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    Life Speaks: Challenging Moments Are Our Greatest Gifts
    Life Speaks: Challenging Moments Are Our Greatest Gifts
    Life Speaks: Challenging Moments Are Our Greatest Gifts
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    Life Speaks: Challenging Moments Are Our Greatest Gifts

    By Cathy Yost

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    “I hate to be the one to break it to you, but your life is begging you to change.”

    Your life is trying to wake you up. Messages are trying to get your attention. Lessons are mirrored to you daily in the experiences and the people you encounter. The struggles you face are often gifts you don’t want to open. Even

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherRed Tulip Publishing
    Release dateNov 16, 2016
    ISBN9780995317918
    Life Speaks: Challenging Moments Are Our Greatest Gifts

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      Book preview

      Life Speaks - Cathy Yost

      Chapter 1

      A Whisper, a Feather, or a Two-by-Four?

      Cathy awoke that morning to the sun streaming into her bedroom. It was barely 6:30 am and already a warm late summer morning. She lay in bed a moment, listening to the birds chirping. She paused and took a deep breath. She felt an extraordinary sensation wash over her – one that was not fully familiar. She took another breath and exhaled fully. The sensation remained. Yes, she knew what it was.

      She felt at peace.

      Cathy sat up in bed and picked up her journal from the bedside table. She began to write. She wrote quickly and with a keen sense of fulfillment. She was so grateful. This peaceful feeling was beginning to be familiar. It hadn’t always been that way.

      Over the course of the morning, Cathy remained attuned to her feelings and noticed the ebb and flow of peace. It was as if she were waiting for it to pass; as if she knew it just couldn’t last. As it lasted into most of that morning, she slowly began to let her guard down.

      Okay, peace, Cathy said to herself. I welcome you and hope you find a nice place to stay. And I get it – you’ll come and go. Thanks for showing up today.

      Cathy smiled to herself. Her little scruffy terrior mix, Ellie, fresh from her early morning snooze, wandered over to her and rubbed her legs. Cathy looked down at her.

      What do you think, Ellie? Cathy said, reaching down to scratch her behind her ears. I think it’s time for a walk, don’t you?

      At the word walk, Ellie’s ears perked up and she reached her paws up and onto Cathy’s shins.

      Cathy gathered Ellie’s collar and leash and was just about out the door when the phone rang.

      Hello? Cathy answered.

      Cathy? It was Cathy’s friend, Pamela. Are you free?

      Cathy could tell from the tone of Pamela’s voice that she was having one of her days. Cathy recognized it all too well – she had been there, after all. Pamela was overworked, in a stressful relationship with two young children, and trying to balance work and household life. She was trying to be the perfect mom, perfect partner, and perfect CFO of the large company she worked for. Cathy could only empathize. She remembered all too well what those days were like. She settled into her chair to listen.

      Sure, Cathy said. Are you okay?

      Cathy heard Pamela take a breath. I don’t know, Cathy. She heard Pamela sniffle. She sounded like she was trying to hold back tears. Cathy waited for Pamela to talk.

      Pamela finally spoke. Well… I don’t know where to begin.

      Cathy waited, silent on her end of the line.

      Cathy heard Pamela sniffle a bit and then take another deep breath. Okay, she started slowly. Last week, I found a lump in my breast.

      Cathy nodded and frowned. Oh dear, she said simply.

      Pamela went on. Tomorrow I go in for the biopsy.

      Okay… Cathy said, not wanting to interrupt.

      This morning, when I woke up, I just… I just felt so scared. Cathy, I’m terrified. What if I have breast cancer? What will my kids do? I can’t… Cathy, I can’t… Pamela started to cry again.

      Cathy felt an outpouring of empathy for her friend. She felt a pull to help, yet also to allow Pamela the opportunity to grow. As she listened, Cathy looked out the window. It was a beautiful day. The temperature was just right, and it was sunny and hot with a light breeze. She had an idea.

      Pamela, where are you right now?

      Pamela blew her nose. I’m at work. I had to come in for a meeting.

      You’re still at the office? Cathy asked.

      Yes.

      What do you think about taking the rest of the day off?

      I couldn’t… Pamela said. Her voice moved from soft to business-like in an instant. No, I can’t. I need to be here.

      Cathy prodded gently. What would it feel like to take the rest of the day off?

      No, no… Pamela started.

      Cathy cut her off. Just think about it, right now, while I’m on the phone.

      Pamela was quiet. After a few moments, she answered. It feels like…relief.

      What do you need to do to take the day off? Who do you need to tell?

      Well, just Jim, really. He can tell the staff.

      Then I have an idea. Take the afternoon off. I’ll be at your place in a half hour. Got it?

      Pamela tried to laugh. Okay. She repeated herself, a little stronger this time. Okay. I’m doing it.

      Good. I’ll pick you up in a half hour – be ready for a hike.

      Pamela managed a laugh this time. I don’t know about that, Cathy! she said. Before hanging up, Pamela added one last thing. Cathy?

      Yes? Cathy said.

      Thank you.

      Cathy laughed. You can thank me later. See you in a bit!

      Chapter 2

      Falling Apart

      When Cathy arrived, Pamela was still in tears. She answered the door, still dressed in her business clothes. She was wearing a power suit of navy blue cotton with a light white linen blouse. She was quite the sight – this tall, striking woman in a suit made for the conference room, with a red, puffy face streaming with tears. Cathy walked in and gave her friend a hug.

      As they released their embrace, Cathy looked Pamela up and down. I’m thinking you should change your clothes. We’re going to the mountains.

      Pamela nodded and laughed weakly. She went upstairs to change.

      Moments later, Pamela came down, clad in the spotlessly clean, contemporary sporty yoga clothes most working mothers wore in their downtime. Her hair was pulled up into a perfect ponytail with not a hair out of place. She had splashed her face with water and washed off her makeup. Even in her leisure wear, Pamela looked powerful and stunning.

      That’s better, Cathy said. Let’s go walk it out.

      They headed out, Ellie following close at Cathy’s side.

      They arrived at the trailhead and began to walk side by side on the trail. Pamela started walking at a very fast pace, leaving Cathy behind.

      Wow, Pamela! Cathy commented. Are you in a rush? She winked at Pamela.

      Pamela stopped and laughed. Oh, I hadn’t even noticed! Was I walking really fast? You know, the kids tell me all the time when we’re hiking, ‘Slow down, Mom!’ I guess I’m always moving fast.

      Well, here’s your chance to slow things down, because I know I don’t walk that fast. Cathy paused and looked around, sweeping her arms up at the view. And I don’t want to! Look where we are!

      Cathy took a deep breath of fresh air and noticed that she still felt peace.

      Pamela, noticing Cathy, tried to take a deep breath too, but she stopped short. I can’t do it, she said.

      Can’t do what? Cathy asked.

      I can’t take a deep breath. Pamela looked at Cathy, scared.

      Okay. First of all, you can, just not in this exact moment. And maybe in this moment, you don’t need to. Why don’t you just talk? Just talk.

      Pamela nodded and calmed herself down. She began to talk.

      You know, I just don’t get it, Cathy. Throughout our lives we’re taught to keep everything under control. As women especially, we’re taught to be nice, to not cause any waves, and certainly, for men and women alike, to not show our emotions. Certainly, don’t ever show anybody that you’re vulnerable or that you might have something that’s not working in your life that is just falling apart. She looked at Cathy and whispered, feeling tears threatening to interrupt her, Cathy, I think I’m falling apart.

      Cathy nodded.

      Pamela went on, I can’t do it anymore, Cathy. I just want to run away. I want to numb myself. The pain… I can’t make everyone happy. I can’t even make myself happy. I try so hard, every day. I work so hard. I make healthy dinners for the family. I put everyone else first. Their needs. What’s best for them. It’s just too much. Is this who I am? I don’t even recognize myself.

      Cathy gently explained, This pain – it’s trying to get your attention. It’s not who you are. You’ve lived your life according to the rules, right? And now you can’t do it anymore. You can’t go back.

      Except I don’t even know where I am. I don’t even know what I’m supposed to do. Why is there a lump in my breast? Things like this don’t happen to me. I eat salad every day, for goodness’ sake! Pamela shook her head, tears coming to her eyes. I’m just so scared, Cathy.

      Cathy replied, That’s understandable – of course you’re scared. And maybe you can’t hear this in this moment, but your life is trying to wake you up, and all of the messages at this point are trying to get your attention. This is the first step of your makeover.

      Makeover? What do I need to makeover? Who or what will I turn into?

      Cathy just smiled and looked ahead to a grove of pines they were about to enter. I don’t know! You may not even know. I do know this, however: All of this is an invitation to change—in other words, a transformation—if you’re open to it.

      Transformation? That scares me!

      Cathy shrugged. Fear of change is what holds us back from making any adjustments at all in our life. We would rather stay in an uncomfortable situation than make waves or make any changes. Change can be very scary. We don’t know what’s on the other side. Familiar is comfortable. It may not be ideal, but it’s known. There’s some sort of relief about the idea that if we just keep things the same, maybe things will change on their own, and that we don’t have to take the action. Cathy paused for a moment, letting her words sink in. Then she asked Pamela, "Are you afraid to look at your life and see what’s not

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