HOW TO KEEP YOUR MAN!

HOW TO KEEP YOUR MAN!

BY

NETTANIAH A.DEWAR

Copyright © 2024 Nettaniah A.Dewar

All rights reserved.

No portion of this book may be reproduced in any form without written permission from the publisher or author except as permitted by U.S. copyright law.

ACKNOWLEDGMENT

I would like to thank everyone who made this book become a possibility; But first and foremost,I would like to thank GOD the Creator who gives strength to all of mankind, he’s Infinite and loving and I am beyond

grateful to him for everything. The world is certainly a better place when we unite with one another in love, I am filled with gratitude for the characters that made it possible. I most definitely would like to thank those experiences that were overcome and conquered by ways of extremities. I give a special thanks to the publishing company, and I give a great thank you to my family and friends who are always there to support me endlessly.

FOREWARD

Nettaniah A. Dewar is an Author:

Songwriter, Philanthropist, Entrepreneur, and an artistic reader who spends lots of her spare time reading, writing, and researching special topics that are intellectual, interesting, and amusing, she educates herself accordingly. One of her best Books which is very valuable and priceless to her; is that of

the legendary "Holy BIBLE: she is a fanatic when it comes to it and recommends the readings and the teachings of that

Book, to all of her Bookworm readers. She is a family-oriented person who had many ups and downs that life had thrown

her way, she had numerous broad obstacles, trials, and

tribulations, but overcame them all through her beliefs, and her faith.

Like many, Nettaniah is huge on relationships and would like people to focus more on morals and standards, she

believes without those abilities implemented there is no structure, no firm foundation, there’s absolutely not enough

significant balance nor values to build a more concrete

formation, all because there is nothing to solidify the relationship to the uttermost degree. Nettaniah also has a heart for people, she is convinced that there should be

boundaries that are set in place, boundaries that will help to eliminate and overcome hurdles, especially when it points to love, relations; and that of marriage, and she highly endorses marriages on an exceedingly large scale.

She wants people to prosper in their relationships and to largely appreciate their mates. Her theory states: although no one is built on perfection there is still room for modification and improvement. She also describes her slogan, with a slew

of informative words of wisdom.

"Nettaniah is a strong believer, that the family that prays

together,staystogether.

She goes on to describe this>>

Slogan

And please do not forget my Slogan-the Emphasis is based on, always Having your own Man! your own

Husband/Lover",andnotsomeoneelse'speriod.

And if he or she is married hands off! Leave taken people alone; don’t invite poison & negativity into your space.

PREFACE

This book was formulated: By me the Author: I can boldly say I've seen it all, heard it all, and I’m still in the learning stages on how the analogy of love is, how it works, and how it is constructed. I’m sure we all would like to know how the concept is systematized, especially when regarding

the behavioral aspect. And I’m very certain that on a day-to- day basis, many are gaining knowledge on the process of the

heart, and its intense abilities to love. It will take more than a lifetime to comprehend the philosophy of love.

The reason for the affirmative writings of this book is to keep the readers informed about love! Love life, and "relationships, or to broaden one’s horizons of the

fundamental value of truth. I myself had some past

experiences in the relationship department, while most of my writing in this book has to do with the significance of long-

term, and long-lasting relations, which consists of a series of merits and truths that are all put together in one. Having

many run-ins with real-life stories of people who were

committed to the absolute wrong individuals, which became their total nightmares in the end. After studying how the

sequence of relationships works for some people, I decided to bring into existence this manuscript.

Now on the other hand of things, I also had that

wonderful exposure to the ones who had, and still have long- lasting and fulfilling relationships. These are relations that are filled with sweet love, peace, enjoyment, and harmony,

those to me are labeled the fabulous ones, so that is why am on this journey committing to paper. I am hoping and

believing that it will help others to make conscious decisions

that ultimately will be the key to their happy and successful love life.

Having written about a few factual stories that were given in detail with reality, and examples that lead to eye-opening experiences in which the originality can be shared to

enlighten those who are blindsided by their circumstances. Let me share some insights on when this all started to come into

existence. This monologue of writing all began in the year 2020 when the pandemic first hit the nations of the world, that is when I actually started on the journey with this

particular guidebook. These writings are based on many factual events of evidential and truthful occurrences in which I myself had the fortunate and unfortunate experience of

witnessing many similar instances and moments of those real- life actualities. After I put everything on paper, I decided to rest it down for a moment, and that was to work on other things, but I recently had the gleaming opportunity to

resurface the manuscript and continue my journey with this incredible book.

There is so much knowledge that was provided along with the awakening, and the truth about relations and love.

Quintessentially, in the history of love-romance-relations and partnerships, love in and of itself was present before time existed. It is one of the main compounds of human nature,

which performs its attributes as feelings and behaviors, it lets off a type of dopamine, and it provides affection, with a sense of warmth and trust, my classification of it is that it’s simply a phenomenon. In contrast! People tend to use love as a tool, an ammunition, in which they use for their own selfish gain, and that is to manipulate and to control someone or

something for their own purpose. For instance, in syndication; people use love for many different reasons, like to keep retaining vanity or to obtain wealth, it can be many different things connected to those areas that they considerably use to exploit. Many people don’t know what love is, especially when it comes to true love, at that. In this series of prologues, you will be able to differentiate and distinguish love in its full features, you will be able to make analyzation of your own relationship with your partner.

There is factual evidence, based on some of these

unapplauding true-life stories of veracities, which will provide you with some clarity of how things might be able to flow within your own love life. Don’t be a catfish for love, there

are endless possibilities out in this humongous world that we live in, don’t be subjected to emotional pain, distress, and

insecurities that can lead to health issues along the way, and always remember that stress can bring forth many illnesses

that sometimes can lead to serious contamination in the body, and in some cases can eventually lure you to diseases and even mental health disorders. Love is quite catching,

revealing, and captivating. With you taking time to know, and to familiarize yourself with someone while having

prudency, it makes room for you to be in a better place and to have a longer and more exciting relationship with that

person.

INTRODUCTION

When it comes to men and women: They’re dating habits should be filled with volumes of love-laughter- honesty-loyalty-greatness-dedication-romance-marriage-

faithfulness-and-explicitness, but there are times when the inevitable happens: for example like; deception-dishonesty- and much more unexpected, and those unreal aspects that people portrays when they’re dealing with love and

partnerships which can be distinguishable, or non- distinguishable and interesting. Overall, having great

communication is what it's all about, and not making too many insentient decisions that will prospectively lead you away into the wrong pathway of love. I would like this

audience to be fully educated and to be prepared after having encountered the reading of this book. I would like them to be fully aware and to be awakened of the isms and schisms that are out there awaiting to be distributed by certain people who do not have regard for human nature, and those ones who

carry the traits of narcissistic behaviors; indent, I would like to bring forth strategies on how to become successful in the

dating/courting arena; while having the full aspect in the journey of love.

Do not be fooled by the phobias of this world, and all of its foundational principles and ideologies. It is imperative for

you to face the beauty, happiness, trials, and consequences, within the platform of love in the correct way. Then

hopefully, you’ll have much more intelligence in the makeup of how to handle, conquer, and how to play in the game of love without the repetitious side effects that usher in the unpleasant journey of it. Love can become an addictive drug; that a lot of times is hard to get sober from, if you can see this concept, you will then become wiser in not making those decisions that are based only on your emotions.

After going through some of these dialogues you should

become a master in your ability to succeed in the relationship chapters of your beautiful life. You should now be able to manifest a different form of anticipation that all comes with better vision-wisdom-success-purpose-endurances; and much more that follows thereafter. You will be able to exhibit a

higher quality that will take you way further in your love life.

There is one thing I must elaborate on:

This book was not designed to separate, nor to cause friction or conflict between people or couples, not for a

million years. The whole blueprint was simply to help many women/men to be able to keep their relationships intact and

to maintain their qualities and values, while keeping the flow running smoothly so that in the end, everyone will come out on the winning team, they will finish the race with excellence. The notion is based on having endurance, and enlightenment all put together in one sequence.

Table of Contents

1.       Knowing HisMoves             1

2.       Keeping His Mind On You             9

3.       Let’s Uncover The Truth About Men             19

4.       Keeping A Relationship Assessment             29

5.       Know Your Worth Baby             38

6.       Bad Girl Style             52

7.       Moving On With Your Relationship             65

8.       The Typical Man For You             72

9.       Let’s Talk About Us Both             82

10.   Be On The Lookout             94

11.   Being A Nag             106

12.   Family Loyalty             118

13.   Breaking Down The Love Life             127

14.   Trusting And Learning             136

15.   Creating Serious Intimacy             145

16.   The Total Betrayal             153

17.   Togetherness             166

18.   Based On Actual Event             178

19.   Women Be Conscientious             193

20.   Strength And Vibes             206

21.   Igniting The Fire             215

22.   All Around Medication             226

23.   Holdout On The Advice             236

24.   Be Desirable And Inviting             247

25.   When A Woman’s Sick And Tired             258

26.   She’s Interchangeable             270

27.   InformativeWisdomAnd Insights             282

28.   ConcludedKnowledge             293

End-Notes             312

One

KNOWINGHISMOVES

One thing you must know about men; is that they are totally different from women; Although some, or most women may have the concept that both male and female are considered to be equal, and when I say equal, I mean how their thinking

mechanism might be structured. For-Instance! men seem to think with a one-sided or one-track brain most of the time, and that's with no offense to them, we absolutely love them that's why we're here to talk, right? We’re not going to forget that there’re responsible for building our world’s infrastructure, the economy, the stock markets, banks, our aircraft, submarines, our ships, buildings, and many more intriguing and exciting amusements

globally.

They are our leaders, our parents, and our protectors.

There is a song that goes like this >: This is a Man’s world, but it wouldn’t be nothing without a woman. So now let me highlight! And continue my observation on

men, they can be overly troublesome at times, and we women can be too, well that’s for sure, especially when we are not getting what we want, and when we want it out of the man or men in our lives; when our brains are not clicking with theirs, everything can go downhill very fast, then we can sometimes become wild and emotional, yep! That’s because we like extra. Usually, we ladies love it when we give orders, yes, we do, and that’s a natural fact. "Oh, and we like it when it’s fulfilled quickly too; if you know what I mean, isn’t that right? Here’s a little observation on men, most times they can be very

forgetful forgetting what we ask them to do for us, Oh yes, they do.

But let’s give some credit though, overall, they try to please us a lot of the times, despite the incapability in nature. Men give yourselves a pat on the back though, for trying to please us and make the house a home, we are not ungrateful not by a long shot we are just keeping it real, in this arena, it's called a reality check. Now let’s get this party started, scenario number one! As we know a woman's housework nightmares are never done, it's

never finished period! It’s always the messes, which is clean-up time! The cooking, laundry, the kids, the dog,

her job, you name it, it is just that of a piece of work. So, most times, after all the hustle and bustle, she wants to feel like a queen, she wants to unwind just for a second, and she wants that queenship to be ignited by her man, am I not one              hundred percent

accurate on that ​one? let me know, I’d like to know "Ha-ha! Well, I am certain about that, and why will that be?

That’s all because I am a woman that’s why! I know the rat race, and the hassle when keeping it together as a woman especially when you have a family to take care of. Now here’s a woman who’s unwinding from a long busy and exhausting day. She starts off with honey, I am beat and worn out, totally exhausted, what I need right now is a bubble bath with candle lights all around the tub, Oh and don't forget roses, that is a must-have, okay!

While what she’s saying, or asking sounds like a communicative statement or affirmation, it’s like a

hypothetical question sort of like, not concrete, she’s having her hopes up, in expectancy.

"The Man:

Honey, come on babe we've done all of that before "The Woman:

How long ago was that honey? "The Man:

I don't know like about 4 months ago maybe; something like that!

"The Woman:

What did I just hear you say? About 4-months ago, babe really?

"The Man:

Well, honey to be honest I'm not in the mood, I have a lot going on in my head right now.

"The Woman:

Like what, work? As usual? "The Man:

Yaa! Like work, something like that, and everything else, alright!

"The Woman:

I guess next time then! "The Man:

Yeah, next time. "The Woman:

Whatever! I'll get it done myself. So, there you have it in a nutshell, sometimes when we women want to be

untangled, the men in our lives are far from it, it’s simply okay though no biggie that’s life, things are not

always going to be the same every day for everyone, people get busy, they get preoccupied, or not in the

mood, and during the moment