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    There is no couple
    There is no couple
    There is no couple
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    There is no couple

    By Nilda Chiaraviglio

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    When did being in love turned into a toxic fairy tale?


    Ending a relationship, or reviving the fire, means acknowledging love as energy emanated from a healthy conscience.


    Dr. Nilda Chiaraviglio provides tools and thought keys to build connections through agreements that deal with sensitive topics such as sex,

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherOrdinal LLC
    Release dateNov 1, 2023
    ISBN9786075954592
    There is no couple
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    Nilda Chiaraviglio

    Es sexóloga, terapeuta clínica y experta en diversidad sexual. Ha desempeñado puestos directivos en diferentes asociaciones especializadas e impartido clases y diplomados en universidades de Perú, Argentina y México. Es conferencista y ha transformado las vidas de miles de personas.

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      There is no couple - Nilda Chiaraviglio

      For my first seeds, my daughters Maria and Ana, and for my nephew Gabriel, who taught me that children are children of life, never a private property.

      To Baruch, the man I chose to build a loving-erotic relationship, to enjoy the pleasure of living and to make every minute a golden century.

      There is no couple

      First edition | September, 2023

      Text copyright © 2022, Nilda Chiaraviglio

      Art copyright © 2022, Ordinal, S.A. de C.V.

      Design | Sergi Rucabado Rebés

      Illustration | Oldemar

      Photo cover | Rames Xelhuantzi

      Cover design | Manuel Hernández

      www.ordinalbooks.com

      [email protected]

      Copyright © Ordinal, S.A. de C.V. Av. de la Primavera 1874 | Parques

      Vallarta | Zapopan | Jalisco | C.P. 45222.

      All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise, without the prior permission of the publisher and copyright owner.

      ISBN | 978-607-59545-85

      E-ISBN | 978-607-59545-92

      Index

      About what we call being together

      Love and butterflies

      I, in love, am an idiot

      Like and dislike

      Emotions and love

      The great dilemma: choosing a partner

      Different types of couples

      What does it depend on?

      Paradigms of the Patriarchal Apocalypse

      About what we call being together

      &The couple does not exist, what really exists is the way in which a person is linked to another and how they affect each other; that is the couple's relationship , not the couple.

      What we call couple is a specific relationship between two people, that is, it takes two adult individuals interacting under certain rules defined by both.

      Life changes through time and geography (culture); today, everything is transformed more quickly due to technology; it mutates in different ways thanks to situations such as the pandemic.

      We are facing an unknown world that demands a new, creative and flexible way of relearning how to relate to each other and to nature.

      Couple or partners?

      Divorces, single mothers or fathers, people who decide to remain single after a breakup , marriages that live without communication, in conflict and violence or, in the best of cases, relationships that went from couple to cohabiting partners, parenting teammates, economic-financial convenience companions, or good friends.

      All this makes us think that the relationship models that were functional more than half a century ago, have ceased to be so, in most cases. I'm sorry, but the world is no longer a Disney movie.

      «There's only one thing worse than having a partner: not having one», Carl Whitaker said. Many people still think so; however, today more and more adults choose singleness and feel at ease, love and are loved: they perceive themselves with the freedom to do and undo their life as they please this afternoon, tomorrow and in the future.

      Relationship models fall like statues of old tyrants, and one of the heaviest is patriarchy.

      &Dear Carl, the world is flooded with people who think that there is only one thing worse than not having a partner: having one.

      These adults, who build new ways of relating, share their free time, their travels and their sexuality with others who have similar life goals, will always find another human being who wants to share a good plan with someone independent and free from the commitments of a loving-erotic couple.

      &Today, chatting with acquaintances or strangers is considered to be an excellent plan when deciding to stay at home, not to mention the video meetings that we inherited from the Covid-19 pandemic. Nothing as simple as swiping right or left on the smartphone screen, inside a dating app.

      Love in evolution

      In any of its forms, from those practiced in African savannahs thousands of years ago, to those customary in our days, love has taken and will take infinite forms of expression.

      &We are biologically loving beings, for love has been our central emotion for millions of years.

      Life is like that

      As a result of our decisions, we get feelings or situations that disgust or hurt us; however, that never means that we are wrong or bad, or, in the worst case, «that our life has been a mistake».

      We have to reflect again on what were the behaviors that have brought us to where we are, what variables we forgot to take into account, which we did not contemplate enough and from what beliefs we made

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