Swaddle Me Up: Baby Wrapping and Babywearing for Everyone
By Meleah Ekstrand, Bill Milne and Kat Yao
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Here is a delightful swaddling book that is as informative as it is adorable. This guide to the ins and outs of swaddling and babywearing is any parent's go-to for bundling up their bundle of joy. With easy instructions for multiple ways to swaddle and keep baby cozy, step-by-step guides for tucking baby into any carrier, and advice on safety, fit, and leveling up your skills, parents can rest easy knowing baby is snug and happy, and can get some extra rest themselves. Plus, there are helpful sidebars on sleep, soothing, and figuring out the first few months of parenthood.
Presented in a playful package with both charming illustrations and sweet photography, this book has the perfect mix of humor and practicality to be an ideal gift for expecting parents.
HIGHLY PRACTICAL: Swaddling isn't just cute—research has shown that swaddled babies sleep longer and have more REM sleep while swaddled. And more sleep for baby means more sleep for their tired parents! This book has safe and still cute ways to swaddle baby, and they're easy enough for any sleep-deprived parent to do.
Highly Giftable: People are always looking for easy parenting books to give at a baby shower. Both fun and informative, this is a gift any expectant parent can appreciate and that anyone will enjoy gifting. It's also a cheery add-on gift to liven up traditional gifts of baby necessities.
Perfect for:
- New Parents
- Anyone needing a gift for expecting and new parents or a baby shower
Meleah Ekstrand
Meleah Ekstrand is a doula and a childbirth and babywearing educator. She is a certified instructor with Kaiser Permanente and was formerly a volunteer educator with Babywearing International. She lives in Marin, California, with her husband and five children.
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Swaddle Me Up - Meleah Ekstrand
Introduction
Is there anything better than a warm, snuggly baby on your chest? Combine those snuggles with that new-baby smell, and it’s a wonder new parents would ever want to get up from their snuggle spot. Alas, showers still need to happen, food must be eaten, and the occasional dish has to be washed. But wait, that sweet baby snuggled on your chest is very unhappy when they are laid down. Or maybe you have a newborn who isn’t snuggling so much and is doing more crying—also totally normal. Faced with these scenarios, what is a new parent to do? Welcome to the world of swaddling and babywearing, your new best parenting friends.
My goal in this book is to help you find the right tools to enjoy this stage a little more and, for those moments when none of those tools works, provide you with a little humor to get through this phase in life. Because, let’s be honest, no matter what you do, or how amazing you are at caring for your little one, or how awesome the advice in my book is, babies have bad days; sometimes all we can do is laugh and try again tomorrow.
I gave birth to my first child in 2010. It was love at first sight. Before I knew it, I realized I didn’t just love newborns, I loved everything about babies—birth, breastfeeding, babywearing. OK, maybe I didn’t love it all right away; there was definitely a learning curve for lots of it. I found myself scouring websites and books at night trying to figure out when we needed to stop swaddling (because my baby loved it and I didn’t really want to stop), how to wear a baby carrier, and which one to buy. Despite the difficulty, I found that I thoroughly enjoyed being a new parent and I loved sharing information that I had learned with friends so they didn’t have to spend the same number of hours scouring websites and books looking for the information. In fact, I spent many nights in a chair, snuggling my baby to my chest as I read and searched for the parenting information I was looking for. Eleven years later, I’ve had four more babies and become a birth doula, newborn and childbirth educator, breastfeeding support provider, and babywearing educator. Helping other families navigate this journey has become what I love to do.
Over these past 11 years, as I have taken care of my own babies and supported many families through their journeys in parenthood, I have learned a few things. One is that not everyone loves this newborn stage, and that is OK. Or you may love lots of things about it but still find you need more information in order to understand and enjoy your baby better. That is OK too.
If I know one thing about babies now, it’s this: After 9 months of feeling safe and secure, they want to replicate that feeling, and swaddling and babywearing help them feel safe and secure. This book will teach you the art of swaddling, why we do it, how to do it, when to do it, and when to stop. You will learn different ways to swaddle and a few funny swaddle ideas as well—humor is definitely important to maintain as you embark on this journey of parenting. Swaddling keeps many babies happy and secure, especially in those early months; often, as the baby gets older and ages out of swaddling, you may find you have a baby who’s desperate to hang out with you all the time, and your arms are tired. Babywearing to the rescue. Babywearing provides a comfortable place for your baby to hang out and be happy, maybe even take a snooze while you get some things done or just take the opportunity to watch a show in peace. This book is going to teach you the ABCs of babywearing, ways to check if your baby is being worn safely, how to decode the different types of carriers, and how to put your baby in a carrier. Babywearing can create an amazing sense of freedom that you haven’t felt since before your baby was born.
I will close this introduction in the same way I finish all the classes that I teach. You are the expert on your baby. You know better than anyone what they need, what they like, and what is best for them. You may not always know right away; it may take some time to learn what it is they need or want (and that’s OK!), but you are the one that spends day in and day out with them, and you know your baby best. Please take the advice in this book that works for you and your family and leave the rest! Most babies love swaddling and most babies love babywearing, but just as we all have different personalities, so do babies. Try what works for you in this book and move on from what doesn’t!
Why Swaddle?
Have you ever gone somewhere new and felt completely out of place? Now imagine that you have no voice to express your discomfort. Maybe you are cold and forgot your jacket, or that warm sunny day is quickly turning chilly as the sun sets (we have all been there! OK, everyone except for my husband, who is constantly hot; we will consider him an outlier). You might feel like you want to cry, but you won’t because you are an adult and have some ability to control your emotions. Now you have a small idea of what your little one is going through, and they certainly are not able to control emotions yet. This cold new world is pretty shocking for your baby, who once felt completely safe, secure, and warm inside the womb. Swaddling helps your baby get back to that safe world, and when your baby feels safe and comfortable, they are happier, and that means no more crying (or at least less crying). Swaddling is a great starting point to help your baby feel secure and happy.
Babies spent 9 months in a very confined space, where they were constantly fed and rocked to sleep as mom walked around, and then birth happened and they were introduced to hunger, fluctuating temperatures, a wet diaper, separation, and the inability to help themselves with any of those issues. It really is rough to be a baby! They have also learned that their legs and arms can extend a lot more than before, and they aren’t always in control of what’s happening to their limbs. On top of all that, babies are born with what is called the Moro reflex. It is aptly nicknamed the startle reflex because when babies are surprised by a loud noise or a bright light or who really knows what, they throw their arms, and often their legs, up into the air, startling themselves awake! The Moro reflex happens when babies are on their backs. Now if you have had your baby for even a few short days, you may have picked up on the fact that your baby sleeps happily lying heart-to-heart on your chest, but as soon as you lay them down on their back, they wake. Thanks, Moro reflex! So, to avoid the Moro reflex, why don’t you just transfer