Joyous Faith: The Key to Aging with Resilience
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Joyous Faith: The Key to Aging with Resilience is beloved author Michele Howe’s newest resource for Christian women. It offers practical advice and spiritual encouragement to Christian women who are passing through the middle of life.
During the midlife season, women may find themselves feeling unmoored or untethered; and often unsure of what this season of life (and the next) will be like for them. How do they maintain a passion for life? How can you adventurously navigate the unique challenges that only middle-aged women face? Joyous Faith is all about learning to navigate this uncertain season between midlife and old age with a robust faith, a sure hope, and a passion for life (even as bodies weaken and emotional, mental, and spiritual challenges continue to arise). Thirty chapters written in true “Michele” style contain encouraging Bible passages and relatable real-life accounts, as well as practical guidance, sample prayers, a “take-away action thought,” and suggestions for stepping out in faith.
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Joyous Faith: The Key to Aging with Resilience (eBook edition)
© 2019 Michele Howe
Published by Hendrickson Publishers
an imprint of Hendrickson Publishing Group
Hendrickson Publishers, LLC
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ebook ISBN 978-1-68307-306-2
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Scripture quotations contained herein are taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.zondervan.com The NIV
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First eBook edition — February 2020
Contents
Copyright
Dedication
Acknowledgments
Introduction
Chapter 1
Chapter 2
Chapter 3
Chapter 4
Chapter 5
Chapter 6
Chapter 7
Chapter 8
Chapter 9
Chapter 10
Chapter 11
Chapter 12
Chapter 13
Chapter 14
Chapter 15
Chapter 16
Chapter 17
Chapter 18
Chapter 19
Chapter 20
Chapter 21
Chapter 22
Chapter 23
Chapter 24
Chapter 25
Chapter 26
Chapter 27
Chapter 28
Chapter 29
Chapter 30
Sources for Quotations
Books by Michele Howe
Endorsements
To Deb
You are a treasure among friends.
I can always count on you for great conversation,
delicious food, and a godly perspective.
And you make me laugh.
Let us rejoice and be glad and give him the glory!
(Revelation 19:7)
Acknowledgments
In every calendar year there are beginnings and endings, both personal and professional. For me, I have the privilege (for the eleventh time) to call myself a Hendrickson author. Who would ever have guessed that way back in 1999, when I held my first published book by Hendrickson, I would still be calling the Hendrickson team my publishing family? But God knew! With every year that passes (and every new book that is published), I grow increasingly more aware of how immensely blessed I am to be associated with such a talented and godly team of professionals. Thank you, my friend, Patricia Anders. As editorial director, you continue to simultaneously amaze and inspire me. I always value your editorial input (and you are so gracious presenting your recommendations for changes to me). You know what I’m trying to say even when I don’t have the words I’m searching for at my fingertips. My deepest appreciation and thanks to you always. A special thank you to Dave Pietrantonio, the unsung hero behind the management of Hendrickson’s book production for almost forty years! To Meg Rusick, Maggie Swofford, Phil Frank, and Tina Donohue: each of you is so uniquely gifted in what you do to create a winning book (each and every time). I marvel at how my sometimes clumsily typed out words are transformed into a beautiful finished product for readers to hold in their hands and treasure as I do. Often when I’m writing I am also praying Help Help! Help!
followed by Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Many of those prayers of thanks are extended on behalf of all of you, and I am most humbly grateful for each of you.
I also want to express my kindest appreciation to Bob Hostetler, who represents me at the Steve Laube Agency. Thank you, Bob, for listening to my heart’s desires and standing beside me as we work to create another resource worthy of him.
Introduction
But he said to me, My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.
Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.
2 Corinthians 12:9–10
When I sat down at my computer some eighteen months ago and began searching for just the right words to describe how hard aging can be once you reach fifty years and beyond, I came up with a myriad of descriptions and real-life examples to make my pitch to the Hendrickson publishing team. The more difficult challenge was narrowing down the character qualities for learning how to age well—and remain joyful, faithful, strong, and resilient. Aren’t these the words we want to describe ourselves as we live out the entirety of our lives in a way that brings God glory?
I realized that living in the state of Michigan for my entire life (save the four years when we resided just over the state line in Ohio) qualified me as a hardy soul. Michiganders are well acquainted with the four seasons and their wildly fluctuating temperatures, colorfully diverse foliage, and hundreds of lakes in every shape and size (we are the Great Lake State after all). But the winters here are, in a word, brutal. In the winter months, urgent weather advisories ding our cell phones seemingly several times a day. Change by the minute is almost a given. You never know what type of weather-related challenge you are going to wake up to or woken in the middle of the night. Wind. Snow. Ice. Freezing rain. Flooding. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat. We Michiganders are hardy souls by nature because we have to be.
The fact is, many of character qualities that I deem essential to living in the Midwest are the very same we need to hone as we grow older. Let me elaborate. Aging is just like a Michigan winter. You enjoy a smattering of mild days with a rare glimmer of sunshine and you think to yourself, This isn’t so bad. I can handle this.
Then an ice storm hits. The power lines go down, and suddenly it’s dark and cold and more than a little bit scary. You really don’t know how long you’ll have to endure living without power. Sure, we have generators, but they don’t supply enough energy for the range of normal activities of everyday life, so we necessarily have to focus on the essentials.
After several days of hunkering down (and hoping and praying), the ice starts to melt as the temperatures rise degree by degree and the sun actually shines so you feel its warmth on your face for a few brief minutes. You feel a sudden boost of energetic confidence, enough to actually venture out again into the elements and all feels right in the world. But this euphoric feeling doesn’t last long. Right after the sun disappears at five o’clock, you receive a frantic call from a friend whose tire hit an only-in-Michigan-sized pothole and her car veered off into a ditch, leaving her stranded. Can you come and help?
Your friend’s unexpected emergency jolts you back to the harsh reality of these treacherous Michigan winters. A week or so passes uneventfully until the next snow storm hits and the weather conditions are so extreme that everything closes down. Businesses. Restaurants. Schools. Churches. Emergency vehicles only are allowed on the road—until further notice. Cancellations of this magnitude can make you feel so out of control and frustrated that you sense a silent scream emerging from deep within. You feel both vulnerable and powerless.
The next morning you rise and open the curtains to look outside, while mentally preparing to spend a good part of your morning shoveling and snow-blowing your walkways and driveway. But you sigh with relief to discover that the weather forecast was wrong and this northeaster mercifully passed you by this time around. You thank the good Lord for giving you a whole day to get out of the house and complete all the errands you’ve had to postpone because of inclement weather—before the next storm hits. Because you know it will.
Get the idea? Aging is so like the endurance race of living through a Michigan winter. We may be in the midst of a relatively calm, illness-dormant stage, and are thinking to ourselves, I don’t know what the fuss is all about. This aging business isn’t so bad.
Then, without warning, we find ourselves on the receiving end of a scary medical diagnosis, and our first reaction is anything but calm and steady as she goes. Somehow, we are instinctively wise enough to lean in further to the faithful arms of Christ and we endure the storm in our life, emerging a little weather-beaten perhaps but stronger for it. But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’
Or maybe your personal aging challenge doesn’t have anything to do with a physical illness. Perhaps it is living longer than your closest family members and dearest friends. Loneliness is the struggle of your heart, and some days it feels as though no one understands how deeply these losses cut into you. While you know that God is always close by, you long for the arms of a real person to hold on to you to keep you steady and warm. Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.
Another common challenge of aging is the eventual loss of stamina and energy we once took for granted. Maybe you’re lamenting that you don’t have the strength to clean your own house, mow your lawn, or maintain the upkeep in your lifelong home. These are losses to be sure. But in the grand scheme of life, our neediness forces us to rely more and more upon God for our daily needs to accomplish daily deeds. It also reminds us that we were created to live interdependently, not independently from others. Aging is the perhaps the season of life when we recognize our weaknesses and need for interdependence for the first time. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties.
Aging requires us to take a very different view of life and death and on how we decide we are going to live the final years of our lives, be they many or few. It is settling ourselves squarely on the enduring promises of God and not budging an inch when trials and troubles assault us. It is being certain that God will finish the great redemptive work in us that he started, and