You Must Be Kidding Dr. Supratic Gupta

YOU MUST BE KIDDING

DR. SUPRATIC GUPTA

Supratic Gupta

&

Prakash Chandra

Copyright © 2015 by Supratic Gupta; Prakash Chandra.

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Table of Contents

DEDICATION

Acknowledgements

Foreword

The Prologue

Chapter 1 Flexible Education

1.1 Introduction

1.2 Need for Flexible Education System

1.3 Proposal for Modification of Education System

1.4 Conclusions

Chapter 2 Education Portal

2.1 Introduction

2.2 Concept

2.3 Outcomes and Conclusions

Chapter 3 Hoikuen

3.1 Introduction

3.2 Concept

3.3 Situation in Hoikuen

3.4 Growth of Children in Hands of Trained Teachers

3.5 Implementation Challenges in Indian Context

Chapter 4 Swimming and Exercises for Flexibility

4.1 Introduction

4.2 Swimming in Early Childhood

4.3 Exercise for Flexibility in Early Childhood

4.4 Proposed Interventions for Implementation

Chapter 5 Multimedia Based Sports Portal

5.1 Introduction

5.2 Concepts

5.3 Implementation Steps

5.4 Conclusion

Chapter 6 Music and Dance

6.1 Introduction

6.2 Objectives

6.3 Background and Review

6.4 Dancercise with Madhuri Dixit

6.5 Sexual Bias in Dance

6.6 Drum Circles and its Culture

6.7 Music and Dance for Street Children

6.8 Discussion

6.9 Need for Research

Chapter 7 Music and Dance for Street Children

7.1 Introduction

7.2 Earlier Studies on the Street Children in India

7.3 Earlier Studies on the Street Children outside India

7.4 Themes for Intervention

7.5 Proposal

7.6 Conclusion

Chapter 8 Counselling

8.1 Introduction

8.2 Concept

8.3 Pre-birth and Post-birth Counselling

8.4 Adolescent Counselling

8.5 Pre-Marital and Post- Marital Counselling

8.6 Midlife Counselling

Chapter 9 Life of Women and Happiness

9.1 Introduction

9.2 The World from Women’s Point of View

9.3 The World from Men’s Point of View

9.4 Importance of Exercise for Happiness

9.5 Exploitation as perceived from both side

9.6 Women and Education

9.7 Story of Women from across the World

9.8 Expert Committee and Research

9.9 Methodology

9.10 Proposed Programme Activities

Chapter 10 Old Age Home

10.1 Introduction

10.2 Current Status of Old Age Care Centres

10.3 Objectives & Facilities

10.4 Social Responsibility Factor

Chapter 11 Scientific Thinking

11.1 Introduction

11.2 Discussion and Analysis

11.3 Life Examples

Chapter 12 Structure of Research Work

12.1 Introduction

12.2 Structure of a Thesis

12.3 Graphical and Pictorial Presentation

12.4 Slide Preparation

12.5 Practice and Presentation

12.6 Facing Question and Answer Session

Chapter 13 Research Portal

13.1 Introduction

13.2 Concept

13.3 Outcomes

Chapter 14 Research Environment in India

14.1 Introduction

14.2 National Conferences

14.3 Research Environment in Japan and USA

14.4 Honorarium to Faculty in Projects

14.5 Patents

14.6 Private Investment in Research and Development

14.7 Right to participate in Politics

14.8 Conclusion

EPILOGUE

Comments from Reader

DEDICATION

This book would not have been possible without sharing an awesome and eventful life with wife Rupa and son Sagar.

I would like to express my gratitude from the bottom of the heart to my both Life Co-travellers.

Life would not have been so kind to this crazy man, without either of you.

- Supratic Gupta

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

No creation in this world is a solo effort and both authors are extremely thankful to motivating people, who contributed in completion of this book, right from inception to the final editing stage. They were important part of the awesome caravan of ideas, which we rolled.

Our sincere thanks to Ms. Divya Singh, who designed the book graphics and outlay. Her efforts helped us a lot in completing the book in the present form. We would also like to thank Mr. Kaushal Mahaseth for his contribution in the initial documentation stage of the book.

We are also thankful to our family members, including our life partners, Rupa and Uma, who were pillars of support during the hectic schedule, extending over more than two years. Our children brigade, Sagar, Apoorva and Atharva were constant sources of many inspiring and fresh ideas, particularly in the fields of education, sports, and child rearing. Thanks kids, you were our first school of Hard-Knock Learning! We are grateful to our parents for their blessings. Special thanks are due to Dr. Gupta’s brother Prithwish Kumar Gupta and his wife Sara Ann, Sister-in-law Sanchita Gupta and his class mates of 1984 Batch, Ramkrishna Mission Vidyapith, Deoghar, for their support. We are also thankful to Prof. K. S. Rao, Prof. Gurmail Benipal, Prof. K. Ramachandra Rao, Prof. A.K. Nema, Prof. Rakesh Khosa and others at IIT Delhi for their support.

We also extend our sincere thanks to Partridge publications.

Supratic Gupta

Prakash Chandra

FOREWORD

I remember Supratic when he was a student in Ramakrishna Mission Vidyapith, Deoghar, during the years from 1977 to 1984. I was then serving as Secretary of the Vidyapith. He would often ask strange questions about God, faith and world. For most of his classmates, he was their little maths teacher. I was very happy when Supratic, with his sincere efforts got admission into IIT Madras after securing a good rank in the entrance test.

This book is a compilation of his thoughts based on his professional experience in India and Japan. It is good that Supratic has teamed up with his schoolmate Prakash Chandra, a social worker by profession, to compile their constructive thoughts in the form of book. It is a matter of satisfaction that alumni of our school are coming forward in conceptualizing and penning down their life experiences for the good of others.

I wish both of my students success in their projects and lives. May Sri Ramakrishna, Sri Sarada Devi and Swami Vivekananda ever bless them.

Swami Suhitananda

General Secretary

Ramakrishna Math & Ramakrishna Mission

Belur Math

Howrah, West Bengal - 711202

THE PROLOGUE

The caravan of Dr. Supratic Gupta’s rainbow-ideas was assembled in the frantic life storms of Guwahati, Japan and Delhi. Just 4 years back, life’s grey undercurrent was rocking his soul-boat like a tossing leaf and he was trying to save his own existence, as well as his wits, around the topsy-turvy world. He had not intended kidding, when he started to pen-down his experiences as well as pains. It started with scores of e-mails, posted randomly to sympathetic ears of a counsellor-cum-friend and co-author of this book Mr. Prakash Chandra. Dr. Gupta was quite serious about important things in life; which seemed too important to be left solely to the discretion of the experts. It is about the life, its ups & downs and the way we look at it; usually in a drab colour, without any enjoyment and entertainment.

A swarm of questions started to haunt him like storms of tormenting thoughts. When he tried to find out some answers, many friends and well-wishers nodded in confusion and asked him politely that if he was kidding? After all, a Professor of prestigious Indian Institute of Technology is supposed to stick to his engineering academic agenda and not sermonize on complex psycho-social issues, without any expert’s relevant degrees and credentials. Ignorance to the theoretical knowledge of a complex problem was a mixed-blessing, since it is devoid of any earlier academic influence and bias. The Professor represents the Aam Aadmi or a common man’s concern on several burning problems.

He wondered why the emergence of India, as a major force in world economy and geopolitical entity is lopsided and full of anomalies, with such gaps, contrasts and holes in the success story of development. Why other Asian countries like Japan, China and Korea have forged far ahead in development, cultural refinement and scientific temper, while India is still in nascent stage of development? Why India has such glaring income and class disparity ranging from low income classes to the so called High Values Assets people? It is important for us, the people of India, to sit down and think - what is important in life and what is lacking in our attitude and values that we have to unlearn and change.

To understand the depth and feeling of the concepts elaborated in the book, it is important to understand the background of Dr. Gupta. He was born in Guwahati, Assam, where his family had settled after migrating from Bangladesh and overcoming a hand-to- mouth existence. With hard work and long hours of tireless efforts, his family soon transformed into a well-off construction company. Inspite of losing his mother in childhood, he grew up in a loving atmosphere of the joint family. He was very intelligent and became a loving child respectful to all in this positive atmosphere. He nurtured into an open- hearted innocent and carefree boy, with an insatiable curiosity of asking too many questions about life, god, untouchability, superstitions, etc. He was a chirpy Pied-Piper, who was apt in winning hearts of all around him. His grandmother used to read to him the books of Ramayana and Mahabharata, which had a major influence on him.

The author and his elder brother grew up in a holistic and nurturing atmosphere of a boarding school, Ramkrishna Mission Vidyapith, situated in Deoghar, Jharkhand. In the school, the stories of Swami Vivekananda and Lord Buddha had a deep impact on his fertile mind. He believed in the concept of "Karma is Dharma", with the dictum that one should do his duty sincerely and accept unconditionally the results that follows; good or bad has to be accepted based on a verse from Bhagwad Gita- Karmanye vaadhikaraste, Maa faleshu kadachana. Introspection is important, however excessive happiness or regret is harmful. This philosophy helped him to cross difficult stages of his life; as the sad moments to him appeared as mere results of his action.

His life turned out more like the child of the hindi movie ‘Tare Jamin Pe’, who struggled in almost all subjects in his studies, but was the considered as the best student in mathematics. From his very childhood, he was good in logic and was far ahead in maths in his class, almost by two years. It made him the natural teacher to all of his friends in this subject. Little did the school and friends realize that he was suffering from Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder-ADHD, with alternating flashes of brilliance and lethargy. He became serious in study only after Class IX and his dedicated efforts culminated in his getting JEE 326 rank at national level. Despite his high rank, he did not opt for popular engineering streams like Computers Science and joined Civil Engineering in IIT, Madras, by choice. He completed Bachelor’s degree from IIT Madras and went to Japan for higher studies, where he spent twelve years, completing his masters and doctoral studies. More importantly, in Japan, he received the opportunity to meet students from all across the world, representing all region and culture, which provided him a deep insight of life.

He was exposed to the inspiring thoughts of Swami Vivekanada and Lord Buddha from the very early childhood. He was fascinated by his grandmother, who narrated to him the mystic Hindu religious and mythological stories. Most of the concepts in book have originated from multi-events and experiences, including those from 12 years of eventful life in Japan, where he had seen the beauty of Japanese society with all its sincerity. His marriage at the age of 24 years, birth of his son after 8 years and the way Japanese society takes care of child birth; all such experiences moved him. Later, the pangs of seeing the shattered dreams of his son of becoming an Olympic level swimmer, inspite of his sincere attempts, raised many questions about the prevailing Indian educational system. He went in depth by going through books on diverse religions and philosophies and travelled worldwide, with similar questions swirling in his mind.

Like a magnet, Dr. Gupta attracted like-minded people and organised a team to give further momentum to his ideas. The co-author of this book, Prakash Chandra joined him three years back as a counsellor and a friend. He was impressed by Dr. Gupta’s herculean efforts in organising his concepts as well as his own troubled life and later joined the core content development team. Mr. Prakash Chandra had two decades of experiences in the field of social developmental sector and psychological counselling, while working with leading National and International organizations, including SOS Children’s Villages of India (Orphan Care), Nidan and Jaipur Rugs Foundation. A chanced interaction on social media attracted him towards the offbeat and creative ideas of Dr. Gupta. Later, Prakash Chandra, was much impressed by Professor’s strong character and passion.

Despite the fact that Dr. Gupta was fighting bravely the battles of his own life with shattered dreams, problematic son (also diagnosed as ADHD) and troubled family; he was still trying to convert the experiences into strength. He was attempting to make effective change in the system through