Ms. Good-Enough
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Valerie Gregory Ed. D.
The author, Valerie Marie Gregory, is a doctor of education, practicing as a psychological examiner. She is also the author of “The Me in We” and “Understand Him and Keep Him.” “Ms. Good-Enough” her latest book is dedicated to every female in all her glory. Her aim is to help every female rediscover her beautiful wonderfulness. After years of working in the field of psychology, with both youths and adults, the author concluded that most females have loss their sense of self, identity and true self worth. She felt compelled to write a book to these women who need to rethink, what every woman must realize about herself. Which is, her value is without measure and she needs to starting treating herself as such. The focus of this work is to enlighten every female that her not realizing her true value cheats herself and the world of a divinely unique creature. The title was meant to jar every female that where ever she is in life, she is GOOD-ENOUGH. Most women all of their lives struggle with this thought. Most women think there is something about themselves that doesn’t measure up and she deserves less. So this book is to proclaim to all females, you are indeed GOOD-ENOUGH and only accept what you truly deserve. Which is the best. I learned this lesson from a kindergarten student and have never looked back. My hope is after you read this book you will never look back either.
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Ms. Good-Enough - Valerie Gregory Ed. D.
© 2005 Valerie Gregory, Ed. D.. All Rights Reserved.
No part of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted by any means without the written permission of the author.
First published by AuthorHouse 04/25/05
ISBN: 1-4208-4290-0(sc)
Contents
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Chapter 1-Wonderful and don’t know it
Chapter 2 –Different is good, and its for a reason
Chapter 3-A woman’s most valuable asset
Chapter 4-Who told you, you weren’t good enough
Chapter 5-Rediscover the gift within
Chapter 6-Ms. Good-Enough come forth
About the Author
Acknowledgements
This book is dedicated to the love of my life. The one I have been blessed to complete. He says, All women are special in their own little way.
To my mother Delores Brown Gregory and to my surrogate mothers Veronica Jeannie Byrd, Catherine Lee and Betty White Meadows. To my grandmother Mae Ella Nicholson Gregory and my sisters, Melodie, Angela, Serena, Crystal, and my niece Brittney. I love and respect you all.
Lastly, to my late grandmother, Delores Brown, and both of my greatgrandmothers, Mary Estella Gregory and Ivory Brown.
A special thank you to my aunts Marlena Gregory, Peggy Gregory Newman, Suzanne Gregory and Dolline Knowles.
Introduction
This book is written to enlighten every female fortunate to be a member of this gender class. Do you realize how many sperm cells are released to determine the sex of every child and they all start out as female. However, only one prevailed to bless you with the crown of femininity. At work one day I was sitting at my desk and one of the students in the hall called out to his teacher, Ms. Goodenough.
A bell went off in my head. He kept calling her until she responded. It was like God was saying to me, All women are Good-Enough.
It’s ironic the teacher referenced was engaged to be married and was looking forward to getting her name changed. I talked with her later to say, even when her name changed, always remember she was Good Enough. Before getting married and would always be.
At this same school, I was responsible for psychological evaluations of the student body. One of the males referred for evaluation was a nine year-old third grade student. Before every evaluation, I try to get to know the child and build rapport with them. This particular male was very pleasant and open to conversation. As our talk progressed he told me, I bet there is something I do you don’t think, I do
. Of course I asked him what was that. He said, I date.
That jarred my imagination. I asked him to explain. And he went on to say he liked a girl he had known since kindergarten. As he continued the list grew to another three girls all of which were in the third grade. Then he added he liked the sister of one of these girls, and she was in fifth grade. He had been referred because since the beginning of that school year he had been acting out and the teacher was not sure why. He was being sent to in school suspension and was due to see a physician. In a matter of a few minutes just talking to him, I found out that going to in school suspension gave him the opportunity to see these girls. Of course, I had to go and check out who these girls were. I couldn’t believe what I saw. The first girl mentioned was of his same ethnicity, the other three were of another ethnicity. And the sister of the first girl was his same ethnicity. I mentioned all