Asking an ABA therapist or RBT to consider consent and ethics, and asking them to read the research showing ABA is ineffective,
Often after entering the conversation of their own volition,
Should not result in a block. 🙃
In fact if they really wanted to help, they would consider working WITH autistic people instead of treating those with opposing opinions as "misunderstanding" what ABA is or not having "proper ABA."
And no, I'm not going to let people who identify as autistic off the hook if they are current ABA therapists or RBTs.
No one should be harming autistic kids. They may have been indoctrinated more easily into behaviorism, esp. if growing up that way,
But it's still not okay.
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I think I just realized why autistic burnout is so bad.
It's because when neurotypical people reach their limits, they can't go on.
When autistic people reach their limits, they continue because they know they have to continue to be considered valuable.
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I was told that if I get burnt out, I won't be able to do anything, so I should rest.
What I didn't say because I was still thinking it through,
is that when I get burnt out, I go on for weeks or months more because that is expected of me and I Cannot Let People Down.
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And so often autistic people are constantly pushed to their limits even at 4, 5, 8 years old. Constantly.
We are so often already at a level of stress from NT expectations and our environment that neurotypical people don't even comprehend it.
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I'm worried that I'm going to burn myself out to finish my PhD and if I get to that point of stress,
I'm not sure whether I'll decide to do it anyway, or hope it's good enough/get a masters.
I honestly don't know what I'll do. But it's really not been great lately.
I see-saw between "I'm never going to get this done I must work constantly" and "maybe I should sleep 15 hours today" and I don't know how to do anything between those two things.
The other thing I have to remember though, is if I decided to stay in the spring (which I really really don't plan on doing whatsoever),
I'd just continue to be in this state of stress until it was done anyway. It's not like the pressure would get better.
Here's a short thread on ambiguous instructions, and the energy autistic people have to spend to figure out what someone or something is really saying.
Step one says "Heat large non-stick skillet over medium-high heat until hot, about 2 minutes. Add meal to skillet."
However, the picture is only of someone pouring a box of food into the skillet itself.
I spent an actual 1 minute staring at that picture being confused.
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You see, if I were to write those instructions, heating up the skillet until hot "about 2 minutes" would have been its own step. Because there's no picture of it here. All that is shown is pouring food into the box.
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