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    ALL ABOUT YOU: A Universal Search for Purpose
    ALL ABOUT YOU: A Universal Search for Purpose
    ALL ABOUT YOU: A Universal Search for Purpose
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    ALL ABOUT YOU: A Universal Search for Purpose

    By Dolah Saleh

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    You've probably thought about it, journaled about it, had deep conversations with your mom

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherSoul Work Press
    Release dateMar 5, 2024
    ISBN9798990207813
    ALL ABOUT YOU: A Universal Search for Purpose
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    Dolah Saleh

    Dolah Saleh, an educator, lecturer, and author has counseled others to make optimal life choices for more than twenty years. She has written advice columns and books, conducted seminars, and has appeared on television and radio programs. She earned a bachelors and masters degree in special education and has been a guest lecturer for the State University of New York. She is also the author of Dating and the Pursuit of Happiness and Abu El Banat, which profiles her Yemeni father. She lives in upstate New York. Visit www.dolahsaleh.com to learn more.

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      ALL ABOUT YOU - Dolah Saleh

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      ALL

      ABOUT

      YOU

      A Universal Search for Purpose

      Dolah Saleh

      All About You: A Universal Search for Purpose

      Copyright © 2024 by Dolah Saleh

      ISBN: 979-8990207813 (e)

      All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the publisher, except in the case brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and other noncommercial uses permitted by copyright law.

      The views expressed in this book are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of the publisher, and the publisher hereby disclaims any responsibility for them.

      Table of Contents

      Introduction

      Our Stories

      Chapter 1

      Who Are You? Being and Self-Awareness

      Chapter 2

      Why Are You Here? Intention/Reason for Being

      Chapter 3

      The Doing in Living

      Chapter 4 With Whom Will You Do Your Life?

      Interacting Assignments

      Chapter 5

      How Long Will You Stay? Duration in Time

      Chapter 6

      Coming Full Circle: Life’s Ultimate Meaning

      Love In Your Life, The Podcast

      Introduction

      Our Stories

      I had to ask myself: Why write about man’s search for meaning? It’s been done before. What’s there to talk about? What more is there to say? We’ve got places to go, people to see, and life to live. These discussions don’t really have much usefulness; they don’t get us anywhere or make living any easier, do they? Interested audiences may be limited to the philosophical types, given to intellectual discussions for their own sakes. If we can never know the answers and it remains such an untenable matter, why bother?

      The truth is that most of us—openly or secretly—want to engage and willingly enter into meaningful life discussions, whether we are in groups or one on one. My own undying investigative nature into the workings of man has brought me into countless conversations that begin with identifying a proper career path and inevitably fall into purposeful life reflections. In the course of my work with clients of great diversity, I’ve found myself in the same conversations over and over again. I am confident that I am not alone in this.

      In fact, I have been having meaningful life conversations for as long as I can remember with, it seems, almost everyone. I figure that’s why I was led into a career path where this interest—or need—might best be put to use. The experience that initiates my consulting contacts usually involves one of a job loss, one that my clients almost always highly regarded. They truly cared about it—or thought they did.

      And so the story unfolds with great regularity. What begins as a search for a job morphs into a quest for purpose. The essence of inquiry is stimulated by a thought of whether one wants just another job, something to do for a living (i.e., work, better known as a euphemism for pain, something one has to do to pay bills and support a lifestyle), or that other thing in the back of one’s mind, perhaps the new or renewed consideration more akin to something more personally meaningful, something the individual actually enjoys doing. Might we even dare ponder a calling, passion, or dharma, something one was meant to do? The individual wonders, Is there such a thing for me?

      Some of the more enlightened among us believe that we enter this life having chosen our unique path, only we forget. We have no conscious access to the memory. Our lives, if given us with predetermination and our consent—like a pact we make with our Source—serve as the vehicle to learning what we need in order to finally get it right and return home.

      If this belief suggests reincarnation and lives lived in some sort of cumulative evolution of the spirit, it offers one explanation. It seems unlikely that we accomplish all our learning in the course of one lifetime. Even the revered scientist Albert Einstein believed that the past, present, and future happen all at the same time. That would mean that there is no separation; time is an illusion. But some concepts can be too obtuse to wrap our rational heads around.

      The perpetual quests of humanity—those considerations we ponder and for which we seek the answers—sometimes begin when we are very young and continue on into old age, when we often become more philosophical. Here are the main ones:

      Who am I (in this existence)?

      Why am I here?

      What should I and must I do;

      is there a meant to do for me?

      What role do my relationships play?

      Am I working with a predetermined time frame or life span?

      What will it all mean in the end?

      These questions reflect our need to know that our lives matter, that there is some reason for our being here. Somewhere we recognize that all our achievements and what we possess mean nothing. It’s not that having stuff is bad; it’s just nothing. We are not what we do or possess.

      Even our most essential concerns attached to this earth cease to be. As we come to a close in this incarnation, our detachment must be a joy. In this brief parenthesis in eternity, as self-help author Wayne Dyer called it, we do waste precious time in meaningless pursuits. Deep inside we know what truly matters. We do possess internal wisdom. Whether or not we do something about what we know; how long it will take us to act on this knowing—that’s where choice enters in. The spiritual psychotherapy teaching in A Course in Miracles assures that we will get our intended curriculum no matter what, but we have choice in how we acquire the learning.

      The first of the six major questions mentioned here (who am I?) is one of identity and degree of awareness. The second question (why am I here?) speaks to the issue of meaning, and the third (am I meant to do something particular in this time?) is the material manifestation of our purpose. The relationship question is one of necessity; our experience here involves others, each of whom we may encounter for various purposes and lengths of time. The duration of our finite stay is not known to us, but I have a hunch it is better this way. And the last question (What is the meaning of it all?) represents our unique karma, for in the end we may consider that our eyes come to see clearer and our ears to hear better; our hearts more whole and wide open, no longer bearing the breaks of our earlier experiences.

      Many of us place our trust in religious affiliations and spiritual philosophies that adequately comfort us and allow us to quell these serious concerns for the most part. In contrast, if we are of the opinion that this is all there is, there wouldn’t be much motivation to question our time here. Life would simply be as it is, and go as it goes, and one day simply come to an end. I suspect that those who think this way are either in the vast minority or covertly hold out the possibility that they may be wrong. Most of us get around to considering the notion of a meaningful life.

      It might be that we need a picture, perhaps a storyboard or a yellow brick road, involving as many of the senses as possible. We can be consummate procrastinators, especially while we are young. There’s always tomorrow. It may be that we are too busy, distracted, or in denial. There is resistance in getting straight to the business of a conscious look at our responsibilities in our life’s purposes. Some of us continue to view ourselves at the effect and not the cause of our lives. Does this mean we question it or misunderstand it or both?

      In The Unheard Cry for Meaning, Viktor Frankl assures us that someone worrying about the meaning of life is proving his humanness. He says the quest for meaning is not neurotic but rather a distinctive characteristic of being human. No other animal has ever cared whether or not there is a meaning to life. But man does.

      If you are one to believe that things happen to you and not for you, then please consider that you have both an opportunity and an invitation. There is benefit from our willingness to look, to see with eyes wide open. We can ask with the expectation of being properly guided. We can get quiet enough for long enough to hear the answers that reside deep within us.

      This is not a book about answers but about the questions we all share. That’s because you will not find answers on the pages of any book or in the words spoken or written by anyone else, no matter how wise you consider the teacher. It is about a journey into your self because we were each born with the answers we seek. Consider that somehow in the human experience we have just forgotten our way; we’ve been led and misled, intentionally and unintentionally. Each of us gets to clear our own debris from the path of the stories we live.

      V

      Chapter 1

      Who Are You?

      Being and Self-Awareness

      All human beings are the same—made of human flesh, bones, and blood. We all want happiness and want to avoid suffering. Further, we have an equal right to be happy. In other words, it is important to realize our sameness as human beings.

      —His Holiness, the Dalai Lama

      I was fairly young when I began to form thoughts around the importance of knowing myself, yet the world around me did not seem to care about that. It was clear that the school curriculum had not been designed to instruct on any type of self-awareness or inner awareness, and my parents, although they made casual references, never addressed who I was or why I might consider a particular career path based on what I seemed to excel at or have interest in. And we might as well forget about discussions relative to passion or calling and who I was at the deep soul level. There appeared to be no outlet for such investigation.

      Given this backdrop, it is no wonder we are challenged by the notion of who we are, especially at a young age. Most of us have a sense of our day-to-day preferences, and we easily speak to those.

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