Holidays for Kids

Holidays 

 For 

 Kids

And Parents, Too!

Create Childhood Memories and Traditions That Will Last a Lifetime

Charles Pascalar

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© Copyright 2012 Charles Pascalar.

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ISBN: 978-1-4669-0546-7 (sc)

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Library of Congress Control Number: 2012904011

Trafford rev. 04/23/12

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Contents

Preface: Holidays for Kids

January

January Journey

Start the Year with Lots of Good Luck!

Resolutions

Dreamer Day

Popcorn Day

February

Go Fly a Kite Day

Valentine’s Day

Presidents’ Day or Presents Day

(If You Say It Fast Enough)

Pistachio Nut Day

One Day Fun Day

March

Clean Up Your Room Day

Pi(e) Day

St. Patrick’s Day

Goof-Off Day

April

April Foolishness

Easter

Cloud Day

Juggler’s Day

Jelly Bean Day

May

May Day Play Day

Mother’s Day

Memorial Day

Hamburger Day

June

Opposite Day

Father’s Day

Ice-Cream Soda Day

Toothbrush Day

July

Independence Day

Macaroni Day

Slurpee Day

Lollipop Day

Parents’ Day

August

Favorite Day

Awesome August Adventure Day

Marshmallow Day

September

Labor Day

Opposite Day (Part 2)

Teddy Bear Day

September Search

October

Oktoberfest

Dictionary Day

Magic Day

Halloween

November

Veterans Day

Pizza Day

Thanksgiving

Hookey Day

December

Christmas

Stay Up as Late as You Want Day (New Year’s Eve)

Other Special Days

Birthdays

Moving Day

Daddy/Daughter Dinner and Father/Son Soiree

Picnic Days

Kids in the Kitchen Day

Daddy Donut Day

Bedtimes

Good Night and Good Morning Songs

Daddy Diet Day

Epilogue

Over Fifty Fun Ideas

The Most Important Birthday

The Holiday They Will Hate

Awesome August Adventure Day

Opposite Day

One Day Fun Day

Popcorn Day

Presents Day

January Journey

May Day Play Day

September Search

Preface: Holidays for Kids

This book is about how to make your children’s childhoods the best ever. All it really takes are two things: your love and your time. Your love will always be there, but because of myriad adult responsibilities, your time can slip away from you. This book offers ways to help you have fun with your kids, to enjoy your kids as they grow up, and to be a bigger part of their lives than ever before. It’s also about teaching them and building their self-confidence so they can succeed as adults.

Parenting is a tremendous challenge; it’s about starting with a baby who is 100 percent dependent on you and, over the subsequent eighteen years, making him or her 100 percent independent of you. There will be tension and trust, arguments and compromises, but these usually come in the teenage years. This book focuses on the childhood years (age twelve and under), when you are your child’s whole world and you get to play the biggest role in his or her development.

My kids are just passing through their childhoods now. And, as I was writing this book, I asked them to remember the details I had forgotten of some of the holidays we celebrated. They could remember exactly what activities we did together and how we did them. Now, some of the specifics in this book were added because they just hit me while I was writing, and I wondered why I didn’t think of them earlier.

Within each chapter, you will find that I created a theme that ties the activities into the holidays most people already celebrate in that particular season. By sticking to certain, definitive approaches and beliefs, these themes become ingrained in children’s minds and must be followed each year. You can always change them for your own needs, but be prepared to explain why you are changing them. Kids remember everything.

A great many things we do as adults have origins in the teachings of our parents (whether we want to give them credit or not), and we often become our parents as we age. What better tradition to pass along to the next generation than a wonderful childhood filled with great times spent together? This book and the memories I created with my kids were a hit, and I hope they will be a hit for you too.

Please send me a note if you come up with new ideas that you enjoy or just to let me know how these ideas actually worked for you! Follow me on twitter @cpascalar.

January

Many of us start the new year a little numb after going through all the holiday hoopla. We might consider just letting the kids play with the toys they just got while the grown-ups rest a little bit, right?

Wrong!

January Journey

January 1

Let’s start with a little fun with the leftover Christmas wrapping paper.

Whereas Christmas offered presents under the tree, visible to everyone and easily identified by name tags or color paper, this time the kids will go on a journey through the house, looking for their treasure.

After the excessiveness of Christmas, this will be low-key. It involves one present, wrapped and hidden, someplace in the house. This activity is really for kids who are a little older, as they have more patience than little ones do; and they are able to move around the house easily without direct supervision.

How do the kids know what to look for? Give them samples of the wrapping paper that you used to wrap their gifts, and those will serve as their clues. The present could be a book, a gift card (great for preteens), a doll, or whatever you like, but the fun should be in the search. Putting a wrapped book on a book shelf with only the spine showing is clever but, as I learned, too hard to find. The key is to hide it in an age-appropriate, moderately hard place to find. The younger the child, the easier it should be to find.

This simple game helps to teach perseverance and a timeless life lesson: when you try hard and don’t give up, there is a reward at the end of the journey. And if you time it right, it will give you plenty of time to watch the football games on TV.

Start the Year with Lots of Good Luck!

Many believe that there are several foods that will bring good luck and improve the odds that the coming year will be great. According to epicurious.com, in an article entitled Lucky Foods for the New Year, by Lauren Salkeld, Traditions vary from culture to culture, but there are strikingly similar foods consumed for good luck in different pockets of the world—grapes, leafy greens, fish, pork, legumes, and cakes.

The similarity of many beliefs has to do with certain numbers. Eating twelve of something (one of each month) or 365 (one for each day) would be the way to ensure good luck for the entire year. My favorite is cookies!

Lauren Salkeid continues that Around the world, cakes and other baked goods are commonly served from Christmas Eve to New Year’s Day, with a special emphasis placed on round or ring-shaped goods. In certain cultures, it’s customary to hide a special trinket or coin inside the cake—the recipient of the piece containing the item will be lucky in the new year. In Mexico, the rosca de reyes is a ring-shaped cake decorated with candied fruit and baked with one or more surprises inside. In Greece, a special round cake called vasilopita is baked with a coin hidden inside. At midnight, or after the New Year’s Day meal, the cake is cut, with the first piece going to St. Basil, and the rest being distributed to guests in order of age. Sweden and Norway have similar rituals in which they hide a whole almond in rice pudding—whoever gets the nut is guaranteed great fortune in the new year.

My variation of the above was the eating of twelve cookies. Since many of my traditions involved foods, and more importantly, my favorite foods, I tried to weave them into my holidays so my wife would always be willing to buy these for me. My favorite cookies were Nilla wafers and Oreos. The eating of the cookies started out with the Nilla wafers, as they looked like gold coins to me, and it made sense to tie these into good fortunes. As time went on and double-stuffed Oreo cookies caught my taste buds, I switched to those because, since there were three layers to each cookie, it made sense we would get three times the good luck if we ate those!

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