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Heal Your Home 2 - Adrian Incledon-Webber
Acknowledgements
This book is dedicated to Allyson and Annie, both of whom have been my constant companions on this journey. One has kindly kept me supplied with toast, whilst the other helped eat it.
I could not have completed any of my books without them by my side, or in Annie’s case, by my feet. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
To my boys Alistair and Charles, each year I have grown more proud of them. Two hard working, honest men that I am honoured to call my sons and best friends.
To Jess, a very welcome addition to the I-W’s, I could not have wished for a better daughter in law.
And to Natalie, I hope that you make an honest man of him soon.
James McNeill and Mark Ames, a very big thank you for lending me the Coach House for two weeks, it allowed me to really crack on with the book, couldn’t have done it without you. The gin and tonics kept me going!
Lottie and Tracy, two very special friends, it means a lot to me that you are there.
My fabulous and talented editor Michelle, without whom the books (all three of them) would probably never have made it to print. A very big thank you.
And Huw, the amazing guy that has done all the artwork for my books, DVD, logos etc. He has never failed to come up with the goods, so intuitive and insightful.
Sukhi and Malkit. Their beautiful home in Crete where Heal Your Home 2 started. I admit that it was not easy to leave the sunny patio and start typing but I hope that the end result makes you proud.
And, of course, to all the people who bought Heal Your Home and my clients worldwide, thank you all for your support. The wonderful feedback received from you over the last few years encouraged me to write this sequel.
To all my dowsing mates out there, you know who you are.
I was told by a Medium some years back that I would write at least four books. I am not sure what the next one will be, but keep an eye open.
Contents
Acknowledgements
Editor’s Note
Introduction
Part One - Reasons to Dowse and Heal your Home
Why should you heal your home?
Health and Wellbeing
Dementia
Energy Work
Self-Love and Self-Esteem
Parental Patterning
Divorce & Family Separation
Spirituality and Business
Regrets
Reason, Season, Lifetime
Part Two - Preparing to Dowse
Preparation is Key
Psychic Protection
Spirit Guides
Healing Energy
Dowsing
Part Three - Diagnosing Your Home
The New Checklist
Heal your Home Checklist
Spirits, Attachments, Human Manifested Energy Forms
1. Spirits, Ghosts, Tricky Spirits, Trapped Souls
1a. Spirits Attached to the Auric Field
2. Detrimental/Inappropriate Attachments
3. Detrimental Energy Forms (Human Manifested)
4. Lower Animal Life Forms
5. Sorcery/Black Magic
6. Spirit Lines
Earth Energies
7. Water Veins/Underground Streams
8. Any other detrimental water source
9. Earth Energy Lines
10. Energy Channels
11. Fault Lines
12. Dynamic Energy Lines
13. Human Intent Lines
14. Energy Spirals
15. Energetic Sink Holes
16. Reversal Points
Detrimental Human Energy Patterns
17. Emotional Energy Areas (Human Conflict)
18. Psychic Cords
19. Dimensional Portals
20. Illness Trigger Points
21. Consecrated Ground
22. Curses and Spells
23. Psychic Attack
24. Power Artefacts
25. Place Memory
26. Interdimensional Place Memory
27. Vows or Contracts
28. Fractured/Torn Souls
29. Stress/Disturbance Lines (Man-made)
30. Karmic Problems – Simultaneous Life Trauma
30a. Karmic Problems – Parallel Life Trauma
31. Detrimental Implants
32. Toxic Lines
33. Chakra Alignments and/or Blockages
34. Anything else affecting the house and family (in garden/grounds or close by)
35. Fabric of the Building
36. Anaesthetic Traces, Inoculations, Vaccinations, Heavy Metals
37. Parasites
Off-World Energies
38. Off-World Interference, Psychic Attack, Psychic Cords
39. Off-World Lines
40. Detrimental Planetary Rays
Technopathic Stress, Fracking
41. Technopathic Stress
42. Human Interference Lines
43. Fracture Lines Caused by Fracking
44. Harmful Frequencies
Guardian Spirits, Elementals
45. Guardian of the Site, Spirit of Place or Home
46. Elementals in the House and Detrimental Pathways
47. Tree Spirits
Detrimental Animal Energies
48. Animal Spirits
49. Animal Created Stress Lines
Associated Healing
50. Any beneficial areas to sit/meditate
51. Energising/Healing Rays
52. Anything else to be considered regarding the health of the people
53. Is there anything else that is detrimental for me to find?
54. Family DNA clearing and healing
Part Four - Healing
Preparing to Heal
How to carry out a healing safely
Healing Methods
Dimensional Healing
Heal your Home Checklist
Spirits, Attachments, Human Manifested Energy Forms
1. Spirits, Ghosts, Tricky Spirits, Trapped Souls
1a. Spirits Attached to the Auric Field
2. Detrimental/Inappropriate Attachments
3. Detrimental Energy Forms (Human Manifested)
4. Lower Animal Life Forms
5. Sorcery/Black Magic
6. Spirit Lines
Earth Energies
7. Water Veins/Underground Streams
8. Any other detrimental water source
9. Earth Energy Lines
10. Energy Channels
11. Fault Lines
12. Dynamic Energy Lines
13. Human Intent Lines
14. Energy Spirals
15. Energetic Sink Holes
16. Reversal Points
Detrimental Human Energy Patterns
17. Emotional Energy Areas (Human Conflict)
18. Psychic Cords
19. Dimensional Portals
20. Illness Trigger Points
21. Consecrated Ground
22. Curses and Spells
23. Psychic Attack
24. Power Artefacts
25. Place Memory
26. Interdimensional Place Memory
27. Vows or Contracts
28. Fractured/Torn Souls
29. Stress/Disturbance Lines (Man-made)
30. Karmic Problems – Simultaneous Life Trauma
30a. Karmic Problems – Parallel Life Trauma
31. Detrimental Implants
32. Toxic Lines
33. Chakra Alignments and/or Blockages
34. Anything else affecting the house and family (in garden/grounds or close by)
35. Fabric of the Building
36. Anaesthetic Traces, Inoculations, Vaccinations, Heavy Metals
37. Parasites
Off-World Energies
38. Off-World Interference, Psychic Attack, Psychic Cords
39. Off-World Lines
40. Detrimental Planetary Rays
Technopathic Stress, Fracking
41. Technopathic Stress
42. Human Interference Lines
43. Fracture Lines Caused by Fracking
44. Harmful Frequencies
Guardian Spirits, Elementals
45. Guardian of the Site, Spirit of Place or Home
46. Elementals in the House and Detrimental Pathways
47. Tree Spirits
Detrimental Animal Energies
48. Animal Spirits
49. Animal Created Stress Lines
Associated Healing
50. Any beneficial areas to sit/meditate
51. Energising/Healing Rays
52. Anything else to be considered regarding the health of the people
53. Is there anything else that is detrimental for me to find?
54. Family DNA clearing and Healing
Closing Down
The Settling Down Period
Healing Effects
Afterword
About Adrian
Also available from Adrian
Editor’s Note
When I met Adrian’s wife, Allyson in 2012, I had no idea that my casual offer to advise her husband on how to get his book published would result in him becoming my client of 8 years, with three books completed, or that we would also become friends in the process. Eight years ago, Adrian trusted me with helping to publish his book, Heal Your Home, and it has since helped many people, myself included, to clear and heal themselves and their homes of detrimental energies.
The world is shifting and changing more rapidly now than ever before, and it is so important that we not only recognise lower energies that need healing or releasing, but that we are able to release them and heal them for ourselves. When I first read Heal Your Home, back in 2013, what struck me was that out of all the dowsing and healing books I had read (having been dowsing since 2005) it was the only one that actually offered actionable, concrete solutions to the issues. It was not simply telling you how to find the problems, it was also telling you how to fix them, and that, to me, was pure gold. Especially as none of the solutions required fancy ingredients or tools or skills that the average person does not have.
Working with Adrian on his books is always a pleasure, not only because they are books on topics that I am passionate about, and am thrilled to be able to help create, but also because Adrian is devoted to helping others to live their lives unencumbered by negative energies and influences, and so is willing to work hard to make the books as easy to read and to use as possible. This new edition has taken on a slightly different format to the first, and we hope that it is even easier to use, and that healing your home and your life is simpler than ever, because you deserve to live your life joyfully, without external forces negatively affecting you.
Michelle Gordon
Author of Where’s My F**king Unicorn?
and the Earth Angel Series
February 2021
Introduction
It is often said that as soon as a book is published it is out of date, and I didn’t want that to be the case for my first book, Heal Your Home, or the courses that I teach. As a result, the information in Heal Your Home is very much ‘evergreen’, but over the last seven years since it was published, there have been many new discoveries, which have prompted me to write this edition.
As planetary energies change, so do we. Our thoughts, our beliefs and of course, our healing methods are ever-evolving. Nothing stays the same and that is the reason for this new book.
I have never been one to stand still. I am always looking for and willing to accept guidance from above. Each house and family that I work on is an education, another step toward further honing the skills that I have been given. I will always be eternally grateful to my friend and mentor Andy Roberts for speaking the immortal words ‘You too can do this’ in the midst of a healing session. It set me off on a path that I could not even have imagined.
Thanks to Heal Your Home, I have connected with amazing and wonderful people from all over the world and the feedback has been outstanding. People are reading my book, taking on board what I have written and then are using the healing methods that I have given them. This fulfils the main purpose for me writing the first book, to empower people to help and heal themselves. This new edition, Heal Your Home 2, will also enable you to carry out additional healing on your own home and family, taking it to the next level.
Writing these books is rather like giving people a rod and teaching them to fish rather than just giving them food. That way they can help themselves rather than relying on others to provide what they need. When I hear about readers beginning to individualise how they carry out the healing, I am thrilled. I have also been told on many occasions that as soon as my book enters a home, the healing process begins. The book itself seems to have taken on a life force of its own, which is something that I never expected or imagined.
Some of the new information I have to share, has been channelled and some of it has come from the need to delve further into a problem faced by clients during the healing work on their homes and family.
When working on a house it is rather like a detective novel, you never know what you are going to find, rarely do you know where it is going to lead, and finally what new discoveries you might make along the way.
It is dealing with these new discoveries that has brought about these new additions to my checklist. It may never be a finalised list. Increased sensitivities, with mobile phones becoming more powerful, and being hit by intensive EMF’s and microwaves from Smart Meters etc., will cause the list to grow. And of course, the healing will need to change and develop with it.
Seven years ago, my editor and I decided to leave a number of chapters out of Heal Your Home, mainly on E.T.s (or Off-Worlders, as I prefer to call them,) to ensure the creditability of the book. Most of what I wrote about in Heal Your Home was totally new information to many people; and my editor, Michelle, didn’t want me to include any chapters or information that might alienate (no pun intended) or destroy any credence or confidence that people would have in the book, and I had to agree with her thoughts. But now, in Heal Your Home 2, we can let rip!
There are now fifty-six questions to work through. Some of the titles of what to look for have been slightly changed from Heal Your Home mostly to bring them up to date with my current thinking, and some of the topics are brand new.
Although the book is called ‘Heal Your Home’, I would say that probably 60% of the healing is done on the people within the home. Our homes contain many noxious energies, but so do humans. A client once said to me ‘The family is so much healthier and happier since you healed our house’. Working on the family and clearing away the inherent emotional problems that we all face, helps enormously. It gives us an inner strength that we all perhaps had but lost somewhere along the way.
Life is hard and we can easily get worn down mentally, physically, and spiritually by the stresses and strains of modern living, and the joy of life gets eroded. Recent world events including the virus outbreak have further compounded these issues, as fear and worry have pervaded our daily lives, making life even more difficult.
We are all on the money-go-round, and we often forget to have fun. In fact, I would say that we don’t know what fun is anymore, as the days roll into weeks, then months and finally years before we perhaps see a flicker of light at the end of the tunnel. The light that the Dalai Lama would now call ‘liberation’ (aka enlightenment). This is the realisation that your life is not what it should be, and you then begin to change your whole outlook. You become a seeker, trying to find the answer to those elusive questions that have agonised people for years: ‘Why are we here?’ and ‘What is my life all about?’.
By clearing ourselves of the emotional baggage that we carry, especially parental programming, we stand a chance of moving forward, to see life as it truly is and then start to help others.
My gift to you is this book, which holds the tools to start your journey.
Adrian Incledon-Webber
Richmond, Yorkshire
February 2021
Part One - Reasons to Dowse and Heal your Home
Why should you heal your home?
We need to become responsible for ourselves, and for our own wellbeing. And by buying this book and following the methods to heal your home and your family and yourself, this is exactly what you are doing. I want to touch upon some of the ways in which detrimental energies in your home can affect your life, and the lives of your loved ones, and how important it is that you take your time to work through this book.
I highly recommend that you set aside time on a regular basis to check that your home and family are clear of detrimental energies. I like to check my own home once a week, just to ensure nothing has become attached to a family member, or the shifting energies haven’t produced any detrimental energies that weren’t there before.
Sean O’Geary, a very old friend of mine, once said to me ‘Before you can become Self-Less, you have to become Self-ish’. I remember being both confused and annoyed at the same time. I think that I was somewhere in my late 20s and hadn’t had the life experiences that would eventually lead me to knowing what Sean meant and then fully agreeing with his statement.
So, what did Sean mean? Let’s take plumbers as an example, (or electricians, decorators, or in fact any tradespeople). They spend all their time working on other people’s homes and businesses making sure that they are safe, they have running water, heat etc. But more often than not, their own homes are in need of work, perhaps one radiator doesn’t work, or the kitchen tap leaks… there is always something to be done, but they are so busy working on other people’s houses that they rarely have time for their own.
Exactly the same happens within the healing world. So many healers spend too much time working on other people, and not enough time meditating, healing, and taking good care of themselves. So, the best thing you can do for your own health, and for the benefit of your family, is to ensure that you are completely clear of all and any detrimental energy patterns. The simplest way to do this, is to use the psychic protection method each morning and also to work through this book.
I believe it is imperative that all healers work on themselves before they start to work on others. By giving yourself healing each day you are not being selfish, you are being sensible and in the long run, more giving and selfless. We all need good foundations beneath our feet, to be fully grounded, it gives us a solid base which helps us not only use the healing power of Mother Earth but also to channel the white light from above.
Meditation is always said to play a key role in leading a spiritual life, to be able to calm the mind and body, to release all thought, all tension, all worries, all stress and just BE. Even after years of healing practice, I still find that very difficult to do, because as soon as I close my eyes to meditate, an individual name or family comes into my head for healing. Should I, as you are taught to do, clear away that thought and keep going with my meditation or should I stop and carry out the necessary healing work?
A conundrum indeed.
In most cases, the healing work wins, and the meditation goes completely out the window, so much for stilling the mind. I do try and maintain a balance, but with the sort of work that I now do, people come first and me second. But I do ensure, with the help from Mother Earth and the Universe, that my energies are replenished, so that my own health and wellbeing do not suffer in helping others to heal.
Health and Wellbeing
If there are noxious energies in our homes or attachments connected to our auras, it will most certainly have a detrimental effect on our health and wellbeing. Often, the issues that arise can confound doctors and medical tests, because they are energetic, and therefore undetectable by blood tests and scans.
Often, we can feel the effects of these energies before they have made a physical impact on our bodies. If we can clear and harmonise the energies within our homes, often these aches and pains will disappear before they can have a tangible effect on our bodies that if left could possibly require medical intervention.
This is why it is so important for you to take responsibility for your health and the health of your family and not to expect an overworked doctor, who may only have 10 minutes to fully diagnose your problems and then prescribe the right treatment, to remedy all of your physical and mental issues.
If you work diligently through this book, carrying out a healing on anything that is affecting you detrimentally, it can help to restore the body’s natural balance (homeostasis). Helping your mind and body to be at ease with themselves can often allow their natural healing ability to be restored.
This book is not intended to replace mainstream medicine, there is a place for both in this world. If you are worried about your condition or illness, or that of your family, please do seek medical advice as soon as you can.
As well as healing the energetic problems addressed in this book, keeping a food diary could help you ascertain whether there are any particular foods or drinks that may be causing you health problems. If you see any patterns, relating food to your symptoms, you can start to eliminate them from your diet to see if your symptoms begin to improve. Although medical doctors are now beginning to take nutrition into account, they often do not have the necessary time to spend on individual cases, so you may find it worth your while, if you think that food intolerances may be the problem, to seek out a good naturopath or nutritionist.
Taking responsibility for your health means carrying out research into the medications that you or a family member have been prescribed as some can have serious side effects, especially when taken with other drugs. I am always surprised at the cocktail of drugs people take, and then comment as to how unwell they feel after taking them. But they still keep taking them.
Many people still see their doctor as an authority figure and follow what they say to the letter. But no matter how good their intentions are, you are only one that truly knows your own body, and it is therefore imperative that you become your own health detective.
If you feel that you are suffering from side effects of any of the drugs that you are taking, ask your doctor to review them, as another pharmaceutical company may be manufacturing one that is more compatible with you.
My mother came from a generation that held the medical profession in such high esteem that she would take or do anything they told her to. My father was the same, his dining room table was full of bottles or packets of tablets that he had to take each day. I once asked him what they were for and he said, ‘That one is for my heart, that one is to help thin my blood, that one is a statin, this is for my diabetes’ and so it went on, he would take most of them twice a day.
In his late 70s, my father lost all sense of taste and smell due to the medications he was taking. He passed away shortly after his 84th birthday and he hadn’t enjoyed his food for years. He even stopped drinking beer, and if you had known him you would realise how significant that was. A glass of his favourite Scotch was still a favourite tipple, but I wasn’t sure how much he tasted it or if he just enjoyed the memories that it brought back.
All the pills and potions he was taking had their individual side effects, it said so on the leaflets inside the packets. But it didn’t tell you what side effects may occur when taking all six or seven pills together.
I asked him one day why he took them all, and his answer was ‘because the doctor told me to’. It took me back to my early teenage years when coming home from school one day with a report slip from the Headmaster saying that I had got into trouble doing something out of character. My father asked me why I did it, and my answer was ‘because so and so told me to’.
His response was ‘If I told you to put your head in a bucket of water for ten minutes, would you do it?’ Obviously, I said no. ‘Well then don’t do what other people tell you to do, don’t follow the herd’. Great advice.
So, I used exactly the same words on him, forty years later, regarding the pills he was taking. But his answer was ‘You’re not the one who is ill, I am’. I said that wasn’t a constructive answer and asked again why he taking all the pills, and his answer this time was ‘The doctors know best, don’t they’.
He had given away the complete responsibility for his health to another human being. Knowing the Doctor’s Surgery, I am sure that they were doing what they felt was best for my father, but they don’t know everything there is to know when it comes to the side effects of taking multiple tablets.
None of this is said to diminish the need for mainstream medical practices, as there have been some remarkable breakthroughs over the centuries with the eradication of many diseases and improved treatments for illnesses and injuries. But what I am trying to say is that we can all do so much more to help ourselves on a daily basis, by taking more responsibility for our own health and wellbeing, rather than expecting someone else to fix us. I feel that dowsing is the perfect tool to enable you to do just that. You can use it to diagnose and to heal.
To repeat what my friend Sean said, all those years ago, ‘Before you can become Self-Less you have to become Self-ish’. So, make sure you spend time, every day, looking after yourself, before you start to take care of everyone else.
Dementia
Cases of dementia and Alzheimer’s seem to be on the rise and many families have had loved ones affected by these awful, cruel, and debilitating illnesses. I wanted to write about this as it is one that is close to my heart as my father, who passed away some years back, was diagnosed with dementia.
My Ma had passed away some 10 years before, and though he quickly settled into a life by himself, we noticed that he was becoming a little forgetful, not overly so, but more than usual. In the beginning we didn’t take too much notice, putting it down to his advancing years, until one day he collapsed.
Luckily, he didn’t hurt himself, physically, but it did shake him up mentally and he seemed to go downhill very quickly after that. Before this happened, he had bought himself an apartment in Cambridgeshire to be near my brother, as I was still moving around and was never sure where I would end up living. Sadly, he never ended up moving into the apartment, as his dementia suddenly took a turn for the worse and it just wasn’t safe for him to live alone any longer.
My brother found a very good nursing home near to where he lived, and they catered for people in all stages of dementia. Its proximity meant that Perry could go and visit Boy (as we called him) every day. I will always be grateful to him for taking on this responsibility, as it is not easy to see a loved one slipping away, day by day.
As his dementia worsened, I worked on him each day keeping him clear of attachments and any other detrimental energies that might be around him. I would also work on keeping the nursing home cleared of any spirits, any human manifested forms and all detrimental earth energies that might affect him and the other residents, as appropriate.
When I went to see him, I would always do some grounding work, making sure he was attached to Mother Earth. I had discovered earlier that Boy was not always present in his own body, his mind was often elsewhere, and this seems to be common amongst dementia and Alzheimer’s sufferers. Therefore, to enable me to have a conversation with Boy, I needed to ensure that he was anchored to the planet, for him to be fully present in his physical body.
When visiting him I would always say that I was off to ‘Planet Inky’ (his other nickname was Inky) as I never really knew what I would find when I got there or how lucid he would be. He would often see things in his room that I couldn’t, however I was quite prepared to believe that they were there, as I feel that dementia may well allow us to dip into another dimension.
In fact, during one visit, he mentioned seeing black blobs in the garden, so I quietly did some healing, asking for them to be cleared, soon after, he commented that they had gone. So, I feel that when in these altered states, those with dementia may be more open to glimpsing the unseen world and even possibly entering parallel worlds.
This become apparent when Allyson and I went off to see Carol Green, a talented medium, who was holding a clairvoyant evening in Cheltenham. Towards the end of the evening, she looked at me and said, ‘Your Father is here’. I was a little surprised as Carol is normally in contact with the dead, those who have passed over who wish to contact their living relatives. But Boy was still alive at this point. I didn’t reply to her comment, and she followed up with ‘I know that he is still with us, but he is spending much of his time in the spirit world, has he got dementia?’ I replied that, yes, he was still with us and that he had dementia.
She then said, ‘He is spending this time in the spirit world as they are trying to convince him that there is, indeed, life after death, your mother is also spending time with him, which will ease his passing’. She continued ‘He is with us for a while yet, but as he passes you will know, from his face, that he finally has realised he is going to an amazing place and that your mother was there to help move him through’. This was interesting considering he was not a spiritual person, and as far as he was concerned, once you passed over that was it. Life had no real meaning, you were born, you lived, then you died.
About 10 months later I received the call from Perry, to say that I had better get over to the nursing home as Boy wasn’t looking too good and that he was slipping away. It took me two hours to drive there, and by the time I arrived he had gone, I had missed his passing by 15 minutes. Now, I have not seen many dead people in my life, so I was not fully prepared for what I saw when I walked into his room. His physical body was still laying on the bed, with a blanket pulled up to his chin, but the best description of what I felt was ‘The lights were off, and no one was home’. There was no glow, there was what I can only describe as a husk on the bed, his spirit or soul had definitely flown.
I sat quietly for a few minutes, taking it all in. I was not tearful, as I knew he had been taken care of, and now the pain had gone. As I walked out of the room