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    When Down Looks Up
    When Down Looks Up
    When Down Looks Up
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    When Down Looks Up

    By Karen Donahue

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    Raising children can be joyful, rewarding, frustrating and downright difficult...and that could be during the course of a single, good day! Being a parent can be intimidating as well as humiliating, challenging every fiber of one's being! Imagine raising a child or giving care for an adult who is born with "special needs"! Everyone concerned can

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherKaren Elaine Donahue
    Release dateDec 23, 2020
    ISBN9781735879895
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      When Down Looks Up - Karen Donahue

      ~~~FOREWORD~~~

      As genetic counselors, we are privileged to hear the stories of our patients and their families. Sometimes we play an important role in those stories – like being the one to give a new diagnosis. No two stories are ever the same, but each helps us to understand others a little more.

      While working in the clinic one day, I had the good fortune of getting a phone call from Karen Donahue. She wanted to know how she could use her family’s story and experiences to help other families who had received a Down syndrome diagnosis for their loved one. As we talked that Friday afternoon, her passion and love came through the phone line. It felt as if we had known each other for a long time and were sitting in the same room, chatting over a cup of coffee. During the time that we have been working together, Karen’s dedication to improving her daughter’s life and the lives of all children whose abilities are different has continued to come through as her mission and joy.

      Karen and her family were not our patients, but as I’ve gotten to know her, she has looked for and embraced opportunities to share her story with my patients, colleagues, and students. Over the years, Karen has graciously integrated several of my students into her story. She welcomes them into her family life outside the clinic in a way that will stay with each of them forever and make them, as well as myself, a better asset to each new family who we are privileged to meet. I thank her for sharing her story with all of us.

      Andrea Procko, MS, PhD, LCGC

      Genetic Counselor

      ~~~ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS~~~

      Much Gratitude, Dedication and Love to:

      My children, W, A, Kristina and L…forgiving my many flaws and missteps as your mother. YOU are ALL my Angels, Teachers & Sunshine on my cloudiest days!

      To Betty & Don Turner, M & D…Saying yes to love and acceptance by fostering, mentoring me & welcoming me as a family member. I have never forgotten or taken for granted, your selflessness. You are loved

      Ann Photography…you captured the most beautiful and sensitive essence of Kristina and myself during our photography session with you! Your talent lives forever!

      Barbara Hasty…You, were the most influential music teacher I have ever known. Your compassion, commitment and determination inspired me to use my voice through song and in life. You made me feel as though I was worth saving!

      Terri Mullen Smith…your story, your love for me all of these years, immeasurable!

      James B, My first boyfriend! I will always remember, among other important things, your gift of love and support &, I Am Woman

      K.S.C., For loving me all of these years! You have been the most trusted, stable person I’ve ever had or needed in my life! Yours Truly

      St Madeline Sophie Center & Noah Homes

      As HEROS, you, your staff, continue to give people with Special Needs a fighting chance to be the best human they can be…with grace, dignity and respect for all you serve. May there be more programs like yours for people like my precious daughter Kristina A. Van Gelder

      To my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ who "saved a wretch like me in 1972!

      ~~~INTRODUCTION~~~

      Early in 2019, a weekend evening spent with my daughter who was born with Down syndrome, inspired me to write this book. I had written the manuscript, but had not had it edited just yet. As 2019 ended and 2020 began, the unexpected and unimaginable happened for billions of people around the globe! The year started in the usual fashion, with a celebration on New Year’s Eve. Afterward, we humans expected to go with the flow of life like most previous years. However, this thing called COVID-19 started a pandemic. Unbeknownst to many, this virus would be devastating to thousands of people.

      When the year began, no one planned to experience something so life-altering that it would cause us to take a giant pause. Life was supposed to go on with its usual fanfare of us making plans for renewed goals, convictions, and plans to live better lives. For countless people, life stopped in its tracks – economically, socially, and for many, permanently due to an untimely death from this virus. No one really understood the magnitude of this pandemic and how quickly it would affect everything and everyone in all corners of the earth. Because of the widespread, deadly nature of this novel coronavirus, nearly everyone’s future seemed to be forcibly placed on hold.

      As if things weren’t bad enough, our nation (and the world) witnessed people rioting in the streets over the unjust, untimely deaths of George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Ahmaud Arbery and too many other souls of color. The pandemic exposed the burgeoning divide of social justice, racism, the wealthy and well connected compared to the less fortunate. To round out all of this chaos, it was an election year! Republicans and Democrats vilifying each other. Politicizing Covid-19 further pitting people against each other; those who were willing to listen to science, wear a mask, social distance for protection, and those who believe otherwise, thus refuse and refute it all. Deciding whether or not to vote by mail or risk catching the virus by showing up to the polls in person. The unfathomable fear people were already faced with, was furthered by the possibility the United States Postal Service who could or would somehow interfere with any citizen’s vote for our country’s next president seemed almost too much to bear.

      I have had this book in mind for many years. Consequently, it seems I am either on time or my timing is way off by publishing this story at this time. My ultimate desire for writing it had a myriad of reasons behind it, including but not limited to raising awareness (and funds) for people with special needs. Too often, these innocent people are the last to be considered in financial policymaking and the first to be cut from said funding. Because of the current state of affairs around the world and America, it is very easy to push aside the present needs of those who have disabilities. Most are not able to advocate or speak for themselves. We need more passionate advocates in order to direct change for the better in Washington and beyond. Therefore, I feel this writing is timely and necessary for me to accomplish.

      My daughter Kristina is one such person who needs an advocate. She is mostly nonverbal and unable to take care of herself. She is not living at home with me, but did so from birth until she was nineteen years of age. Currently, she resides in a residential community of ninety other people with special needs.

      Towards the end of March of 2020, due to the dangerous spreading of this virus, this wonderful community’s caregivers were not permitting family members of these residents to visit on site. In an attempt to stave off an outbreak within the community, the residents were also not permitted to go to their family’s homes for the weekends as they had been used to doing prior to Covid-19. Not seeing loved ones was hard to deal with for these residents and we as family, but ultimately, it was a safe and wise thing to do.

      Approximately three months went by before visits were allowed again and could only

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