Fight Flight Psychology
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The vicious circles that take place between worrying thought and stress reflexes in the body can damage our health. Distraction, irritation, loss of memory, listlessness and insomnia makes things worse. As a result high bloodpressure, palpitations, breathing difficulties, sore muscles, headache, upset stomach and other psychosomatic complaints can afflict the body.
This book provide both therapist and client with the tools to analyze the body-mind relationship, especially when dysfunctional stress reflexes are involved.
Staffan Garpebring
Staffan Garpebring med nästan 50 års erfarenhet som leg. psykolog. Staffan har arbetat inom grundskola och gymnasium, inom barn- och ungdomshabilitering, på barnpsykiatrisk öppenvårdsmottagning, en ungdomsmottagning och på en vårdcentral.
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Fight Flight Psychology - Staffan Garpebring
Anxiety
Introduction
Imagine that you are walking down the street and you see that you are about to meet a group of loud youths. Your reactions to this situation can be different depending on what emotional state you are in at that given moment in time and experiences in similar situations. You may think about how you would behave if you were in such a group talking about music, the latest film you have seen, or just chatting about anything at all. However, if you are having a bad day or you have previously felt out of place in a similar situation you may feel stressed by the presence of these youths.
Many clients that I meet in therapy sessions at the Youth Centre recognize the following scenario: When I see the youths I get butterflies in my stomach, my heart starts to palpitate, I tense up, start fidgeting with my coat, bag or mobile phone, become self-conscious of how I walk, start to feel nervous and experience lower self-esteem.
This description of a personal experience can be analyzed using the FRAMES model which is a check list I use when I meet clients afflicted by inner stress. The causes of inner stress vary and can manifest themselves in many different ways.
We can analyze the situation above in the following way using the FRAMES model:
F - Focus of attention: See and hear the youths.
R - Reaction within the body: Butterflies, stiffer, tenser gait and palpitations.
A - Action: Start to fidget with my coat, mobile phone etc.
M - Mental focus: Become self-conscious of how I walk.
E - Emotional reaction: Feel nervous and anxious.
S – Self esteem: Is affected negatively.
Inner stress can encompass everything from stimulating, possibly exaggerated interest in something you have a passion for, irritation, an uncomfortable feeling of restlessness to an unbearable, horrifying feeling of panic and angst. No matter how we react to it, stress affects the way we live our lives.
In my work as a psychologist I am struck by the fact that clients who come to me with emotional and social problems often do not know much about the relationship between their thoughts and their reactions to stress and how fight-flight reflexes in the body actually contribute to their psychological problems.
When we perceive a possible threat we develop tunnel vision
and filter what we hear. This is an inevitable consequence of the physiological changes that occur when the body prepares for fight-flight
. Sensory impressions are amplified automatically as our bodies mobilize in preparation for what may happen. We prepare for potentially threatening situations that could arise, and if nothing happens we start to think; what if ….?
– and an anguish evoking state of alert may arise.
In this book I wish to emphasize the importance of bodily reactions in the analysis of psychological problems. The body’s reaction to stress affects our psychosomatic circuit fundamentally.
Changes occur in the body including the executive centre of the body – in other words, the brain.
Chapter 1. Life is in the body
The new-born baby clearly experiences life through its body, in the present. When the baby is content its body is totally at ease. When it is hungry it fumbles after its mother’s breast, starts to whine and eventually, if it does not find nourishment, starts to cry. When the baby needs to expel bodily waste, it just does it, without a sense of shame. When the baby wants company, it cries out for attention and so on. – A state of utopia you might think, before the child becomes aware of the tree of knowledge
. The experiences of our formative years create the child within
.
Childhood memories reflect the growing ability to handle relationships with others and deal with everyday life. The growing intellectual skills of the child within
are inter-twined with physical memories i.e. memories of bodily reactions to different experiences in life. The consequences of the child’s actions, in different situations, form its way of dealing with difficulties i.e. coping strategies
. Adjusting, being aggressive, creative, invisible, a clown, good or caring are all different behaviours the child may develop.
In any given situation the child will use the behaviour that is best rewarded. Usually the child chooses the behaviour that gives it the most physical satisfaction. The resultant positive feelings reinforce the child’s propensity to adopt that particular behaviour in the future and in time the behaviour becomes automatic. In other words, the child’s behavioural response to different situations becomes more and more subconscious.
If an adult behaves in the same way as a little child, acting on its immediate needs (Oh! An ice cream van – I want ice cream – NOW!!) he/she may be perceived as spontaneous and charming or spoilt. If an adult shows a lot of egocentric, childish traits, he/ she is seen as rowdy and irritating by other adults.
Over years we learn different ways to deal with and control our immediate bodily responses. We sometimes repress inner images and thoughts that trigger bodily responses in order to hide these responses. We can overcompensate and act even more politely towards someone when we are scared of or angry at that person. We can master our bodily urges and concentrate totally on one thing or on another person’s wishes.
When we meditate, however, everything is allowed to come and go and we can experience happy or sorrowful physical memories or bring to mind troublesome episodes. Thoughts, memories, fears, sorrows, things that make us happy or unhappy or any bodily phenomena are all parts of the self and should therefore be accepted and acknowledged by us.
Good meditation does not allow us to get bogged down in psychological or bodily phenomena. Instead it acknowledges the self
in its fullness; experiences, wisdom and creativity.
Our breathing reflects how we feel inside and is, in itself, an experience of being. Every time we see in tunnel vision
and lose ourselves in troublesome thought – thereby losing contact with the self as a whole –