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Women Lead Men Follow: The Wrong Mr. Right
Women Lead Men Follow: The Wrong Mr. Right
Women Lead Men Follow: The Wrong Mr. Right
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Women Lead Men Follow: The Wrong Mr. Right

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What if I told you… good dads, the so-called good guys are wolves in sheep's clothing

 

You've heard the stories of users, abusers, and those who send shivers down your spine, but what about the men who seem perfect on the surface?

 

The ones who look like the ideal partners but may just be your worst nightmare? Welcome to the eye-opening world of Women Lead Men Follow: The Wrong Mr. Right. Where you now have a secret decoder that reveals the hidden truths behind the so-called "good guys."

 

Unveil the Unseen Dangers:

 

Spot the Deceptive Charm: Learn how to discern men who might shine on paper but are wolves in sheep's clothing in reality.

 

Penetrating the Good Guy Facade: It's time to see through the facade of "good guys" and discover the hidden sides that can derail a woman's dating journey.

 

Decoding the Single Dad: Delve into the complexities of dating a good dad. Unearth the challenges and understand the nuances of emotional availability.

 

Distinguishing Glitter from Gold: Not every shining man is worth your time. Learn to differentiate between glitter and gold.

 

Women Lead Men Follow: The Wrong Mr. Right is your guide to navigating the treacherous waters of the dating world. It takes you on a journey to the pits of sugar-coated man hell. It opens your eyes to society's most eligible bachelors who are cleverly disguised as a bundle of joy.

 

You will be given the tools to see beyond appearances to make informed choices.

 

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Release dateMar 16, 2023
ISBN9798215714874
Women Lead Men Follow: The Wrong Mr. Right
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Simone Idalia Master

Meet Simone Idalia Master!   Simone is a renowned dating expert specializing in the lost art of feminine leading without lifting. For the past 10 years Simone has helped women around the world unlock the hidden secrets to their dating and relationship woes.   Simone’s quest for figuring out the ins and outs of relationships started after she experienced years of failed relationships. She would soon find the answers why in the lost art of feminine leading without lifting. Hence her Women Lead Men Follow series. With her newfound formula Simone has mastered the art of teaching women how to lead in their relationships while letting the men do the heavy lifting. Simone is dedicated to helping women get their dream relationship.   On top of her passion for relationships, Simone runs a non-profit organization to help her community back in Jamaica called Junies Care Foundation, named after her mother. She is a United States Air Force Veteran and a University of Maryland graduate with a degree in Family Science. She currently resides outside of Washington D.C. in the suburbs of Maryland with her husband, young daughter and two dogs.

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    Women Lead Men Follow - Simone Idalia Master

    INTRODUCTION

    Many women know they should stay clear of men who are users, abusers, cheaters, players, drug addicts, criminals, etc. Even if women still choose to be with those types of men, they are under no illusion about the nature of them. Furthermore, women know they will not get any kudo points for choosing men like the above.

    But no one ever mentions the other wolves in sheep’s clothing, even the unintentional wolves who just may not be a good or ideal partner for you as a dating woman. What about them? What about the emotionally unavailable man who provides, cooks, clean and does everything right except that he is completely repressed emotionally? What does that relationship look like? Can that relationship be abusive as well? What about the men who checks all the boxes and seem to be the right ones? Can they too be Mr. Wrong? What about the men society view as honorable; the good dads and good guys. Can they also be a dealbreaker?

    Below is a list of these kind of men, the not so obvious men that you should stay clear of or walk into the relationship knowing exactly what it entails. This list may sound callous so trek at your own discretion. Many women who have come across the below men can attest to what I am saying. Of course, there will be some exception to each category so again, use your own discretion but know you have been warned. The list is comprised of men I personally stay far away from and men I would hope my daughter stays far away from.

    CHAPTER 1: GOOD DADS

    The good dad fallacy. Good dads are great... However, the finishing sentence should be good dads are great... for their children and the mother of their children. But here is the caveat, good fathers are the antithesis of a new relationship. If you are not their children or the mother of their children, they are not great for you. They will always put their children and more often than not the mother of their children before you. Women are told to cherish good fathers and they truly are great, but the only people who need to cherish them are their children and the mother of their children. But you as a dating woman will always come second to their obligation. This is not a relationship you should put yourself in if you can avoid it.

    The only time it may be beneficial for you is if:

    He's wealthy/generous to you- thus, his money makes up for his baggage and possible lack of time.

    His children are grown, and he is not involved in their life financially or can withstand the financial pressures with plenty to spare.

    He's given up his rights and isn't involved with his children (not a good look either because if a man can do this to his own children how much more so will he be able to dissociate from you).

    His children are grown and live far away or have their own means/place.

    You are not looking for anything serious or just want a side thing.

    You want to have kids someday and at least you know he is proven to be a good dad, so the odds are great for you and your offspring.

    I learned the hard way that just because a man is a good father does not mean he is good for me or our relationship. He was great for his children and the mother of his children, not for me. I always felt like I was playing second fiddle in our relationship. On top of that he had no boundaries with his grown children. They each had a credit card that he was responsible for which one of his children in particular would run up $10,000 per month in debt and although he was in a great career it was not that great to withstand the financial push and pull from his children or ex. Think long and hard before getting into a relationship with a good dad. These relationships are more beneficial for their children, and the mother of their children than it is for you.

    Furthermore, a good father does not equate to necessarily being a good partner. I know the term good seem like it will be all encompassing or a catch-all for everything else, but it is not in this case. Something has to give. If he is a good dad that means his kids, and his ex comes first while you play a secondary role. Moreover, good dads cannot compartmentalize like mothers can in this arena. Mothers know how to have boundaries with their kids and know how to keep everything in its proper place. Good dads let their kids come first no matter what and oftentimes feel guilty about giving their kids a broken home; thus, they try to make-up for it by not having any boundaries with their kids. Again, this is great for their children and the mother of their children. Not for you as a dating woman and especially not as a childless dating woman.

    Do not fall for the okey doke or the moral high ground. A man should know how to compartmentalize and put you first as the woman in his life, the woman he is courting and the woman he wants to be with. Save yourself the hassle, heartache and pain by not choosing a man who will always be divided or who will always put you second, third, etc. to obligations that came before you two got together.

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    1.2 What I found out about myself while dating a good dad

    I'm selfish. I don’t like to share time or finances with anybody.

    Dating a man who is a good dad doesn't benefit me

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