“Jesus is my
“Jesus is my girlfriend”?
girlfriend”?
A critique of romantic imagery
in youth orientated worship songs,
and a doctrinal framework
for intimacy in worship.
Sam Hargreaves, C3 (M)
Supervisor – Graham McFarlane
21st May 2001
Preface
This third year project would not have been possible without the supervision and
lecturing of Graham McFarlane. His throwaway jibe about ‘all this Jesus is my girlfriend
worship’ in a doctrine lecture started me off on this journey, and I am immensely grateful
for the challenge and encouragement received in every email, lecture and meeting.
Other members of staff and students at London Bible College have stimulated my brain
with conversation and articles. There have been too many chats to mention them all,
but in particular I must thank David Peacock and Chris Redgate for their tutoring; Damo,
Sunil, Luiza, Wayne, Helen, Ben, Claire, Steve M, and Steve S for their contributions of
brain power and coffee. From outside LBC I am grateful to Brian Dodd, Sheryl Shaw,
Nick Ashton and James Collins for providing material, and Phil Barnard for proof reading
in his own inimitable fashion!
I am particularly indebted to both Graham Kendrick and Matt Redman, for their email
and verbal responses to my searching questions! It is encouraging to know that those in
the front line are grappling with these issues too. Lyn Burnhope deserves special thanks
for allowing me to use her material as an example of quality text writing.
Sara Johansson, you definitely are my girlfriend! Thank you for putting up with me
talking about this for the last year. And finally not only gratitude by all glory and honour
must go to the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. May this offering be acceptable in your sight.
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Contents
Introduction
5
Appendix One – romantic songs ...................................................................................................................................4
1. Why does it matter what we sing? ............................................................................................................................7
Engagement with God ..................................................................................................................................................7
Songs and stories .........................................................................................................................................................7
Songs reflect the community.........................................................................................................................................8
2. ..............................................................................................................................................................Material under
scrutiny..........................................................................................................................................................................11
‘Intimate’ songs ..........................................................................................................................................................12
‘Revivalist’ songs........................................................................................................................................................13
Sublimated romanticism? ...........................................................................................................................................14
3. ..............................................................................................................................Examples of “romance” in church
history............................................................................................................................................................................15
Nuptial Mysticism ......................................................................................................................................................15
4. ..............................................................................................................................................................Is this romance
biblical? .........................................................................................................................................................................16
Song of Songs .............................................................................................................................................................17
God’s Bride.................................................................................................................................................................18
Proskynein ..................................................................................................................................................................18
New Testament immanence? ......................................................................................................................................19
5. ..................................................................................................................................Romance and intimacy in youth
culture............................................................................................................................................................................20
Intimacy......................................................................................................................................................................21
Intimacy and individualism ........................................................................................................................................22
Romance - Compatibility............................................................................................................................................23
Sex ..............................................................................................................................................................................24
6. ...........................................................................................................................................What effect do these songs
have?..............................................................................................................................................................................25
Theologically..............................................................................................................................................................25
Ecclesiologically ........................................................................................................................................................25
Psycho-Emotionally ...................................................................................................................................................26
7. Who is God?..............................................................................................................................................................28
The problems of analogy ............................................................................................................................................29
God is Trinity..............................................................................................................................................................30
God is other................................................................................................................................................................32
God is near.................................................................................................................................................................33
8. Who am I? ................................................................................................................................................................34
I am the image of God................................................................................................................................................35
9. What is a love relationship? ....................................................................................................................................37
Mutual fellowship ......................................................................................................................................................38
”The Desire of Divine Love” .....................................................................................................................................39
Knowing who you love ...............................................................................................................................................40
10. How should we express intimacy in worship? .....................................................................................................42
11. Practical implications ............................................................................................................................................42
Songwriting ................................................................................................................................................................43
Liturgy ........................................................................................................................................................................44
Sacramental ...............................................................................................................................................................45
Epilogue .....................................................................................................................................................................46
We dare not come before your throne.........................................................................................................................57
Appendix One – romantic songs
Appendix Two – Graham Kendrick interview
Appendix Three – Lyn Burnhope’s songs
Bibliography
Introduction
Introduction
Hold me close, let your love surround me,
Bring me near, draw me to your side
And as I wait, I'll rise up like the eagle
And I will soar with you, your Spirit leads me on
In the power of your love.1
“Lord I come to you”, has become a very popular worship song in recent years. It
typifies a body of material that raises questions over its attitude towards intimacy with
God. As Draper notes,
“Our songs have emphasised the feeling that Jesus is more of a boyfriend than
the second member of the Trinity…”2
Is this kind of language an appropriate way to talk about our relationship with God?
Gradually written criticisms are emerging,3 although no thorough discussion of the issue
has yet been published. Some may consider that the content of worship songs is not an
important enough issue for such research, a point we will discuss below.
Perhaps a more pressing reason why these songs have not been seriously critiqued is
that they are considered to be fulfilling a valid role: expressing intimacy with God in a
way that is vivid and culturally relevant. Such intimacy – the stuff of romantic love - it is
argued, is a biblical metaphor, is present in church history, and communicates
effectively, especially with young people. These aspects will be discussed in Part One.
Part Two will move on to ask how intimacy with God can be better expressed in worship,
referring to historical and contemporary theologians who can offer insight into what a
love relationship with God means, and helping us to define language of intimacy and
love which does justice to the biblical witness, theological tradition and our own cultural
setting.
1 Appendix
2
3
1, SH-2000.
Brian and Kevin Draper, Refreshing Worship, (Oxford, Bible Reading Fellowship 2000) p. 33.
See Martyn Percy, Words, Wonders and Power, (London, SPCK 1996). David J Montgomery, Sing a New Song,
(Edinburgh, Rutherford House 2000) p. 68-9. Ian Stackhouse’s MTh thesis The Problem of Immediacy in
Charismatic Worship (London Bible College). Steve Nolan’s Oedipal reading of the phenomenon, Carpe Phallum,
in Michael A Hayes, Wendy Porter, David Tombs (Eds), Religion and Sexuality, (Sheffield, Sheffield Academic Press
1998) p. 285–311. Article No Titters in the Aisles Please, its a Hymn, (Sunday Telegraph, 23/10/94) p. 13.
1. Why does it matter what we sing?
Why should ‘traditional’, ‘patriarchal’ or ‘academic’ notions of God dominate worship
when he can be addressed in ways that are relevant and meaningful to the worshipper?
Germane to such arguments is the belief that God can be addressed in any way, thus
allowing for a purely anthropological perspective. We can counter this attitude on three
grounds.
Engagement with God
Peterson argues that,
“The worship of the living and true God is essentially an engagement with him on
the terms that he proposes and in the way that he alone makes possible.” 4
God is not to be approached arbitrarily, but in divinely initiated ways. This suggests that
there are appropriate, and therefore inappropriate, means of addressing God. This
corresponds to the biblical picture of God who engages with his people, giving them
names to call him (Ex 3:14; Jn 14:6; Rev 22:13), cultic or liturgical activities to carry out
(Lev 1-7; Lk 22:19-20; 1 Cor 14:26), indications of what their attitude should be (Gen
4:7; Is 58:6; Jn 4:23) and above all his presence to meet and empower them in worship
(1 Kgs 19 :12; Jn 14:26; Acts 4:31).
The accompanying danger is that if we do not worship God on his terms we begin to
worship a God made in our own image, a projection of ourselves - not the adoration of
the Holy, all-powerful and worthy God.
Songs and stories
It is not a new thing to say that songs are remembered long after the sermon is
forgotten. However as we move from the ‘modern’ emphasis on systematic, rational
4
David Peterson, Engaging With God, (Leicester, Apollos 1992) p. 20.
knowledge, to the idea of worldview based on narrative, the influence of song lyrics
becomes even more prominent.
Stories are a way of explaining life. Wright terms them a lens through which we view the
world.5 In our post-Christian culture the world’s stories are competing with the biblical
master story for attention. Hopewell talks of the story of the congregation, and the story
of God, and suggests that they are,
“united though in tension... The stories are blended in worship... In the crossfire
of symbols, the members represent Christ’s body, the manifestation of God within
signs of their own flesh and culture.”6
Thus as we meet for worship we should not only hear but also interact with the story as
found in the Bible. Walker asserts that,
“Liturgy is the regular, unceasing dramaturgical re-enactment of the story.” 7
If our worship songs are so influenced by stories of love and intimacy brought in from the
world we may find ourselves once again worshipping God and living our lives from a
non-biblical script.
Songs reflect the community
Traditionally the theological health of a denomination or movement is tested in relation to
its creeds or statements of faith. However with the predominance of churches that
downplay traditional theology in favour of a more subjective understanding of God, a
methodological shift occurs: we may be better to analyse the doxological dimension.
This happens at a pragmatic level: a churchgoer may attend a particular church because
the worship ‘is good’. Draper states the populist opinion,
5
NT Wright, New Testament and the People of God, (London, SPCK 1992) p. 124.
6
James F Hopewell, Congregation – Stories and Structures, (London, SCM Press 1987) p. 165.
7 Andrew
Walker, Telling the Story, (London, SPCK 1996) p. 194.
“The way we worship – the language, imagery, metaphors, music and even the
layout and design of the buildings and ‘worship spaces’ - says a lot to people
outside the church about our God.”8
Academically, different doxologies are being analysed to discern the underlying beliefs
of their communities.9 The content of such doxologies may not be stated publicly but
are, nevertheless, assented to by the congregation in their worship. Percy critiques the
charismatic ‘revivalist’ movement, for instance, by analysing its worship songs, justifying
his method thus:
“It is the worship of a community which provides it with its primary religious
experience, and thus its certainty and ideology.”10
If this is so then we cannot take lightly the songs we use in worship. They affect the way
we relate to God, how we understand the world, and how the world understands us.
8
Draper, Refreshing, p. 18.
9
For example Sandra Sizer, Gospel Hymns and Social Religion, (Philadelphia, Temple University Press 1978).
Percy, Words.
10
Percy, Words, p. 60.
PartJesus
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is my girlfriend?
2.
Material under scrutiny
At this point we need to identify both the songs in question, and their origin. The former
is problematic but vital. No particular book or school of songs has a universally
‘romantic’ theme, and no scholarly work has yet identified such a particular group. For
the purposes of this project I have assembled a body of material 11 which contains the
following criteria:
A)
It talks of God using metaphors, themes, or modes of address, which can be
associated with romantic love between humans.
B)
It is a song likely to be used in a youth worship setting.
It is vital to recognise the generalising nature of these criteria. A) needs to be
understood in reference to a 20th century, popular, teenage view of romance, influenced
by the media of film, music and literature. The analysis of metaphors, themes and
modes of address is borrowed from Sizer’s work.12 B) assumes a ‘typical’ British youth
worship event, which makes use of the best selling Stoneliegh 2000-2001, Spring
Harvest 1998 and 2000 and Soul Survivor – Led to the Lost music books. This project
looks specifically at youth worship, further study would be required to see the cultural
factors effecting adult worship. Furthermore there is insufficient room to undertake a full
analysis of all the metaphors, themes and modes of address present in these books. It
should be noted that the overtly romantic does not represent the majority of the material
in each book. However the focus of this project is to analyse the genre’s validity per se,
not its size. The more generalised approach seeks to produce an analysis that is
specific yet overarching, and needs to be applied with reference to particular songs and
cultural situations.
The material ranges from that which contains one or more overtly romantic metaphor,
Come to me, like a lover, returning in the night,13
to songs which take a romantic theme throughout:
11 Appendix
12
1.
Sizer, Gospel Hymns.
13 Appendix
1, ST-10.
You are my passion, love of my life,
Friend and companion, my lover.
All of my being longs for your touch,
With all my heart I love you.
Now let will you draw me close to you,
Gather me in your arms.
Let me feel the beating of your heart,
Oh my Jesus.14
The mode of address in the songs are important to note, for, as Sizer reminds us,
“not only what the hymns say, but how they say it, reveals something about the
way the relations among human beings or between humans and deities are
conceived.”15
Such songs are usually written in first person singular, suggesting a relationship that is
‘one-on-one’. They generally address ‘Lord’ or Jesus’, often the more ambiguous ‘you’.
Frequent anthropomorphism allows talk of God putting his arms around the worshipper
(ST-14-63; SH98-15-49-62-159; SH2000-67-79), touching them (SH98-159; SS-73),
kissing them (ST-10; SH98-64), showing his face (ST-63), or even the worshipper
holding him (ST-72). Some talk of falling in love (ST-78-80; SS11) and others turn love
into a substance, surrounding them (ST-10, SH98-64) or touching them (SH98-22).
Some are included not simply for their lyrics, but for the romanticising effect of the music
(ST-71).
‘Intimate’ songs
Recently amongst Christian young people ‘intimate’ has become a watch word thanks
mostly to the songs and teaching of Matt Redman, Britain’s premier youth orientated
14 Appendix
15
1, SH98-159.
Sizer, Gospel Hymns, p. 26.
songwriter, recording artist,16 and worship leader at the Soul Survivor church and
conferences.17 He has avoided sexual language, but recognises that his material can err
on the side of closeness at the expense of transcendence,
”I’ve not paid enough attention to the reverence of the Lord... its easier to write
the personal words.”18
He points to the use of Proskuneo, ‘to come towards to kiss’ yet with the reverence of a
dog licking its master’s hand. He also cites Song of Songs as an example of intimacy,
and the idea of friendship and fear seen in Ps 25:14 and Rev 1:15-17 as justifications for
worship which celebrates God’s transcendence and imminence.19
‘Revivalist’ songs
Redman states:
“The Vineyard really strongly influenced me especially in terms of the whole
expectancy to meet with God thing... and the whole intimacy in worship aspect.”20
Thus we can trace this attitude back through Soul Survivor’s parent church St Andrews,
Chorleywood to the movement which most influenced it, John Wimber’s Vineyard. The
Toronto Blessing has also done much to promote the Vineyard model as perhaps the
most prominent form of charismatic worship in this country.
Liesch describes the Vineyard model as one of stages, where,
“The psychological dynamics of worship operate much like the dynamics of
lovemaking.”21
16
Solo albums Wake Up My Soul, Passion For Your Name, the Friendship and the Fear, Intimacy, The Father’s Song
(all on Survivor Records).
17
Royal Bath and West Showground, every August since 1993.
18Lecture,
London Bible College, 24/04/01.
19
Magazine interviews, Worship Together, issues 13 (1995) p. 24-26, and 23 (1998) p. 8-10, and Renewal, issue 283
(1999) p. 10-11.
20
Worship Together, 23, pg. 9.
21
Barry Liesch, People in the Presence of God, (East Sussex, Highland Books 1990) p. 91.
Worshippers are taken through five stages of Invitation, Engagement, Exaltation, and
Adoration, to reach what Wimber calls ”a zenith, a climactic point, not unlike physical
love making”,22 a time of intimacy with God. This emphasis and the texts themselves
cause Percy to claim that,
“Charismatic renewal is in some ways configured around a sense of sublimated
eroticism.”23
He points to the use of “smoochy” music, an emphasis on passion and passivity, the
metaphors of water and heat, and the immediacy of God as key features. Although at
times he may be overly Freudian in his analysis, and some would call his social
exchange theories ‘reductionist’24, it cannot be denied that there the romantic element
plays a large part in the traditional Vineyard model, and that this has had a huge
influence on current trends.
We can trace the family line back further to nineteenth century Gospel Hymns. Here
Sizer notices the first major shifts in song writing. She uses them to analyse the
American Social Religion movement.
“All the hymnals portray Jesus as a deity of love... the relationship has become
much more intimate – although Jesus may be stronger, he is not higher... he
enfolds the poor sinner in his arms, and to be in his presence is heavenly bliss.”25
It is this sense of intimacy and romantic love that has passed through the last few
centuries and gives us the basis of today’s romantic worship songs. However it would
be a mistake to see this as a definite movement to ‘put the romance back into worship’.
One of the most interesting points is that this is largely subliminal.
Sublimated romanticism?
One key reason why this sort of worship is rarely critiqued is that its adherents promote
22
J Wimber, Worship: Intimacy With God, in Worship Conference Resource Papers, (Mercy Publishing 1989) p. 8.
23
Percy, Words, p. 141.
24
Graham Cray in Craig Bartholomew and Thorsten Moritz (Eds), Christ and Consumerism (Cumbria, Paternoster
Press 2000) p. 153.
25
Sizer, Gospel Hymns, p. 35.
subjectivity over objectivity. Theology, from the Social Religion movement, through
Wimber and into present day Charismatic churches is usually placed second against
feelings.26 Bible teaching may be prominent, but academic study has been discarded,
leaving a primarily experiential understanding of God, unchecked by tradition or doctrine.
Another reason is the assumption that love means romantic love. As Percy comments
about revivalist worship,
“The most frequently used configuring scenario to describe the ideal form of
relationship with God is that of a teenager in love.”27
It is not only Charismatic Christians who have this notion of ‘love’, it is possibly the most
common presupposition in our culture.
”Songwriters who have been soaked from their earliest years in the lyrics of
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romantic pop songs via the radio, TV and their CD collections, are drawn
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disproportionately to romantic imagery just because it is so familiar to them.”28
Whether this corresponds to the biblical understanding of love will be discussed later,
after we have looked from a historical angle.
3. Examples of “romance” in church history
Nuptial Mysticism
Looking further back for examples in church history of a notion of ‘romance’ with Jesus,
the most obvious example is the ‘nuptial’ mysticism seen in medieval writers like St
Bernard and Julian of Norwich, and in the 16th century Theresa of Avila. Evelyn
Underhill, perhaps the 20th century’s most respected voice on mysticism, is quick to
point out that this language for them was mere image of their experience,
“The great saints who adopted and elaborated this symbolism... were essentially
pure of heart; and when they ‘saw God’ they were so far from confusing that
26
Percy, Words, p. 60.
27
Martyn Percy, Power and the Church, (London, Cassel 1998) p. 149.
28
Graham Kendrick, email interview, Appendix 2 p. 1.
unearthly vision with the products of morbid sexuality, that the dangerous nature
of the imagery which they employed did not occur to them.”29
We should note that Underhill sees a contemporary danger in this imagery, which was
not present at the time. However, here she also betrays the underlying problem of this
form of mysticism. If, as she suggests, mysticism is an escape from the world of the
sensual to an ‘unearthly’ spiritual experience of the Absolute, then it is a far cry from the
earthly spirituality of the Bible. The basis of this kind of mysticism can be called
Apophatic, the unknowablility of God through human means, introduced by Pseudo
Dionysius, a 6th century spiritual writer. The negative elements of his writings were
taken by the unknown author of the Cloud of Unknowing, claiming,
“God unites the contemplative to himself in the perfect love of mystical marriage
through the naked love of blind contemplation... through transforming union, the
contemplative actually becomes God, by participating in his very own
life.”30
Contrastingly, the biblical story of creation, the dealings with the Israelites, the
incarnation and finally the arrival of the new heaven and new earth all indicate that God
is in the business of working with the whole of the created order, to redeem it to its
original state, not to rescue the spiritual from the clutches of the material. The problem
with the nuptial mystics is not that they use the language of ‘morbid sexuality’ – sex is a
gift from God. The issue is that in denying physical sexuality they misplace it,
spiritualising it, and locating it in their relationship with God rather than a member of the
opposite sex. We were not created for ‘union’ with God, but to become fully human.
4. Is this romance biblical?
We have reached a stage where we need to look more closely at the Bible’s use of
romantic imagery. If it is justifiably found here, our conclusions about historical uses
must be radically rethought.
29
Evelyn Underhill, An Introduction to Mysticism, (London, Methuen and Co. 1911) p. 163.
30
Harvey D Egar, Christian Mysticism, (Minnesota, Pueblo Publishing Co. 1984) p. 95.
.
Song of Songs
Perhaps the most common biblical justification is an analogous reading of the Song of
Songs.31 This holds that the ‘deeper’ meaning is the relationship between God and
Israel, and/or Christ and the Church or the individual believer. This view, which began
with Origen and is perhaps most prominent in the sermons of Bernard of Clairvaux, can
be see in a worship song like SH98-39, which quotes chapter 2 verses 4 and 16 directly,
with reference to God.
Although this has been the dominant reading of the book throughout church history, it is
refuted my most scholars today.32
“These modes of interpretation… do not explicate the primary level of the text,
which is explicitly about human love and nowhere mentions God.”33
Most of these readings have been route to explaining away an otherwise embarrassing
and troublesome book, which contradicts much of the church’s unhealthy and nonbiblical teaching on sex.
“Underlying most of this sort of handling of the text is an implicit acceptance of the
Platonic or Gnostic belief that physical things, particularly related to sexuality, are
intrinsically evil, and are to be shunned by those who are seeking the spiritual
life.”34
Contrary to these ‘spiritualised’ readings, this Old Testament book is unashamed to talk
about the joy of human sexual union.
Another approach is to accept that the original meaning was human love poetry, but
read back a typological significance about the divine-human relationship. Textual
evidence is claimed from the wedding Psalm (45:6,7), used in reference to Jesus in
Hebrews 1:9. Yet Carr argues that the Psalm is a very different issue, because there is
31
See Wimber, Worship, p. 8. Montgomery, Sing, p. 68.
32
Roland E Murphey, Canticle of Canticles, in Raymond E Brown, Joseph A Fitzmyer, Roland E Murphey (Eds),
New Jerome Bible Handbook, (London, Geoffrey Chapman 1992) p. 152.
33
Marcia Falk, Song of Songs, in JL Mays (Ed), Harper’s Bible Commentary, (San Francisco, Harper and Row 1988)
p. 525.
34
G Lloyd Carr, Song of Solomon, Tyndale Old Testament Commentary, (Leicester, IVP 1984) p. 23.
New Testament evidence of the “typological basis of the Davidic kingship.”35 Song of
Songs itself has no such justification for a “Christological interpretation or application.”36
God’s Bride
Romantic imagery can also be justified from the notion of Israel as God’s wife (Ezekiel
16; 23; Hosea 1-3), and the Church as the Bride of Christ, (Eph 5:22-33, Rev 19:6-8).
Two points must be made.
Firstly all these examples are based around corporate expressions of relationship with
God. Israel’s dealings with God were seen in terms of his covenant with the people, not
with an individual per se. This continues into the presuppositions of the New Testament
writers, who talked of the Church as the body and bride of Christ. Kendrick comments,
”If the Bride of Christ is corporate could it not be argued that the experience of
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intimacy with God should also be very much a corporate thing?”37
Secondly, this image is used to refer primarily to faithfulness. The Old Testament
prophets used it as an image of God’s covenant faithfulness, compared to Israel’s
harlotry. The Ephesian’s passage compares Christ’s sacrificial love to that of a good
husband, mixing the metaphors of marriage and one body. Revelation celebrates the
church as the faithful bride, compared with those who have been seduced by Babylon
the Great (Rev 17,18). Both points draw a marked difference between this biblical
image and a 20th century understanding of romantic love.
Proskynein
This Greek word which we translate as ‘worship’ has its etymological roots in pros,
meaning toward, and kynein, which means to kiss. Thus it has been a popular
35
Carr, Song, p. 26-27.
36
Carr, Song, p. 31
37
Kendrick, Appendix 2, p. 2.
justification for a sense of intimacy and ‘romance’, in worship.38 However, Peterson
warns that,
“Old Testament usage, rather than any supposed etymology of the word, must be
the interpreters guide.”39
As a contemporary example, imagine someone two thousand years from now looking at
our word ‘holiday’. They could assume that we meant a single day set aside for a
religious purpose. Although this may be the root, it is not what the word means in
contemporary speech! Peterson’s survey of the way prosknein is used to translate the
Old Testament Hebrew into the Septuagint’s Greek reveals that although the word may
have its roots in a notion of bowing to kiss, it came to indicate a physical or spiritual
prostration, “an expression of awe or grateful submission – a recognition of his gracious
character and rule.”40
New Testament immanence?
Another common argument stems from a dichotomy of the Old Testament God being
distant, but with the new covenant “we no longer worship a God far off”.41 The New
Testament does proclaim that we may now have confidence to enter the Most Holy
Place by the blood of Jesus (Heb 10:19). However, we must be careful. Firstly, the
people of God are called to ‘draw near’ in the Old Testament, the Septuagint uses the
same words proserchesthai and engizein that we see in Hebrews (Gen 18:23; Ps
148:14).42 Wenham points out that in Leviticus the Israelites recognised the presence of
God their daily lives. Furthermore,
“On special occasions his divine glory appeared in cloud and fire, so that all the
people could recognise his coming.”43
38
Matt Redman, Worship Together, 13 p. 26, and 23 p. 10, and Renewal, issue 283, p. 11. Graham Kendrick,
Worship, (Eastbourne, Kingsway 1984) p. 23-24. Carl Tuttle in Robin Sheldon (Ed), In Spirit and in Truth, (London,
Hodder and Stoughton 1989) p. 148.
39
Peterson, Engaging, p. 79.
40
Peterson, Engaging, p. 73.
41
Tuttle, In Spirit and in Truth, p. 147.
42
Peterson, Engaging, p. 257.
43
Gordon Wenham, New International Commentaries on the OT, Leviticus, (Grand Rapids, Eerdmans 1979) p. 16.
These manifestations of God’s glory were not to be taken lightly. Since God was Holy
any humans in contact with him would die, as God warned Moses (Ex 33:20), and as
unfortunate Israelites discovered (Lev 10:1-20; 1 Sam 6:19). Thus clouds and fire
covered theophonies to protect the Israelites, and to communicate the inaccessibility of
the Divine.
Secondly, whilst there is a sense of increased intimacy in the New Testament, this is by
no means an easy transition, as if God has suddenly changed to become immanent.
The presuppositions of Levitical holiness and mediatorship remain in the thinking of
Jesus, Paul, and the writer to the Hebrews. Peterson argues that Hebrews is not
rejecting these notions, but reinterpreting them in the light of the incarnation.
“The people of God may now draw near without the aid of a human priesthood,
but only because they rely on the priestly mediation of Jesus Christ.”44
It is vital that we understand the dogmatic and doxological structures arrived at in
scripture and historical theology that serve to hold transcendence and immanence in
tension.
“Given the loss of a sense of transcendence in our culture generally, we will have
to work harder to make sure it is present in our worship.”45
Thus before we turn to these structures (Part Two), let us unpack the issues as they are
found in our culture.
5. Romance and intimacy in youth culture
A primary justification for ‘romantic’ songs is that they communicate to young people the
love of God in a language they understand. However, without the biblical master-story
as a basis, romantic songs will be understood through the interpretative glasses of
secular youth culture. Ward, in his work with unchurched young people, encourages
contextualisation, yet warns,
44
Peterson, Engaging, p. 239.
45
Liesch, Presence, p. 26.
”Our attempts to make Jesus come live within a culture by ‘picturing’ him in new
ways carry with them the problem that every picture has several meanings
already.”46
Intimacy
Intimacy is a buzz word in sociological as well as ecclesial circles. And it can have a
confusingly broad range of meanings in both camps. Jamieson explores the popular
notion of ‘disclosing intimacy’, concluding,
”‘disclosing intimacy’ is not becoming the crux of personal life as it is lived,
despite a much greater emphasis on this type of intimacy in public stories about
personal life.”47
These public stories range from the proliferation of self help manuals, to magazines,
popular films and music, which encourage a kind of intimacy based on ‘knowing’, with
friendship as the primary model. This gap between public stories and people’s lived
experience that causes what Storkey terms a ‘crisis of intimacy’. She points to a
newspaper describing a rapist ‘being intimate’ with his victim, as an example of this
confusion.48
Stafford’s controversial article in ‘Christianity Today’49 critiques what he terms a
purvading ‘Ethic of Intimacy’. This is a social structure for organising sexuality which ”is
not love exactly”, but instead values intimacy as the aim and justification of sexual
relationships.50 He sums up this dominant ethic in seven points,
1.
A positive view of sex within intimacy
2.
The independent individual
3.
Compatibility
4.
Sex as a private matter
46
Pete Ward, Youth Culture and the Gospel, (London, Marshall Pickering 1992) p. 38.
47
Lynn Jamieson, Intimacy, (Cambridge, Polity 1998) p. 158.
48
Elaine Storkey, The Search for Intimacy, (London, Hodder and Stoughton 1995) p. 4.
49
Tim Stafford, Intimacy: Our Latest Sexual Fantasy in Christianity Today, (January 16th 1987) p. 21-27.
50
Stafford, Intimacy, p. 22.
5.
Sex with no necessary consequences
6.
No double standard [regarding gender]
7.
Sex requires maturity
His analysis is insightful into the way society uses intimacy as a social script, and he
offers Christian counter arguments to refute its validity. We can use elements of his
critique to further analyse society’s presuppositions.
Intimacy and individualism
Ward explains,
”on the one hand some young people form very tight groups which could be seen
as a starting point for Christian community, but on the other hand young people
can be very individualistic in their lifestyles and values.”51
We live in an increasingly self-centred society. Industrialisation and then Thatcherism
spawned a Britain of consumers, primarily seeking satisfaction and identity through
buying. ”In the dynamics of our culture, consumption has become the dominant faith
and individualism...serves it.”52 In this context intimacy is a self-fulfilling consumer
choice, more about seeking to know oneself, than knowing another. Giddens charts a
Transformation of Intimacy,53 where people enter into relationships for no other reason
than the relationship itself, ”which is continued only in so far as it is thought by both
parties to deliver enough satisfaction for each individual to stay within it”,54 and can
celebrate a ‘plastic sexuality’ of pure pleasure, devoid of ‘care’. Thus when we talk about
intimacy with God we can be advocating an approach which simply panders to the
consumer’s ‘I want’, Christianity as,
”Something to be chosen or discarded, not on the basis or truth, but only on the
basis of its perceived value in the process of self-construction.”55
51
Pete Ward, Worship and Youth Culture, (London, Marshall Pickering 1993) p. 65.
52 Alan
Storkey in Bartholomew and Moritz, Consumerism, p. 100.
53 Anthony
Giddens, Transformation of Intimacy, (Cambridge, Polity Press 1992).
54
Giddens, Transformation, p. 58.
55
Craig M Gay, The Way of the Modern World, (Carslile, Paternoster Press 1998) p. 211.
Yet this is far from the biblical model, and Jamieson concurs,
”Concern with self satisfaction or self protection renders impossible the necessary
compromise involved in commitment to one another.”56
Romance - Compatibility
Hollywood presents an ideal, where love is based around the ‘click’ of compatibility. This
can also be linked back to individualism:
”The self becomes in effect, a very personal god or spirit, to whom one owes
obedience. Hence ‘experiencing’ with all its connotations of gratificatory and
stimulative feelings, becomes an ethical activity, an aspect of duty.”57
Thus in the film, ‘You’ve Got Mail’ (Nora Ephron, 1998) Tom Hank’s character uses
immoral means to secure the closure of Meg Ryan’s small independent bookshop in
favour of his multinational conglomerate, and yet they still end up together! This
happens not because of any change in his character, or repentance, but simply because
she ‘falls in love’ with him, based on emotional attraction and immediate personal
fulfilment. In this ideal, love is instantly turned on but as quickly turned off.
Consumerism has created an immediate, ”instant free credit”58 culture, characterised by
MTV, McDonalds and the internet. The question of the post-modern is not ‘is it true’ but
‘does it work’, and most often ‘will it work now?’ Feelings change, people start to lose
their potential to ‘fulfil’ one another, and so this kind of love is ephemeral. In using
romantic imagery we are in danger of saying that this is the kind of love God has for us,
and we should have for God. God’s love is cheapened. In contrast Stafford asserts
that,
”The Christian places the person’s will (not emotions) at the centre: Love is work
to be done, and intimacy is to be created through persistent self-sacrifice.”59
56
Jamieson, Intimacy, p. 41.
57
Colin Campbell, Romantic Ethic and the Spirit of Consumerism, (Oxford, Basil Blackwell 1987) p. 285-86.
58
Thorsten Moritz in Bartholomew and Moritz, Consumerism, p. 76.
59
Stafford, Christianity Today, p. 25.
The biblical picture of love involves not just the emotions but also patience, covenant,
and sacrifice. It is this holistic appreciation which we need to foster through our
doxology.
Sex
The use of ‘erotic’ or at least ‘sensual’ language in worship could also be potentially
confusing because of the commodification of sex prevalent in our culture. Pornography
is available to all via the mass media and the internet,60 making sex a purely
individualistic and immediate act. Although restrained by social constructs as outlined
by Stafford, for many sex is basically nothing more than an animal instinct:
You and me baby ain’t nothing but mammals,
So let’s do it like they do on the Discovery Channel.61
These presuppositions must be challenged by a biblical view of appropriate relationship
boundaries. Stafford concludes that the Ethic of Intimacy is damaging for the weakest in
society; responsible for under age pregnancy, STD’s, single parent families and ”on the
whole less intimacy than ever before.”62 We live in what Coupland calls the ”cult of
aloneness”,
”The need for autonomy at all costs, usually at the expense of long term
relationships. Often brought about by overly high expectations of others.” 63
To conclude Part One we will sum up the effect of songs that use language more
influenced by contemporary culture than the biblical witness.
60
Bartholomew in Bartholomew and Moritz, Consumerism, p. 7-8.
61
Bloodhound Gang, The Bad Touch, from the album Hooray For Boobies, (Geffen 2000).
62
Stafford, Christianity Today, p. 25.
63
Douglas Coupland, Generation X, (New York, St Martin’s Press 1991) p. 69.
6. What effect do these songs have?
Theologically
As we have seen, there is no biblical precedent for an individual to address God in
romantic terms. This in itself should be fair reason to avoid using and writing such
material, but the potential impact on the worshipper’s theology reaches much further.
Such immediate language about God loses the biblical sense of mediatorship, so vital to
our understanding who God is, who we are, and therefore in whom the incarnation and
atonement happened. It denies the distinction of persons in the Godhead, thus the
historical doctrine of the Trinity. This makes God the Father less than holy and
transcendent. It makes Christ’s life and death a mere event that facilitates salvation,
rather than an ontological relationship into which we participate. It denies the Spirit as
the person by whom we are empowered and sanctified to participate in Christ’s life.
Furthermore it ignores Christ’s life and death as the primary demonstration of the love of
God, vastly different from the 20th century understanding of romantic love. As we have
seen love and sex today are often much more about the lover than the beloved, a want
for emotional gratification more than a self sacrificing commitment.
The genre betrays a move towards the kind of dualism we have seen in the nuptial
mystics. By denying the importance of the physical world we distort the biblical
anthropology. Christ’s work becomes a means to escape our humanity, rather than
allowing us to become fully human. Thus we spiritualise that which should be fulfilled in
the material.
Ecclesiologically
At the level of the church fellowship, a focus on songs which use romantic imagery has
the potential to assert individualism, seeking self fulfilment not self sacrifice. As we have
discovered this is highly prevalent in our consumer society, and is a hallmark of
romanticism. Addressing God in primarily the first person singular loses the biblical
sense of the body of Christ worshipping and experiencing him together, with and through
one another (1 Cor 12:12-30). It is together that we are the bride of Christ, frail humans
but being sanctified by the Spirit for the return of Christ (Rev 19:6-8), not empowered
with some emotional feelings of our own.
The romantic image also, as we touched on above, robs us of our requirements to
comfort and support one another. In his work on Christian singleness, Hsu points out
that it is the church body who should provide fellowship and family for the alienated and
lonely.64 Unfortunately, romantic worship can become another therapy in a world where
problems are solved by individual, private emotional releases. We deny our
community’s responsibility of honest sharing, friendship and discipleship by looking for
these emotional needs to be fulfilled in a spiritual sense.
Psycho-Emotionally
In this area it can be argued that when worship is based around the subjective and
anthropocentric, it builds up people’s emotional expectations, that when they meet with
God they will ‘feel’ certain things. Whilst the emotional is an important aspect of
worship, it should not be this alone which we rely on. Emotions can vary with our mood,
temperament and the effect of music and leadership style, but the love of God and his
intimate presence with us is constant.
Furthermore, single people can be led down the path that Jesus is the equivalent of a
spouse, that he will fulfil all their needs. Thus worshippers have the potential for a
spiritual crisis when the expected emotions of being ‘loved’ in a romantic sense are not
aroused. Married or courting couples may be encouraged to create a false dichotomy of
choice between their beloved and their God. Male worshippers can feel unnecessarily
uncomfortable with ‘erotic’ lyrics. All these notions reflect confused ideas of who God is,
who we are, and how we should have a love relationship with God and each other. Yet
they are at least an attempt at a justifiable aim; earthing the Christian relationship in a
physical and immediate way. Thus as we move into section two we will need to address
these questions, to discover appropriate boundaries for expressing intimate, love
relationships in youth worship.
64 Al
Hsu, The Single Issue, (Leicester, IVP 1997) p. 131-153.
Part
Two
.
.
.
The return of the Trinity
To discuss an appropriate expression of intimacy, it is vital that we avoid the
methodological pitfalls of appealing to isolated words or texts in the Bible, citing
supposed historical examples, or pandering to contemporary culture. Instead we turn to
the constructive task of Christian doctrine. Gunton asserts,
”Theology does not spring ready made from the mind, the text, nor the
Christian community, but takes shape as questions from within and without
are raised and as answers given in one generation are seen by another to
require supplementation and correction.”65
Doctrine is not mere academic speculation nor static tradition, but the outworking of
experience, and the reaction against heresies which threaten that experience. As
Torrance explains,
”If out of the confessional (kyrigmatic) statements of the Bible, come
doxological statements, Christian dogmatics unfold from reflection on
doxology.”66
Doctrinal language is, then, the articulation of that which was presupposed and implicit.
A church or youth service which puts little or no emphasis on doctrine leaves its
worldview unchecked, its presuppositions can be far more worldly than Christian. Thus,
we will take a step back to the fundamental question of theology; asking who is God? It
is from there that we will be able to discern an anthropology; asking who am I? Then we
will be in a position to discern the relation between the two; what it means to have a love
relationship with God.
7. Who is God?
We can postulate that there are two basic perceptions of God for the contemporary
young person to choose from. The first is the transcendent God, far away from the
world, and either harshly judgmental or disinterested. This perception of God was
handed down from the Apophatic theology of the middle ages to the philosophers of the
Enlightenment. He is typified, in young people’s eyes, by the worship and architecture
65
Colin Gunton, The Triune Creator, (Edinburgh, Edinburgh University Press 1998) p. 51.
66
Torrance, Worship, p. ix.
of the Catholic church, and reflects the Western theological stress on the unity of God.67
The second choice is the immanent God, close and personal, who is deeply involved in
your life. He is typified by the Pentecostal and Charismatic movements, and mocked in
the film Dogma (Kevin Smith, 1999) by the image of the ‘Buddy Jesus’. He is the result
of the enlightenment stress on a psychologically-known God, and fulfils the post-modern
pluralistic, therapeutic and consumerist desires.68 This is the God we have met in the
‘romantic’ worship songs.
These two extremes are expressed in the popular, Ben Elton novel Inconceivable.
Elton’s lead character considers praying for the results of her IVF treatment, and begins
by deciding that ”the universe is a mystery and we shall call the author of that mystery
God.”69 Yet she rejects the sort of God referred to on daytime television.
”If I'm going to have a God I want a great and terrible God, a God of
splendour, mystery and majesty, not one that spends his time chatting to
whingers about how stressed they are.”70
These dichotomies of immanence and transcendence, the one and the many, angry and
caring, reflect the confusion of the post-modern world. Can a biblical doctrine of God
enable us to hold them in tension?
The problems of analogy
In the midst of the following discussion, we must keep in mind the difficulties of our task.
Language we use to talk about God will always be that of analogy, it is blasphemous to
think that this side of the parousia we will ever do more than ‘see through a glass
darkly’ (1 Cor 13:12). Modernity has failed,
67
Colin Gunton, The One the Three and the Many, (Cambridge, Cambridge University Press 1993) p. 138.
68
Gay, Modern World, p. 182
69
Ben Elton, Inconceivable, (London, Black Swan 1999) p. 254.
70
Elton, Inconceivable, p. 255.
”because it has its basis in an impossible quest for absolute truth, whose
demand for certainty and omniscience displaces God and generates a quest
for what is humanly unrealisable.”71
Conversely we must avoid the opposite post-modern trap of relativising and pluralising
to the point where the revealed truths of the Bible are obscured. Instead we must stand
with Barth’s conviction that,
”while human speech is in itself utterly incapable of representing God, in
revelation God ‘seizes’ words and makes them capable of meaningful God
talk.”72
This issue is highlighted in the problem of God’s economic action and immanent being.
We are forced with theologians down through the centuries to admit that whilst God is
ultimately a mystery, his revelation to us in our history must take the shape is does
because this reflects something of his essential being. It is because of their absence
from revelation that we rejected ‘romantic’ words for God. Now we must ask which
words are ‘seized’ for God talk in the Bible, and how they shape our perception of God.
God is Trinity
The historical basis for God talk is the doctrine of the Trinity. This was the systematic
expression of the New Testament experience; one God interacting with his people as
Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
”It arose from the Church’s participation in the life of God, a participation
granted by the Spirit and therefore requiring both the divinity of the Spirit
and his distinction from the Father; and from her sending out into all the
world, a mission deriving from the mission of the Son.”73
This ancient doctrine, asserted in the ecumenical creeds, is desperately absent from our
contemporary worship and discourse, although enjoying something of a renaissance in
71
Gunton, The One, p. 131.
72
Karl Barth, Church Dogmatics I/I p. 430, in the words of Paul S Fiddes, Participating in God, (London, DLT
2000) p. 30.
73
British Council of Churches, The Forgotten Trinity, 1 The Report, (London, BCC 1989) p. 9.
scholarly writings.74 Most of these reject the mathematical puzzles and less than helpful
analogies and instead focus once again on the ontological aspect of the doctrine; how it
helps us understand being, and thus the way we relate. Gay asserts that we need the
doctrine,
”For a better understanding of God as a covenant not a contract-God; for a
biblical understanding of worship; and for a less individualistic
anthropology”,75
whilst the British Council of Churches’ report goes as far as to say,
”the difference between the life and death of Christian worship depends on
its recovery of a Trinitarian dynamic.”76
Father language – pitfalls
At this point it is right to address the concerns over the use of Father language. Firstly
we assent that God is Spirit (Jn 4:24), neither male nor female, all humans are made in
his image (Gen 1:27). Furthermore we cannot ignore that,
”Thoughtless and careless use of male imagery about God has an actively
oppressive effect, and leaves many people feeling that they cannot love or cannot
be loved by such a God.”77
However, it also cannot be denied that this is the primary way in which God chose to
reveal himself through Christ in the Spirit. Other modern reinterpretations such as
”Source, Wellspring and Living Water”78 , or the Augustinian idea of ”subsistent
relations”,79 reduce the vital personal element of the Trinity, all to prevalent in Western
theology.80 It is true that we need to reinterpret ‘person’, as we do ‘Father’ and ‘Son’, and
74
See David Cunningham’s annotated bibliography, These Three are One, (Oxford, Blackwell 1998) p. 339-342.
75
Gay, Modern World, p. 84.
76
BCC, Forgotten 1, p. 28.
77
Jane Williams, The Fatherhood of God, in Forgotten 3, p. 91.
78
Cunningham, These Three, p. 80-82.
79
Fiddes runs this risk with his ”persons as relations”, Participating, p. 50.
80
BCC, Forgotten 1, p. 21.
just about any word we use in relation to God. But this ‘seizing’ is the very stuff and
matter of the theological task. So as Williams rightly points out, the key to ‘Father’ is
understanding the original content of the biblical metaphor.81 She shows that in neither
Testament is Father used of God in a ‘power’ or ‘sexual’ sense. Jesus radically
reinterpreted the patriarchal nature of the phrase, calling attention to his own intimacy
and conduct as the image of Father God; ”Anyone who has seen me has seen the
Father” (Jn 14:9). Furthermore, the doctrine of the Trinity itself, with the correct
pneumatological focus, is a safeguard against anthropomorphic readings.82 So here we
must turn, to begin exploring our understanding of God as Triune.
God is other
The Cappadocian Fathers have an essential place in the history of Trinitarian thought
because of their innovative answers to the problems of their time. They were
theologising in a climate where the philosophies of Plato and Aristotle both held the
notion of a united cosmos, in which both God and the world were a part.83 The
Cappadocian’s biblical appreciation of God as other, separate from the world, creating it
ex nihlio, meant that the world was the product of personal freedom. Furthermore,
personal freedom itself was ontological, the basis of God’s being. They achieved this in
their dictum ”one substance, three persons”, by relating the word prosopon, a relational
term, with the word hypostasis, which, thanks to Athanasius,84 was equal to ousia,
being. By daring to reflect on the imminent Trinity in such a way, this step had the effect
of making person an ontological term, or as Zizioulas terms it ”Being as Communion”.
”If God exists, he exists because the Father exists, that is, He who out of
love freely begets the Son and brings forth the Spirit. Thus God as person as the hypostasis of the Father - makes the one divine substance to be that
which it is: the one God.”85
81
Williams, Fatherhood, p. 93-98.
82
Williams, Fatherhood, p.99.
83
John D Zizioulas, Being as Communion, (London, DLT 1985) p. 35.
84
GWP McFarlane, Christ and the Spirit, (Cumbria, Paternoster Press 1996) p. 29.
85
Zizioulas, Being, p. 41.
This God is not dependant on his creation, he is truly other and complete within this
network of divine relations. They are not three gods but one God, the Father, who
begets the Son and from whom the Spirit emanates.
”This God is, first, transcendent, but the function of this concept is still to
express something of the relationship between creator and creation.”86
Thus we move on to the way in which this Holy, other God relates to his creation.
God is near
The primary example here is St Irenaeus, battling against the Gnostics. He understood
God as relating to creation by the Son and the Spirit, God the Father’s ‘two hands’,
mediators in the unified act of creation.
”Because God creates by means of his own Son and Spirit, he is unlike the
deities of the Gnostics and the one of neo-Platonism in that he does not
require beings intermediate between himself and the world.”87
Trinitarian language allowed Irenaeus to show how God could be both other and
personally involved in the world. All his works are the will of the Father being done by
the Son, in the Holy Spirit, so that they are unified in their purpose but diverse in their
relationships.
This Trinitarian mediator (2 Tim 2:5) is revealed in the Incarnation. ‘The Word’ in John’s
prologue is a concept which links God’s agent in the Old Testament, by whom he
created the world and revealed his purposes as Wisdom, and the incarnate Son we
meet in Christ, by whom creation is redeemed and the true nature of the Father is
revealed.
”For the law was given through Moses; grace and truth came through Jesus
Christ. No-one has ever seen God, but God the Only Begotten, who is at
the Father’s side, has made him known.” (Jn 1:17-18)
The Spirit is intrinsically involved in this revelation as the one by whom Christ is
conceived (Lk 1:35), who anoints his baptism (Lk 3:22), who leads him to the desert (Lk
86
Francis Watson, Text, Church and World, (Edinburgh, T and T Clark 1994) p. 144.
87
Gunton, Creator, p. 54.
4:1), and not only raised him from the dead to glory, but enlightens and empowers his
followers (Eph 1:17-21). This Triune action of the Son doing the Father’s will by the
Spirit is how we can hold together the dichotomies which seek to reduce God; his
transcendence and immanence, his oneness and threeness, his static nature and
dynamic relationships. This has a vital role in the way we approach a doctrine of
humanity.
8. Who am I?
Today, for most young people, a ‘person’ is seen primarily as an individual. Gunton
argues that this is a development of the Western stress on the unity of God, and his act
of creating us as individuals.88 Coupled with the modernist displacement of the
functions normally attributed to God, this has led to a primarily self centred attitude
towards the human person.
”We have too one sidedly interpreted the individual as someone with rights,
duties (Thomas Jefferson), as the thinking self (Descartes), as endowed
with reason (Botheus), as a self legislating autonomous ego (Kant) as a
work ethic, as someone with physical, economic, social, emotional, sexual
and cultural needs.” 89
Social interaction amongst young people is fuelled primarily by the image given to them
by consumer commodities.90 This is the attempt to create oneself as an individual, not in
relation to others or God, but in the image chosen from catalogues, television screens
and internet sites.
”The broader result is that post-modern consumers constantly ‘try on’ not
only new clothes, new perfumes, but new identities, fresh personalities and
different partners.”91
88
Gunton, The One, p. 22
89
Torrance, Worship, p. 28-29.
90 Alan
91
Tomlinson, Consumption, Identity and Style, (London, Routledge 1990) p. 9.
David Lyon, Jesus in Disneyland, (Cambridge, Blackwell 2000) p. 79.
Yet in the midst of this seemingly creative and pluralistic country we experience
unprecedented homogeneity and intolerance; youth culture which is enslaved to fashion,
and political correctness which reduces everyone to the same and denies any truth
claims, rather than celebrating true diversity. Postmodernism is
”an imperious claim for truth which abolishes all truth by a process of
homogenisation. It is, despite appearances, a form of universality.”92
Can Christian doctrine revive the much needed doctrine of the person, which takes into
account both individuality and society, distinction and unity, freedom and responsibility?
I am the image of God
”Our anthropology is entirely dependant on our theology... the subjective
and anthropocentric bias of modern thought has encouraged us to imagine
that our concept of God is necessarily only a kind of logical extension of our
own self understanding. The reverse is actually true.” 93
What it means to be made in the image of God is vital to our concept of who we are.
Watson argues that the creation narratives alone do not paint the full picture of what it
means to be human,
”It is impossible to explain how we are created in the image of God without
explaining how the image of God is Christ.”94
Asserting that the incarnation is the true revelation of the Father means that in Christ we
see the image of God (Jn 8:19). Thus the incarnation does not only reveal God, but also
what is means to be truly human. This is worked out in the theology of Edward Irving,
who, according to McFarlane, developed a robust trinitarian Christology.95 This meant
the reassessing traditional Christological categories which based the sinless life of Jesus
on his identity as the divine Word. Irving took the view that the Son assumed a fallen
humanity, not Adam’s pre-fall perfection, in line with his Irenaeical position that Adam
92.
Gunton, The One, p. 131
93
Gay, Modern, p. 281.
94
F Watson, Text and Truth, (Edinburgh, T and T Clark 1997) p. 282.
95
McFarlane, Christ, p. 4.
was perfect in the sense of becoming perfect, reliant on free choices to follow God’s
will.96
The perfect life of Christ, then, was lived out by the Son, doing the Father’s will, by the
empowering of the Holy Spirit. This pneumatological focus is a rare occurrence,
particularly in Western theology, and is only really close to that of John Owen. Both
theologians are able to draw the vital link between atonement and sanctification Christ’s taking on a fallen humanity and our potential to follow in his footstep - because
they recognise the Spirit’s role.
”The work of the Spirit in the sanctification of believers... he not only
cleanses our natures from the pollution of sin, but he communicates the
great, permanent and positive effect of holiness to their souls, where by he
guides and asserts them in acts and duties thereof. ”97
The Christian life is not merely an imitation of Jesus’ life, nor an imitation of the divine
relationships, but a participation in that communion of the Son and the Father; the Spirit
empowers us to know and relate to the Father as Jesus did. So against the
consumerist, individualist notion of personhood we assert that being is, for us as it is for
our creator, in communion.
This relational perspective sheds new light on every aspect of our lives. It gives us the
double mandate of freedom and responsibility. This ontology underlies our call to
dominion over the earth. As Irving puts it,
”Man only is the responsible creature... all the rest are subject to him, and
look up to him; not to God directly, but to man directly, and through him their
offering is to be presented to God.”98
We are not ‘nothing but mammals’, slaves to our emotions and desires, nor autonomous
egos, but creatures with a high calling to be the image of God and relate by free choice
to him, his creation and one another responsibly. This leads us on to the nature of our
love relationship with God and one another.
96
McFarlane, Christ, p. 98.
97
J Owen, The Holy Spirit, (Michigan, Kregal Publishing 1954) p. 278
98
Edward Irving, The Prophetical Works of Edward Irving Vol 2, p. 382, cited in McFarlane, Christ, p. 87.
9. What is a love relationship?
As we have discussed at length in section one, the primary contemporary understanding
of the word ‘love’ is in a romantic sense, based on an emotional, experiential
relationship. This is the love of the ‘immanent’ God for the individual, and can be traced
back to the Courtly tradition. Lewis’ study states that,
”French poets, in the eleventh century, discovered or invented, or were the
first too express, that romantic species of passion which English poets were
still writing about in the nineteenth. They effected a change which has left
no corner of our ethics, our imagination, or our daily life untouched.” 99
This tradition exalted love between a knight and his superior lady, a love which could not
exist between a married couple, because, as a courtly writer put it,
”Lovers give each other everything freely... but married people are duty
bound to give in to each other’s desires and to deny themselves to each
other in nothing.”100
This system arose partly from the feudalism and partly from the Christian ‘sexology’ of
the times that deemed passion a sin, even between married couples.101 If marriages
had nothing to do with love, adultery became the respectable way to idealise love, until it
became a kind of religion. Lewis later stated that,
”I was blind enough to treat this as an almost purely literary phenomenon. I
know better now... [Eros] always tends to turn ‘being in love’ into a sort of
religion.”102
99
CS Lewis, The Allegory of Love, (London, Oxford University Press 1936) p. 4.
100
Countess Marie of Champagne, quoted in Vincent Brummer, The Model of Love, (Cambridge, Cambridge
University Press 1993) p. 91.
101
Lewis, Allegory, 13-18.
102
CS Lewis, The Four Loves, (London, Fontana Books 1960) p. 102.
Can Christian doctrine, and in particular our doctrine of atonement, help us to avoid this
trap of emotivism, whilst retaining a true relational focus rather than a ‘contract God’,
and direct us to a more appropriate expression of this love in youth worship?
Mutual fellowship
Brummer’s study of the ‘Model of Love’ for our relationship with God suggests two forms
that this might take; ‘rights and duties’, or ‘mutual fellowship’. The former is a contract
which both parties gain from and yet are replaceable. The latter suggests that,
”I do not merely recognise your interests and the claims you make on me,
but I identify myself with you by treating your interests and your claims as
my own. In serving these interests as my own, I love you as myself.”103
It is this sort of relationship evident in the Cappadocian’s talk about the Godhead. The
Father in love freely begets the Son and emits the Spirit, the Son in love freely does the
will of the Father by the Spirit, and the Spirit in love freely enables the Father’s will
through the Son. Their relationships are freely loving, serving and self giving.
Furthermore, our love relationship with God must be one of fellowship, evident with
Adam and Eve. They had free choice, yet God showed them his will as guidelines for
the continuation of that relationship (Gen 2:17). Sin and the fall, looked at in this light,
are not the breaking of a contract, but the breakdown of a love relationship. God’s
covenant with Abraham was a relationship of fellowship, and God’s concern for Israel in
giving them the law was that they would continue to do his will and thus not turn from
their fellowship. Yet turn they did, again and again. Into this situation comes Jesus, and
according to the Bible, restores this relationship by the ultimate expression of love (Jn
15:13; Rom 5:8). Yet how does this come about?
103
Brummer, Model, p. 164.
”The Desire of Divine Love”
In his atonement theology John McLeod Campbell, reacting against the contract God of
Federal Calvinism, stressed that the cross was not primarily about the ”demands of the
law, not the guilt of the sinner, not the offended honour of God.”104 Instead,
”The atonement is to be regarded as that by which God has bridged over
the gulf which separated between what sin had made of us, and what it was
the desire of divine love that we should become.”105
Forgiveness in fellowship requires two things to ensure reconciliation; repentance from
the offender, and acceptance by the offended. This acceptance can never be cheap
resignation, it is always costly, and given the enormity of our relationship breakdown,
God’s forgiveness is has to pay the ultimate price: death.
”On Calvary, God reveals to us the cost of his forgiveness.”106
Not only do we need forgiving, we need to repent. Yet our sinful situation means that we
cannot, we are so estranged from God that we are incapable of making the sort of
confession necessary. As Lewis articulates,
”Only a bad person needs to repent: only a good person can repent
perfectly.”107
This is our predicament. It is here where Irving’s trinitarian Christology plays its most
vital hand. It is only one who has taken on the fallen nature of humanity who can repent
in true identification for humanity. And yet it is only one who has lived it perfectly by the
power of the Spirit who is able to repent in this way. Thus, McLeod Campbell taught
that,
”In solidarity, Jesus bore the full impact of divine judgement on sin by his
perfect repentance."108
104
Leanne Van Dyk, The Desire of Divine Love, (New York, Peter Lang Publishing 1995) p. 40.
105
Van Dyk, Desire, p. 51, my italics.
106
Brummer, Model, p. 201.
107
CS Lewis, Mere Christianity, (London, Fount 1952) p. 47.
108
Van Dyk, Desire, p. 55.
Knowing who you love
It is primarily in this way that the incarnation and atonement are the revelation of God’s
love for us, and the model of our love for others. God’s love was prepared to identify
with us to the point of death, in his desire that we might be able to once again be in
relationship with him. This love relationship is in our free choosing to do his will (Jn
14:15),109 and to be empowered and sanctified by the Spirit as Christ was to identify with
others, accepting them as ”irreplaceable individuals”.110
It is in this sense that love for God must not be the exclusive love of romanticism, which
is subject to emotions and forsakes all others. We cannot concur with Augustine that we
must love only God, and others only in the sense that we love God through them.111
Christ loved others, identifying with them to the point of suffering; on the cross, and for
Lazarus and Jerusalem. He could do this whilst remaining in a love relationship with his
Father because he was able to differentiate. We have different love relationships with
different individuals. Brummer states that,
”No-one else can fill the position in my life which belongs to my (romantic)
beloved – not even God. To argue with Abelard and Kierkegaard that we
need to choose... is to misconstrue not only the unique nature of romantic
love but also that of loving God.”112
Thus, Jesus is not my girlfriend! The relationship-categories which differentiate the
persons of the Godhead ensure their diversity within unity. In the same way we need to
be very aware of the relationship categories which we and the people we love fall into,
that each is unique and irreplaceable, to ensure that our love for each is appropriate.
109
See Kendrick, Appendix 2 p. 3.
110
Brummer, Model, p. 209.
111
Brummer, Model, 118-126.
112
Brummer, Model, p. 211.
Part ThreeConclusions
...
10. How should we express intimacy in worship?
This study has intended to demonstrate that not only is a trinitarian focus vital for the
health of our worship, but that it is in the very participation of the Triune life of God where
we understand and experience true intimacy with the transcendent Father, through the
immanence of the Son in the eschatological drawing of the Spirit. Intimacy is not
primarily an individual, emotional feeling, but a sharing of Jesus’ relationship with Father
God as we are enabled by the Holy Spirit to be Church, the body of Christ on earth.
This is a love relationship in the light of the incarnation the ultimate, intimate
identification of Christ with our humanity, living a life of free obedience to the Father’s will
by the Spirit. The cross represents for us the supreme revelation of God’s self giving
love. The resurrection marks our redemption from our fallen, broken relationship to be
adopted into that same relationship with the Father as Christ had, sanctified by the Spirit
to live lives of loving obedience and fellowship with God. Furthermore we are redeemed
into the community of God’s people, the Church, that by the Spirit we might love others
as Christ did, as irreplaceable people in community, respecting the myriad of differing
relationships and growing more into the fully human people we were created to be.
11. Practical implications
The rise of ‘romantic’ worship can and must be countered by a return to a trinitarian
understanding and practice of worship. The prominence of the romantic genre, as
discussed in Part One, is dangerous for our liturgical, spiritual and theological health.
We must be careful not throw out the baby - corporate, bride of Christ imagery - with the
individual romantic bathwater; trinitarian language will help us to do this. This final
section will address the practical question of ‘how?’
Cunningham warns that many a trinitarian solution becomes abstract and unspecific113.
There is certainly a danger that all academic theology can become detached from the
Sunday service, thus we must open up the lines of dialogue between scholars and youth
worship leaders, which will mean hard work and compromise on both sides. Yet there is
an inherent flaw in trying to force the doctrine to become ‘practical’ as Cunningham
113
Cunningham, These Three, p. 42.
does, because the doctrine primarily addresses our presuppositions and worldviews. A
pair of glasses have little ‘practical use’; they do not cook the dinner or solve pastoral
problems, and yet they effect everything you do because of the way you see things.
Thus the doctrine should not be used in this ‘practical’ sense, for example as a
justification of having lots of things happening during a church service at one time, or
homosexuality.114 Instead there is a call for youth worship leaders to examine their own
and their congregation’s worldviews, questioning whether they are looking through
adequately Trinitarian glasses, and then making practical changes in the way they
worship. These practical changes can be seen in the areas of Songwriting, use of
Liturgy, and our attitude towards the Sacraments.
Songwriting
The recent explosion of worship songwriting has yet to embrace a fully Trinitarian
doxology.115 If a serious attempt at refocusing our doctrine of God is to be made, it will
require both grassroots and professional worship songwriters studying, wrestling with
and applying the language of the Trinity into our worship songs. This does not mean
using the Father, Son and Spirit exclusively,
”Our concern is not that Trinitarian words and phrases should be incorporated in
hymns and liturgies in a merely cosmetic way, but that worshippers should be
drawn celebrate and be drawn into the life and relationships of the Triune God. It
is from this reality that liturgical forms should take shape.”116
A mediatorial focus will thus allow talk of relationship and intimacy that is biblical and
appropriate.117 An example is found in the songs of Lyn Burnhope, which are as yet
unpublished, but can be found in Appendix Three. After studying doctrine at London
Bible College, she wrote these songs as expressions of worship. Her trinitarianism
shines through, as she is able to express intimacy through doctrinal language.
114
Cunningham, These Three, p. 272-303.
115
Percy, Words, p. 61.
116
BCC, Forgotten 1, p. 28.
117
See Kendrick’s example, Appendix two, p. 5.
In addition, our songs need a better incarnational focus. As Ward points out,
”The chorus books we used every Sunday hardly ever talked about the earthly life
of Jesus. In almost every song Jesus was pictured as the risen Lord on the
throne of the people’s praises.” 118
This takes our attention from Jesus’ costly identification with out situation, moving
towards triumphalism and Gnosticism rather than worship which deals with our everyday
struggles.119 This is one explanation for our reticence to admit lamentation into our
corporate worship. A good example of this sort of writing comes from the Iona
Community, who draw influence from the strongly incarnational Celtic tradition, and
avoid the ‘romantic’ trap. These songs are aptly able to express the full range of human
emotion, including their essential book for sorrow and bereavement.120
Liturgy
Alongside songs, it is vital that youth worship leaders rediscover the wealth of material in
spoken liturgies. These not only ground us in the historicity of our faith,121 but also act
as theological benchmarks to assess contemporary worship writing. The lectionary or
something similar needs to be rediscovered, to soak us in the story of our faith.
”Narrative Bible-reading performs an indispensable role, in which the use of
mere sentences or short allusions cannot be an adequate substitute.” 122
Similarly, historical creeds provide us with clear confessions of what we believe, in
formative Trinitarian language.123 They must be rediscovered for use in contemporary
worship settings, creatively presented with multimedia124 or simply recited and discussed
so that young people can own them. Liturgy allows young people to be expressive in
118
Ward, Youth Culture, p. 40.
119
Percy, Words, p. 79-80.
120
John L Bell, Graham Maule, When Grief is Raw, (Glasgow, Wild Goose Publications 1997).
121
John Leach, Living Liturgy, (Eastbourne, Kingsway 1997) p. 51-55.
122 AC
Thistleton, Language, Liturgy and Meaning, (Nottingham, Grove Books 1975) p.32.
123
Stackhouse, Immediacy, p. 76.
124
See Draper and Draper, Refreshing, p. 38-44.
their own cultural media, Walker talks of ‘baptising’ the material to give it an iconic value,
pointing heavenward.
”We are on the way to postmodernity... where are our candles, smells and electric
bells? Where are our images of light and shade, our music of splendour, our
divine dramas, the sacred dance? ”125
Repentance and assurance of faith need to be reintroduced, for it is here that we enter
into Christ’s repentance for us on the cross, and are able to go on into our lives by the
sanctification of the Holy Spirit. Once again traditional forms from historic prayer books
can be vital resources, or new material can be written so that worship continues to be
the expression of the people. The Taize community126 has fine examples of setting
historical and biblical liturgical texts to meditative music, which has a strong appeal for
young people, and can be adapted for limited musical resources or contemporary bands.
Sacramental
Vital to our reclaiming of trinitarian worship must be the central placing of the Eucharist.
This celebration has been moved to the edges of our worship and separated often as an
act of remembering, which of course it is, but at the expense of its dynamic ontological
nature. John 6:25-59 points us towards the understanding that our participation in
eating the body of Christ and drinking his blood constitutes us as the community of
God’s people (Acts 2:42).
”It is the life of communion with God, such as exists within the Trinity and is
actualised within the members of the eucharistic community.”127
In taking the sacraments we are accepting the full humanity of the incarnation, that as
Christ took on fail human flesh (Jn 1:14, Heb 4:15-16) to be broken for our cleansing,
we also eat and drink material, historical elements. And yet we also are drawn up by the
Spirit to the ascended Christ’s place at the right hand of the Father, where he is
125
Walker, Telling, p. 197.
126
Music From Taize Volumes 1 and 2, (London, HarperCollins 1982).
127
Zizioulas, Being, p. 81.
”The leader of our worship, the pioneer of our faith, our advocate and High Priest,
who through the eternal Spirit presents us with himself to the Father.”128 (Heb
10:19-22, Eph 2:6).
So it is by the Spirit’s presence with us at the table that we are drawn towards our
intimate, eternal and eschatological destiny in God’s presence.
Equally the sacrament of baptism needs to take on its full Trinitarian significance as a
central act of worship. Jesus’ own baptism was a primary example of the united yet
distinct Triune work being achieved in the incarnation (Lk 3:21-22), and we baptise in the
name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit (Mt 28:19). But once again this is not merely a
commemorative act, by going down into the water we participate in the death of Christ
(Mt 10:38), his full identification with us, and our coming up marks our new resurrection
life in the Spirit (Lk 3:16, Rom 6:3-10). As church we share in the one baptism (Eph
4:5), sons and daughters of God, equals in communion with Christ and one another (Gal
3:26-27).
Epilogue
“You asked for a loving God: you have one. The great spirit you so lightly
invoked, the ‘lord of terrible aspect’, is present: not a senile benevolence that
drowsily wishes you to be happy in your own way, not the cold philanthropy of a
contentious magistrate, nor the care of a host who feels responsible for the
comfort of his guests, but the consuming fire Himself, the Love that made the
worlds, persistent as the artist’s love for his work and despotic as a man’s love for
his child, jealous, inexorable, exacting as love between the sexes.” 129
128
Torrance, Worship, p. 77.
129
CS Lewis, Problem of Pain, (Glasgow, Fount 1940) p. 35.
Appendix
1
Romantic songs
Key: ST – Stoneleigh 2000/2001
SH98 – Spring Harvest 1998
SH2000 – Spring Harvest 2000
SS – Soul Survivor - Led to the Lost
Appendix
2
Graham Kendrick interview
Note: These responses came too late to be featured significantly in
my work, yet they help to illustrate the significance of the issues.
As the UK’s most experienced worship writer, Kendrick is able to
give a frontline perspective, and whilst he brings out some new
angles much of his analysis helpfully underlines what has been
discussed.
Received Monday 7th May 2001
1 What are your opinions on the use of "romantic' imagery in worship? (eg, "put
your arms around me", "more intimate than lovers", "you are my passion... my
lover").
I firmly believe that God invites his children into a close personal relationship. However, I
am not a great fan of the use of romantic imagery in worship song lyrics except where
the scriptural context is clear, for example the Song of Songs. Just off the top of my
head, my reasons for caution include the following:
(a) In the context of contemporary culture the imagery of romantic love carries many
associations which are not always consistent with the purity and faithfulness of divine
love. Therefore along with the positive associations there are negative ones to be
contended with such as fickleness and selfishness etc.
(b) This is compounded by the similarity of contemporary worship choruses with
romantic pop-songs which has the effect of reducing the value of the imagery when it is
applied to a Holy God. However, this is not a good enough reason to reject such imagery
altogether, because in its purist form romantic love remains as a picture of the love
within the Godhead, and between Christ and his Bride the Church.
(c) Because romantic imagery is often addressed to Jesus, this can be a particular
problem for the male category of worshippers, in that whenever physical images are
used like kissing, embracing, lovers etc. you have to ask the question, is the author of
these words wanting the male worshipper to call to mind these kinds of images in
relation to Jesus. I have spoken to both men and women who struggle to know quite
what is expected of imaginations at this sort of point.
(d)Popular trends can often be identified in the subject matter of worship songs, and
though it is valid to argue that on occasions these are the result of a prophetic emphasis
originating with the Holy Spirit, we cannot exclude the possibility of being influenced by
what just happens to be popularised at a certain time, in successful songs which are
then emulated. It is also possible that songwriters who have been soaked from their
earliest years in the lyrics of romantic pop songs via the radio, TV and their CD
collections, are drawn disproportionately to romantic imagery just because it is so
familiar to them. From the point of view of musical form and style a large number of
praise and worship songs are based very closely on the pop song genre, therefore it
should not be surprising to us if the imagery of romantic love fits very naturally, perhaps
one might say even too easily.
Q2. Do you think that there is a biblical concept of intimacy with God?
Undoubtedly there is, but the nature of that intimacy needs to be defined, particularly
with regard to how much it fits the romantic kind. There are many kinds of intimacy
which are not sexual in nature, for example between parent and child, brother and sister,
comrades in arms, and simply friendship. David and Jonathan were intimate friends but
there was nothing sexual in their relationship. In fact, David's own description is of a love
"greater than the love of women".
The biblical use of romantic imagery seems strongest in the context of the church
looking forward with longing to the completion of God's purposes in Christ as he
prepares a Bride, the Church, for the Bridegroom, Christ. There is powerful resonance
between the Song of Songs and the book of Revelation.
A popular snippet of teaching to worship leaders has been the Greek word
PROSCONEO defined as 'to come to towards to kiss'. I have observed this being
presented in a romantic way, whereas a more complete exposition would show that it is
more accurate to picture the humble approach to a great king, kissing the hand rather
than the lips! This could be another factor.
My main concern would be if intimacy were to be interpreted individualistically, and this I
suspect can happen all too easily in an individualistic culture where we are constantly
encouraged to seek personal fulfilment and subjective experiences. If the Bride of Christ
is corporate could it not be argued that the experience of intimacy with God should also
be very much a corporate thing? An image that may be conjured up when we talk of
intimacy in worship might be that of an individual with eyes closed, hands raised, very
intense, seeking what seems to be an interior experience with God. The problem would
be if this were to be emphasised to the detriment of the horizontal dimension of worship,
the exhortation to "speak to one another in Psalms, hymns and spiritual songs"
precedes the exhortation "making melody in your hearts to the Lord".
Perhaps the more objective test is to look at the fruits of a community of Christians who
emphasise intimacy in worship, because genuine gazing upon the Lord will result in
being changed into his likeness / from glory into glory, which has to be measured in
outward behaviour. How can a man say that he loves God whom he has not seen if he
hates his brother who he has seen etc. Jesus' measure of our love for him was made
clear in the words "if you love me keep my commandments". The supreme example of
worship intimacy surely has to be looked for in Jesus Christ and his relationship with the
Father, from Jesus' baptism when the Father spoke over him the words: " This is my
beloved son with whom I am well pleased" through to the drama of Gethsemane where
Jesus' love is proved by his obedience even to the point of death on a cross: "Not my
will, but yours".
I feel that the concept of being "in love with God / Jesus" has been over-used in worship
songs and also suffers from pop song associations which fail to adequately describe the
qualities of divine love. I also observe that there are a lot of songs which seem to
celebrate our love for God more than his love for us. It is God's love for us that is most
worthy of celebration and in contrast our love is very weak and poor.
Moses spoke with God face-to-face. Elijah's longing was that he should see the glory of
God. These great men of God are examples of those whose greatest desire was to
know God. They had both seen His miracles but they were not satisfied; they wanted to
know the God who did the miracles. It is easy to focus on the moments of intimacy in the
tabernacle or in the cleft of the rock when God revealed himself to them, and to forget
how these men spent most of their time, exercising leadership, fighting enemies,
interceding, dealing with rebellions, death threats and no doubt routine administration,
settling disputes or building college premises. The Old Testament temple is a rich source
of typology for worship and it has been very popular to emphasise 'entering his gates
with thanksgiving and his courts with praise' with the destination being the Holy of Holies
where intimacy is enjoyed in the manifest presence of God. Whilst this is true, the
impression can easily be given that an individuals private and personal intimacy with
God is the whole point and climax of this journey of worship, whereas the temple holds
many illustrations of what proceeds from true intimacy, not least that blessing goes out
to the nations. Also the New Testament weight is heavily on the side of corporate
experience of God as opposed to individualistic.
When the first apostles prayed as reported in Acts 4:22-31 there was a directness and
immediacy in their relationship with God as they engaged with him in prayer concerning
the conflicts that they found themselves caught up with as the Kingdom of God clashed
with the world's kingdom. To my mind there is abundant evidence here of intimacy with
God but not of the mystic abstract kind. Rather they were intimately involved in the
outworking of God's purposes in their immediate situation, which was to proclaim the
kingdom with signs and wonders. The result of their encounter was that "the place
where they were meeting was shaken and they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and
spoke the word of God boldly" (Acts 4:31). Daniel wrote, "but the people who know their
God will display strength and take action" (Dan 11:32 NASV).
Q.3 How do you express intimacy with God in your own song writing?
This question made me think quite a lot, because I don't think I've ever consciously set
out to write a song about intimacy with God. However thinking about it, if a large part of
intimacy in a relationship is gaining knowledge and understanding of the other person,
then it is through insights into the character and nature of God that I have drawn nearer
to him. The most moving and memorable moments for me personally in the process of
song writing, are when a truth is uncovered, and like a newly discovered gemstone in
the rock, it begins to sparkle in the light. Hence I think it is the Holy Spirit beginning
revelation through the word of God that takes me deeper in my knowledge of him.
Q.4 Have you ever considered the doctrine of the Trinity as a model for intimacy
in worship?
Yes I have, although would not claim to have gone very far or very deep! A recent
example would be the song 'What Grace'.
v.2
Deep is the joy that fills your courts above
While angels wonder at your redeeming love
And as you gaze with joy upon your Son
Your eyes are on the ones his love has won
What grace to be found in him
Heaven’s glorious King
Father what grace
raising us to life
Choosing us in Christ
Father what grace
Appendix
3
Lyn Burnhope’s songs
O perfect Son of God who came
from heaven’s eternal throne;
embracing frail humanity
to make your Father known.
Although you knew the pull
of fragile flesh you did not fall
became the perfect sacrifice,
overcame in death for us,
now risen and exalted over all.
O perfect son of man who came,
a vulnerable seed;
through anguish, suffering and pain,
surrendered every deed.
Because you know our failures,
and our weaknesses and need;
became the perfect sacrifice
overcame in life for us,
our great high priest who lives to intercede.
This is grace so rich,
This is grace so true,
Precious Jesus, I follow you.
This is grace so rich,
This is grace so true,
I surrender my life to you.
Your name speaks of inheritance,
which you have shared with me.
your life speaks of obedience,
in true humility.
Your death shows a Father’s oath
To redeem humanity.
Your blood speaks of a justice where
the condemned can be guilt free.
Your promise says we’ll reach our destiny.
Copyright Lyn Burnhope 2000.
In brokenness, our Saviour dies,
so that we might live.
In brokenness, our Saviour cries,
his very self to give.
But praying that we might all be one,
just like the Father and the Son,
in unity.
In brokenness, our old self dies,
so that we might live.
In brokenness our old self cries,
whilst struggling to forgive.
But knowing that we may all be one,
just like the Father and the Son,
in unity.
And now I am strong when I lift up the weak,
Am clear when enabling others to speak,
Made whole when I give myself away,
Brokenness is here to stay.
Though valued for the things we give,
we are not our own.
Forgiven when we can forgive,
his endless mercy shown.
And nothing we do secures our place,
nothing to qualify but grace,
in him.
Copyright Lyn Burnhope 2000
May your way become my path,
obedient to the very last.
To share your suffering and shame,
to share the honour of your name.
May your truth become my goal,
transforming heart and soul.
Consuming compromise and doubt –
releasing fear, and speaking out.
May your life become my aim.
to be ‘in Christ’ my richest gain;
empowered by the Spirit’s rule,
in Father’s hand a useful tool.
For in this world of grasp and greed,
Lord Jesus, you have met my need;
and nothing more must I possess
than your pure gift of righteousness.
Copyright Lyn Burnhope 2000
We dare not come before your throne
assuming rank or worth our own –
whether King, or slave or free;
through grace bestows a worthy price
a saviour’s love and sacrifice
has paid for me.
Oh the Depth of the riches of the
wisdom of the knowledge of God.
Who has known the mind of the Lord?
Who has ever given to him that he should repay?
For him and through him and to him are all things.
And I hear wisdom’s gentle call
as on my knees I gladly fall;
and thought the love begins with fear,
its love that draws me tenderly;
I shun a fool’s complacency
as I come near.
No greater treasure could there be
than knowing you Lord – Christ in me.
Please help me live a life that’s true
and faithful to your Spirit’s power,
wise to the evils of the hour –
worthy of you.
Copyright Lyn Burnhope 2000
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