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    TBI - Our Never Ending Journey
    TBI - Our Never Ending Journey
    TBI - Our Never Ending Journey
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    TBI - Our Never Ending Journey

    By David Marks

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    An excellent distraction for anyone staying in hospital, hilarious & funny, this story will put a smile on your face. A better gift than a box of chocolates or a bunch of flowers, this story will keep you laughing and full of cheer and maybe you too will be able to relate to some of the scenarios the author has experienced. An easy reading comedy for all age groups that may of had a hospital stay.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherDavid Marks
    Release dateMar 28, 2013
    ISBN9781301985814
    TBI - Our Never Ending Journey
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    David Marks

    Suffered a severe traumatic brain injury in October 2011 due to a serious motorbike accident. Still in rehabilitation and trying to piece our life back together.

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      TBI - Our Never Ending Journey - David Marks

      TBI - Our Never Ending Journey

      David & Sharon Marks

      Smashwords Edition

      Copyright 2012 David Marks

      No part of this book may be reproduced, Stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted by any means without written permission from the authors.

      Any people depicted in imagery are models and such images are used for illustrative purposes only.

      Some names may have been changed for privacy reasons.

      This book is available in print at most online retailers.

      ISBN-13: 978-1482642032

      ISBN-10: 1482642034

      This ebook is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This ebook may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each recipient. If you're reading this book and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please return to Smashwords.com and purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

      This book has deliberately not been professionally edited as it was written by Sharon and I so contains some grammatical and punctuation mistakes plus some repetition. Its written that way so the reader sees what its like for someone with brain damage and keeps the scenarios real.

      DEDICATED TO

      My wife, two children and family support who were there before, during and afterwards to pick up the pieces and live with the after effects. Words cannot describe the debt that cannot be repaid in a lifetime; I will love you all for that always.

      TABLE OF CONTENTS

      Acknowledgments

      Preface

      1 The Accident

      2 Nottingham Hospital

      3 Derby Hospital (Ward 402)

      4 Derby Hospital Rehabilitation (Kings Lodge)

      5 Going Home

      6 Head Injury Department

      7 The Serious Stuff

      8 Things I Had Forgotten

      9 Therapy, Two Steps Forward & One Back

      10 The Effect On The Family

      11 The Effect On Me (The Patient)

      12 About The Authors

      Many Thanks To

      ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

      Without my wife looking into the order, missing parts that I had forgotten and filling the gaps I don't remember as I was in a coma and writing down the effect on the family we would have never even got this book finished.

      PREFACE

      This book is not about our trial and tribulations but more about the situations and the people involved in them. They all happened and only the names of the people involved have changed.

      Because I don't remember too well there are things which I have missed out of the first book and because of that book people have reminded me of things which I should add in a follow up. Plus its somewhat informative to see what TBI recovery is like after two years and what is easier now and what it's like for my family and me.

      1 The Accident

      When my accident happened, East Midland ambulance services were first on the scene. They arrived by helicopter and shortly afterwards were joined by road ambulance. I was a real mess but the people who helped me took it all in their stride with a kind of calmness. They had to make a critical decision very quickly. Use the helicopter to take me to hospital, which takes about three minutes or the road ambulance which takes about twenty minutes; the decision of road was chosen. Good job really as I suffered cardiac arrest twice on the way to Nottingham emergency room and there was not enough room to work on me in the helicopter.

      I was in hospital in a coma for just short of a month and then moved from Nottingham to Derby where I spent another month in the respiratory ward and then a further four months in the rehabilitation ward, which is a total of six months in hospital before continuing my rehabilitation as an outpatient.

      For some reason I thought that when I left hospital everything would be the way it was before and all the issues that i had would be fixed, only because there is only one way up from death and so you tend to progress quite quickly in the first six to twelve months and then the progress becomes a little slower.

      The five main problems I have are:

      1) Balance and walking

      2) Talking

      3) Sensory loss and pins and needles all the time on my left side plus my right hand

      4) Double vision and weakness on my right side

      5) Hearing impairment in my left ear

      All of these things were caused by the accident and none of them have returned to normal.

      2 Nottingham Hospital

      On arrival to the emergency room I was treated and then moved to the high dependency unit where the rest of my friends and family met me for the first time. I was in a coma so was pretty much non responsive and it was hard for them to see me as I don't remember much from the end of August 2011 to Christmas 2011 even though my accident was 30th October. The brain has a way of blocking things out which you don't need to remember, so it's probably best that I don't recall.

      Because I was in a coma I was full of tubes to help me breath and pump pain medicine into me. It was hard for Sharon and my children to see me that way especially as the outlook portrayed by the medical staff was not very positive. At one point my wife had been asked if last rights where needed what member of the clergy had to be contacted. As you can imagine this did not go down well.

      The medical staff in the National Health Service did a wonderful job; after all I wouldn't be here without them. They have to build a realistic picture of the incident; any better news is a bonus!

      After nearly a month I was taken off the ventilator as I was able to breathe on my own so was moved into critical intensive care. I was still being fed by a tube, a sort of slim fast concoction. I could not speak due to the feeding tube so Sharon printed out an ABC chart and gave me a wooden spoon as a pointer. This also served as a grabber as I had two broken collar bones so my shoulders and arm movement was limited, it was invaluable to me and life would have been much more difficult without it. I used it on several occasions to press the buzzer as it was out of reach.

      In one way I am really lucky, I am diagnosed with TBI, (Traumatic Brain Injury) but my family and friends stuck by me and a lot has changed for everyone. Also most of my permanent injuries are due to severed nerves and not physical or psychological. To look at me (if I was quiet) you wouldn't know there was anything wrong. The term `hidden disease` is very true, it's only when I speak or move about you notice that something is wrong. A funny voice and poor balance give the game away but some head injured people have complete personality changes and are totally

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