Q1. We’ve lived together for 12 years, so we’re technically married. Two kids. He’s extremely proud of his 🍆, and he should be. He posted a vid doing the “self-blowj*b” challenge. Imagine a middle-aged man sprawled on the bathroom floor giving himself oral. WTF. Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q2. Things were good in our relationship until her 6 y-o son came to live with us. (His father kicked him out). He’s disrespectful and destructive. He stabbed ALL my shoes. Found in his search history on his laptop: “How to kill a fat man.” I am a fat man Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q3. We were married for 7 years. I had an affair and she divorced me. She’s my soulmate, mother of my son. I’ve sabotaged her relationships w/ other men, but this new guy isn’t going anywhere. I even threatened him-then he proposed. In my mind, she’s still my wife. Help. #SBCCHAT
Q4. Boyfriend (of 4 years) is a momma’s boy. He’s always fixing her house while our house falls apart. His mom rented a room to a pregnant 19-year-old. I stopped by; he was watching TV w/her, without pants. BIG FIGHT. His mom: “She better not hurt MY grandchild.” Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q5. We’re married (3 years), but we do everything separately. We work different shifts, so we take separate vacations. We don’t eat together or hang out. Recently, my wife suggested we get a second mattress, cuz she wants to sleep alone. I felt slighted. What’s going on? #SBCCHAT
Q6. A teen boy hit my teen daughter at school. We had a parent’s conference; I saw the boy’s dad, it was love. We had sex. I convinced my daughter not to press charges (her face will heal). Dad 👻 me. His son teased my daughter: “He fk your momma to drop charges.” Help. #SBCCHAT
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Q1. My soon-to-be ex husband is a MONSTER and he took my girls from me. I’m a gambler and I owed some bad people more than $26,000 so I sold my husband’s classic car to the highest bidder. (The car sale wiped my debt clean.) His great-grandfather gave him that car; it appeared in two Hollywood movies. It was a full week before my husband noticed someone “stole” it out of our garage. (Ironically, I stopped the insurance payments last year and I’ve been pocketing the money). When my husband realized there was no insurance, he became a different man around me and his attitude hurt our marriage. I prayed and forgave myself for selling his car. But my gambling debt hurts ME too; I never have enough money and I currently owe $8,000+ in NEW gambling debt. Instead of getting a third part-time job to help me, my husband filed for divorce and my teen girls went with him. This will be my first Mother’s Day without my girls. 😭He turned my girls against me; they’ve blocked me from their socials and they never call. How do I reconnect with them? #GoodMom4Ever #SBCCHAT
Q2. I posted what I wanted in my future wife and Raven showed up. We hang out, we have s3x—when SHE wants, never when I want—but because I’ve been in-between jobs, (for 2 years) she makes me feel that I’m a placeholder until she finds someone who is “gainfully employed.” I asked Raven to attend online church with me. Her: “God is a CONSTRUCT used to keep the masses poor and hopeful.” I asked her if she wants kids. HER: “You’re too poor to procreate again.” About marriage: “Marriage is a business; and you ain’t got no business trying to marry somebody right now.” She’s so money hungry that she’s soulless. A man doesn’t have to work to be productive—and I would make a great father to a kid we make, my other kids adore me. How do I convince Raven to trust my process and go all-in with me? #SBCCHAT
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Q1. My babymomma is always counting my money. I work part-time, she got 2 jobs, but she always expect me to go half on rent and cable. She was handling these bills before I moved in, why is she trying to gold dig now? For 3 months I didn’t pay rent, I kept my money, saved it for my 23rd birthday. I spent my birthday in a strip club; bottle service, VIP lap dances, I treated my boys and I spent $2,000. We posted snaps and I didn’t care if she saw them. It was MY night. 👌🏽
I came home 2 days later. Her father and uncle pulled up and asked if I had rent; I told them no. Her father: “Well you must be paying rent somewhere; you need to go there.” They packed and moved my sh!t out of the house (illegally) and threatened me if I returned. I’m couch-surfing, but technically homeless and my babymomma won’t let me spend time with my son. She’s too old for this “Daddy’s Girl,” routine. My kids need to see their father IN the home. How to make her SEE that I’m the best man she’s gonna get and she better take me back? #SBCCHAT
Q2. We married (privately) in Pensacola, Florida. Sean wanted me to meet my Texas in-laws, so we flew in for the weekend. His uncle started on me: “Of all the women Sean brought home, how did YOU get the ring?” And, he sang,“it must be you p-ssy cuz it ain’t yo face!” My mother-in-law laughed. My sister-in-law told her brother to “be nice.” My husband giggled. I said to myself, “Gladys, you are a child of God and you can handle all things.” I excused myself and went to the back yard. The uncle followed me and apologized. He blamed the alcohol. And, he put his hands in his jogging pants and pulled his 🍆 out. “Let’s kiss and make up.” It was the most beautiful 🍆 I had ever seen. I bent down and put my mouth on it. He was shocked, and put it away. He avoided me ever since. Uncle Good D!ck met his match and I was ready, but he doesn’t want to play with me. Why show it if you don’t share it? We’re going to Texas again soon and I want to finish what I started with Uncle. How do I get him? #SBCCHAT
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Q1. After I got married, the First Lady invited me to join the Women’s Workshop, a small circle of 30ish female church members who share tips to keep their relationships spicy. They laughed when I brought my Bible to the sensual sermon meetup. We watched soft-core p0rn. We made love to each other so we could know how to make love to our husbands. I was licking and tr!bbing with other members. Sweet lips, soft fingers and thick tongues were everywhere as we drank wine and found g-spots. I enjoyed myself. A lot. I confessed to First Lady that I no longer desired my husband—or any man—and I was promptly kicked out of the group. First Lady: “Our sensual sermons are to complement marriage, not replace it. Seek help. Pray that your husband still wants a sinner like you.” The other members shunned me at church. I’m so broken. Leaving my church after an experience like this is hard, especially since I still desire to be with the women in the group. I live in Birmingham, Alabama, and I’m not ready to live out loud as a lesbian here. What to do? #SBCCHAT
Q2. I take my girl to work every day. My girl’s boss has been hitting on me. She promised me a lunchtime quickie. I wanted oral s3x, too. We got a hotel room and when I undressed she nearly jumped across the room in horror. I expected that reaction; I developed a patch of black moles on my inner thighs that surrounded my 🍆. The moles look like a cluster of raisins; I call the moles my little ladybugs. 🐞🐞🐞🐞Women don’t want to put their face anywhere near it. I try to educate them by telling them that my moles are not contagious (I don’t think) but no one wants to hear it. My girl has never given me oral and I can’t find a clean s3x worker who would try to please me. And, my girl’s boss said, “Janice fks on you with all that going on? She’s nasty. You need to see a doctor.” She got dressed and left. I think she’ll tell others about what happened and it may get back to Janice. What to do? #SBCCHAT
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Q1. I’m Karl, I’m 48, married to a 34-year-old woman for 2 years. My kink is f—-king s3x workers at the end of their shifts. I love to smell other men on them; being their last client of the night makes me feel like the conquerer I am. (I give ‘em the knockout 🥜 ). A few allow me to hit naturally (no condom). I KNOW I have an STI, and I know I’ve given it to my wife. She hasn’t approached me about it, and that means she’s guilty of sleeping with somebody else. We’ve been on fire for a month and she hasn’t mentioned it. How to confront her cheating ass? #SBCCHAT
Q2. I’m dealing with a bipolar man and it makes me sick. First, he dated me for 2 months and he opened his home to me and my 3 kids. We moved out of my mom’s house and into his townhome. I registered my kids in his school district. He gave me a spare room to braid hair and earn money. We had a fun and loving vibe. I know he loves me and adores my kids. BUT, I made one mistake, and he threw us all out. (My side-dude stopped by to get his braids done and to borrow some money. I also gave him a quick BJ. I did not know there was a camera in my braiding room, or I wouldn’t have slipped up like that.) I apologized, but Mr. Bipolar switched up on me and threw me & the kids and all our things in the front yard. I took what I could fit into the Uber. I can’t believe how he snapped and turned on us like that. What relationship red flags did I miss? I’m so scared to be vulnerable with a man again. Advice. #SBCCHAT
Q1. I’ve spent 2 years with this man, I want us to live together but he refused. I stole his key and made a spare so I could see what he was into. SO, I walked in on my 28-year-old boyfriend giving oral s3x to a s3x doll that I didn’t know he owned. First, he pulled a gun on me… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
Q2. My future mother-in-law believes that she looks young for her age. She does not. She always dresses inappropriately. I asked her, gently, not to wear her catsuit to my boss’s Mother’s Day brunch. She showed up in the catsuit with the a** cheeks 🍑 cut out. She flirted,… twitter.com/i/web/status/1…
#StoryTime: Tomika dumped her side-dude and then he ruined her life. She warns,“Side-Dudes can become dangerous, emotional b-tches when you end things.”