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Little Pink Raincoat: Life and Love In and Out of My Wardrobe
Little Pink Raincoat: Life and Love In and Out of My Wardrobe
Little Pink Raincoat: Life and Love In and Out of My Wardrobe
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A little Coco Chanel, a lot Carrie Bradshaw, with a dash of Maureen Dowd—a hip, hilarious collection of mini-profiles in shopping and romantic courage.

From one very fabulous and elusive little pink raincoat (to woo the commitment phobe) to a pair of very persuasive peach panties (gift from a dazzling doc), author Gigi Anders relates her experiences as they deal with her dual obsessions of clothing and men. Here are ten vignettes chronicling ten choice sartorial items and the corresponding boyfriends that would undoubtedly love her stylishly ever after...even if they didn't.

Featuring items and boyfriends from Anders's real life, real (extremely jammed) closet, and real bed, Little Pink Raincoat is a very tasty, very funny, universal, uplifting, pop cultural meditation on the things we crave and the lengths we'll go to get them.
LanguageEnglish
PublisherHarperCollins
Release dateOct 6, 2009
ISBN9780061981098
Little Pink Raincoat: Life and Love In and Out of My Wardrobe
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Gigi Anders

Author of the hilarious memoir Be Pretty, Get Married, and Always Drink TaB, Washington Post special correspondent Gigi Anders and her parents were born Jewish in Havana, Cuba. The trio fled Castro's regime for the United States in 1961. After six months in Miami Beach, the family moved to Washington, D.C., where Gigi came of age and eventually turned to writing. She has written for Glamour, Allure, Mirabella, American Health for Women, USA Today's USA Weekend, American Journalism Review, Hispanic, Latina, and First for Women.

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Little Pink Raincoat - Gigi Anders

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Little Pink Raincoat

Suddenly, on the second Sunday of March in 2003, it appeared. My it hit me like a coup de foudre, a French lightning bolt. Only it was American. I was zapped by the picture of a model in the Sunday Styles of the New York Times, wearing the Gap’s little pink raincoat. Not just any little pink raincoat. No. That would be plebeian. MY little pink raincoat was the cutest, most perfect, most I’ve-got-to-have-you-this-very-second-or-I-will-die-lonely-andraincoatless little pink raincoat. That’s right. That’s how good it was. It was my rainy day destiny.

Men move me, but not like clothes and accessories do. Or maybe they’re inextricably bound. Even saying clothes and accessories, uch, that sounds so ordinary and banal. Can any kiss, any flower, any orgasm—approximate the rush of finding That Perfect Pink Raincoat? I mean the world’s grooviest raincoat. I mean the raincoat of laserlike focus and obsessive desire. The raincoat that stops you cold. The elusive one that once you have it, you feel not just better, but fulfilled, transformed, you’ve arrived more deeply and forever at your best self.

Do you understand what I’m talking about? Of course you do. Something that makes you feel scared thinking that if the Times just hadn’t come that one day, you would have missed this. You’d have lost your only chance at THE little pink raincoat of all time. (It’s fun to scare yourself with contemplative what-ifs, but not until you’ve landed the damn thing and you know no one can ever take it away from you.)

Here she was: Simple. A-line. Hidden buttons. Bright but not too bright pink. Soft but not forgettably soft pink. Baby girl pink. Dubble Bubble pink. Daisy Buchanan pink. Billowy clouds streaking across the sky at twilight pink. Underneath it, the brunette model was wearing a man’s white cotton long-sleeved shirt over broken-in, slightly faded skinny blue jeans. The picture was cropped there, so I kind of wondered about the shoe situation. But not for long. I had to get on the phone and order my love dream to be sent to my house so I could go on living in love and dreams. That was the subtext behind the impulse, it’s what’s always at the hopeful, beautiful, beating heart of it: Love. And the vertebrate with whom I was engaged in beasty love, he would HAVE to marry me once he saw me in that little pink raincoat. He would HAVE to. He couldn’t not. It was too lovely. And sweet. Innocent, almost. Girlie, but not froufrou. Just really, really, really great. I was thinking how I’d pop out in a crowd of boring beige and plaid Burberrys, like a lone little pink flower in a desert.

I had my idée fixe all worked out: Little white cap-sleeved T-shirt, white lace-edged bra (so you could see it, but almost, like, accidentally), fitted black cotton capri pants, black leather ballet flats with quilted black patent leather tips across the toe box. Legs ultra-shaved and self-tanned. Chanel No19, for sure—it was almost spring. Black kohl liner the French way, on the inside of my eyelids, and tons of black mascara, but really worked through so there’s no hint of glop or flake. Love that look. Soft pink lipstick, maybe just a lot of pinky gloss. Maybe like NARS’s Orgasm gloss but pinkier, more full-bodied. Then ice-white acorn pearl drop earrings with the silver hooks and my watch with the black faux-croc band and silver and white face, and my Isaac Mizrahi for Tarjay black leather purse with the silver zipper.

And, like the wedding cake toppers to top all such toppers—the little pink raincoat. A vaguely Gallically gamine ensemble that I’d still be proud to wear twenty years from now. That’s the secret. Always ask yourself: How mortified would I be if I saw myself in this outfit, say, post-menopause?

Done.

After dating and living together off and on for four years, The Dinosaur—he was, after all, twenty years my senior—still would not commit. We’d even been engaged at one point, for about three or four minutes, and he’d broken that off. When he did, I thought my life was over. So I plunged into the requisite Madame Butterfly mode—I’ve always been a little dramatic. This involved crashing into the tragedy of love gone wrong twenty-first-century style, on my aging mattress that was turning into a hammock no matter how many times I turned and flipped it, and armed with Parliaments and Ben & Jerry’s New York Super Fudge Chunk. In a twisted way, this is the fun part. When they leave you, you get to eat whatever you want, as much as you want of it, turn into a total slob of whimpering self-pity, and check the fuck out. It’s like getting a guilt-free temporary pass from life and its grown-up responsibilities. You get to Really Suffer and Do It Up Right.

But then—this is the bad part—those who dumped you can come to their senses and come back at an incredibly inconvenient time. At least this one did: After I’d gained fourteen pounds and my face was all broken out and I was at my haggiest, most reclusive, most kill-me-now worst. Yes, The Dinosaur returned. Despite the fact that the only thing that fit me was my wardrobe of black yoga pants (J. Crew’s and Old Navy’s are the best), I was actually happy about this. When you’re crazy in love and crushed, you’re dying to get uncrushed ASAP. In this state, the man you love, and only he, can make it better. So I tearfully and gratefully took The Dinosaur back. The pain and the Ben & Jerry’s bingeing stopped. Or maybe they just went underground. Either way, I got my love back and I got back into my size 8 jeans.

The Dinosaur and I rejoiced on my sagging mattress. Afterward, we shared my sensational sesame noodles. This is not a metaphor. I make the world’s best sesame noodles, if I do say so myself. One of The Dinosaur’s predecessors, a Brooklyn mama’s boy in his forties who’d never not lived with his mother (which is why he became my ex), once ate so many of my famous sesame noodles at a single sitting that he spent the subsequent twenty-four hours locked in my powder room, emitting truly terrifying noises and odors. I took it as a kind of compliment.

Tip: What makes a recipe good enough to make a person sick is the same secret as that of the flawless red lipstick shade—you have to combine at least two. In the noodles’ case—leave it to Jews and Italians to improve an Asian dish—it was Arthur Schwartz’s What to Cook When You Think There’s Nothing in the House to Eat and The New Basics Cookbook by Julee Rosso and Sheila Lukins. As for The Dino’s and my post-noodles dessert, we compromised and had coconut sorbet with fresh strawberries. I personally hate healthy desserts—what’s the oxymoronic point?—but The Dinosaur’s always trying to eat lite. At least the coconut was bad for us. If it had been 2005 instead of 2003, Ben & Jerry would have already invented Fossil Fuel, the sweet cream ice cream with chocolate cookie pieces, fudge dinosaurs, and a fudge swirl. I’m sure I could’ve forced that on my Dino and we’d both have been more fulfilled and stayed together forever.

But this was not to be. Because a few weeks later, The Dinosaur left me. Then The Dinosaur came back. Then The Dinosaur left me again. Getting the gist of my love problem? My beau was Lucy with the football and I was Charlie Brown. But hey, nobody’s perfect. Give a boy his learning curve. Otherwise, my reptile had all the right stuff: Smart when not brain-dead, sexy when not preoccupied, sensitive when not oblivious, funny when not miserable, kind when not clueless, attentive when not distracted, generous when not cheap. He brought me Starbucks and bagels in the mornings. He sent me Martha Stewart roses just because. He was nice to Lilly, my kitty cat—even after she upchucked in his suede bucks. (In Lilly’s defense, The Dinosaur wasn’t wearing them at the time.) He wasn’t fanatical about sports. He was a museum-goer. He liked Joni Mitchell.

How many straight men do you know like that?

Accordingly, I hung in there, well past closing time. Hello, four years. I tend to give a man I like the benefit of the doubt. No sense in throwing out The Dino with the antediluvian bathwater, right? So I gave him time for his romantic process, or whatever, that he needed to go through. You have to be patient with dinosaurs. You hit them on the tail and it takes two weeks for the message to reach the head. Jurassic Park wasn’t built in a day. I must really love a challenge—romantic, culinary, sartorial, what have you. I think of what poor, dead JFK said about going to the moon, that we’re choosing to go there not because it’s easy but because it’s hard. Exactly, Jack. Hard is good. It’s more interesting. Besides, I’m a Sagittarius. We are the zodiac’s eternally sunny, hopeful sign. JFK was a Gemini, also a good sign and almost as lively as mine.

The Dinosaur, in contrast, was the Virgin. Virgo. Ooo. Darkness. Nowhere as scary as Scorpios, but still. The Dinosaur was, as is a typical Virgin Dino’s wont, heavy. A brooder. At first, this seemed okay. Opposites attract. He grounded me, I lifted him up. But over time—did I mention it was four years?—The Dinosaur stayed slow. Real slow. Too slow. Slow to get it. It being not the fact of my high-voltage appeal—he got that fine—but of my suitability to be his bride. Why? Why is it that what attracts them is the same thing that keeps them at bay? I’ve never understood this. I’m not a violent person by nature. But sometimes I’d get so frustrated thinking I’d wasted my time and money on all those InStyle Weddings and Martha Stewart Living Weddings that I’d just want to grab that Dinosaur and shake-shake-shake him.

What was it? Our age difference? Not for me; I’ve always been attracted to older men. Somebody has to love them. And like me, this one was a Jew. Actually, he was less of a Jew than I was—he and the shiksa ex-wife always had Christmas trees, something I could no sooner do than wear black lipstick.

You’ve never been married and divorced, The Dinosaur would always say, usually following a Manhattan or two. A Manhattan. Could there be a queerer cocktail? Those little maraschino cherries alone. Anyway, that was The Dinosaur’s exclusive rationale. I wasn’t a member of The Club, therefore I was ineligible to enter it.

You don’t know what it’s like, he’d say.

And your point is? I’d say.

That you don’t know what it’s like, he’d reiterate, chomping the cherry off its stem.

You don’t know what it’s liiike, baby, you don’t know what it’s liiike, to love somebody, to love somebody, to love somebody the way I love you. Thank you, Bee Gees. My relationship wasn’t exactly turning out to be the love song I’d originally envisioned.

The Dinosaur would moan, I may be terminally single. I assumed he’d picked that up from an old Cosmo in his shrink’s waiting room. Terminally single. Please. It’s not a disease! And tough, seasoned newsmen of a certain age like The Dinosaur—we’d met at a journalism conference back when I was a reporter—don’t use those phrases, unless they’re being sarcastic. Maybe my prehistoric boyfriend was trying to sound like a hipster. Eek.

My therapist, Manny, only keeps National Geographic in his waiting room. They do stories featuring bare breasts and the Cretaceous period, two of The Dinosaur’s favorite things. About love and marriage, however, Manny called The Dinosaur eternally ambivalent. This was not, obviously, what I wanted to hear.

Are you saying it’s time to release The Dino? I asked him.

There are many other fish in the sea, Manny said.

But he’s neither fish nor fowl. Of course, there are sea dinosaurs. Well, there were.

Okay, well, you might try a mammal next time out.

Next time out? Was he kidding? I was exhausted. Four years. I didn’t want a mammal, I wanted to fix the reptile I already had. InStyle. Martha. You know. Work with what you’ve got. Make a living fossil wreath. A dinosaur egg mobile. A scaly plate centerpiece. Something.

I poured myself a TaB (the can is pink, it gave me hope) and hit Gap’s Web site. They had the coat. They called it a macintosh. But they only had it in antique white, stone, and black. No, no, and no. I called 1-800-GAPSTYLE. My little pink raincoat was all sold out! Oh nooo! I thought, I’ll bet super-acquisitive Northeastern chicks who didn’t call the Gap’s toll-free number would probably try calling individual Northeastern Gaps, but not with my singular zeal. I was mistaken. My little pink raincoat was sold out in my state, New Jersey, as well as in every New York and Connecticut Gap. That’s right, I called every last Gap in every last city in those places. Well, I was gonna beat these dames at their own game. Nobody was gonna prevent me from MY marriage, dammit. So I devised a strategy. I proceeded to maniacally call each state in the United States, but alphabetically backward. So I began in Wyoming, where there is one solitary Gap. Hey, don’t laugh. You never know.

Are you calling about that mythical pink raincoat? the lady asked. I’ve heard about it, but we never got it. I guess Wyoming’s not a pink raincoat kind of place.

Then, just for the hell of it, I tried North Carolina. I know, it wasn’t alphabetically correct. But I used to live there. Twenty-nine Gaps later, nada. One woman laughed at me: Tha-yutt pi-yunk raincoat? Oh honey, you couldn’t fahnd tha-yutt on God’s green earth now!

This is my quest, to follow that pink raincoat, no matter how hopeless, no matter how far

Back to the backward alphabet strategy. Wisconsin has nineteen Gaps. Luck struck on my very first city, a place called Green-dale. Was my impossible dream possible?

Got it! the young woman said. Got the last medium right here. And boy, are you lucky. This thing’s blown out of the store.

I whipped out my abused Mr. Visa and we charge-sent me my dreamy creamy pinksicle coat. Maggie Prescott would have been so proud. She was the imperious fashion editrix in the 1957 movie Funny Face, the one modeled after Diana Vreeland (who in real life said, Pink is the navy blue of India). Maggie Prescott sang Think Pink!: …Red is dead, blue is through, green’s obscene, brown’s taboo…pink’s for the lady with joie de vivre.

I have joie, Maggie. Beaucoup joie. So much joie that my latent hoarding gene—HNA, not DNA—kicked in. Maybe I needed more than one pink raincoat. What if the medium was too small? Or what if I had a spilling accident and needed a backup? No backup to be had at the Madison, Wisconsin, Gap, but Nancy, the store manager, promised to do a national search and get back to me in the morning. I didn’t trust her.

I swear I’ll do it, she said. It’s a really cute coat. I want you to have it.

Sure you swear, I told her. But do you CARE, Nancy?

I do! she said. I swear I care!

Having exhausted the remaining seventeen Wisconsin Gaps, I moved on to West Virginia, where there are four stores. They all laughed at me. One Gap guy, in Barboursville, said, I was unpacking these last week or the week before and I thought, Who the hell’s gonna wanna buy a Pepto-Bismol coat?

It’s NOT Pepto-Bismol, I told him, even though I’d never even seen it.

Three days later, he continued, it was gone. We’ve been getting calls from Connecticut Gaps begging us for any size. I think I got one left in an extra-small.

Was this man taunting me? An extra-small wouldn’t fit my bulimic cat Lilly and she weighs eight pounds.

I finally scored a large in Bellingham, Washington. That figures. It must be near Seattle, land of rain, suicides, and raincoats. I popped open a fresh can of TaB to celebrate and contemplate my pink arrivals. It was 12:30 A.M., six and a half hours after my quest commenced, but I was so energized by my coup that I called my friend Joan in Manhattan to tell her about it.

Have you been one Bay recently? she asked.

No, why?

You said a pink Gap macintosh, right? They’ve got thirty-two of ’em on there selling for $150.

What?!? I can’t believe it! Little pink raincoat scalpers! Who thinks of this?

What do you care? Joan said. You’ve got yours. Good for you. It does look really cute. I wonder how it looks in person. Maybe I could wear it.

Was she insinuating something? I didn’t want her to get any piggy-backing ideas, so I quickly hung up.

In the morning, Nancy from the Madison Gap actually called me back. I was stunned.

I found it! she proudly crowed. I’m having a large sent right to you. They had one last one left at the Chicago store on Michigan Avenue. I must’ve called thirty stores.

I didn’t have the heart to tell her I’d already found a large in Bellingham. So we charged and sent me a second large. Something was happening. This phenom was bigger than me and my three little pink raincoats. This is how features journalists like me think: Why pink? Why pink now? Was it because Jennifer Garner wore my raincoat that February when she hosted Saturday Night Live? That’s what her publicist Nicole King thought.

Jennifer’s a very Gap girl, she said. "The SNL costume design team chose that coat for her for a skit."

Did she get to keep MY coat?

I think she did, King said. She really loves it.

All I can say is that this pink raincoat is like a preppy, retro look, said my friend Mindy, a Washington, D.C., wardrobe stylist. Very sweet, optimistic, and friendly, like grosgrain ribbon. Very Kennebunkport, yet über-feminine.

Then my sartorial soul mate Sarah Jessica Parker should have one! She even modeled for the Gap, albeit After Pink Raincoat, so she might’ve missed it. Plus, SJP’s perfume Lovely and its print ads are all cotton candy pinkety-pink-pink.

The Gap macintosh pink is a cool blue-pink, Mindy said. It’s like the Sweet’n Low packet pink. I’d put SJP in something warmer and softer, like…like an apricot Cosmo color. That’s so her.

There’s no escaping it. Single urban gals—okay, my friends and moi—are still obsessed with and in withdrawal from Sex and the City. It’s sad, I know, but what can you do? My gay columnist friend Billy wrote an entire piece devoted to this in the fall of 2005. It was triggered by the fact that one Sunday night at Michael Jordan’s The Steak House N.Y.C. in Grand Central Terminal, I saw Big. As in Mister. As in the actor Chris Noth. That hunky hunk-a burnin’ love was seated with a guy behind a large pillar, enjoying an overpriced steak and wearing a kelly green shirt. It was all too much for me. So I passed out. Big didn’t notice. It was really dark in there and I blended into the dark carpeting in my favorite black skirt (four floaty, gossamer layers of tulle and cotton and deconstructed ruffles at the hip. Devastating. Anthropologie.com, I love thee). A maitre d’ and Billy quickly dragged me away by the armpits. I came to, typically, just in time for dessert. Big was gone by then but it didn’t matter. I’d had my Big fix. I’d been Bigged.

In Fantasy Land Mr. Big would have come to your rescue and fanned your wan and delicate face to revive you, said my Manhattan author friend Elizabeth. "But he never really was that kind of guy, was he? I was just watching a Sex rerun yesterday, when he tells Carrie begrudgingly, ‘I fucking love you, okay?’"

I saw that one last night too! I told her.

I saw Chris Noth walking in the Village one day, Elizabeth added. He looked like he was just coming from the gym. A little frumpy and not at all Mr. Big-ish. But I still love him.

But I still love him. The eternal feminine position. Are we all masochists? Do we give men way more credit than they deserve? Should we reserve our credit strictly for plastic purchases? On their record Nurds, The Roches sing, This feminine position tripped up with reptile into that most feminine position too fat to turnstile. I’m not really sure what the lyrics mean, but I always appreciate the reptilian reference. Almost as much as I appreciated my new little pink raincoat. I knew Maryellen Gordon, Glamour magazine’s

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