride into the last hours of this summer bareback and happy as the hooves of the days that drum toward me.
I consider his best poems in the book "Tienamen [spelled incorrectly in the book] (The Man in Front of the Tank)" and "Edward" the best poems in the book. The first is not what it would seem and the set up creates a brilliant contrast. The second is a wonderful poem about friendship and how it both changes and stays the same over large spaces of time and physical distance.
I'm going to keep this book for its successes but I wish he would find someone hard-nosed to edit his work. I'll leave you with a link to him reading one of his poems in this volume that does a fairly good job of wedding imagery and soul experience (note that it was read at a psychotherapy conference):
I've been reading more poetry and this was lent to me by a dear poet friend. Although he's a white male who I wouldn't typically read, Whyte is a lovely poet and I enjoyed the book. His work is peaceful and simple, very readable.
Favorites: "House of Belonging," "Sweet Darkness," "Four Horses," "Tienamen," and "Working Together"
Overall, I felt many of the best poetry was hidden in larger poems that were trying too hard to make a point or trying to be deep (without really going there, a case of staring two minutes instead of four, perhaps). For instance, some of the best lines were in a poem about Kavenagh, but that poem was several pages long, instead of just the best of it.
A risk of this sort of poetry, too, which depends largely on symbolic imagery, I reckon, is obeying Pound's dictum to "make it new."
That said, the poems that were good were very, very good. I also enjoyed the interplay of lyric and narrative poetry throughout the collection.
It took forty years to discover that I could indeed read, and love poetry for the art that it is.
I never quite understood that there could be so much variety to poetry. That writing so beautiful, and plainly worded was just outside my path of experience.
If you somehow find yourself reading this review, I encourage you to buy yourself a paper copy. This will be something you come back to read again, and again.
Lovely, evocative poetry that touches on home, community, family, love, nature, grief, joy, and belonging. I first read David Whyte's poetry on the On Being poetry project website: https://onbeing.org/projects/poetry-r... I can't wait to read more of his poetry.
David Whyte is my celebrity crush. End of discussion. "Sweet Darkness" changed my life. When I heard him reading it on an NPR show, I had to pull my car over in a pre-dawn coffee run because I was crying too hard to drive. Yeah. Buy a poetry book for once in your, you heathens!
Superb poetry. I'm not big into poetry, but David Whyte is incredible. I can totally relate to his poems and use them as part of my daily spiritual practice.
Sometimes reading Kavanagh I look out at everything growing so wild and faithfully beneath the sky and wonder why we are the one terrible part of creation privileged to refuse our flowering.
Recommended to me by Goodreads due to my interest in Mary Oliver, I find this to be a decent collection. There are some truly excellent pieces here that hold a universal and spiritual appeal, though there also a great many that seem to wander into a dispassionate droning of description that left me with a distance from the material.
The book as a production, divided into four distinct chapters (House, Night, Places, and To Those I Know) each of them a variation of 'belonging', and carrying with it the central theme of exploring personal attachment, is crafted quite well. Each piece feels appropriate in its placement, truly accentuating its distinct voice in what the author wishes to say, along with what that particular section is emphasizing.
I know my innocence and I know my unknowing but for all my successes I go through life like a blind child who cannot see, arms outstretched trying to put together a world
For the author, as a personal exploration in establishing identity within self, hardship, place, as well as with others, and how that manifests itself in a myriad of emotions, I think the book is successful. For the distant reader, however, it doesn't always translate effectively. It can challenging to wade into some of these allusions while trying to find a sense of meaning, particularly within the author's elusive memories. It can, however, be a joy to find something within upon which to anchor yourself to and therefore unlock the mystique of a particular selection, revealing at least part of the motive and mystery therein. I was able to find that at several points, though not quite as often as in other collections I've read. That challenge does not make this particular collection bad; truly, I don't think there is a poor piece in the entire book. There are, however, some that I could not connect with with any level of application.
The central theme and some of its suggestions, being 'stuck' with yourself, in a manner of speaking, and finding value in that while trying to understand your place in the wider scheme of things, is very pertinent. How time, country, and family, can define who you are just as much as those who you define with your own presence, is thoughtfully presented.
The House of Belonging is a fair collection that I really believe will reward multiple reads. It's a book that is worth keeping on your shelf for those times you may feel disconnected with yourself, or the world. Whyte's voice is a yearning one, though has an occasionally distant, almost apathetic feel, but is presented with a distinct and interesting vision. He is exploring, with thought, word, and prose, what it means to 'belong'.
LOAVES AND FISHES
This is not the age of information.
This is not the age of information.
Forget the news, and the radio, and the blurred screen.
This is the time of loaves and fishes.
People are hungry, and one good word is bread for a thousand.
Sometimes something comes to you at precisely the moment you needed it most. I received this as a gift for my 49th birthday, nearly a year ago, but only picked it up to read over the past month. Anytime between then and now would have been the right time, but that I waited until we were moved into what was to be our forever home, the home we waited some two-and-a-half years to move into, was either cosmic alignment or happy accident. I did not consciously choose to wait to read this book until our arrival at Creekside Cottage, but perhaps it did. As it happens, this may not remain our forever home, as a possibility has presented itself (one for which I have many ardent adjectives but will withhold for the sake of prudence), and so we are, right now, as unsettled as we’ve yet been, perhaps more, since our move to Manhattan, Kansas in the fall of 2020.
If you hadn’t gathered, David Whyte’s The House of Belonging hit me figuratively and literally, thoroughly and profoundly, in ways I am still trying to sort out. The poems within travel in many directions—lamentations and celebrations, remembrances and gifts and odes to love, to loss, to memory, to place and places, to self—but those that haunt and dwell and churn within me still are the ones that seem to mirror my own present, my own pilgrimage to find my place of belonging in the world and with myself. It has, as often as not, been a journey of travail and hurt, of averting my gaze and looking it in the eye.
A handful of poems in, I revealed to my gifter that I was, at last, reading the book he so kindly bought for me, which includes an inscription that reads, in part, “May we continue to create a sense of belonging in all we do.” He asked what I thought thus far, to which I replied, “It might be too good.” Like a perfect chord that, when struck, reverberates and resonates so deeply, so absolutely within that it alters not just your mood or disposition but begins to rearrange the fabric of who and what you are, who you believed yourself to be or could be—even what could be in the vastest comprehension of what that might mean—The House of Belonging embodies and offers a sort of universal truth by which a life can be seen, can be measured, can be lived.
I was introduced to David Whyte by listening to a lecture he gave on the poetry of self-compassion in which he read poems by Mary Oliver among others. I was in love. I listened to it multiple times and shared it with others. I then listened to a couple of his interviews with Krista Tippet and it further solidified how much I enjoyed listening to David Whyte read poetry and discuss life. So I ordered his book. And much to my surprise, I didn’t really like it. I was so taken by his voice and his demeanor and I guess I equated his reading other peoples poems with his own poetry being as wonderful. I found that his poems were essentially little essays or maybe journal entries transformed from paragraphs into poems by dividing it into short lines and multiple stanzas. I wouldn’t have even minded that so much if I felt like he was using lots of other poetic devices, but it really didn’t feel like he did. I will continue to look forward to hearing David Whyte reading other peoples’ poems, but I’m not convinced that I really like his own.
The poems I did enjoy to some degree were:
At home It happens to those who live alone The journey Tienamen
Though, my favourite poem in the book was at the beginning where he included a poem by David Wagoner called ‘Lost’
What an exquisite collection of poems! This is one I was rereading as I was reading and will likely read again ... not for meaning as much as for the poignance of his observations on life, love, and the various ways of belonging ... and now I see the word longing in "belonging," and there is an powerful element of longing in these poems ... for place, for living life fully, for a home for the heart.
Favorites? "All the True Vows," which Bill Plotkin quotes in his masterpiece Soulcraft: "Remember in this place no one can hear you and out of the silence you can make a promise it will kill you to break." The collection begins in the experience of solitude, of being alone, and "How I thought of loneliness, how it works at the edge of all experience.," ("Tienamen, The Man in Front of the Tanks") but it journeys to the way we belong to others and they to us. The penultimate poem, "The Sun" speaks of desire ... the desire to live life fully and to not be someone "on the deathbed whose mouths are wide with unspoken love." And longing ... those unlived lives "remind me why I want to be found by love, why I want to come alive in the holiness of that belonging." The final poem is "The Truelove."
David Whyte is a wonderful Irish poet that I first heard of years ago listening to On Being with Krista Tippett. He is known for his introspective meditations on home and belonging, and those themes are central in The House of Belonging. The collection is divided into 4 sections: Belonging to the House, Belonging to the Night, Belonging to Places, and Belonging to Those I Know.
Section II, Belonging to the Night, was above and beyond my favorite--I highlighted every poem.
From Sweet Darkness "Sometimes it takes darkness and the sweet confinement of your aloneness to learn
anything or anyone that does not bring you alive
is too small for you."
As a fellow introvert who also often feels a need to retreat into solitude, I find myself coming back to the line "his own well peopled solitude" from the poem At Home.
From The Well of Stars "I have a few griefs and joys I can call my own and through accident it seems, a steadfast faith in each of them and that's what I will say matters when the story ends."
This wasn't one of those rare collections of poetry where I loved every single poem, but the ones that stood out the most are sure to be ones that I will come back to.
In that first hardly noticed moment in which you wake, coming back to this life from the other more secret, moveable and frighteningly honest world where everything began, there is a small opening into the new day which closes the moment you begin your plans.
What you can plan is too small for you to live. What you can live wholeheartedly will make plans enough for the vitality hidden in your sleep.
To be human is to become visible while carrying what is hidden as a gift to others. To remember the other world in this world is to live in your true inheritance.
You are not a troubled guest on this earth, you are not an accident amidst other accidents you were invited from another and greater night than the one from which you have just emerged.
Now, looking through the slanting light of the morning window toward the mountain presence of everything that can be what urgency calls you to your one love? What shape waits in the seed of you to grow and spread its branches against a future sky?
Is it waiting in the fertile sea? In the trees beyond the house? In the life you can imagine for yourself? In the open and lovely white page on the writing desk?
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Four Horses
On Thursday the farmer put four horses into the cut hay-field next to the house.
Since then the days have been filled with the sheen of their brown hides racing the fence edge.
Since then I see their curved necks through the kitchen window; sailing like swans past the pale field.
Each morning their hooves fill my open door with an urgency for something just beyond my grasp
and I spend my whole day in an idiot joy, writing, gardening, and looking for it under every stone.
I find myself wanting to do something stupid and lovely.
I find myself wanting to walk up and thank the farmer for those dark brown horses and see him stand back laughing in his
grizzled and denim wonder at my innocence.
I find myself wanting to run down first street like an eight year old, saying, “Hey! Come and look at the new horses in Fossek’s field!”
And I find myself wanting to ride into the last hours of this summer, bareback and happy as the hives of the days that drum toward me.
I hear the whinny of their fenced and abandoned freedom and feel happy today in the field of my own making,
writing non-stop, my head held high ranging the boundaries of the birthright exuberance.
&&
The Hawthorn
The crossed knot in the hawthorn bark and the stump of the sawn off branch hemmed by the roughened trunk. In that omniscient black eye of witness I see the dark no-growth of what has passed grown round by what has come to pass, looking at me as if I could speak.
So much that was good in her, so much in me, cut off now from the future in which we grew together.
Now through the window of my new house that hawthorn's crooked faithful trunk round an old and broken growth, my mouth dumb
and Dante's voice instead of mine from the open book
Brother, our love has laid our wills to rest. Making us long only for what is ours and by no other thirst possessed.
Our life not lived together must still live on apart, longing only for what is ours alone, each grow round the missed branch as best we can, claim what is ours separately,
though not forget loved memories, nor that life still loved by memory, nor the hurts through which we hesitantly tried to learn affection.
Our pilgrim journey apart or together, like the thirst of everything to find its true form, the grain of the wood round the hatched knot still straightening toward the light.
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The Sun
This morning on the desk, facing up, a poem of Kavenagh’s celebrating a lost love.
“She was the sun,” he said, lives in the fibre of his arms, her warmth through all the years folding the old man’s hand in hers of a Sunday Dublin morning.
Sometimes reading Kavenagh I look out at everything growing so wild and faithfully beneath the sky and wonder why we are the one terrible part of creation privileged to refuse our flowering.
I know in the text of the heart the flower is our death and the first opening of the new life we have yet to imagine,
but Kavenagh’s line reminds me how I want to know that sun, and how I want to flower and how I want to claim my happiness and how I want to walk through life amazed and inarticulate with thanks.
And how I want to know that warmth through love itself, and through the sun itself.
I want to know that sun of happiness when I wake and see through my window the morning color on the far mountain.
I want to know when I lean down to the lilies by the water and feel their small and perfect reflection on my face.
I want to know that gift when I walk innocent through the trees burning with life and the green passion of the pasture’s first growth,
and I want to know as lazily as the cows that tear at the grass with their soft mouths.
I want to know what I am and what I am involved with by loving this world as I do.
And I want time to think of all the unlived lives:
those that fail to notice until it is too late,
those with eyes staring with bitterness,
and those met on the deathbed whose mouths are wide with unspoken love.
Every year they keep me faithful and help me realize there is more to lose than I thought and more at stake than I could dream.
My writing partner gifted me her copy to introduce me to David's writing. As with most poetry, I sip a poem or two in the morning while drinking coffee after my free-wriring. David's book did not disappoint.
As Ray Bradbury invites writers to do -- read poetry every day, regardless of genre. There's a way into our subconscious where poets manage to sneak into our heads, if we're wiling to listen.
A couple of my favorites:
Sweet Darkness "The night will give you a horizon / future than you can see."
The Winter of Listening "Every sound / has a home / from which it had come / to us"
I enjoyed his poetry so much, I signed up for his Sunday Series.
I enjoyed this book very much. Poetry like this swirls, just like the vapor coming up from a coffee against the morning light. Serene, but certain. Genuine words coming from a gentle soul that sure has learned the hard way through the difficulties of life and decided to remain soft and open to the beauty in this world. Whyte makes the ordinary moments his teachers. The waking, the sleeping, the silence of an empty house. All at the same time, his writing is intimate, lies in the twilight moments of life and is ready to speak his own earned truths for those willing to listen.
Favorite poems “the house of belonging” “all the true vows” and “the true love” ❤️
How do you write about poetry? What makes poetry good... or bad? With poetry, it is more personal. As one of my teachers said in high school 'poetry is language and emotion in concentrate'.
At first, I found the poems arrogant and austere. They had a cold wind blowing through them. Then, I found the poems grappling with loneliness while still embracing and yearning for solitude.
I found myself drawn in and having the same emotional conflicts.
I could most relate to the poem Brenden about the fierce and mysterious love of a father for his son.